2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumDoes anyone here NOT know where their grandparents are from?
Do any of you get "confused" about it? I certainly don't.
I know when my ancestors came to America and which ones did.
I suspect this is true for most Americans with immigrants in their background.
So how the HELL did Hillary Clinton think that "all of her grandparents" came here from other countries when actually only one did?
Was she confused or was she lying? It's one or the other. The next question must be either:
-Why was she confused, or
-Why was she lying
http://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2015/apr/16/hillary-clinton/hillary-clinton-flubs-familys-immigration-history-/
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)Bonobo
(29,257 posts)Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)Are the latest round of polls not looking good for Bernie?
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)I wanted to establish that the Abuela thing is part of a LONG-STANDING pattern of deception.
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)How is Hillary deceiving the public?
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)all of Twitter told her so in no uncertain terms.
The deception was in trying to portray herself as something she is NOT.
She is an overprivileged and extremely wealthy White woman, not like the abuela she was trying to claim she is.
Cali_Democrat
(30,439 posts)Last I checked, Hillary is a grandmother.
Where exactly is the deception?
artislife
(9,497 posts)artislife
(9,497 posts)BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)Politicians are generally keen to highlight whatever family lore makes them look good to voters. Look at the other candidates--they not only have the stories down of ancestor immigrant hardship or dad being a mailman, etc., they've been running on those stories for multiple elections. Both of my grandmothers were born in the US to immigrant parents, both of my grandfathers came through Ellis Island.
nc4bo
(17,651 posts)and can be viewed by online in a multitude of places.
She lied. Her weathervanin' should become an Olympic sport. Instant gold medal!
MADem
(135,425 posts)I don't just mean the ones who preceded my parents.
Sure you're not nitpicking?
CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)When I say my ancestors it includes everyone. I have never before heard of any one referring to their "greats" as just grandparents.
JonLeibowitz
(6,282 posts)draa
(975 posts)It's all in the context of the story.
I didn't watch the vid so....(and don't plan to).
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)I'm not calling you a liar by the way. I just find it really interesting since "grandparents" has such a definite and clear meaning.
MADem
(135,425 posts)a "great grandmother," but I never thought of her as "great." She was just a grandmother (she was a great one, in the other sense of the word, mind you, but I never found the distinguishing of ancestors important). I grew up with cousins who were called Uncle or Aunt owing to their age, too.
On one side of my family, only one grandparent was alive. On the other side, I had more than I knew what to do with. And when grandparents have siblings, it can get very mixed up indeed. Instead of Grand Aunt, or Great Grand Uncle, it is easier to just call them grandparents.
Amimnoch
(4,558 posts)Up until 1991, I had 2 grandmothers, and 2 of my Great Grandmothers alive.
Each one had a different title when being addressed directly. My mothers mom was "Granny", my dads mom is just "Gram", My Fathers fathers mom was Meh-mere (Cajun for Grandmother, I'm not even sure what great grandmother in Cajun is), My Fathers mothers mom was known as just "Mom" by everyone (sisters, children, nieces etc..).
In a passing reference, or referencing them as a group, they were all just "Grandmother's".
When specifically trying to establish a lineage though, that would be the time we'd distinguish between Grandmother, and Great Grandmother.
DFW
(54,428 posts)I had one great-grandparent alive until my girls were 13 and 11. Although they understood the concept of a great-grandparent, they always referred to him as "Opa Milton," or "grandfather Milton," because "Ur-Opa" is so cumbersome in German. No one ever says it.
hlthe2b
(102,328 posts)especially by those who are intent on seeing the worst?
FreakinDJ
(17,644 posts)So I'm sure she could care less about them
Amimnoch
(4,558 posts)Skidmore
(37,364 posts)Nitpicking petty.
Prism
(5,815 posts)She can pretend to be Southern, given that ridiculous accent.
She can pretend to be black, given that ridiculous accent.
But she can't pretend to be an immigrant or Latina. So we get this abuela bullshit. It's part of her co-opting identities she herself does not possess.
. . .
I cannot believe people are voting for her. I really cannot. When someone literally, to your face, goes, "What do you want me to be?! I'll be it! Just please make me President!" which part of, "Uhm, hey, let's not vote for the sociopath, eh? Probably not an amazing idea," isn't kicking in here?
I'm a firm believer in herd stupidity, and god if the entire Clinton candidacy isn't proof. People will literally vote for anything at all. And if we didn't have Hillary has our personal prime example, we'd need only look at Trump.
