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(17,651 posts) Mon Oct 21, 2013, 09:43 AM Oct 2013

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I lost my mom on Saturday.......... [View all]

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Longish illness. Moved her from her home to mine so I could take care of her and help keep her with me for as long as I could.

Have been scarce on DU because of this - but gladly.

I'm going to miss her terribly and right now, at this moment, it's difficult to think I can carry on.

Her last wish was for me and my family to "Be Happy" and in time, I hope to be able to do just that.

Thanks everyone.

She and I a few years ago.
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I lost my mom on Saturday.......... [View all] nc4bo Oct 2013 OP

I'm so sorry to hear that. MineralMan Oct 2013 #1

Thank you MM. Hold your dear ones close and tell them you love nc4bo Oct 2013 #5

Excellent advice. My parents are both 89 years old. MineralMan Oct 2013 #9

My heart goes out to you... PasadenaTrudy Oct 2013 #46

I am so sorry. sabrina 1 Oct 2013 #2

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My condolences on your loss. MANative Oct 2013 #3

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So sorry for your loss. redstatebluegirl Oct 2013 #4

oh you've said it so well............in terrible pain right now.. nc4bo Oct 2013 #11

I know it doesn't feel like it will ever stop redstatebluegirl Oct 2013 #15

RSBG, I felt the same sensation when my mother passed. woodsprite Oct 2013 #60

Deepest sympathy to you and yours malaise Oct 2013 #6

Yes yes it is horrible. nc4bo Oct 2013 #12

So very sorry.. Tikki Oct 2013 #7

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I am so sorry to hear this nc4bo.... onecent Oct 2013 #14

So appreciative onecent. And thank you. nc4bo Oct 2013 #16

Sorry for your loss. Stuart G Oct 2013 #17

I am so sorry. riverbendviewgal Oct 2013 #18

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So sorry for your loss, nc4bo LiberalEsto Oct 2013 #19

We are trying LiberalEsto - so hard - too fresh. nc4bo Oct 2013 #29

My condolences. n/t ProSense Oct 2013 #20

. nc4bo Oct 2013 #30

(( nc )) blm Oct 2013 #21

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I'm so sorry for your loss. MoonRiver Oct 2013 #22

Thanks MoonRiver.......... nc4bo Oct 2013 #32

I'm very sorry for your loss - TBF Oct 2013 #23

. nc4bo Oct 2013 #33

Very generous last words. JNelson6563 Oct 2013 #24

:*( nc4bo Oct 2013 #41

It's all about death with dignity and love. WCLinolVir Oct 2013 #162

I am so sorry to hear this riderinthestorm Oct 2013 #25

. nc4bo Oct 2013 #42

You have my deepest sympathies leftynyc Oct 2013 #26

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I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom. My sympathy to your family and all who knew livetohike Oct 2013 #28

Losing a mother is about as bad as it gets. zeemike Oct 2013 #34

My deepest sympathies to you and yours, nc4bo. sheshe2 Oct 2013 #35

My condolences and giving you a big hug BumRushDaShow Oct 2013 #36

My condolences.... magical thyme Oct 2013 #37

I'm sorry for your loss Stargazer09 Oct 2013 #38

I'm so sorry. Are_grits_groceries Oct 2013 #39

My condolences Tippy Oct 2013 #40

So sorry your Mother is no longer with you......... Fla Dem Oct 2013 #44

Sorry for your loss! mecherosegarden Oct 2013 #45

I'm so sorry. Lefta Dissenter Oct 2013 #47

My deepest condolences question everything Oct 2013 #48

I'm so sorry. Her last words are the most precious. Eleanors38 Oct 2013 #49

I'm so sorry for your loss. ColesCountyDem Oct 2013 #50

My heart goes out to you. It will take time to recover, but yellerpup Oct 2013 #51

Follow her wish--she riversedge Oct 2013 #52

So very sorry. Best to you and all your family. n/t Bossy Monkey Oct 2013 #53

So sorry to hear this, nc4bo. ucrdem Oct 2013 #54

Love and Light. nt truebluegreen Oct 2013 #55

Condolences to you and RIP for your mom! gopiscrap Oct 2013 #56

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope alsame Oct 2013 #57

I am so sorry for your loss! peace13 Oct 2013 #58

Sorry to hear of your loss. Hugin Oct 2013 #59

I'm so sorry. I lost my mom in April and my dad died a week ago. It's so hard but it gets better. OregonBlue Oct 2013 #61

so very sorry for your loss as well. hard to lose both so close together. glad you and your niyad Oct 2013 #86

