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114. Best wishes, A HERETIC I AM. Im just recovering from a subarachnoid aneurysm myself.

Thu Jul 31, 2014, 11:17 AM

Jul 2014

Your mom's sounds like it was horrific and severe, and it makes me that much more grateful that mine was not, that it was treated in surgery and I'm here to type this note to you.

I lost both parents last year, one doesn't know until it happens what the feelings are going to be, and the pain.

I hope you're surrounded by loving family and friends, and warmth and good wishes, and I send you all I have to give at this difficult time.

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I want to thank you folks for the overwhelming kindness you have shown me today. (Edit) [View all] A HERETIC I AM Jul 2014 OP

My thoughts are with you.... Cooley Hurd Jul 2014 #1

I am so sorry for all that you all are going through etherealtruth Jul 2014 #2

We're with you, HERETIC. elleng Jul 2014 #3

. JI7 Jul 2014 #4

all the best to you and your mother, take care of yourself steve2470 Jul 2014 #5

Cross gently, Janet. alsame Jul 2014 #6

Aw. What a beautiful lady! And she obviously loved you well. pnwmom Jul 2014 #7

All the best. bigwillq Jul 2014 #8

My condolences for your loss LittleBlue Jul 2014 #9

{{hugs}} to all of you. Delphinus Jul 2014 #10

My dear A HERETIC I AM... CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2014 #11

I'm so sorry for your family. Triana Jul 2014 #12

All the best to you and your family. Coventina Jul 2014 #13

You and your family are in my thoughts. Terra Alta Jul 2014 #14

Take care... Agony Jul 2014 #15

Hugs for you, your family and your dear Mother's loved ones and friends... Tikki Jul 2014 #16

I am very sorry for your loss. easttexaslefty Jul 2014 #17

(((hugs))) G_j Jul 2014 #18

We are here for you. Boomerproud Jul 2014 #19

I am so very, very sorry. ColesCountyDem Jul 2014 #20

So sorry Heretic mcar Jul 2014 #21

A lovely woman and a sad loss intaglio Jul 2014 #22

My heart goes out to you my friend. Crewleader Jul 2014 #23

My condolences to you tularetom Jul 2014 #24

A beautiful woman panader0 Jul 2014 #25

Wishing you comfort, happy memories and peace in the tough time ahead. ancianita Jul 2014 #26

I didn't know until now but peace, strength and healing to you and your family, A HERETIC I AM. Uncle Joe Jul 2014 #27

I pray that she passes gently. brer cat Jul 2014 #28

Take good care, Heretic. villager Jul 2014 #29

My best wishes, warmest thoughts and deepest condolences to you & your family. MarianJack Jul 2014 #30

How lovely she was. And how lucky to have you. I'm so sorry. nolabear Jul 2014 #31

My thoughts are with you and your family. greatauntoftriplets Jul 2014 #32

My best wishes for you and your siblings sadoldgirl Jul 2014 #33

I'm so sorry. GoCubsGo Jul 2014 #34

What a beautiful lady and a wonderful son. littlemissmartypants Jul 2014 #35

Take care of yourself, and if you feel the need. . . DinahMoeHum Jul 2014 #36

My thoughts are with you and your family cal04 Jul 2014 #37

continued peace and comfort to you all. PeaceNikki Jul 2014 #38

mu condolences to you and your family Beaverhausen Jul 2014 #39

... spanone Jul 2014 #40

You all loved each other well, babylonsister Jul 2014 #41

pass gently and peacefully, Janet magical thyme Jul 2014 #42

Hugs nadinbrzezinski Jul 2014 #43

Glad you're there malaise Jul 2014 #44

You are in my thoughts and prayers! gopiscrap Jul 2014 #45

What a beautiful lady MissDeeds Jul 2014 #46

I am so sorry. yardwork Jul 2014 #47

Hi, HERETIC--I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. tblue37 Jul 2014 #48

hugs to help through your grief. BlancheSplanchnik Jul 2014 #49

I'm so sorry for your loss Heretic. Texasgal Jul 2014 #50

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Paul liberaltrucker Jul 2014 #51

Hugs to you. Sorry you are going through this Curmudgeoness Jul 2014 #52

Peace be with you and your family n/t gelsdorf Jul 2014 #53

Strong thoughts coming to your family and mother. Frustratedlady Jul 2014 #54

She is beautiful NastyRiffraff Jul 2014 #55

I am so sorry to hear this sad news... virgdem Jul 2014 #56

I'm so sorry - TBF Jul 2014 #57

You're in my thoughts. Solly Mack Jul 2014 #58

She's a lovely lady. I'm sorry to hear about her misfortune. shraby Jul 2014 #59

For death is no more than a turning of us over from time to eternity. --William Penn Liberal In Red State Jul 2014 #60

may she have a peaceful passage...wish I could comfort your family joanbarnes Jul 2014 #61

I am thinking about you and your family at this sad time, AHIA. My mom had ChisolmTrailDem Jul 2014 #62

