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In reply to the discussion: Advice wanted for great relationship... gone... [View all]Delarage
(2,186 posts)2. Could be
That she was expecting a move that Saturday or at least a discussion about a move and then was confused/upset and didn't want to hang out. It's hard to NOT try to communicate with someone when you think they're upset, but sometimes they just need some space/time to reassess. I'd let it go until (and if) she contacts you again. If not, it wasn't meant to be and it will hurt for a bit but you will have to get through it. Both people have to be ready for a "move" and it you were not, then it wasn't the right time and if that was what upset her that much, then it wasn't meant to be.
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Thanks Sanity Claws, I appreciate your words of support and understanding.
ClusterFreak
Apr 2021
#18
You can't know her motives in this. Because of that, you can't judge them. And she
Scrivener7
Apr 2021
#4
I would take issue with the characterization of her acting like a 15 year old. She has decided to
Scrivener7
Apr 2021
#8
It's clear that my story has stirred up some unresolved feelings for you about your own...
ClusterFreak
Apr 2021
#33
you sound like the perfect gentleman, if that offends her then it says more about...
samnsara
Apr 2021
#7
SheltieLover, your assessment of the psychology at play here makes a lot of sense....
ClusterFreak
Apr 2021
#22
I'm with those above who have advised you to move on and not try to contact her.
Aristus
Apr 2021
#47