At this point, does anyone earnestly believe the majority of Americans aren't just tuned the fuck out, and are only bouncing along to their media queues?
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)If he had merely been deemed to be the "frontrunner".
It makes me sick, sad, nauseated and depressed.
But it is the sad reality.
I judge such people harshly to be honest.
MADem
(135,425 posts)I think you are very mistaken in your opinion.
Bonobo
(29,257 posts)Fess up.
MADem
(135,425 posts)Not sure what you're suggesting, here but it reeks of incivility. If you're accusing me of approving of that asshole, that's a nasty and untrue thing to do.
Further, I don't know any DUers who are still here from his independent/spoiler senate run and contribute positively to this board who would take that attitude about him--he made a point of being a GOP-schmoozing jerk.
Most people regard him as a Republican in everything but name at this stage of the game, though he has retired from public life and doesn't wield any clout. His legacy as a Democrat was besmirched by his final years in the Senate.
BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)Yeah, me too. In that order.
Divernan
(15,480 posts)Especially, " which part of, "Uhm, hey, let's not vote for the sociopath, eh? Probably not an amazing idea," isn't kicking in here?
Anyhoo, thank you and Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays!
Juicy_Bellows
(2,427 posts)TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)jfern
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Bonobo
(29,257 posts)BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)You know, I noticed that the vast majority of pro-Bernie OPs are alerted on. This is borderline pathological.
Proserpina
(2,352 posts)Mum's the word! (and the pun was an intentional afterthought).
BeanMusical
(4,389 posts)Proserpina
(2,352 posts)sibelian
(7,804 posts)Damn straight it's pathological.
CoffeeCat
(24,411 posts)I mean, if you wanted to get rid of someone (or a group of people who had certain views), you could constantly alert on them. You could make it into a part-time hobby.
Is there some limit to how much someone can do this?
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)you have to lose your alert 7-0 to get blocked from doing another alert for 24 hrs. But I wouldn't be surprised at all to find that the most alert happy folks have multiple socks to alert with so they can even get around that minor 'punishment'.
artislife
(9,497 posts)I find many have changed their "voices" and there seem to be the same "voices" on the board.
Zorra
(27,670 posts)any inherently subjective, dishonest individuals/groups of posters.
FDR traditional Dems at DU don't use alert socks, won't alert for malevolent purposes, and are collectively far more objective in their evaluations of posts in the capacity of juror than the more conservative groups of posters.
Posters from generally subjective, inherently dishonest group(s) can, and do, frequently, use the jury system as a weapon, because they are permitted to alert at will, and they will almost universally automatically vote to hide even the most innocuous alerted on post that is made by a traditional Democrat.
It's somewhat like the integrity gap between traditional FDR Dems and Republicans. The farther to the right of the political spectrum that a juror is, the more likely that juror is to use the jury system as a weapon.
The 7 - 0 rule is relatively ineffective in protecting traditional Dems here because of this integrity gap. There's almost always one subjective member on a jury from an inherently dishonest group. Therefore, there's no 7 - 0 result, and subsequently, the alert stalkers are allowed to continue to alert stalk traditional FDR Dems with impunity.
An added bonus for the dishonest group is that each time they hide a traditional Democrat's post, they significantly lower the traditional Dems odds of being selected for a jury. Each hide a poster gets lessens their chances of being selected for the jury, effectively stacking future juries on the side of the dishonest group.
The system works!
***An effective, and simple, solution to this problem would be to allow each individual member 4, or maybe 6, alerts per year. Having been a member of DU for almost 13 years, I believe that this should be acceptable to any reasonable DU member who would never consider using the DU jury system as a weapon for punishing and/or silencing, without reasonable cause, those who disagree with her/him.
Just FYI, a prolific poster's alert sockpuppet was exposed for trying to circumvent the alert system a few years ago. The sockpuppet was tombstoned, but the poster was not tombstoned, or suspended. No telling how many socks are out there.
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sibelian
(7,804 posts)But they still do it.
Why do they keep doing it if it never works?
SwampG8r
(10,287 posts)indivisibleman
(482 posts)it is quite common for people to generalize. I rely a lot on oral histories and over the years have found that when people use the terms grandmother or grandfather it often means their parent's grandmother or grandfather. It is also a common generalization to just say "grandparents" instead of ancestors. There is nothing unusual here. She was just generalizing.
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EdwardBernays
(3,343 posts)Know very little about their own family.
Erich Bloodaxe BSN
(14,733 posts)isn't. Sorta like one of the ancestry.com tv ads where the guy talks about how he was raised German, did all sorts of cultural things, then found out he was actually mostly Irish or Scottish.
