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DFW

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Sun Sep 19, 2021, 03:25 AM Sep 2021

A word or two about my intervention for AZLD4 [View all]

Last edited Sun Sep 19, 2021, 04:05 AM - Edit history (1)

First of all, thanks to all for the kind words. Many of them were undeserved, I fear. I'm no hero. I saw a situation that struck home (married to a woman from another country who has been harassed in the past by US immigration), and couldn't stay silent.

I've known Mark Kelly and Gabby Giffords for over ten years, and figured a phone call couldn't make matters any worse. Senators are bombarded with legitimate requests, such as that of AZLD4, but also by requests to make tickets for running a stop sign go away. They have staff who fields inquiries from the public, and they are the ones who filter what goes up the chain, and what doesn't. Often they make the wrong choice. There are professional whiners out there who are skilled in making their traffic violations seem like unjustly handed out death sentences, and congressional staffers sometimes lose their patience, their cool, and their capacity for weeding out the serious pleas for help from the professional whiners.

I've known plenty of U.S. Senators. Some are complete phonies, some are assholes, and some are genuinely good people. Mark Kelly happens to be among the latter. I knew he could never have been made aware of AZLZ4's case by his staff, because he never would have ignored it. Proof: once he was made aware of it (that's where I came in), he didn't ignore it. He moved it to the front burner, and one of his best people (I happen to know him slightly as well) is on it and giving us both updates--even gave AZLD4 his cell phone! Mark called me Friday and we spent 20 minutes on the phone discussing the case, which he has thoroughly researched. Obviously, a Senator can't do this for every constituent with a problem, even one this severe. This is as much a favor to me as it is to a constituent in need, and I'm very appreciative of it. As a Texan living in Germany, it's not like there are a lot of favors I could return to him in Arizona. It's just the right thing to do, and Mark is the kind of man who WANTS to do the right thing.

The sobering truth is that all I did is get a ball rolling, and there are no guarantees there will be a happy ending. There are some hoops to jump through, some obstacles to overcome, and a few things will just have to fall into place that might not. As a veteran of bureaucratic wars, I have already warned AZLD4 that when dealing with bureaucrats, the ones most deserving of your anger and scorn are often the ones who can do you the most harm if you show it. "Telling it like it is" isn't always the best way to get somewhere when there is a jerk with a "REJECTED" stamp standing in your way in the middle of the road.

So, this story is far from over. Things are now moving in a positive direction--that is the major change to where things stood five days ago. I almost never use personal connections like this. At this level, they are SO easy to abuse, and all members of Congress (not to mention the White House) have finely tuned antennae set to detect this. This was an exception because this IS an exceptional case, and luckily, Mark saw it my way.

Maybe it will work out. We have to be prepared for the eventuality that, despite all efforts, maybe it won't. Murphy's law hasn't been repealed yet, don't forget. It was certainly no big sacrifice on my part to make some phone calls to people I knew would take them, and send some emails to people I knew would read them. The one thing we all now have that we didn't have before is hope. Before, AZLD4 had no reason to hope for an improvement in his dilemma. Now, he does. Some powerful people in a position to set things in motion are now doing just that.

Until something really happens, though, all I can take credit for at this point is some hope. It's not much, and AZLD4's wife is not one millimeter closer to Arizona than she was a week ago. The difference is that now there is reason to hope that she soon will be. If that lifts some weight from a few shoulders, that is the best I can take credit for until someone is on a plane for Phoenix. It will have to do. It's a start, anyway.

