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redqueen

(115,103 posts)
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:19 PM Nov 2012

Playboy Quiz



1. Which Playboy cartoonist created the cartoon above? Answer: Bill Hoest

2. In which year did Playboy publish an article entitled ‘Presumed Guilty’ by Harry Stein claiming that child abuse is a fantasy? Answer: 1992

3. How many TV porn channels does Playboy run in the UK? Answer: 6 – Each offering over 50 films. Titles include: ‘Barely 18 Anal Virgins’; ‘Wait Your Turn Bitch!’; ‘Fresh and Juicy Lolitas’; ‘Cum Drinking Sluts’; ‘Ripped, Stripped and Shagged’; ‘Cock Hungry Fuck Sluts’; ‘Double Entry’; ‘Piss Loving Lesbian Sluts’ and ‘Submissive Sluts’

4. Which high street retailer promoted Playboy duvet covers in the kids bedding section? Answer: Argos

5. In which country did Playboy magazine contain a detailed article entitled, “How to Beat Your Wife…Without Leaving Prints” in April 2000? Answer: Romania

6. In 2003, what did Hugh Hefner say in response to a question about the ethics of marketing Playboy brands to children? Answer: ‘I don’t care if a baby holds up a Playboy rattle’

7. According to ex-Playmate Jill Ann Spaulding, what curfew did Hugh Hefner impose on his numerous girlfriends? Answer: 9.30pm
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Playboy Quiz (Original Post) redqueen Nov 2012 OP
So what? GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #1
if you are clueless of any point to this, say, child porn, beating a woman, then you do not belong seabeyond Nov 2012 #3
It's a fucking quiz ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #4
I know the late Bill Hoest's wife, Bunny Atman Nov 2012 #2
what does that have to do with promoting rape? nt seabeyond Nov 2012 #5
I don't see the cartoon as promoting rape. Atman Nov 2012 #9
it isnt about a 3 way. it is about not needing a womans consent. and yes, it promotes rape seabeyond Nov 2012 #11
BTW, I will sure not to watch old porn in the UK, or beat my wife in Romania. Atman Nov 2012 #14
ah... so beating the wife is just a joke. wow. i feel so much fuckin better. thanks. nt seabeyond Nov 2012 #16
How do you know that is what the article is actually about? Atman Nov 2012 #18
does it fuckin matter if they are making a joke about beating a wife or if they are explaining seabeyond Nov 2012 #19
Actually, it matters A LOT! Atman Nov 2012 #74
that you would still be arguing this says a hell of it lot. nt seabeyond Nov 2012 #75
Playboy was forced to apologize for their "style". JTFrog Nov 2012 #79
i just let it go with a whatevah. you, on the other hand, present facts. good for you. seabeyond Nov 2012 #80
It isn't a three-way if three people aren't consenting gollygee Nov 2012 #23
"How do you not see that?" redqueen Nov 2012 #26
What does it say about our culture MadrasT Nov 2012 #60
That says it all, to me. IMO, porn reinforces and contributes to rape culture. redqueen Nov 2012 #63
It's amazing, isn't it? redqueen Nov 2012 #10
yes, act dumb, be accusatory, and pretend inoocence. and .... promote rape. nt seabeyond Nov 2012 #12
"two out of three" MadrasT Nov 2012 #6
Have you seen the November cover? ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #7
Nice GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #8
Somebody didn't want you to post this. AnotherMcIntosh Nov 2012 #13
wow. we might not be able to pretend that their is nothing misogynist about PB? seabeyond Nov 2012 #15
Depends on your point of view GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #20
male bonding with the use of degrading women, to dismiss the concerns of rape that society seabeyond Nov 2012 #21
No, the effects are not that big, cause... GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #22
right, because fox news is so much bigger than centuries of patriarchy. for real? seabeyond Nov 2012 #25
Aha! ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #32
ya, i didnt even address the GF nastier than me, so doesnt that make me all special.... lol. hey, seabeyond Nov 2012 #33
iPad ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #35
"Didn't we liberals just wax poetic about republican comments about rape?" redqueen Nov 2012 #46
New Duer, GermanSmoker, has been blocked from the group. boston bean Nov 2012 #62
