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Racist Romeo Willing to Pay for Non-Fat, Non-Slut, Non-Black Girlfriend
But just because he's desperate doesn't mean he doesn't have a long, highly offensive series of very specific demands.
On his website, Sleepless in Austin (mirror), Busby, who naturally goes by his stage name Romeo Rose, lists all the things he needs the girl of his dreams to be or not to be before he can agree to date her (sic throughout).
First off, the girl needs to be "attractive." Duh. But what constitutes attractive?
I like girls that are thin, or with a toned or athletic build. A average build is fine too, just as long as you are not over weight. I will not date a overweight or fat girl.
All right, but now what does "overweight" mean?
I like girls that are 130 pounds or less. Of course weight needs to be in proportion to their height, as long as they arent considred overweight, they should be fine. Being overweight is a total dealbreaker with me.
So no healthy women. What else?
http://gawker.com/racist-romeo-willing-to-pay-for-non-fat-non-slut-non-1385130657
MattBaggins
(7,904 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)I'd say I wish him well--but I can only honestly say I'm glad he's not planning on breeding.
MattBaggins
(7,904 posts)"I'm not Racist"
(write a bunch of clearly racist crap)
"In summation, I'm clearly not racist"
Boggles the mind it does.
ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)That's the part that got me the most, "I'm not a racist" but...
Ick.
Response to ismnotwasm (Reply #5)
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ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)Especially If you're talking about sexual preferences, it's best not to try to go there. There are reasonable discussions to be had regarding interracial dating-- as long as there is full participation with people of color-- but not in this context.
Guys a racist creep.
RevStPatrick
(2,208 posts)And yes, it's a sexy-time thing.
There are reasons to not want a Black girlfriend, without being racist.
But look, you just did it again!
You assumed he's simply a racist!
However, you're right... it's best to not go there.
Mainly because I don't think you're interested in actual discussion about what this (yes, creepy) guy is doing. You just want to be mad and vent...
Cheers!
arcane1
(38,613 posts)"Just pointing out that history seems to show whites as always rising to the top and dominating all other countries and cultures and taking what they want and doing as they please, being the dominant, most powerful, most intelligent race...."
Sounds pretty racist to me
RevStPatrick
(2,208 posts)I was reading this elsewhere earlier today, and his blog shut down.
Probably from all the traffic from Gawker.
Therefore, I did not see that part.
ismnotwasm - I would like to offer you a hearty and sincere apology for what I said to you before.
Not only is he an asshole, he's a racist asshole!
redqueen
(115,103 posts)That not wanting to date black women doesn't necessarily mean he's racist... that there are valid, non-racist reasons for that 'preference'.
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)But if your preferences ("likes" and "dislikes" happen to break down along certain clearly identifiable lines, then I'd say that's cause for soul searching at the least. And a white man who "doesn't care for" black women is an obvious red flag if you ask me (and I'm a white guy).
ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)You know that is really an amazing jump in logic. No, I don't want to be mad and vent.
I want to make fun of and laugh at ridiculous assholes.
Which is exactly what I will do.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)Because it's incredibly obvious, unless you happen to agree with him that blacks are inherently criminals and whites inherently prosperous.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Please do explain.
Response to redqueen (Reply #47)
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redqueen
(115,103 posts)This is a joke, right?
I'm sitting here trying to come up with one reason why that would make sense, and you go there?
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)who is it and what did the moron say.
i walked into a stylest shop yestday morning and this old man turned right around, approached me and let out some stupid ass pick line like.... i know my name, whats yours.
are you fuckin kidding me....
i had just gotten cornered two days earlier in the grocery store by an old man driving one of those carts. hey hollywood, hollywood, what color are your eyes hollywood
are you fuckin kidding me...
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)Is it really necessary to broadcast that crap? And yeah, describing African American women's "naughty bits" as somehow abhorrent is most certainly racist.
Tanuki
(14,918 posts)Pretty tacky and disingenuous.
Sheldon Cooper
(3,724 posts)BainsBane
(53,032 posts)Racists just ain't as honest as they used to be.
yesphan
(1,587 posts)he'll get responses.
ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)I worked with a couple of nephrologists who would fit his 'criteria', tall, good looking women--the kind where the ignorant ask them "why don't you go be a model" (these are well educated polite physicians but one of them told me she always wanted to say "because I want to be a Doctor you fucking idiot" in response)
They wouldn't touch this creep with someone else's genitalia.
I'm thinking he'll get responses, but I also think he'll he'll get what he deserves.
yesphan
(1,587 posts)you are correct.
I would like to have his teeth though; To use as a soap tray or something.
kestrel91316
(51,666 posts)Arcanetrance
(2,670 posts)wondering with the way you look can you really afford to have a shitty personality too. I mean I know I'm not a looker lots of scars and a broken nose that never set right leftover reminders from previous events. So maybe I shouldn't judge others but it always seems that those that set the highest standards for others are usually the furthest from those standards
JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)He really is uber unattractive - don't feel bad about telling the truth.
I seriously was expecting an Adrian Grenier look alike at least . . . DiCaprio-esque maybe? Clooney? Mickey O'Rourke back in the day?
He looks like the giant guy from Big Fish.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)I expected basically what he is, a total loser.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Only without the explicitly phallic facial anatomy
JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)Warpy
(111,261 posts)Last edited Wed Sep 25, 2013, 05:43 PM - Edit history (1)
If he isn't rich, he needs to buy himself a Real Doll. She won't talk back, she's always "ready," she will never produce offspring, and best of all, she will never age a day nor gain an ounce.
The last thing he really wants is a woman.
ETA: Ohmygawd. Do visit the mirror site and look at the photos he likes to post. He favors the camera at knee height to make himself look er, monumental. I suppose that's how he expects his high maintenance paragon of female companion to look at him.
JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)Because I'm know for being such a 'girl' - and I can be allllllllll about how a man looks (sorry - I'm being my authentic self) . . .
He lost me with his HUGE teeth and overly large head.
He's homely.
Thank god I'm married and he would never want me - so I would never have to turn him down. . . Eww. Eww. And I hate when men are 'paunchy' but insist on thinness in women.
Squinch
(50,949 posts)Sadly, they multiply even when they don't breed. Like viruses.
That would be a great premise for a Sci-Fi book, a viral explanation of misogynistic creepers
Squinch
(50,949 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)And that asshole in the comments talking about 'preferences' and how not liking the way black people look ...
I want to slap all of these horrible stupid pieces of shit into little pieces.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)No tattoos, no short hair, no gamblers or women who waste money. No strippers, or if you've ever had a threesome, you're toast. Oh, dear. No "promiscuous sluts" allowed. There go my chances with Prince Charming.
How will I ever recover?
redqueen
(115,103 posts)Blabbering about "high value" women as they like to call them.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)But I will say this, Blacks do make up the majority of the inmates in the prisons in the country.
And I think it's White people that make up the majority of white collar executive types of positions in America. Probably more Whites are 1 percenters than there are blacks.
When I think of all of the classical composers like Mozart etc that were pure genius, I don't recall many of them being Black.
This is the 1st black president we've had so far and look what a horrible job he has done.
What a catch.
JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)Pssst - And if this thread gets alerted on I'm posting the exact same thing in Woman's World. I swear on my father's soul I will.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)Hey, that gives me ideas.
JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)Them there. It's the perfect venue for up-to-date news on men you would rather take a hot iron poker and put it in one ear and pull it out the other than be caught dead with.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)He sounds great.
JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)I love love love The Gio!
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)Calabrese. . Speaks the dialect. They are like the hill billies of Italy (his town is on the side of a mountain) but with North East America progressive sensibilities. And a woman is ashamed of herself in their Southern mainland Sub culture if she raises a Mammoni or a Principesa. Teamwork with your spouse is how they survived for hundreds of years so at the most basic level of "gender roles' - you won't find a Calabrese man ashamed to sweep a floor or make dinner if his wife is out in the fields getting the peppers or lemons in.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)That so many who defend sexism insist are immutable.
JustAnotherGen
(31,823 posts)BTW - we have his, her, and our accounts - but I'm "smart" with investing and money and manage all of our finances. Now most at DU would have said my husband was *rich* in 2011 - but since I took over then - he "feels" rich. La Donna knows. Who,ever is better at the task does it in our relationship. He's better at laundry - thank God!
ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)Of course I just swam though the sewage of "sex doll" images, and I'm afraid that most of them are just too slutty for him. I could start a thread on it.
This is the one from wiki
This shouldn't be legal, but I'm sure it is. It's sold as a "child sex doll"
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)I had my mouth gaped open at those very odd looking breasts, and then I saw that child doll. That is repulsive. OMG. That fits in with the thing I have't finished writing (and may not). That is just horrifying. It should not be legal.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)I have this odd thing where I picture people as their avatars. So for he past year I've pictured you, ismnotwasm, as Steven Hawking. Now I picture find myself picturing you as the woman from Blade Runner (is it?). I know it's weird, but I can't seem to help it.
ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)I'm closer to Pris, although my wild make up and hair days are behind me.
Now I'm trying to look like a grandma, but my grandson says I look like a hippy. I tell him he doesn't know what real hippies look like and if I want to wear a green dress with a paisley pattern that's my business
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)Skittles
(153,160 posts)kestrel91316
(51,666 posts)capitalization of words. So it came as no shock to find that he is a flaming RWer.
Lotsa luck finding the lady of your dreams, Romeo. All the RW Barbie dolls are gold diggers.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)He's paying $1500 over the internet. He's not hiring a match maker. The guy doesn't have the money to attract a gold digger.
arcane1
(38,613 posts)Because nothing says "courtship" quite like a finder's fee!
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)louslobbs
(3,234 posts)Ironically, Edna May had a leading role in the Greer Garson movie, "Pride and Prejudice." I wish I could say I'm shocked at this guys way of being, but sadly, I cannot. What a piece of work.....and what a surprise, doesn't like President (black) Obama........his only redeeming quality is the fact that he will never have children.........what a piece of garbage.
Lou
Shrike47
(6,913 posts)Nothing but a nice, tight looker for our boy, and one with a little money, too.
A-Schwarzenegger
(15,596 posts)Apparently before he got his shiny new teeth...
ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)Really, really horrible-as-in-drag me-to-hell-before-you-make-me-see-that and Oh My God My Eyes! Salvador Dali impression
foo_bar
(4,193 posts)I do not believe a woman should have the choice or freedom to kill her baby just because she was a slutty whore and dosent want to accept responsibility and raise the baby herself or give it to someone else who will.
http://108.171.182.16/sleeplessinaustin/about_me.html
Texas Republican, check.
I am old fashioned. I am conservative. I believe men should be men, and women should be women. God made Adam & Eve, not Adam & Steve.
Men should be men, and... where did you say Eve came from? Dudely parthenogenesis?
Now with that said, go ahead and ask me how I feel about Gay marriage
And I will tell you that I am ok with that, because you know what, Im just one person, I cant stop it from happening, so if its going to happen, its going to happen, and I am a Wedding Photographer, so just think if they allow Gays to legally marry, the income I make from Wedding Photography basically would double overnight wouldnt it! hahaha!!!!
At least he's a fair weather fascist. Although his income wouldn't double after this stunt without some kind of Roy Cohn zombie scenario.
Mild understatement.
This is either a prank or the world's most average republican.
I am NOT racist. I just do NOT like ignorant, useless, TRASH.
A full time job like... part time wedding photographer?
At least he's not racist.
Then why didn't God create Adam and Eva?
I also do not like White country types or Redneck types or Trailer trash types.
OK, everybody out of the dating pool. Even his right hand can't live up to these exacting standards.
Hunh... apparently he sued his tattoo artist (and lost; see page 5), yet:
Self-loathing "Worst Person in the World", or is this a freak Zeitgeisty publicity stunt like Mahir 2.0?
http://108.171.182.16/sleeplessinaustin/faq.html
Easy money like selling my own kidneys on ebay?
(Hates "Black people that dont speak proper English", check. Thinks the contraction of "does not" is "dosen't", double check.)
Forget about the whole madonna-whore-virgin-goddess nightmare... can you imagine being this guy's waitress?
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)The three Judge Judy appearances is a tip off.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)ismnotwasm
(41,980 posts)Kind of, which I'm assuming was the real goal...
Amaril
(1,267 posts).....a fat, blond, tattooed, sarcastic, promiscuous slut who is friends with her ex-husband, doesn't like being spooned while trying to sleep and had her body "wrecked" by having children.
Maybe I should take up gambling, you know, just to be sure I NEVER attract the likes of "Romeo".
Yeah well I fail the purity test too.