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fightforfreedom

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Sat Oct 22, 2022, 11:42 AM Oct 2022

I retired a little over two years ago and I can honestly tell you this. [View all]

I do not miss work at all. For the first time in over 40 forty years of dealing with a deranged work place culture, my stress levels have come way down. I was always a good worker who would not let bosses, management, abuse me, take advantage of me. Which meant I was constantly fighting back against power crazy bosses, etc. It was no fun.

When I retired I was worried because I knew I would be on a fix income. I knew I had enough to pay the bills, but when you own a home, car, you have to maintain them. that can be expensive at times. I was also a little worried about becoming bored. None of this has become a problem.

When you retire you learn how to adjust. Things work out. It is possible one day I may get a small part time job. But it will be on my terms and if any boss gives me shit I can flip them the bird and simply quit.

As many of you know, early this year I was diagnosed with melanoma. It has been stressful, but it would have been much more stressful if I was working. The stress would have been off the charts because jobs, bosses, will give you a hard time taken time off to treat yourself. You might not have enough sick time, so you don't get paid. They don't give a shit.

So if you are thinking, worried about retirement, don't sweat it. Things will work out. You will find a way to adjust and there is a good chance your stress levels will decrease big time.

One last thing, I love waking up in the morning and having nothing planned or having something planned for me. I do what ever I want to do. That's peace of mind. You can't put a price on peace of mind.

