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negoldie

(198 posts)
5. I don't know you
Fri Oct 11, 2019, 05:59 AM
Oct 2019

but I have a story to tell also. In 2015, my brother, both my sisters (one with gleoplastoma, although she is holding on) and myself were all diagnosed with one form of cancer or another. It's in our genes. Both parents died of cancer. I have been living with Mantle Cell Lymphoma for four years.
My wife and I were both diagnosed with lung cancer just three weeks ago, within a couple of days of each other. She has stage 4 small cell lung cancer. Very aggressive spreads to other organs quickly. She asks for prayers.
On top of my MCL (which is rare, chronic and unpredictable) I have stage two non small cell lung cancer. We are into our second week (of seven weeks) of radiation. Her third chemo treatment was yesterday, she will have three treatments for chemo very three weeks, plus radiation 5 days a week. I have one treatment once per week, plus 5 days of radiation. The closest place for radiation is 65 miles round trip.
As you say, it certainly puts a lot of things in perspective. Life, happiness, love for your fellow human beings....I post my GFM page here with some trepidation. But my wife is in real need right now. It will probably be taken down but when you are so poor you have to put your name out there....well we are in real need.
https://www.gofundme.com/f/y4d8hs

Oh, dear. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2019 #1
Appreciated, thanks DFW Oct 2019 #10
Sheesh. I am so sorry. Phoenix61 Oct 2019 #2
It's better not to imagine that DFW Oct 2019 #12
My heart goes out to you and in sympathy to your Duppers Oct 2019 #3
It's very sobering to see friends' lives upended like that in an instant DFW Oct 2019 #11
I'm very sorry to hear that. I studied brain tumors recently on behalf a friend. NNadir Oct 2019 #4
I have them in our family, too DFW Oct 2019 #9
Yesterday I attended a lecture where I learned... NNadir Oct 2019 #19
If I don't get back to you on this DFW Oct 2019 #20
Will do. n/t. NNadir Oct 2019 #21
I don't know you negoldie Oct 2019 #5
My wife and I have the same kind of genetic minefield DFW Oct 2019 #7
Suffering. Newest Reality Oct 2019 #6
I don't thnk his expectations can be called delusional. DFW Oct 2019 #8
I am not using the term in that way... Newest Reality Oct 2019 #13
To qualify it... Newest Reality Oct 2019 #14
Out of the blue. like a bolt of lightning. You never know. So sorry for your friend and family, and Fla Dem Oct 2019 #15
If they could be done cheaply, along with comptetent evaluation DFW Oct 2019 #18
About a year ago NPR had a story about survivors of a vaccine given to people with in2herbs Oct 2019 #16
We'll pass it on. DFW Oct 2019 #17
.. Demovictory9 Oct 2019 #22
What a sad situation. I'm so sorry for your friends. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2019 #23
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