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(85,996 posts)
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 09:23 AM Nov 2015

Being Married to Bernie



From the stage at the first Democratic presidential debate, nearly all the candidates opened with talk about their families...

Bernie Sanders, however, didn’t pause to sketch a family portrait. In fact, he was the only one onstage who didn’t give a bio of any kind. He started right in with the “series of unprecedented national crises” that prompted his candidacy, and he never spoke of his 27-year marriage, nor the blended group of five children he and his wife consider theirs.

Sitting in the audience with two of those children, Jane O’Meara Driscoll Sanders was not the least bit surprised. Accomplished in her own right — she is, among other things, a former president of a Vermont college — she is the people person to his curmudgeon, the one who lives on the ground while he lives in his head. As her husband makes a strong national showing in the race for the Democratic presidential nomination, she remains his closest adviser, and part of her advice, on debate night as always, was that he stay focused on why he decided to run this race in the first place.

“Why should it be about me or about our family?” she said in a long and candid interview in her husband’s tiny Washington, D.C., campaign headquarters recently, dressed, as always, in casual flowing pants and blouse, her blue eyes framed by her long strawberry blond hair. “It’s about the issues. We’ve always been about the issues.”




Their meet-cute was also a meet-political. In 1981, Jane O’Meara Driscoll, a recently divorced transplanted New Yorker, went to a meeting where the then mayor of Burlington was discussing a proposed tax hike that many thought would hurt low-income residents. Jane took the floor to ask some pointed questions, and when she sat down the person next to her said, “You sound like Bernie Sanders.”

“Who’s Bernie Sanders?” she asked.

He was the candidate opposing this six-term incumbent mayor, she was told, and Jane was soon working to organize a debate between the two. “He was so inspiring,” she says of her now husband at that event. “He embodied everything I believed in.”

She’d brought her then 6-year-old daughter, Carina, along, and a favorite family story is about how the little girl was the only one in the room who didn’t join in the standing ovation for her future stepfather.

“It was very clear from that night that Bernie was an astonishing person,” Carina remembers, stopping in briefly to chat during this interview. “He had the ability to really move people, and that was what drew my mother to him long before they were a couple.”

Well, not very long before. Jane and Bernie didn’t technically meet that night. She worked for his election, and they were introduced at his victory party 10 days later, after he won the race by 10 votes. Within months they were a couple.

“That was the beginning of forever,” she has said...


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Being Married to Bernie (Original Post) bigtree Nov 2015 OP
“It’s about the issues. We’ve always been about the issues.” LWolf Nov 2015 #1
right on! bigtree Nov 2015 #3
I like her for a bunch of reasons, LWolf Nov 2015 #13
Yes. redwitch Nov 2015 #10
kick bigtree Nov 2015 #2
Great article. Those are family values. Thank you for this. Autumn Nov 2015 #4
kick bigtree Nov 2015 #5
K&R nt Live and Learn Nov 2015 #6
can't get the Bernie crowd to kick this cute article? bigtree Nov 2015 #7
K&R! Stardust Nov 2015 #8
Sorry "bigtree" I've Been P.O'ed About OBAMACARE Today... ChiciB1 Nov 2015 #9
it's one of the most intimate portraits of Sen. Sanders I've seen bigtree Nov 2015 #11
One Of The Many Reasons I Support Him, But There Are ChiciB1 Nov 2015 #12

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
1. “It’s about the issues. We’ve always been about the issues.”
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 09:40 AM
Nov 2015

THIS.

I have always been about the issues. I have little patience for political manipulation, maneuvering, propaganda, arrogance, bombast, or deceit. I don't like many politicians, even those I support, because of the very nature of politics.

I'm not a partisan. For me, a political party is an organizing structure for the purpose of ISSUES. For me, it's not about power, not about blind support, not about feeling like a team and feeling like I have to get in line and follow, not about winning anything but ISSUES.

I pay attention and vote because of the issues. I've always been about the issues.



LWolf

(46,179 posts)
13. I like her for a bunch of reasons,
Wed Nov 4, 2015, 09:53 AM
Nov 2015

one of which is that she's smart and successful, but not polished; more real.

Autumn

(45,092 posts)
4. Great article. Those are family values. Thank you for this.
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 10:46 AM
Nov 2015

I'm going to cross post it in the Sanders group.

ChiciB1

(15,435 posts)
9. Sorry "bigtree" I've Been P.O'ed About OBAMACARE Today...
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 09:32 PM
Nov 2015

AND, this place has begun to make me feel like I'm surrounded by far too many "starry-eyed" Hillary followers/lovers/misty-eyed troupe of hers.

I'm a white female who even feels offended for having to say that because it's ALL SO PC here. I've been an activist for too many years and what I see happening here is mind boggling and rather insulting. Am I in church where I need to kneel down and worship a person who has been on the political scene in America and Nationally forever!

I'm a supporter of Bernie BECAUSE of WHAT I know and learned about her for years and years! Coming here makes me feel like I've gone back to High School and we're about to vote on who's going to be head cheer leader!

But I do have to say it EXPLAINS the reason this country seems to be falling apart at the seams. A picture comes to mind that I saw of Hillary in a blue pant suit, standing up on stage arms flung wide open with a huge smile and I got this very weird feeling. I looked up and said OMG, she looks like a person who was being lifted skyward as the ground beneath was pushing her upward! I KID YOU NOT (that's a dated phrase) but that was my first reaction! It felt awful and I -- JUST -- CAN'T -- DO -- IT!

I'm not into worshiping people and I'm sure Bernie will make some decisions I may disagree with here and there, but I'm a grown up and I expect it. Perfection isn't reality! But REALITY isn't Hillary! I better stop before I blurt out something that's better left unsaid.

But, this is a wonderful post and thank you for putting it out there. The information is positive and subtle in the nicest way. We do need to elect him, but the Rah-Rah's and Big Honchos in our Democratic Party have stacked their arsenal well!

WE FIGHT ON!



bigtree

(85,996 posts)
11. it's one of the most intimate portraits of Sen. Sanders I've seen
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 09:57 PM
Nov 2015

...and you're right, 'positive and subtle in the nicest way.'

We need more of this.

ChiciB1

(15,435 posts)
12. One Of The Many Reasons I Support Him, But There Are
Tue Nov 3, 2015, 10:54 PM
Nov 2015

many more. I'm one of the very early Bernie supporters mainly because of Thom Hartmann. Brunch With Bernie on Friday was informative and let me see and hear him BEFORE MSM started to define him by their standards. And before he decided to run, so he was who he is and is still the same.

To MSM these days is so sickening because their GREED gets in the way. Bernie means "not good for me" so now it's "stop at all costs" for them. We all know where all of that originates.

We ALL know about the manipulation by MSM for way too long, but it does seem they've taken it to a new level. I know Hillary is a Democrat, but each time I check in here I get bad vibes bordering on real dislike. I'm having to get my feelings under control. I've never in my life had these feelings about a Democratic candidate, but Hillary is bothering me. I've said I'll vote for her IF I needed to but it will be the most difficult vote I'll have to cast. NOW, I'm not sure I can do that!

Might need a break, this place has gotten down right nasty and weird!

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