Thank you. JTFrog Nov 2012 #64
Good ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #78
I don't like the fact that men are not allowed to post about feminist issues. Atman Nov 2012 #17
Did you post this in the wrong location? AnotherMcIntosh Nov 2012 #24
Most excellent response! Atman Nov 2012 #59
Why aren't you? ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #34
Thank you. Atman Nov 2012 #65
I just posted a lengthy response and lost it ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #77
I wish people who trashed a group couldn't see it at all redqueen Nov 2012 #27
I don't know whether "one of our haters / stalkers who alerted." But it may be one of yours. AnotherMcIntosh Nov 2012 #28
Now we're in the realm of ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #36
Why on earth would anyone alert on this? gollygee Nov 2012 #51
Very dissapointing the responses RegieRocker Nov 2012 #29
Yes. Hence my not bothering with this place so much anymore. nt redqueen Nov 2012 #30
me either. beat wife, rape, child porn..... meh, women, buck the fuck up. not even the decency to seabeyond Nov 2012 #31
We just got this big beautiful sleigh bed ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #38
ha ha. good for you. how fun is that. nt seabeyond Nov 2012 #42
FYI TPaine7 Nov 2012 #40
some one is playing games with this thread. i wonder.... what is so threatening to them. seabeyond Nov 2012 #44
There are different kind of feminists GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #37
Lovely ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #39
Link GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #41
Oh, I know about the book ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #43
Facts GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #45
The legal ones. redqueen Nov 2012 #47
Personal freedom GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #48
They've got a whole reeducation ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #50
Mmm... I'm making vindaloo... redqueen Nov 2012 #54
Yum ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #56
'Easy' parking spots for women introduced by German mayor seabeyond Nov 2012 #49
Fine with me GermanSmoker Nov 2012 #53
your post pretty much says it all. not that most of your other posts did not make it clear that seabeyond Nov 2012 #55
It's our parking culture. Atman Nov 2012 #66
you are just bored, arentcha. seabeyond Nov 2012 #67
Nope. Just making a point. Atman Nov 2012 #71
some found it funny. and one in particular found it accurate. i think that is the point. and not seabeyond Nov 2012 #73
Seriously? MadrasT Nov 2012 #69
they be so progressive over yonder, across the pond, lol. nt seabeyond Nov 2012 #70
I don't care what kind of feminist you are gollygee Nov 2012 #52
Hi Golly, Thank you for taking my thoughts into consideration boston bean Nov 2012 #57
I think it's too bad that trolling this forum doesn't lead to getting TS'd gollygee Nov 2012 #58
I agree with you 100% and with your meta thread. boston bean Nov 2012 #61
Have it removed from LATEST. Atman Nov 2012 #68
Except no one here has asserted that men are awful. MadrasT Nov 2012 #72
If you criticize porn or rape culture that means you hate men. redqueen Nov 2012 #81
This poster has been blocked from the group for attacking the group in the post I am responding to. boston bean Nov 2012 #76
Why do people come here and act so weird? ismnotwasm Nov 2012 #82
I'm glad you stuck around! boston bean Nov 2012 #83
+1 MadrasT Nov 2012 #85
Not just any kind of man-haters. MadrasT Nov 2012 #84
oh madrast, seabeyond Nov 2012 #86
Erotic Zoos Prompt Germany To Reinstate Bestiality Laws seabeyond Nov 2012 #87
Didn't know they had Gay Cartoons in there One_Life_To_Give Nov 2012 #88
That cartoon is depicting incipient rape. redqueen Nov 2012 #89
I know what the author intended One_Life_To_Give Nov 2012 #90
Ok, I see what you were going for I guess. redqueen Nov 2012 #91
i got what you were saying. seabeyond Nov 2012 #92
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
3. if you are clueless of any point to this, say, child porn, beating a woman, then you do not belong
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:25 PM
Nov 2012

in this forum.

