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LakeArenal

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102. Keep your memories close, but remember

Wed Aug 24, 2016, 06:46 PM

Aug 2016

Your love would want you to press on. He would want to see you smile. He loved it when you smiled. Don't let the light of love go dim. Be happy. Because that is what his love for you would want. Right now, if you can't smile to the world, look up and give him a big smile. He would want to know..

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My heart is broken [View all] choie Aug 2016 OP

Condolences Me. Aug 2016 #1

I'm so sorry JustAnotherGen Aug 2016 #2

I'm so sorry for your loss. Libby2 Aug 2016 #3

so sorry. spanone Aug 2016 #4

My deepest sympathy to you. NaturalHigh Aug 2016 #5

Times two Scarsdale Aug 2016 #157

I am so very sorry that this happened. Your loss is terrible, and I wish msanthrope Aug 2016 #6

I am very sorry for your loss bigwillq Aug 2016 #7

So sorry to hear that you've lost so much. yellerpup Aug 2016 #8

So very sorry for your loss mcar Aug 2016 #9

I am so very sorry for you loss … littlewolf Aug 2016 #10

I can only imagine HerrKarlMarx Aug 2016 #11

I am so sorry Choie. GentryDixon Aug 2016 #12

My Condolences. My heart goes out to you BlueStateLib Aug 2016 #13

I know how painful it is. I lost my wife two years ago and I'm still hurting brush Aug 2016 #14

You have my condolences. deathrind Aug 2016 #15

I am sorry to hear that you have lost your soul mate so young and unexpectedly. tblue37 Aug 2016 #16

That's terrible. librarylu Aug 2016 #17

It looks like possibly a heart attack choie Aug 2016 #18

That's not ghoulish at all. librarylu Aug 2016 #79

No I was thinking I wonder what happened. A friend of mine lost his partner in a car accident Person 2713 Aug 2016 #83

Sometimes people just black out from the drop in blood pressure.... Spitfire of ATJ Aug 2016 #114

I pray that is true choie Aug 2016 #150

May peace return to you Hekate Aug 2016 #19

May his memory be eternal. Mme. Defarge Aug 2016 #20

I am so sorry. LiberalLoner Aug 2016 #21

Allow yourself to grieve Guilded Lilly Aug 2016 #22

I'm so very sorry. MoonRiver Aug 2016 #23

I can only babylonsister Aug 2016 #24

Very sorry. SammyWinstonJack Aug 2016 #25

Condolences to You On Your Loss Different Drummer Aug 2016 #26

So very sorry. madaboutharry Aug 2016 #27

Deepest condolences... brooklynite Aug 2016 #28

I'm so sorry for your loss. RandySF Aug 2016 #29

Oh My malaise Aug 2016 #30

I am so sorry you lost him so soon Warpy Aug 2016 #31

I am saddened mercuryblues Aug 2016 #32

I'm so sorry! Buckeye_Democrat Aug 2016 #33

Oh, I'm so sorry. I hope you have people around you to help you. That's important. nolabear Aug 2016 #34

^^^^THIS^^^^ csziggy Aug 2016 #104

the only way forward is through. mopinko Aug 2016 #35

It doesn't help to hear lillypaddle Aug 2016 #36

I can't offer any advice, only sympathy and support, hugs nt geek tragedy Aug 2016 #37

So sorry Loki Liesmith Aug 2016 #38

I am very sorry for your loss cate94 Aug 2016 #39

So sorry for your loss! tenderfoot Aug 2016 #40

So sorry to hear this madokie Aug 2016 #41

My deepest sympathies for you steve2470 Aug 2016 #42

the DU Bereavement Group might be helpful, as well steve2470 Aug 2016 #43

I honestly didn't know we choie Aug 2016 #50

my pleasure nt steve2470 Aug 2016 #53

Deepest condolences! Behind the Aegis Aug 2016 #44

My deep and sincere condolences, choie. Cooley Hurd Aug 2016 #45

I am so sorry for your loss.. HipChick Aug 2016 #46

My condolences and deepest sympathy, choie. gademocrat7 Aug 2016 #47

Major hugs. raven mad Aug 2016 #48

I'm so sorry DoBotherMe Aug 2016 #49

Oh choie how sad! redwitch Aug 2016 #51

Chole...Super strong hugs and you are in my thoughts.. Tikki Aug 2016 #52

Oh I'm so sorry choie. mahina Aug 2016 #54

So sorry for your loss still_one Aug 2016 #55

... SunSeeker Aug 2016 #56

My heart goes out to you Mira Aug 2016 #57

i am so sorry for your loss. barbtries Aug 2016 #58

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost the love of my life years ago, and I know how you feel. LongTomH Aug 2016 #59

