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redqueen

(115,103 posts)
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 11:16 AM Oct 2013

Sexism Is Alive and Well Among ‘Generation Z’

How awesome is it to see girls speaking up about this?




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My generation often tends to overlook the true meaning of a “slut” or “whore,” with the words popped into sentences as part of everyday vocabulary usage. But they are hateful and demeaning terms to use to describe someone, their sexual behaviors, or the way they dress. So rather than overlook the practice by ignoring it the next time it is used, call the person out on it. Fighting back against our patriarchal society, including minimizing the use of disempowering language, is one step toward achieving equality.

My generation also tends to overlook sexism by promoting degrading popular music that demeans women in every way possible. Perfect example: “Blurred Lines” by Robin Thicke, T.I., and Pharrell, which was one of the most popular songs on the radio this summer. The catchy tune seems to hide the song’s sexist lyrics. The first few lines of the song shout, “Everybody get up!” which makes you want to get to your feet and dance. But nearly a minute into the song, you start to hear the repeated rape-culture infused lyric “I know you want it,” which should make people feel uncomfortable, as it suggests a sexual act that might not involve consent.

Songs like these are not uncommon. Plus, it’s not the first time misogynist artist Robin Thicke has pitched in on a song that objectifies women. For example, take a look at his past contribution to the less-catchy tune “Pregnant” by Thicke, R. Kelly, Tyrese, and The-Dream. The lyrics include, “Girl you make me wanna get you pregnant,” “She’s more than a mistress enough to handle my business, now put that girl in my kitchen,” and “Put them pills on chill and girl give me my baby.” These lyrics are derogatory to women, treating us as objects who are just baby-makers, not human beings.

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Generation Z overlooks slut-shaming, degrading music, and street harassment all too often. These practices should not be tolerated in today’s society, as they are demeaning to women and are an encumbrance to achieving equality. It would be a step in the right direction for our society if we understood that no one should ever slut-shame, if we discouraged degrading music that promotes rape culture, and if we put an end to street harassment. Our generation is the future, and for young men and women to be guaranteed equal opportunities in the world we must start taking a stand to end these demeaning practices.

http://rhrealitycheck.org/article/2013/10/02/sexism-alive-and-well-in-teenage-generation-z/
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Sexism Is Alive and Well Among ‘Generation Z’ (Original Post) redqueen Oct 2013 OP
I agree Stargazer09 Oct 2013 #1
wow, what a kick ass youth generation i am seeing expanding, growing, evolving, understanding. seabeyond Oct 2013 #2
Funny how some words get get so internalized that the harm in them gets missed ismnotwasm Oct 2013 #3

Stargazer09

(2,132 posts)
1. I agree
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 11:19 AM
Oct 2013

I want my daughters to be proud of their sexuality, without being treated poorly by everyone around them.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
2. wow, what a kick ass youth generation i am seeing expanding, growing, evolving, understanding.
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 11:32 AM
Oct 2013

they are simply not putting up with, or happy with what they see with 20 and 30 somethings. now, to be fair, these 20 and 30 somethings were at a start of something no one knew about, how huge it would get, and how raunchly dominating and controlling it would become. they were at the beginning fo this huge, unknown experiment. the teens today get to see the results of a decade ago. and they are not thrilled in so many ways.

ismnotwasm

(41,986 posts)
3. Funny how some words get get so internalized that the harm in them gets missed
Thu Oct 3, 2013, 12:29 PM
Oct 2013

This is an awesome essay--many of our young women aren't buying into sexist bullshit, and that's excellent news

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