that simple.

follow the rules of the group, or stay out.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
2. I know the late Bill Hoest's wife, Bunny
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:24 PM
Nov 2012

In addition to this stuff, they/she do the "Howard Huge" and another comic which appear(ed) in Parade Magazine. Bunny Hoest is a wonderful woman. Her husband's old studio is still exactly as it was from decades ago. Don't just a book, blah blah blah...Bill Hoest knew that to be successful you had to DIVERSIFY! I think he was a brilliant cartoonist, and standing at his drawing board was almost like a pilgrimage, like one of you football fans getting to hold Vince Lombardi's balls. Or something like that.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
9. I don't see the cartoon as promoting rape.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:52 PM
Nov 2012

It is a CARTOON. It is promoting NOTHING. You don't know what is going on in the woman's mind. It isn't a script, it's a cartoon, and people will interpret it different ways. I know your posts well, and you tend to see rape in a lot of things that have nothing to do with the subject.

My point is, I know the Hoest's, and the majority of Bill's work was always very family-friendly. He wasn't an evil rapist, he was a cartoonist trying to make a living by working for different markets.

If you want to explore the issue more deeply, look at it this way; unlike today, when college kids have group gropes in their dorms and post them online, a three-way was still pretty exotic back when this ancient cartoon came out. Do you believe Ad Med still represents the current culture? And why do you single out the tamest of all "men's" magazine for your rape diatribe? How about the hotel chains and the cable companies? Instead, you pick on a dead cartoonist, and a barely-surviving soft-core girly mag. No matter how many times you post it here on DU, I would guess pornography isn't going to go away.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
11. it isnt about a 3 way. it is about not needing a womans consent. and yes, it promotes rape
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:55 PM
Nov 2012

it may be a cartoon, but tell all those many cartoons put on du, on a regularly basis, that they are mere cartoons not promoting anything.

that is bogus.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
14. BTW, I will sure not to watch old porn in the UK, or beat my wife in Romania.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:56 PM
Nov 2012

Did you actually READ any of the Romanian articles? I haven't either. My guess is, being familiar with Playboy, there was satire involved. Don't just an article by it's cover. Thusly, don't just porn by the title. If I see one more "Teen" porn film starring a 30 year old woman, I'm just gonna...fast forward to the good parts.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
19. does it fuckin matter if they are making a joke about beating a wife or if they are explaining
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:06 PM
Nov 2012

how to beat a wife?

really? does that matter.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
74. Actually, it matters A LOT!
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 08:50 PM
Nov 2012

What if the article reaches the totally opposite conclusion? What if it wound up saying "You can't beat your wife, you stupid douchebag!"? That is not at implausible given Playboy's style. But we don't know! You only posted a headline from Romania from nearly 13 years ago!

 

JTFrog

(14,274 posts)
79. Playboy was forced to apologize for their "style".
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 09:00 PM
Nov 2012
Many remember the Playboy scandal in 2000 as a pivotal point in the attention
given to domestic violence as a social issue in Romania. In the April issue of the
magazine, domestic violence was portrayed as being acceptable and the norm in
Romania. Subsequently, large public demonstrations organized by women’s groups
and supported by Cosmopolitan magazine to combat the Playboy messages took
place in Revolution Square in Bucharest. Under pressure from the NGO and
Cosmopolitan-organized protests, Playboy publicly apologized and donated U.S.
$10,000 to two recognized NGOs working to assist the victims of violence.
http://pdf.usaid.gov/pdf_docs/PNADM195.pdf




 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
80. i just let it go with a whatevah. you, on the other hand, present facts. good for you.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 09:03 PM
Nov 2012

no so good for me, but then, i doubt that you going to the work and effort will matter at all to the poster.

i appreciate it.

not that i needed verification. i think it is pretty obvious to most of us.

but, it is also excellent to know, someone raised a stink, and PB actually had to fork over all of 10k....