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I retired a little over 3 years ago. I'm loving it. tblue37 Oct 2022 #1
I am with you. Going on nine years retired now Walleye Oct 2022 #2
The secret they don't tell you Sucha NastyWoman Oct 2022 #16
Yep. You don't realize what it costs physically, financially and mentally just to hold down a job Walleye Oct 2022 #47
I was just going to post something similar. llmart Oct 2022 #108
We retired in 2019. phylny Oct 2022 #3
Awesome! Akacia Oct 2022 #4
5 months to go before I retire Random Boomer Oct 2022 #73
I promised myself that when I retired I would lunatica Oct 2022 #116
I am retired 10 years. But not tired. kairos12 Oct 2022 #5
Well into my 20th year of retirement. multigraincracker Oct 2022 #6
Same situation here Basic LA Oct 2022 #35
I'm the opposite Sympthsical Oct 2022 #7
I'm somewhat similar to you, and I took a different approach. yardwork Oct 2022 #21
My partner's father does similar Sympthsical Oct 2022 #141
Lol! Looks like there's a renovation project in your future! yardwork Oct 2022 #142
What kind of NP job do you have... 3catwoman3 Oct 2022 #52
No no, I'm currently in school to be an NP Sympthsical Oct 2022 #58
Best of luck in your remaining studies... 3catwoman3 Oct 2022 #63
I'm not quite at that stage yet Sympthsical Oct 2022 #144
So, this may be rather too early, but please allow me... 3catwoman3 Oct 2022 #145
My husband, of blessed memory, and I Mme. Defarge Oct 2022 #8
Smartest thing I ever did was retire 3 years earlier than I'd planned Siwsan Oct 2022 #9
I only miss a few people XanaDUer2 Oct 2022 #79
I retired earlier this year. SlimJimmy Oct 2022 #119
Children and retired people -- the happiest groups, and Hortensis Oct 2022 #10
After 40 years in construction I retired. panader0 Oct 2022 #11
I love to hear this, we have seven years and we shall join you in peace. Bluethroughu Oct 2022 #12
Four years for me. I too love it. Chainfire Oct 2022 #13
mostly agree. but .... stopdiggin Oct 2022 #14
Keep in mind that pensions were NEVER universal. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #127
you're undoubtedly right stopdiggin Oct 2022 #130
Mostly because of the decline of unions SouthernDem4ever Oct 2022 #138
2 years retired and Love it, no pressure Beachnutt Oct 2022 #15
I may retire in May 2023. QED Oct 2022 #17
Pet Insurance can be worth it. We pay 500/ yr. but it paid out well over a thousand. Helps? Evolve Dammit Oct 2022 #103
I've thought of that... QED Oct 2022 #105
I know it's no fun and an expense. I didn't even know it was a "thing." I wanna go back (in time)! Evolve Dammit Oct 2022 #106
To rewired (aka retired) me, every day... keets Oct 2022 #18
Well done! Fritz Walter Oct 2022 #19
Yep, since retiring ... relayerbob Oct 2022 #20
My favorite thing these days greymattermom Oct 2022 #22
We both retired at 63 Bayard Oct 2022 #23
Retirement is great, but plan it! Loge23 Oct 2022 #24
Yes you do have to do some planning, you have to add things up. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #27
Great point! (eom) Loge23 Oct 2022 #39
Retired 18 years ago. Never been happier in my life. Just taking it slow and keeping it simple. Midnight Writer Oct 2022 #25
Me too, I like hanging out at home now that I've gotten older. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #30
I've discovered that, too! calimary Oct 2022 #135
I retired two years ago BonnieJW Oct 2022 #26
A little off topic, but I think your sentiments are relevant to the reason some jobs remain unfilled Raven123 Oct 2022 #28
I believe you are correct. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #32
I also retired about 1 1/2 years ago and can echo much of your thoughts Joe Nation Oct 2022 #29
Think outside the box maybe catchnrelease Oct 2022 #65
There are so many things I already know I want to do when I retire, AND... Trueblue Texan Oct 2022 #98
fightforfreedom.... Upthevibe Oct 2022 #31
There is nothing wrong with continuing to work if you have a job you love. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #36
I left the corporate world in 2012, at the age of 56, after 25 NewHendoLib Oct 2022 #33
Wow, you hit life's jackpot. SunSeeker Oct 2022 #55
thanks for your comment, and I am sorry to hear of spouse challenges. NewHendoLib Oct 2022 #123
Hi SunSeeker - I have a joke about this airplaneman Oct 2022 #133
I so need a dog. nt SunSeeker Oct 2022 #137
I join the ranks February 20th. Ferryboat Oct 2022 #34
That's what I did, I was over thinking it. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #38
Being debt free is the key, Ferryboat Oct 2022 #49
I "retired" 14 years ago in October 2008 when I was laid off along with 30% of the company OMGWTF Oct 2022 #37
Talking about asshole bosses. Here's a story for you. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #40
Where did you stay in the desert? Sounds like a great experience! JudyM Oct 2022 #134
I second that. Retirement is almost as fun as childhood. Go forth and enjoy! Joinfortmill Oct 2022 #41
I am loving mine too. NH Ethylene Oct 2022 #42
