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In reply to the discussion: Do you find superficiality attractive? [View all]BainsBane
(53,137 posts)They go to issues of compatibility. Nor is there anything wrong with finding a person attractive. That is essential in any romantic relationship. I do have a problem with people who pass judgement on people who have tattoos, are overweight, don't earn a certain amount of money, don't wear what they consider the right clothes, etc. . .
Here is an extreme example of superficiality so you can try to get a sense of what I mean. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/09/24/sleepless-in-austin-thin-girlfriend_n_3984384.html
Now, I think it's quite possible this guy's shtick is a put on, but there are people who are somewhat similar: For example, men who only date blondes who wear a certain bra size and weigh under a certain amount, or women who only date men over 6 ft tall, drive an expensive car and earn a high income.