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
23. It isn't a three-way if three people aren't consenting
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:23 PM
Nov 2012

It says that only the men are consenting, therefore it is about rape. How do you not see that?

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
60. What does it say about our culture
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:49 PM
Nov 2012

when "the tamest" of men's mags runs cartoons that portray the suggestion of rape as something humorous?

Rape. Is. Not. Funny.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
63. That says it all, to me. IMO, porn reinforces and contributes to rape culture.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:56 PM
Nov 2012

It's as simple as that.

The fact that people point to this publication to defend claims that its all harmless fun, well that just speaks volumes, right there.

And before anyone starts off about how yeah but somewhere, off on the far corners of the internet, there's for-real, somehow egalitarian, non-woman-hating porn...

I'm pretty tired of any feminist critique of porn, in order for it to be seen as valid, the author is expected to like pornography and heartily endorse it in a disclaimer. The happy, fun, consent-filled, queer and woman-friendly stuff we see on the internet is a rarity compared to the hateful (not a strong enough word) disgusting and degrading reality that is the whole picture. Say you have a pizza, and 14 out of 16 slices are covered in broken glass and dog shit, but two slices are cheesy and perfectly delicious. If I'm reviewing it, should I have to make some statement about how great those pieces fit for human consumption were? Should I support Pope Benedicto's Dog Shit N Broken Glass Pizza Parlour because they manage to make two edible slices of pizza per pie? It not only distorts the reality of the situation, but also seriously diminishes the pain and suffering of the vast majority of human beings who've actually been through it (eaten pizza/been involved in the pornography industry.)

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
6. "two out of three"
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:31 PM
Nov 2012

Ha ha. Fucking hilarious. I'm dying laughing over here.


Rape is not funny.

Ever.

The end.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
7. Have you seen the November cover?
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:39 PM
Nov 2012

I linked to someone's blog instead of an article. Since most often the articles pissed me off. Now THIS is sexism at its finest. I'm impressed. It's a beautiful photograph using a women's lips/mouth that actually resembles inner labia.

I like the hint of teeth. Brings to mind the old legends of vagina dentata.

All kinds of misogynistic innuendo designed as art



http://khayadlanga.com/2012/11/07/the-november-cover-of-playboy-south-africa-is-ja-see-for-yourself/


And the answer to number 7? I don't know who that curfew was more appropriate for, his young ladies or his old ass.

 

AnotherMcIntosh

(11,064 posts)
13. Somebody didn't want you to post this.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 04:55 PM
Nov 2012
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GermanSmoker

(91 posts)
20. Depends on your point of view
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:12 PM
Nov 2012

And you would be suprised that a lot of women like that kind of humor. At least judging from previous girlfriends of mine who where even nastier then i am. Of course rape is no jokin matter, but cartoons like these are not responsible for any rape just like some cartoons about Mohammed were not responsible for riots in the middle east. The reason for both are lying way deeper in society. Like threating women like second class citizens when it comes to equal pay, reproductive rights and so on. I doubt that any one saw this cartoon and said to himself: "Ok, now i can rape someone because the cartoon joked about it".

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
21. male bonding with the use of degrading women, to dismiss the concerns of rape that society
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:15 PM
Nov 2012

has.

if you are really so obtuse to not see any kind of conditioning iwth this behavior, then i am sure you will argue that fox news has absolutely no effects on the rw'ers. right?

 

GermanSmoker

(91 posts)
22. No, the effects are not that big, cause...
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:23 PM
Nov 2012

Fox News has the already dumped down as an audience. When you have hit rock bottom it doesn't matter who feeds you their propaganda.

And explain to me how gay bondage fits into this? I know gays that like to be bound and spanked.