I know when I was growing up, I thought we were basically German with a small bit of Native American, then, when I actually wandered around ancestry.com for a bit and into trees other relatives had built, found out there was less German, more a number of other Western European countries, and never did actually find any of the supposed NA, although there were a few very poorly documented females a few generations back who could have been anything under the sun.
EdwardBernays
(3,343 posts)So I know zero about my ancestry.
HereSince1628
(36,063 posts)after trying to figure out exactly where I've concluded that a great-grandfather, seemingly with intent, tried to cover those tracks.
The end result is a confusing stub in the stammtafel. That grandfather was, with some certainty born in 1863 and baptized just before Christmas at ~3 weeks of age in Holland. He may have been born in southeastern provincial Brandenburg aka Lower Lusatia, in Baden or in HOlland. His father was, according to various records, listed as being from Baden, or provincial Brandenburg.
Family history and reorganization of the German states and their labels makes clearly knowing 'where' difficult.
Codeine
(25,586 posts)which was supposedly a family name something like "McDera" or "McDerris" (neither of which are real names, apparently, but I didn't know that as a kid) is actually Portuguese ancestry with the real last name Madeira. Was someone ashamed of being Portuguese? How far back did the misrepresentation begin? No idea.
Several other things don't line up with family stories as well, like when we got to America (much, much earlier than claimed) or the unmentioned fact that one of my ancestors owned slaves. Here I am in my mid-40s discovering that big chunks of my family history are complete codswallop. And that's just my mom's side -- I don't even know my dad.
treestar
(82,383 posts)and proof positive that some people are anti-Hillary and not really pro Bernie. If Bernie had not thrown his hat in the ring, they would be behind MOM. I hope you hate Republicans more than you hate Hillary. Or at least as much.
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)Yeah, probably, because O'Malley is a better candidate than Hillary is, too.
nc4bo
(17,651 posts)It's really bad when it's little shit like this that she lies about.
tammywammy
(26,582 posts)Or their parents, etc. I didn't know where my grandma was from or anything about her childhood until a couple years ago and have no idea where her parents are from.
sufrommich
(22,871 posts)until I was in my 20s. I called them both grandma. Let me add that this is right up there with freepers attacking Elizabeth Warren for her remarks about her ancestors.
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rurallib
(62,433 posts)both were orphaned at a very early age, so no I don't
Codeine
(25,586 posts)The stories my family told me do not line up with what I've found via Ancestry.com. It's clear that at some point our family histories became muddled and heavily romanticized. Nationalities were claimed that didn't exist, others never mentioned, and immigration in particular was garbled or outright invented from whole cloth.
I can't be the only person to have gone on Ancestry and had several WTF?! Moments.
LWolf
(46,179 posts)I'm assuming you mean recent immigrants. Generally, those with families functional enough to know who their grandparents are probably know whether or not they were immigrants.
I know where some of my grandparents are from.
I know that my paternal grandmother was of British descent...although not at all recent. I know that she claimed my paternal grandfather, who divorced her long before I was born, was as well; she was adamantly refuting the claims of his own sons that he was of mixed Native and European blood. He was gone by then, and I wasn't raised by my father, his son, so I have no idea what he claimed.
I know that my maternal grandmother was of German/English descent, and that the newest arrived in the 1800s.
I don't know anything about my maternal grandfather. He was a name on a birth certificate; a Scottish last name, but nobody outside my grandmother ever met this man, and she never spoke of him. There was some suggestion that the name was fiction.
Many of us without strong family connections may not know about our grandparents. I doubt that HRC falls into that group.
demwing
(16,916 posts)As did their grandparents, a few of which were Native Americans.
Before that we came from various North Eastern states and, embarrassingly, are related to the Bush family.
In the 1700s we have German Irish immigrants on my maternal line, and Brits on my paternal side.
At least that's the generationally shared information. I trust it because it came from those who lived it, and because I verified bits and pieces on Ancestry.com!
Scootaloo
(25,699 posts)I don't have any "documented pedigree" and so, according to at least one Clinton supporter on DU, that makes me 'trailer park white trash."
I know I have at least one ancestor who was living in Georgia in 1680. I know I have Irish travelers in there. My grandmother's maiden name - "DeLoach" - implies that I'm descended from a French barber at some point. I've heard talk of "Cherokee princesses" on my father's side, which is Southern for either "I'm full of shit" or "Someone in the family tree isn't porcelain-white" but I've been unable to glean further data, so I'm leaning towards the former.