Thank you. It has been a rough few months. Thank god for loving family. OregonBlue Oct 2013 #125

Heartfelt condolences - I know what you're going through SnowCritter Oct 2013 #62

I am so sorry... renate Oct 2013 #97

so very sorry for your loss as well. may you and your loved ones find peace and comfort, and may niyad Oct 2013 #132

Condolences on your loss. IdaBriggs Oct 2013 #63

I'm sorry for your loss OhioChick Oct 2013 #64

So sorry, it is a lovely picture of the two of you to remember her by trocar Oct 2013 #65

My condolences. 840high Oct 2013 #66

It is good that you had that time together. riqster Oct 2013 #67

You were a wonderful, loving daughter cilla4progress Oct 2013 #68

So very sorry you lost your beloved mother. Mad-in-Mo Oct 2013 #69

We spend our whole lives making memories..... Uben Oct 2013 #69

great photo yurbud Oct 2013 #71

I am very sorry... Tom_Foolery Oct 2013 #72

Condolences to you and yours. pecwae Oct 2013 #73

(((((()))))) grahamhgreen Oct 2013 #74

I'm sorry for your loss JohnnyLib2 Oct 2013 #75

I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs)) rivegauche Oct 2013 #76

Peace be with you my friend. William769 Oct 2013 #77

I'm so sorry ... Triana Oct 2013 #78

so very sorry to hear this. may she be at peace, and may you find peace and comfort, and the niyad Oct 2013 #79

Hugs nadinbrzezinski Oct 2013 #80

I am so sorry for your loss. Liberalynn Oct 2013 #81

So sorry, nc4bo graywarrior Oct 2013 #82

Condolences. May fond memories comfort and keep you. nt kelliekat44 Oct 2013 #83

I am sorry for your loss. denbot Oct 2013 #84

Holding you in the Light, nc4bo TygrBright Oct 2013 #85

Take Care ProfessorGAC Oct 2013 #87

I'm sorry for your troubles - hedgehog Oct 2013 #88

I'm so sorry for your loss ashling Oct 2013 #89

Oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry. tblue Oct 2013 #90

Thank you so much DU for your kindness. To those who have recently or nc4bo Oct 2013 #91

I'm so sorry renate Oct 2013 #92

Sorry for your loss nc4bo skeewee08 Oct 2013 #93

I'm very sorry to hear this...my thoughts are with you... joeybee12 Oct 2013 #94

Hey, nc4bo, thank you for posting here and sharing this with us. calimary Oct 2013 #95

I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful daughter you were to her. LiberalLoner Oct 2013 #96

(((((((nc4bo))))))) WillyT Oct 2013 #98

Sorry to hear, I lost my Mom in June Bennyboy Oct 2013 #99

so very sorry for your loss. may you and your loved ones find peace and comfort. niyad Oct 2013 #135

So sorry for your loss. TDale313 Oct 2013 #100

So, so sorry to read this news Samantha Oct 2013 #101

(((so sorry))) handmade34 Oct 2013 #102

May her name be remembered for a blessing Hekate Oct 2013 #103

The loss of your mom will be the most profound loss you will experience. kaiden Oct 2013 #104

So sorry for your loss dbackjon Oct 2013 #105

Oh, what a sweetheart fadedrose Oct 2013 #106

My deepest sympathies, nc4bo. Granny M Oct 2013 #107

Condolences gademocrat7 Oct 2013 #108

My sympathies are with you and your hurting heart right now... thecrow Oct 2013 #109

My sincere condolences. I almost wish I could convey some trite cliche that may soothe the pain... Raster Oct 2013 #110

Two sweet, beautiful ladies. No Vested Interest Oct 2013 #111

I am so sorry. No matter the age, losing a mom just sucks. Hugs to you. uppityperson Oct 2013 #112