Jealous. I have 3 years left. Saoirse9 Oct 2022 #43
Like my dad said when he retired... Javaman Oct 2022 #44
I actually LOVE Mondays! Alien Life Form Oct 2022 #70
Me too! Nt XanaDUer2 Oct 2022 #76
I love Mondays because... Trueblue Texan Oct 2022 #99
Mr Lake was a workaholic. LakeArenal Oct 2022 #45
Retired for almost 8 years wryter2000 Oct 2022 #46
The American Dream is to stop from being a Wage Slave. Emile Oct 2022 #48
Congrats! Shermann Oct 2022 #50
It did not affect me. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #68
I retired March 31, 2021, after being a pediatric nurse... 3catwoman3 Oct 2022 #51
I love being retired too Tree Lady Oct 2022 #53
Just over a year Erik the UNred Oct 2022 #54
Freedom is being financially secure. The Jungle 1 Oct 2022 #56
Retirement is probably much easier to adapt to if you already own a home. SidneyR Oct 2022 #57
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2022 #59
Not buying it. SheltieLover Oct 2022 #67
Are you on the wrong thread? mcar Oct 2022 #69
I noticed the change in our work place culture during the 80s. fightforfreedom Oct 2022 #74
... BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #78
You called it - raygun started this mess raising2moredems Oct 2022 #107
Not just cost of healthcare. 401K instead of pension. halfulglas Oct 2022 #109
Pensions were NEVER as universal as people think. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #129
Yesterday afternoon, when I turned on MSNBC at 5:30 pm EDT BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #75
Excellent! 👏👏👏👏 SheltieLover Oct 2022 #80
I was ecstatic! BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #81
No tv service here, so I'm glad to hear this! SheltieLover Oct 2022 #82
They also run on the local CBS news radio affiliate here BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #83
Are ads addressing qpukes intention to cut Soc Security & Medicare? SheltieLover Oct 2022 #84
I think think there may be a radio version BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #114
Awesome! SheltieLover Oct 2022 #115
My story Alien Life Form Oct 2022 #60
It's great you have something to do G2theD Oct 2022 #90
Four Years For Me ProfessorGAC Oct 2022 #61
Retired 3 years now. VoteBlue2175 Oct 2022 #62
I look forward to the freedom of retirement! Glad you found it! nt Rabrrrrrr Oct 2022 #64
I retired over a year ago. I love it! love_katz Oct 2022 #66
congratulations! I semi retired five years ago... mike_c Oct 2022 #71
Disabled at 56 XanaDUer2 Oct 2022 #72
I retired a little TrogL Oct 2022 #77
Retired from the federal government 2 weeks after 45 was inaugurated BumRushDaShow Oct 2022 #85
Adapting to living on $1200 a month was a challenge Kaleva Oct 2022 #86
I relate completely G2theD Oct 2022 #87
I love retirement malaise Oct 2022 #88
I waste 15 hours a week commuting noiretextatique Oct 2022 #89
I'll have to work till I drop dead A HERETIC I AM Oct 2022 #91
Mail carriers and Postal workers are heroes too! Trueblue Texan Oct 2022 #100
I really do appreciate the sentiment... A HERETIC I AM Oct 2022 #101
Well I hope the hell... Trueblue Texan Oct 2022 #112
He does A HERETIC I AM Oct 2022 #125
I retired in 1995 at the age of 52 thanks to having seen a psychiatrist once in 1966 in the army. Dysfunctional Oct 2022 #92
Everyone should try to find their own path. DFW Oct 2022 #93
This message was self-deleted by its author catbyte Oct 2022 #94
Thank you so much for posting this... Trueblue Texan Oct 2022 #95
My friend was getting ready to retire. keithbvadu2 Oct 2022 #96
I have 6 more years of hell. liberal N proud Oct 2022 #97
Good post. mac56 Oct 2022 #102
I retired too early -- only 49 years old. Scottie Mom Oct 2022 #104
These are great stories Sucha NastyWoman Oct 2022 #121
I say the same thing to myself daily, no joke! BigmanPigman Oct 2022 #110
My job was killing me XanaDUer2 Oct 2022 #113
What did you teach? Sucha NastyWoman Oct 2022 #122
Mostly 1st grade. BigmanPigman Oct 2022 #124
1 more year - I hope.... Locrian Oct 2022 #111
I'm retired almost five years now and I love it! lunatica Oct 2022 #117
I was targeted to be part of a "clear the dead wood" campaign by a bad boss. It was my last year CTyankee Oct 2022 #118
I was forced to retire when my company collapsed GenThePerservering Oct 2022 #120
4.5 years off the clock Pinback Oct 2022 #126
I was pretty much forced to retire by my health Diraven Oct 2022 #128
I have never had a job that was better than not working. PoindexterOglethorpe Oct 2022 #131
The day I retired was the happiest day of my life, GoodRaisin Oct 2022 #132
I love your explanation of poof XanaDUer2 Oct 2022 #146
I dread the thought of retirement GusBob Oct 2022 #136
looking forward to retirement. Chipper Chat Oct 2022 #139
I expect that I'll have to work until at least the morning of my funeral Orrex Oct 2022 #140
I was able to retire early due to my Bank of the Lumpy Mattress Roisin Ni Fiachra Oct 2022 #143
I retired from nursing in 2012 Jilly_in_VA Oct 2022 #147
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