And when it comes to men and women. There are a lot of couples who like stuff like this. No one is forced to do anything, it happens
out of their free will. Live and let live, a classic liberal position.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
25. right, because fox news is so much bigger than centuries of patriarchy. for real?
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:29 PM
Nov 2012

of course you cannot back off the fact that fox conditions their watchers. but, you certainly can that the constant misogyny against women, reinforcing the conditioning of women being inferior nowhere near compares to fox news.

gay bondage has fuck all to do with the issue. it has fuck all to do with male hetero dominance. it is the stupid ass argument always brought in by pro porn as if you really have a gotcha moment.

no one is forced? you really do not know wtf you are talking about.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
32. Aha!
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:09 PM
Nov 2012

The old "girlfriends of mine who were even nastier( corrected the sp. there old boy, me I'm a terrible speller) than I am" ploy. Gotta love those references to mythological girlfriends. Endless source of amusement.

Does sex have to be "nasty?" I prefer it skillful myself.

No cartoons are not responsible for rape, not even cartoons in playboy. The particular problem here is joking about rape and consent.
Didn't we liberals just wax poetic about republican comments about rape? Like for months? It was all about the "war on women" Comments about how some women are more rapable" so now Obama gets relected and all of a sudden (here's a straw man for you) we're supporting a Republican rape agenda? It's all " lighten up" again?

I don't think so. I really don't. I think you're missing the point of the post and the purpose of the forum.


 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
33. ya, i didnt even address the GF nastier than me, so doesnt that make me all special.... lol. hey,
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:12 PM
Nov 2012

you are using a corrector, like a phone, arent you?

lol

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
46. "Didn't we liberals just wax poetic about republican comments about rape?"
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:49 PM
Nov 2012

Yep. But somehow, if its porn, its magically different.

It's ok to like watching women being humiliated, abused, beaten and raped, as long as its 'just porn'.

That makes all kinds of sense!

Atman

(31,464 posts)
17. I don't like the fact that men are not allowed to post about feminist issues.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:01 PM
Nov 2012

BTW, I did NOT alert on this. I don't alert on anybody. I'm just saying, if you want to discuss feminism, doesn't the subject, by its very nature, involve men? I'm simply offering a man's perspective, and I know you'll think it sounds cliché, but I am very much 100% a feminist. I've done work for NOW and NARAL, and I have a wife and a granddaughter, and I do resent being labeled just as much as you do. But I'm open-minded enough to understand that not EVERYTHING one dislikes has an evil undertone. Nothing in your post is "PROMOTING" anything -- certainly not in the context in which you've displayed it. I can walk through a book store and post a thousand titles which seem to "PROMOTE" something, but are actually just suggestive titles.

 

AnotherMcIntosh

(11,064 posts)
24. Did you post this in the wrong location?
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:25 PM
Nov 2012

(1) I did not post the OP. There is no reason for you to say, "Nothing in your post is 'PROMOTING' anything -- certainly not in the context in which you've displayed it." The OP is not my post.

(2) You also say, "if you want to discuss feminism ..." I don't. I may with my wife who is a feminist, but there is no way that I want to "discuss feminism" on a web site. Excuse me for observing it and giving my opinion, but imho there are just too many irrational, hateful, and I-want-to-tell-you-that-I-was-a-victim types to engage in any type of meaningful discussion. It is clear, at least to me, that any attempted participation by a male in a feminist-discussion group is not only un-welcomed but it is like going to a vegetarian-discussion group and saying that you are a meat eater.

(3) You say, "I don't like the fact that men are not allowed to post about feminist issues." You are allowed. But if you do so, no matter what you say, you can expect some negative consequences.

Quite frankly, there are times when I don't know why any of the women put up with us. I'm glad that some are attracted to us. But to me, that is still somewhat of a mystery.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
34. Why aren't you?
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:16 PM
Nov 2012

I've found your posts to be reasonable, if we disagree it doesn't have to be a pissing match. I like to talk to men about feminism. I do have to express puzzlement over so much participation over a playboy thread.