My profound and sincere condolence to you and your family mazzarro Oct 2013 #113

I am so sorry idwiyo Oct 2013 #114

... spanone Oct 2013 #115

I'm so sorry Yo_Mama Oct 2013 #116

I'm sorry I know how painful it is rbrnmw Oct 2013 #117

I'm so sorry. My heart aches for you and yours. myrna minx Oct 2013 #118

I'm very sorry--what a nice photo of the two of you. TwilightGardener Oct 2013 #119

So sorry for you - what a beautiful picture. nt flygal Oct 2013 #120

Mom's hard to lose Warpy Oct 2013 #121

My condolences. You seem to have been blessed with a wonderful mother. deurbano Oct 2013 #122

I am so sorry for your loss. Beautiful picture. LoisB Oct 2013 #123

Hugs and condolences to you and yours, nc4bo~ babylonsister Oct 2013 #124

What a tender picture. avaistheone1 Oct 2013 #126

You have my condolences. Treasure your memories and the love. SummerSnow Oct 2013 #127

May your grief be swift and leave you with many wonderful memories tavalon Oct 2013 #128

I'm so sorry, nc4bo... whathehell Oct 2013 #129

Bless your heart. Prayers and best wishes for the family. IrishAyes Oct 2013 #130

Your precious mom....... Sheepshank Oct 2013 #131

your mama has a sweet smile. I feel your misery roguevalley Oct 2013 #133

I'm so sorry. NealK Oct 2013 #134

My deepest condolences to you and your family! LongTomH Oct 2013 #136

I want to offer my sympathy Lifelong Protester Oct 2013 #137

My heart and prayers go out to you and your family emsimon33 Oct 2013 #138

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Sorry for your loss. ladyVet Oct 2013 #140

I'm so sorry vankuria Oct 2013 #141

My sympathies to you. Curmudgeoness Oct 2013 #142

I know what you're going through CitizenLeft Oct 2013 #143

May she rest in peace. Sorry for your loss Liberal_in_LA Oct 2013 #144

My sympathy to you. Losing your Ma is especially hard. Cleita Oct 2013 #145

Sorry for your loss, please take care of arthritisR_US Oct 2013 #146

My condolences..... jaysunb Oct 2013 #147

nc4bo....am sooo sorry. Feel your pain. glinda Oct 2013 #148

So very sorry dflprincess Oct 2013 #149

(((((((nc4bo)))))))... TeeYiYi Oct 2013 #150

I am so very sorry for your loss. bigwillq Oct 2013 #151

I'm very sorry for your loss... Phentex Oct 2013 #152

I'm so sorry nc4bo, KT2000 Oct 2013 #153

Please accept my condolences greatlaurel Oct 2013 #154

My condolences to you and your family. westerebus Oct 2013 #155

I'm so sorry...you seem to have had a wonderful relationship with her and that will provide many, okaawhatever Oct 2013 #156

i recently found this orleans Oct 2013 #157

<3 hugs blue14u Oct 2013 #158

I'm so sorry for your loss nc4bo cal04 Oct 2013 #159

I'm very sorry, nc4bo. frogmarch Oct 2013 #160

I'm so sorry, nc4bo. pacalo Oct 2013 #161

condolences RainDog Oct 2013 #163

God gave us memories... riverwalker Oct 2013 #164

Take care, nc4bo. NYC_SKP Oct 2013 #165

Bless your hearts, n4bo.. Cha Oct 2013 #166

Beautiful photo; my condolences to you. spooky3 Oct 2013 #167

So sorry for you loss. You will prevail. Kennah Oct 2013 #168

My condolences. I hope this helps donheld Oct 2013 #169

Awwww. I am so very sorry! Rhiannon12866 Oct 2013 #170

Condolences Heathen57 Oct 2013 #171

You have her nose lillypaddle Oct 2013 #172

Moments if saddness libdude Oct 2013 #173

. Coyote_Bandit Oct 2013 #174

Sorry for your loss nc4bo. dotymed Oct 2013 #175

I'm so sorry, nc4bo. polly7 Oct 2013 #176

Bless your heart rucky Oct 2013 #177

So very sorry to hear about your mom. ClusterFreak Oct 2013 #178