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Related: About this forumWhy should we have to prove we said no?
Why should we have to jump through hoops to control our own reproductive systems?
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Why should we have to prove we said no? (Original Post)
redqueen
Mar 2013
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sufrommich
(22,871 posts)1. We shouldnt have to.
You've got some great comments in the Steubanville thread.
MadrasT
(7,237 posts)2. Because women exist in a perpetual state of "yes", of course.
It is mind bending.
"Yes" is assumed to be the default as long as we live and breathe and walk the earth among men.
Therefore, "no" has to be proven.
What kind of twisted horseshit is that "logic"?
BainsBane
(53,072 posts)5. that was incredible
I had no idea about that legal ruling. Outrageous.
ismnotwasm
(42,014 posts)3. I'd link to Twisty's
'Women are in a state of pre-rape solution' but that's the only comment I've ever had hidden my entire time at DU. Makes me think she's spot on.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)6. Yes. She is spot fucking on.
It has to change.
We have to hammer this point home, again and again.
mercuryblues
(14,539 posts)4. IDK
All I have been told is that if we ask men nicer, they will stop victim blaming.
MotherPetrie
(3,145 posts)7. K&R