I dislike exploitation of women's bodies, patriarchy, rape culture, things of that nature. I feel playboy is a part of those things.

Feel free to disagree. My feelings don't get hurt. Perhaps well find some common ground

Atman

(31,464 posts)
65. Thank you.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 08:04 PM
Nov 2012

I guess that's all I'm saying. Be reasonable. There are nude women carved into friezes on ancient ruins...and nude men, too.

I will be the first to stand up against a "rape culture." But I don't see a rape CULTURE. It is absurd to say we have a rape CULTURE. Rape is considered violent crime in our culture.

Some bad people rape. Some bad people rob banks. And I can show you many magazine cartoons and movies about bank robbery, but that does not mean we have a "bank robber culture."

Now, I'm sure a first reaction to the above paragraph, for some, will be "HOW DARE YOU EQUATE RAPE TO ROBBERY!!!" But I'm not equating the two -- I'm saying that just because BOTH are crimes and yet both are written about and filmed about, it doesn't mean everything written about or filmed about constitutes our "culture."

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
77. I just posted a lengthy response and lost it
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 08:57 PM
Nov 2012

Damn iPad. Another time then. Let me, instead direct you to this site if you haven't already seen it. Rather than go into long explanations of rape culture, it's a site that promotes healthy masculinity especially in our youth.

Most men find rape disgusting and abhorrent, and the concept of rape culture just gets included in that territory.

http://www.mencanstoprape.org/

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
27. I wish people who trashed a group couldn't see it at all
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:36 PM
Nov 2012

I think the chances are good that its one of our haters / stalkers who alerted.

 

AnotherMcIntosh

(11,064 posts)
28. I don't know whether "one of our haters / stalkers who alerted." But it may be one of yours.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 05:51 PM
Nov 2012

I've got my own foolish haters / stalkers.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
36. Now we're in the realm of
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:23 PM
Nov 2012

"That's just sad and sorry. Freckin' stalkers

Think i'll post something about women in physics and see how much male attention it gets

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
51. Why on earth would anyone alert on this?
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:06 PM
Nov 2012

There is nothing even vaguely off topic or offensive in here. I can't believe three people alerted, but I'm not surprised none of the three even tried to rationalize it.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
31. me either. beat wife, rape, child porn..... meh, women, buck the fuck up. not even the decency to
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:05 PM
Nov 2012

say

i loves my porn, but ya, that isnt such a good idea.

i feel about the same as you.

i am sure i have some laundry to fold,

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
38. We just got this big beautiful sleigh bed
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:27 PM
Nov 2012

Our bedroom is a bit to small for it. I think I'll rearrange the furniture, been procrastinating

 

TPaine7

(4,286 posts)
40. FYI
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:34 PM
Nov 2012
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Telling women to do what????

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Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: The words--"beat wife, rape, child porn..... meh, women, buck the fuck up"--indicate the position being mocked, not the author's opinion.

As the post goes on to say, the people being criticized have "not even the decency to say i loves my porn, but ya, that"--child porn, {depictions of} rape and wife beating--"isnt such a good idea."

You've misread the post.
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I was the long-winded juror (#1).
 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
44. some one is playing games with this thread. i wonder.... what is so threatening to them.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:40 PM
Nov 2012

hey.... i love your reply. to the obvious. thanks.

and thanks for sharing, lol

i wonder how many more of these we will get on this thread.

thanks....

 

GermanSmoker

(91 posts)
37. There are different kind of feminists
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:27 PM
Nov 2012

Here in Germany we have a new generation of feminists who embrace pornography and prostitution. One of there leading figures is Charlotte Roche and her book Wetlands. One of the biggest bestseller of the year 2008 here in Germany. Fictious story about a teenage girl that discovers her body and erverything that has to do with body fluids like keeping her boyfriends sperm under her fingernails so can eat it even days later. Do I really have to mention that the book wasn't that succesfull in the USA. Here in Germany the book
was the topic number one and mostly celebrated in left leaning magazines and newspapers. But we have a different mentality when it comes sexuality. People are not forced to resign when they have affairs, no rules against dating on the job are allowed and so on.

