Who needs casual sex!

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7. I despise bad sex.

I don't have that issue now of course, but what i remember about too casual sex is that it's often either overzealous and incredibly awkward, or simply unskilled. Or drunk. I despise drunk or drugged up sex as well. Also no longer an issue for me. I mean, you don't really know your partner well enough and they don't know you to find what you need or desire sexually, what you find erotic, what mutual experiences you may desire. I need a partner I feel safe enough with to explore our sexuality to (great) mutual satisfaction.

I suppose one could have a friends with benefits type of situation and learn what you need to know, but it seems to me that far to often someone ends up getting hurt.