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Related: About this forumTwo more women accuse Biden of inappropriate touching
Two additional women came forward Tuesday to say former Vice President Joe Biden touched them in ways that made them uncomfortable.
The women, Caitlyn Caruso and D. J. Hill, each recounted their experiences to The New York Times.
Caruso, 22, told the Times that Biden rested his hand on her thigh even as she attempted to show her discomfort by squirming in her seat during a sexual assault event at the University of Nevada at Las Vegas. Caruso, who was 19 at the time, added that Biden hugged her "just a little bit too long."
She told the newspaper that the interaction was uncomfortable because she had just discussed a time she was sexually assaulted and expected Biden to be aware of physical boundaries.
It doesnt even really cross your mind that such a person would dare perpetuate harm like that, she told the paper. These are supposed to be people you can trust.
Hill, 59, told the Times that while taking a photograph with Biden in 2012, the then-vice president placed his hand on her shoulder and began moving it down her back, something she said made her "very uncomfortable."
https://thehill.com/homenews/campaign/437069-two-more-women-accuse-biden-of-inappropriate-touching
Maybe Joe needs to lighten up a little but I don't see his behavior to be wrong other than some people don't like to be touched. Nothing about this seems disqualifying.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,748 posts)over incidents that happened years ago but this would be a "convenient" time to bring them up?
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highplainsdem
(49,005 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
trueblue2007
(17,228 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
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fleabiscuit
(4,542 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Autumn
(45,109 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
highplainsdem
(49,005 posts)Anyone wanting to get a photo taken with a politician should NOT be surprised by a hand on the shoulder, or back. The purpose of such photos is usually to show solidarity and support, and to document a friendly meeting. I suppose people opposed to personal contact could order that everyone stand so many inches apart. arms held stiffly at their sides, but that would look pathetic, wouldn't it?
I'm particular sorry the rape survivor, Caitlyn Caruso, reacted as she did. Again, this is a situation where she should have told Biden it made her uncomfortable to be touched. Instead, she waits years to publicly criticize him and even accuse him of "perpetuating harm," which is nonsense.
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Gato malo
(57 posts)You didn't mention the new allegation that he put his hand on a girl's thigh.
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highplainsdem
(49,005 posts)activist for years, since before that event. Hardly the sort of person I'd expect NOT to speak up immediately if offended.
This is how she reacted when not given as much time as she wanted at a rally:
https://www.newyorker.com/news/news-desk/fault-lines-at-the-national-womens-march-in-las-vegas
NOT the shy, shrinking type who'd be too intimidated to say anything.
Honestly, I don't know what happened. Possibly Biden's hand touched her thigh for a second. Her claim that he hugged for just a bit too long is so damn subjective.
But my take, based on what else I've read about her, is that if he had done anything truly offensive, she'd have confronted him then.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)So now you get to judge when and why this woman did or didn't speak her truth? That's some bullshit. Keep taking away people's agency. Seems like a solid liberal approach.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
highplainsdem
(49,005 posts)earlier.
If you'd read the OP at all carefully, you'd have seen that Caruso is suggesting all she could do was squirm to try to communicate her discomfort to Biden.
I didn't have to look long to discover she's had no trouble for years making it clear when she's unhappy about something, including when she's unhappy with figures of authority like the organizers of that rally.
And btw, do you really think it's at all likely that Biden could have gotten away with inappropriate behavior at this type of event, surrounded by people who'd be sensitive to such things?
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Vinnie From Indy
(10,820 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
trueblue2007
(17,228 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Vinnie From Indy
(10,820 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
BlueStater
(7,596 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Trumpocalypse
(6,143 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
BlueStater
(7,596 posts)Funny how she didn't think the voters of Minnesota deserved a say in who got to be their senator.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Trumpocalypse
(6,143 posts)including Warren, Harris, Booker and Sanders.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
JudyM
(29,251 posts)If this is true it is beyond a respectable boundary:
Biden rested his hand on her thigh even as she attempted to show her discomfort by squirming in her seat during a sexual assault event after shed described a sexual assault?! The best I can say about that action is that its completely tone-deaf.
Even if you are very familiar with a woman, dont put your hand on her thigh at a time like that, and do notice if shes squirming. I totally relate to this, as can many other women.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)NEVER. How is that something people don't get? And defend, apparently, too.