The oldschool feminists of course didn't liked that but time has passed them by.

"Women are totally masochistic, you cannot change that" - Charlotte Roche

[http://www.amazon.com/Wetlands-Charlotte-Roche/dp/B004KAB6RC/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1353363094&sr=8-2&keywords=wetlands|Amazon]

 

GermanSmoker

(91 posts)
41. Link
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:36 PM
Nov 2012

Here is the link(In German) that confirms that it was the biggest bestseller in 2008.

Focus

And there are enough interviews of her online where she said stuff like this.

 

GermanSmoker

(91 posts)
45. Facts
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:44 PM
Nov 2012

Germany's sex workers have more rights by law than in most other countries. In every big city here are red light districts with brothels. I once read a statistic that said 50% of germen men at least once in their life visit a prostitute. So they don't have to worry about demand or shrinking profits.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
47. The legal ones.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:55 PM
Nov 2012

The underground / trafficked ones... well... who gives a shit about them, right?

Collateral damage. As long as the privileged few happy hookers and the johns are satisfied, that's what really matters, right?

 

GermanSmoker

(91 posts)
48. Personal freedom
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:58 PM
Nov 2012

There is no difference between an american football player and a hooker. Both sell their bodies. Of course it has to happen out of free will and he or she needs to be an adult. To enforce this is the job of the police.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
50. They've got a whole reeducation
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:02 PM
Nov 2012

Program for prostitutes. All kinds of problems. Plus the community STILL looks down on the red light district.

I'm not wasting time on this guy.


I'm going to go order pizza for dinner.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
49. 'Easy' parking spots for women introduced by German mayor
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 06:59 PM
Nov 2012
Spaces in a new car park in Triberg now come with male and female symbols. The spaces for women are wider and well lit, while those for men are close to concrete pillars and can only be reversed into.

Explaining the policy, Mayor Strobel said it was a natural decision because men are better at parking than women.

So far the mayor says he has received mostly positive feedback despite expecting some humor less reactions from the political correct and . One man said he would travel to the

http://thruzt.com/world-news/easy-parking-spots-for-women-introduced-by-german-mayor-1/


damn good thing ya'll are so progressive in your country. you can show us how it is done.
 

GermanSmoker

(91 posts)
53. Fine with me
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:07 PM
Nov 2012

That's good. It's safer that way and they are not on the streets. Cause that would be the alternative.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
55. your post pretty much says it all. not that most of your other posts did not make it clear that
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:11 PM
Nov 2012

you hold women in an inferior position to you, as you lecture women on how they are suppose to think.

how old are you? really? or is this attitude really indicative of your nations attitude to women?

i tend to find, those that lecture the u.s. on prudery and other garbage are really a country of well established patriarchy that is immersed in misogyny. you give us a good example.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
73. some found it funny. and one in particular found it accurate. i think that is the point. and not
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 08:27 PM
Nov 2012

dull, at all.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
52. I don't care what kind of feminist you are
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:07 PM
Nov 2012

I hope none think jokes about a woman being raped by two men because her consent is ruled out by theirs is funny or OK.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
57. Hi Golly, Thank you for taking my thoughts into consideration
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:25 PM
Nov 2012

It's a tough call, on whether to bring this stuff out there.

But I think I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't help.

Thank you for speaking up and posting here!!!!!!!

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
58. I think it's too bad that trolling this forum doesn't lead to getting TS'd
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:28 PM
Nov 2012

But if you've had that experience, then sure I don't mind deleting it.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
61. I agree with you 100% and with your meta thread.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 07:50 PM
Nov 2012

I'm just trying to keep the peace here, and Meta is a lost cause.

Believe me I go back and forth myself because it is so outrageous. But at this point there is no point that hasn't been made a million times, that people refuse to see for whatever personal reasons they may have.