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Thanks so much for explaining the role you had, and all the others who are helping too. CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2021 #1
Fingers crossed in every which direction! DFW Sep 2021 #7
That's a great photo of you and your sister! Love it. Thanks for sharing. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2021 #8
For some reason, only the link showed up, and not the photo DFW Sep 2021 #9
I think you're a special person, DFW. BComplex Sep 2021 #2
DFW, you are among the ones here that I wish I knew in person, & that was before this episode! Hekate Sep 2021 #3
excellent work Skittles Sep 2021 #4
That's for sure DFW Sep 2021 #5
I need a flavor. sprinkleeninow Sep 2021 #6
I know just the flavor DFW Sep 2021 #11
PA people (that I know of for one) would say those sound 'scrummy'! Scrumptious, that is. sprinkleeninow Sep 2021 #13
Well done Betty88 Sep 2021 #10
Thank you and Mark Kelly brer cat Sep 2021 #12
I can't say that I disagree with that DFW Sep 2021 #14
I know of two servicemen that Barry Goldwater intervened for. Ptah Sep 2021 #17
McCain went to bat for my wife in the pursuit of her VA benefits. snort Sep 2021 #41
👍 Joinfortmill Sep 2021 #15
Well done, indeed! sarchasm Sep 2021 #16
Thank you for your generous impulse to help a stranger in need. alwaysinasnit Sep 2021 #18
With a partner from Shanghai, a daughter-in-law from Sofia, and a son who needed to work in Glasgow NBachers Sep 2021 #19
So you're familiar with the runaround as well DFW Sep 2021 #27
🤞🏽 blm Sep 2021 #20
Where there was no hope last week.... SergeStorms Sep 2021 #21
I'll second that! BigmanPigman Sep 2021 #71
I'm pleased that you reached out to help and likewise that you confirmed my impressions of hlthe2b Sep 2021 #22
Mark and Gabby are exactly as you think they are. DFW Sep 2021 #23
Nice... THANKS! hlthe2b Sep 2021 #24
Gabby helped me. ChazInAz Sep 2021 #54
Ron Barber is now working in Mark Kelly's office in DC, and he is one of the ones working on this DFW Sep 2021 #74
You're a good person malaise Sep 2021 #25
You understood the severity of the injustice being done, you knew the right person who... Tom Rinaldo Sep 2021 #26
Thanks, Tom! We're not there yet, but I know all too well the injustice at border airports DFW Sep 2021 #28
Us old fogies call it Good Upbringing. tavernier Sep 2021 #29
Thank you for what you did. Hope is a precious commodity. alphafemale Sep 2021 #30
Very much so! DFW Sep 2021 #31
What do we have if we don't have hope? Yorkie Mom Sep 2021 #32
Vielen Dank, mein Herr. Kid Berwyn Sep 2021 #33
Puede ser que un caballero andante es lo que soy en realidad DFW Sep 2021 #44
Way to go pal. Gabby was my Rep. I've got my fingers crossed for AZLD4. panader0 Sep 2021 #34
DFW, before this story, i knew you ONLY by your username here. NOW (also seeing your picture) bluestarone Sep 2021 #35
I appreciate that, but keep it in proportion. DFW Sep 2021 #36
Even tho most of us know it, it's good to be reminded once in a while that there ARE good people Fla Dem Sep 2021 #37
Appreciate the explanation and reaching out. grantcart Sep 2021 #38
Take a bow DFW LittleGirl Sep 2021 #39
I know there are others who have been there. DFW Sep 2021 #48
Snicker. Well done. Nt LittleGirl Sep 2021 #56
Some times the hard part IS "just getting the ball rolling" Maeve Sep 2021 #40
I will make sure to vote for Kelly in 2022 AZProgressive Sep 2021 #42
He is certainly doing that. DFW Sep 2021 #46
You are being modest LetMyPeopleVote Sep 2021 #43
Humanity in action. Mr. Evil Sep 2021 #45
I don't even know at this early stage if it is a long shot or not DFW Sep 2021 #47
Thank you! Mr. Evil Sep 2021 #49
Ding, ding, ding :-) nt LittleGirl Sep 2021 #57
You were generous and kind and you gave hope back. Solly Mack Sep 2021 #50
This is great. Thank you for helping, and thanks for your post. Nt spooky3 Sep 2021 #51
Don't sell yourself short MustLoveBeagles Sep 2021 #52
Thanks also for the peek into navigating bureacracy yonder Sep 2021 #53
Thank you, all the same, for helping them maneuver uppityperson Sep 2021 #55
Thank you Wild blueberry Sep 2021 #58
I am running for AZ House, but Mark Kelly has a volunteer permenantly because of his office AZLD4Candidate Sep 2021 #59
Hoping along with you for the best outcome! catrose Sep 2021 #60
DFW, you are one of the "good guys"!! 7wo7rees Sep 2021 #61
You are one of the VERY few on DU who have met her DFW Sep 2021 #70
DFW and Mark Kelly are two of our very best ... Thank you! FakeNoose Sep 2021 #62
However modest you see your efforts to be, my dear DFW, te fact is, you made those niyad Sep 2021 #63
I think that the nice thing about Kelly is that he is new, with new staff members question everything Sep 2021 #64
You're one Hell of a good person DFW! Not only do you make DU special ... 11 Bravo Sep 2021 #65
Thank you, DFW! calimary Sep 2021 #66
Sometimes all it takes is for one individual to speak up, crickets Sep 2021 #67
Hoping for the best for our DU friend mountain grammy Sep 2021 #68
You did good. Lasher Sep 2021 #69
Love you, but a topic sentence or three, explaining what on earth you are even Laura PourMeADrink Sep 2021 #72
Sorry about that! DFW Sep 2021 #73
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