I am so very sorry for your loss Sophiegirl Aug 2016 #60

I am so sorry, Chloe. Granny M Aug 2016 #61

I am very sorry for you loss bravenak Aug 2016 #62

Oh my goodness - when I read this, my heart feels the same, but not as painful as yours. NBachers Aug 2016 #63

I'm sorry for this devastating loss lunatica Aug 2016 #64

I'm so sorry for your loss... :(. NT Adrahil Aug 2016 #65

So, so sorry. colorado_ufo Aug 2016 #66

so sorry dear choie MFM008 Aug 2016 #67

Condolences, choie sarge43 Aug 2016 #68

My most sincere and deepest condolences are not enough... Moostache Aug 2016 #69

Deep condolences Richard D Aug 2016 #70

deepest condolences rurallib Aug 2016 #71

Only 48--so sad--condolences.... panader0 Aug 2016 #72

The Weeping Gardener Xipe Totec Aug 2016 #73

I'm sincerely sorry for your loss. Loki Aug 2016 #74

Very sorry. It is a very tough time to get through, but there is goodness on the other side. . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Aug 2016 #75

I am so very sorry for you and for your wonderful husband. raging moderate Aug 2016 #76

So sorry for your loss jack_krass Aug 2016 #77

I'm so sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Aug 2016 #78

I am so sorry for your loss. NanceGreggs Aug 2016 #80

So sorry sweetheart FXSTD Aug 2016 #81

A Valediction Forbidding Mourning macwriter Aug 2016 #82

so very sorry for your pain and loss Fresh_Start Aug 2016 #84

So sorry for your loss DUgosh Aug 2016 #85

Absolutely heartbreaking user_name Aug 2016 #86

Perhaps consider what he would want you to do now. Eleanors38 Aug 2016 #87

big hugs DonRedwood Aug 2016 #88

My heart goes out to you. Ilsa Aug 2016 #89

I am so sorry, Choie.... Holding you in my heart. TygrBright Aug 2016 #90

I'm so sorry for your loss. May every happy memory of livetohike Aug 2016 #91

I'm terribly sorry for your loss ConservativeDemocrat Aug 2016 #92

Choie, sheshe2 Aug 2016 #93

I am so sorry n/t etherealtruth Aug 2016 #94

I am Sorry for you loss their is a group called compassionate friends classykaren Aug 2016 #95

I am so very sorry. gratefultobelib Aug 2016 #96

I don't have anh guidance...I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry for your loss lunamagica Aug 2016 #97

Loss is hard when what was had was so lucky, so good, so magnificent. Festivito Aug 2016 #98

I am so sorry for your loss! smirkymonkey Aug 2016 #99

I'm so sorry renate Aug 2016 #100

choie... kentuck Aug 2016 #101

Keep your memories close, but remember LakeArenal Aug 2016 #102

I wish you peace and serenity Stinky The Clown Aug 2016 #103

My deepest heartfelt condollence. onecaliberal Aug 2016 #105

I am sorry for your loss quickesst Aug 2016 #106

So very sorry for your loss... Mr_Jefferson_24 Aug 2016 #107

My sincere condolences to you. TexasMommaWithAHat Aug 2016 #108

I'm so terribly sorry. Habibi Aug 2016 #109

I am so sorry Choie for your loss. onecent Aug 2016 #110

I am so sorry for you losing a wonderful husband. Lint Head Aug 2016 #111

I am so very sorry for your loss, choie. KMOD Aug 2016 #112

I'm so sorry to hear this, choie. calimary Aug 2016 #113

This message was self-deleted by its author kestrel91316 Aug 2016 #115

I am so sorry, take it one day at a time. Rex Aug 2016 #116

I am so sorry to know your heart is broken in this sudden, devastating way. No Vested Interest Aug 2016 #117

I'm so sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2016 #118

My deepest sympathy, choie. Only 48 -- what a terrible loss. pnwmom Aug 2016 #119

My condolences when it's sudden like that it's the worst kimbutgar Aug 2016 #120

Oh my friend... tavernier Aug 2016 #121

Advice: If you have family and friends near use them as much or as little as feels right to you. IADEMO2004 Aug 2016 #122