It's sad really.

Atman

(31,464 posts)
68. Have it removed from LATEST.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 08:13 PM
Nov 2012

I only responded to this because of the provocative sub line which appeared on the Latest page. Ask Skinner or Elad to have it removed...then the half dozen of you can have your own she-woman man-haters club, and you won't have to worry about anyone questioning your assertions about how awful men are.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
72. Except no one here has asserted that men are awful.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 08:25 PM
Nov 2012

In this thread or in any other that I recall.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
81. If you criticize porn or rape culture that means you hate men.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 09:13 PM
Nov 2012

See how it works?

There is no such thing as rape culture! Jokes about rape are HILARIOUS!
added, just in case its necessary.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
76. This poster has been blocked from the group for attacking the group in the post I am responding to.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 08:56 PM
Nov 2012
Atman

68. Have it removed from LATEST.

I only responded to this because of the provocative sub line which appeared on the Latest page. Ask Skinner or Elad to have it removed...then the half dozen of you can have your own she-woman man-haters club, and you won't have to worry about anyone questioning your assertions about how awful men are.


It is disruptive to the group.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)
82. Why do people come here and act so weird?
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 09:23 PM
Nov 2012

I'd say it was What we call attention seeking behavior except It's not like anybody's going to be thinking about them when we go off line. Of course attention seekers are usually a bit narcissistic, so maybe they don't realize that.

And All that for Playboy?

I want to thank you. When I started posted at DU again, my favorite place, the feminist group , was almost unrecognizable, although it seems better now. I was just about to hightail DU for good when I finally came over here. I waited a bit, gave a small donation and got my star back. Because this group remains sensible and safe as we can make it.

(Man-haters? OMG really?)

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
84. Not just any kind of man-haters.
Mon Nov 19, 2012, 09:38 PM
Nov 2012

"She-woman man-haters."

(Being as I am essentially nongendered, I found that to be particularly amusing.)

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
87. Erotic Zoos Prompt Germany To Reinstate Bestiality Laws
Tue Nov 27, 2012, 02:45 PM
Nov 2012
The Daily Telegraph reports that bestiality laws have been off the books in Germany since 1969, but Agriculture Minister Ilse Aigner has agreed to support a law that would make it illegal for people to "use (animals) for their own sexual activities or sexual acts of third parties." The proposed law would also ban the "pimping" of animals to others.

The Daily Mail ties this decision to address bestiality to the recent rise of erotic zoos, where "people can visit to abuse animals ranging from llamas to goats," the paper reports.

The proposed legislation has ruffled the feathers of zoophilia advocates such as Michael Kiok, who told the German newspaper die Tageszeitung that "mere morals have no place in law."

The group Veterinarians Against Zoophilia told Europe Online Magazine that thousands of Germans exchange information online about sex with animals and that some farms rent out animals for sexual exploitation.

The new law would ban these so-called "animal brothels" and also make it illegal to train animals for sex with humans.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/11/26/germany-bestiality-laws_n_2191677.html?utm_hp_ref=weird-news


you are right german, you are all over us in the U.S. at "hip"

sumthin to brag about. animal brothels.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
88. Didn't know they had Gay Cartoons in there
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 12:45 PM
Nov 2012

Once I realized the two willing guys are in Luv with each other it didn't seem nearly so offensive. I can accept that some women just Luv to watch two guys go at it.

One_Life_To_Give

(6,036 posts)
90. I know what the author intended
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 01:09 PM
Nov 2012

I choose to hit back by deliberately reinterpreting what the author meant. I presume that the author and most of the intended audience would be aghast at my interpretation as a homo-erotic cartoon. Turning their celebration of rape into something that makes them uncomfortable.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
91. Ok, I see what you were going for I guess.
Wed Nov 28, 2012, 01:18 PM
Nov 2012

Didn't come across that way to me right away because this group isn't made up of the audience for this kind of crap.

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