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Sapient Donkey
(1,568 posts)The hugging too long and hand on back thing seem more debatable, but the resting hand on the thigh goes past what most people consider the norms. However, I would like to hear more details about the 'resting' of the hand. Was it an actual resting as in he left it there, or was a more an instance in which he grabbed her hand to console their hands rested on her thigh for a moment. While her feelings are important and should be listened to, I think we also need to get what his intent was. The possible situation I described above is totally different than if they were sitting side-by-side in a theater or table, and he creepily slid his hand onto her thigh and left it there. The latter is creepy and wrong 100% and he should be taken to task for it. The former is an issue, but it's one that can rectified by him learning from it and trying to be more cognizant his actions when with people he doesn't know well.
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Demsrule86
(68,599 posts)He would not do that.
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Blues Heron
(5,938 posts)I don't doubt this at all.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Demsrule86
(68,599 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
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Demsrule86
(68,599 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Kingofalldems
(38,460 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
peggysue2
(10,833 posts)And the echoes are so very strong in these accusations/complaints. As if we've been here before.
Hummmm. Let me think of another drip, drip, drip scenario.
Sorry but this is shameless. It may have fooled people the first time out. But not now. Not this time.
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Demsrule86
(68,599 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
trueblue2007
(17,228 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,359 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
rzemanfl
(29,565 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)Jokes about sexual harassment aren't funny.
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rzemanfl
(29,565 posts)politicians should not be touching people's thighs-without saying anything about consent: romance/procreation, dance, figure skating, treating injuries, etc.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Kingofalldems
(38,460 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,359 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
ucrdem
(15,512 posts)She said he needs to change his behavior and should apologize to Flores (she thought his apology wasn't sincere enough) but that what he did wasn't disqualifying. She said it in a way that made it seem she wouldn't look kindly on any dissenters. She was at a Politico event. It was on NPR this morning.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cha
(297,323 posts)isn't going the Franken route.
I don't think it should disqualify Biden.. and from my understanding.. Biden doesn't remember his interaction with Flores' like she's saying. It seems a little awkward to apologize for something you didn't experience.
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ucrdem
(15,512 posts)but it was pretty clear she thought he needed to back off. That's a shame. And I don't believe Flores for a minute. She might have been self-conscious about her hair she didn't wash, and that's why she remembers it, but the photos show Joe sniffing the other lady's hair and not Flores's. It seems like a screwy story and there's nothing to back it up.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Autumn
(45,109 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
Cha
(297,323 posts)with their own agendas are trying to bring down Joe Biden.
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LongtimeAZDem
(4,494 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)Maybe we actually revisit that concept.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
LongtimeAZDem
(4,494 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Quixote1818
(28,947 posts)it could come back to haunt him. However, I really think a better way for these women to approach this would be to say, "I wish I had been honest with him at the time and said, please don't touch me like that it makes me feel uncomfortable." Biden is naturally a touchy, feely guy and most people probably don't mind it, so when you have someone who does, they should just come out with it right away. I bet you Biden would have appreciated their being honest with him. However, in the future as Nancy Pelosi recently said, he needs to adopt a new no touch policy unless he really knows someone extremely well.
I don't think this should derale his campaign. We are just entering a new time and men need to learn from all of this. It is also very possible these are hit jobs because like I said above, they should have told him they had an issue right away. He isn't a mind reader.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Demsrule86
(68,599 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
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melman
(7,681 posts)Do you have any proof to back it up?
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Autumn
(45,109 posts)sabotage his campaign. Bernie is behind all this. Get with it dude.
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Demsrule86
(68,599 posts)one ignore this year. Have a nice day.
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Demsrule86
(68,599 posts)And I hope they discover who...is that more clear perhaps?
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MFM008
(19,818 posts)In chief why are we even discussing this?
So joe is to touchy he needs to dial back a bit
Disqualifying against the octo-maggot?
Laughable.
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brooklynite
(94,607 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
LongtimeAZDem
(4,494 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
samnsara
(17,623 posts)..boycott...and gosh darn theres a panel on discussing this.. well saying how this is different than me too..but still...the media IS driving the narrative! Just like they did with butterymales..
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
samnsara
(17,623 posts)...i feel these women coming out are doing so strictly to harm joes campaign..not to achieve some kind of cathartic healing. Im standing behind him even stronger now and i wish he would get some darn bumper stickers out!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden