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ismnotwasm

(41,980 posts)
Wed Sep 25, 2013, 06:20 AM Sep 2013

Sex-isms

Spend time on Twitter or Reddit, or anywhere on the internet for that matter, and you’ll learn lots of new words, or new meanings for older ones. Often, the new words will appear in the printed equivalent of a spittle-infused diatribe, by a party using the words to make a point, or to wound. And the new words will often appear with other words that should not be uttered in polite company, which is why this post will not include a lot of links.

In recent weeks, one of those words seems to have exploded in usage: “misandry.” From the Greek “andro,” meaning “man,” “misandry” is the hatred of men and boys.

“Misandry” is being used, mostly by men, to complain about perceived advantages* given to women, much the way “affirmative action” has been criticized for giving preference to previously underrepresented minority groups. “Misandry” is, of course, the counterpart to “misogyny,” the hatred of women.

Online, “misandry” seems to come into play most often as reaction rather than action. For example, a Forbes column discussed outrage over some rather coarse performances at a recent tech show, saying that, far from the sophomoric pranks’ being misogynist, as some were claiming, they were actually misandrist.

Of the two terms, “misogyny” is the older one. The Oxford English Dictionary traces its first appearance in print to 1656, though that citation was from a dictionary, implying the word had been around enough by then to make it into a dictionary. “Misandry,” by contrast, is traced by the OED to an 1882 magazine article: “No man whom she cared for had ever proposed to marry her. She could not account for it, and it was a growing source of bitterness, of misogyny as well as misandry.” (Italics added.) Some sources trace it to 1871.


http://www.cjr.org/language_corner/language_corner_092313.php
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Sex-isms (Original Post) ismnotwasm Sep 2013 OP
interesting seabeyond Sep 2013 #1
LOL they're so cautious. redqueen Sep 2013 #2
Yeah this a non-political site and I found that funny too ismnotwasm Sep 2013 #3
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
1. interesting
Wed Sep 25, 2013, 08:05 AM
Sep 2013
While an imperfect metric, a Nexis search shows very few uses of forms of “misandry” before 2010. Between March and September 2012, about two dozen references show up; in the following six months, more than 50; and in the most recent six months, nearly 80. While many of those citations are for blog posts, “misandry” is making its way into the mainstream.


i think before men even dared to suggest that they were being picked on by women that whites tended to do the same with blacks. so that makes since. i was truly surprised the first couple times running a white privilege thread, the number of whites outraged.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
2. LOL they're so cautious.
Wed Sep 25, 2013, 08:10 AM
Sep 2013
*While a robust men’s rights movement exists, by nearly every measurement of rights — sexual, financial, or social — women still lag behind men, so claims that women get more advantages than men seem somewhat specious.


They're specious as all hell actually.

But yeah, notice the explosion in the use of that idiotic word correlates with the increase in calling out rape culture. Backlash, folks.

"Power concedes nothing without a demand. It never did and it never will."

ismnotwasm

(41,980 posts)
3. Yeah this a non-political site and I found that funny too
Wed Sep 25, 2013, 02:17 PM
Sep 2013

Trying not to get fingers soiled, but troubled with misuse of he word "misandry"

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