. one_voice Jul 2014 #63

Letting someone you love go TNNurse Jul 2014 #64

So sorry, AHIA ReRe Jul 2014 #65

You're in my thoughts... Bobbie Jo Jul 2014 #66

I'm so sorry for your loss. joshcryer Jul 2014 #67

I am so very sorry for your loss.... tibbir Jul 2014 #68

Thank you for this lovely photo! What a beautiful bride she was! calimary Jul 2014 #69

((AHIA)) blm Jul 2014 #70

I am so sorry. blackspade Jul 2014 #71

You are in my thoughts ... CaptainTruth Jul 2014 #72

(((…))) handmade34 Jul 2014 #73

She was beautiful. Blue_In_AK Jul 2014 #74

Peace.... Scruffy Rumbler Jul 2014 #75

I'm so very sorry. Unknown Beatle Jul 2014 #76

:( :::::::::::::::::::::::::: WillyT Jul 2014 #77

I ams so sorry dflprincess Jul 2014 #78

Condolences to you and to all your family csziggy Jul 2014 #79

My thoughts are with you & your family in this difficult time. CrispyQ Jul 2014 #80

So beautiful! I am so, so sorry for your family riderinthestorm Jul 2014 #81

prayers for a peaceful passage for janet, and prayers for comfort and peace for her family niyad Jul 2014 #82

My thoughts and prayers are with you. nt historylovr Jul 2014 #83

Pass gently, Janet. kentauros Jul 2014 #84

Obviously a lovely woman who raised a caring family. No Vested Interest Jul 2014 #85

Know that she almost certainly did not suffer at all. Barack_America Jul 2014 #86

Sending you hugs PumpkinAle Jul 2014 #87

My heart goes out to you and your family emsimon33 Jul 2014 #88

how beautiful. my mom went the same way. roguevalley Jul 2014 #89

All my love. WilliamPitt Jul 2014 #90

I'm so sorry, Paul. pacalo Jul 2014 #91

My thoughts are with you Maynar Jul 2014 #92

She's a beautiful woman Paul. cherokeeprogressive Jul 2014 #93

your mother's photo is beautiful hopemountain Jul 2014 #94

Your bond with tour momma will never break. Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #95

A beautiful picture of your mom. She has the look of a very kind and gentle soul. My LoisB Jul 2014 #96

So sorry for your loss Tetris_Iguana Jul 2014 #97

.... DeSwiss Jul 2014 #98

Peace to you all... Hekate Jul 2014 #99

she's beautiful shireen Jul 2014 #100

Family daleanime Jul 2014 #101

You & Yours are in my thoughts ... 66 dmhlt Jul 2014 #102

{hugs} kdmorris Jul 2014 #103

My thoughts & prayers are with you A Heretic I Am lovemydog Jul 2014 #104

I am so sorry, hretic. My thoughts are with you. n/t truth2power Jul 2014 #105

I am so sorry.... mgardener Jul 2014 #106

. MerryBlooms Jul 2014 #107

You and your family will in my prayers Gothmog Jul 2014 #108

I am so sorry. That is a lovely photo. nt raccoon Jul 2014 #109

I'm so sorry for your loss. Lugnut Jul 2014 #110

My heart is with you and yours. myrna minx Jul 2014 #111

Peace ctsnowman Jul 2014 #112

Thanks for sharing the story and the tribute. riqster Jul 2014 #113

Best wishes, A HERETIC I AM. Im just recovering from a subarachnoid aneurysm myself. NYC_SKP Jul 2014 #114

What a lovely tribute to your beautiful mom. Blessings. merrily Jul 2014 #115

Oh how lovely she was!!!!!!! What a wonderful picture to have onecent Jul 2014 #116

Thank you for Worried senior Jul 2014 #117

(((AHIA))) LiberalLoner Jul 2014 #118

. Hassin Bin Sober Jul 2014 #119

So sorry to hear about your mom. GoneOffShore Jul 2014 #120

Wishing your mom a peaceful and gentle passing me b zola Jul 2014 #121

Thanks for taking the time Granny M Jul 2014 #122

So sorry for this... stevenleser Jul 2014 #123

UPDATE ON MOM - no change but in Hospice care now. A HERETIC I AM Jul 2014 #124

I'm glad you were able to get her into hospice... GoddessOfGuinness Jul 2014 #130

I can't imagine how hard this is to go through kdmorris Jul 2014 #131

You are most welcome my friend. mylye2222 Jul 2014 #125

Kicked just so my edit can be seen. Thanks. I'm done. n/t A HERETIC I AM Jul 2014 #126

Thoughts, prayers and vibes are with you during this difficult time. joeybee12 Jul 2014 #127

Your Mom looks and sounds like a beautiful lady. bearssoapbox Jul 2014 #128

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your wonderful Mother. Raster Jul 2014 #129

All my thoughts to you, your beautiful mother Janet, and your family. Flaxbee Jul 2014 #132

I am so sorry to hear this Generic Other Jul 2014 #133

I am so very sorry, A HERETIC I AM. July Jul 2014 #134

Love you, buddy Whoa_Nelly Jul 2014 #135

I'm so sorry. :( nt ladyVet Aug 2014 #136