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suston96

(4,175 posts)
38. Sexual abuse pervades our life choices.......
Wed Aug 22, 2018, 02:16 AM
Aug 2018

Let's pause to consider that what the RC church has done has been to thoughtlessly and carelessly take actions to protect its investment in the training of thousands - hundreds of thousands of priests through the centuries.

It takes 6 to 10 years to educate and train a young man to be ordained a priest. And that training doesn't usually include basic sexuality development in young boys becoming young men.

Letting the young candidates figure out for themselves the mysteries of their developing sexuality and its impact on their lives and the lives of the members of the catholic communities entrusted to them after ordination doesn't seem to have worked.

Another group, the military, has the same problems as any other group of people enduring and negotiating sexual contacts by its members as they toil through their enlistments or their military agreements to serve in the armed forces of their nation.

The military has had a changing if not questionable process to regulate the treatment and disposal of homosexuals who have lied about their sexual orients at enlistment to sexual onslaughts in their units. But that's another thread.

It's not just this group. or that. It's about defining what must be done to protect young people from the onslaughts of predators anywhere and defining strict processes including timely prosecutions and appropriate and equitable punishments for offenders who cannot offer basic human respect and honor for each other and for the more vulnerable members of society.

It's an organized crime gang. "You wouldn't want something to happen to your afterlife?" . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Aug 2018 #1
I think it is "Why do so many pedophiles become priests?" lapfog_1 Aug 2018 #2
Exactly. Mariana Aug 2018 #21
Yep. If it wasn't for that many wouldn't become priests. brush Aug 2018 #26
Is it case of many victims of abuse that were complaint being encouraged to brewens Aug 2018 #30
There are many factors. trotsky Aug 2018 #3
True. They may be believers AND pedophiles thucythucy Aug 2018 #34
This may be shallow or ignorant but thbobby Aug 2018 #4
I don't think that's shallow or ignorant at all. trotsky Aug 2018 #5
Yes. I think that could be a factor, as well. MineralMan Aug 2018 #7
I think you are right. Mariana Aug 2018 #22
Celibacy vow is not the issue QuantaviousJackson Aug 2018 #6
Maybe it's not the issue, but it's an antiquated idea Merlot Aug 2018 #8
Celibacy wasn't always a requirement. From what I understand, when priests died way back when... brush Aug 2018 #27
That sounds about right. Merlot Aug 2018 #41
It isn't "the" issue. trotsky Aug 2018 #19
And an even deeper issue thucythucy Aug 2018 #35
Is there any evidence Catholic priests are more likely to be sex-offenders struggle4progress Aug 2018 #9
Whatabout?... MineralMan Aug 2018 #14
What difference does it make? Mariana Aug 2018 #37
If the question is "why are so many priests pedophiles?" then it is natural struggle4progress Aug 2018 #40
Is there any evidence of large conspiracies Mariana Aug 2018 #44
They know they're in an institution that will protect them. Merlot Aug 2018 #42
Things to know about the Boy Scouts sex abuse cases struggle4progress Aug 2018 #10
And whatabout... MineralMan Aug 2018 #16
This is the religion group. We discuss religion and religious issues here. Mariana Aug 2018 #23
That's a strange response struggle4progress Aug 2018 #25
What's strange is your desperate attempts to hijack the thread Mariana Aug 2018 #36
And look how they have responded d_r Aug 2018 #32
38 Arrested in SC Child Sex Sting struggle4progress Aug 2018 #11
But, see, we were talking about priests... MineralMan Aug 2018 #17
This wasn't a conspiracy of silence, it was a sting operation marylandblue Aug 2018 #45
Chicago Public Schools fails to protect students from sexual attacks by classmates struggle4progress Aug 2018 #12
This is the Religion group, so we're talking about priests. MineralMan Aug 2018 #18
Student-teacher sex in last 24 hours of Google news struggle4progress Aug 2018 #13
And Whatabout youth pastors? MineralMan Aug 2018 #15
I think you've proved whataboutism is alive and well in this group Major Nikon Aug 2018 #20
Anyone, who is really concerned about sexual abuse of children, should examine the actual facts struggle4progress Aug 2018 #24
Whataboutism doesn't mean other facts aren't facts Major Nikon Aug 2018 #31
Whatabout warlord armies in Africa? Voltaire2 Aug 2018 #39
I believe it developed over the centuries MaryMagdaline Aug 2018 #28
Almost the same as prison? keithbvadu2 Aug 2018 #29
Meanwhile McCarrick is still getting paid and supported by the RCC. Major Nikon Aug 2018 #33
Sexual abuse pervades our life choices....... suston96 Aug 2018 #38
If you're a predator, it's the sensible place to go. Act_of_Reparation Aug 2018 #43
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