So sorry for your loss. Life can be so unfair. Nt intheozone Aug 2016 #123

I am so sorry choie. montana_hazeleyes Aug 2016 #124

so sorry handmade34 Aug 2016 #125

I don't know why... WiffenPoof Aug 2016 #126

:-( My condolences. CentralMass Aug 2016 #127

I'm very sorry. n/t Bonhomme Richard Aug 2016 #128

My thoughts are with you that you find comfort in the memories and the strength to forge ahead UMTerp01 Aug 2016 #129

There are no words Nac Mac Feegle Aug 2016 #130

My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Tarheel_Dem Aug 2016 #131

deepest condolences on this sudden and terrible loss. may you and all who love him find niyad Aug 2016 #132

You came to the right place BadGimp Aug 2016 #133

I'm so very sorry. You're in my thoughts. CaptainTruth Aug 2016 #134

I am so very sorry for your loss. hamsterjill Aug 2016 #135

My sympathies to you in your loss. Frustratedlady Aug 2016 #136

oh my dear choie annabanana Aug 2016 #137

I lost my soulmate of 31 years 13 months ago. mackdaddy Aug 2016 #172

ah mackdaddy. . annabanana Aug 2016 #174

This is very true. mackdaddy Aug 2016 #176

I am so sorry Choie! Sending you a hug right now. Glimmer of Hope Aug 2016 #138

Oh my goodnees! AwakeAtLast Aug 2016 #139

All my condolences to you. sinkingfeeling Aug 2016 #140

I am so sorry. Lifelong Protester Aug 2016 #141

So sorry for your loss. I suggest a widow support group near you. AgadorSparticus Aug 2016 #142

I am sorry for your loss chole. lonestarnot Aug 2016 #143

Aw, man. I don't know what to say or do, other than "I'm sorry" (and send a hug your way) friendly_iconoclast Aug 2016 #144

I have no guidance to offer, but so sorry for your loss hibbing Aug 2016 #145

Condolences kanda Aug 2016 #146

I'm so sorry. mountain grammy Aug 2016 #147

.. Liberal_in_LA Aug 2016 #148

Ahhh.... SHRED Aug 2016 #149

I'm so sorry. TDale313 Aug 2016 #151

(((hugs))), choie. sueh Aug 2016 #152

i am so sorry JI7 Aug 2016 #153

As a weary traveler Dreamweaver 5.0 Aug 2016 #154

I was so saddened to see this thread and I would like to offer a suggestion Samantha Aug 2016 #155

Sad to hear this, wish I had a magic pill for you. DFW Aug 2016 #156

My thoughts and prayers are with you. imanamerican63 Aug 2016 #158

I'm so sorry Bettie Aug 2016 #159

I'm so sorry for your loss. I, too, lost a young partner suddenly. femmedem Aug 2016 #160

I am so sorry you have to go through this dixiegrrrrl Aug 2016 #161

I'm so sorry! Odin2005 Aug 2016 #162

I am so very sorry to hear this. mnhtnbb Aug 2016 #163

Hugs & condolences, choie. appal_jack Aug 2016 #164

I'm so very sorry, chole. I lost my best friend and husband of 30 years in catbyte Aug 2016 #165

My sympathies for you randr Aug 2016 #166

How awful. wryter2000 Aug 2016 #167

Deepest Symphonies may you live through this very dark period of your life downeastdaniel Aug 2016 #168

I'm so sorry choie cal04 Aug 2016 #169

So sorry to hear. GoneOffShore Aug 2016 #170

Please accept my sincere sympathy. And I do have a suggestion, from recent personal experience Siwsan Aug 2016 #171

. LWolf Aug 2016 #173

I know how you feel gwheezie Aug 2016 #175

Wow that's too young. RIP. Initech Aug 2016 #177

I'm so sorry for your loss. qnr Aug 2016 #178

You have my deepest sympathies SummerSnow Aug 2016 #179

So very sorry blueseas Aug 2016 #180

I lost my hubby 2 and a half years ago Mojorabbit Aug 2016 #181

May you find Peace in the midst of your challenge. mfcorey1 Aug 2016 #182

My deepest condolences... BlueInPhilly Aug 2016 #183

So sorry... Phentex Aug 2016 #184

I'm sorry for your loss democrattotheend Aug 2016 #185

I am sorry for your loss. TheManInTheMac Aug 2016 #186