Its a natural, normal part of life. But people hesitate to talk openly about their needs, their desires, and their concerns because they are so fearful of what others might think. But we all have urges, and we all have questions, and the more we can talk about them, the happier and more fulfilled we all will be. It should be a joyful, tender, and esteem-building part of life, not a source of confusion or shame. Yet its hard to get a handle on it, because although theres a lot of information out there, much of it is judgmental, misinformed, or quite simply false. Im speaking, of course, about feminism.
Although we can all agree on the most basic dictionary definition of feminism (the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes), it is rarely ever that simple or straightforward. Despite 150 years of activism in pursuit of womens rights, and nearly 40 years of modern feminism, feminism is still considered by many to be a dirty word. In the mainstream media, when feminism is discussed at all, its most often talked about in negative or pessimistic terms: Times Is Feminism Dead? cover stories; the recent series of New York Times articles detailing how feminism has failed because upper-middle-class white women are still struggling with the work/family dilemma; any number of hand-wringing articles about why young women arent embracing the label; and so forth. Movie and tv starlets who portray assertive, confident, feminist-leaning characters routinely reject the wordSarah Michelle Gellar, Drew Barrymore, Im lookin at youas do female musicians whose work is infused with gender play (Polly Jean Harvey, Patti Smith, Bjork). Its not that these women arent into equality: Its because they, like many people, are afraid of what the word implies to the rest of the world. Like the current slanderous usage of liberal, feminist has long been wielded as an epithethence many womens discomfort in adopting it.
You wouldnt know it from the blanket terms used to talk about feminism, but the movements rich history (and current practice) encompasses a slew of ideologies, offshoots, and internal disagreements: radical feminism, cultural feminism, liberal feminism, antiporn feminism, pro-sex feminism, third-wave feminism, womanismbut what does it all mean? A brief primer on the etiology of feminism is sorely needed. The following is hardly exhaustive, and only barely objective, and I must mention that many of the nuances and linguistic turns are still up for debate by and among feminists. So leave your preconceptions behind and join me in this exciting exploration of one of lifes most basic urges: feminism.