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WomanWhoRoars

(175 posts)
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 03:22 PM Nov 2016

A lurker no more....

I've been a lurker here for several years. I suppose I felt safe to do that and I had no real complaints since Obama was in office. That has all changed. When DU got hacked on November 8th, I took it as an omen for what was to come. I'm not an overly dramatic person and I'm even pretty optimistic most of the time - but this election has hit me to the core. I wake EVERY morning hoping it's a bad dream. I just cannot imagine how anyone could have voted for Trump. He's a narcissistic sociopath. This place, will now be my refuge. Help me understand how something so awful could happen. Thank you!

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A lurker no more.... (Original Post) WomanWhoRoars Nov 2016 OP
Welcome to DU. You'll find lots of friends here. DinahMoeHum Nov 2016 #1
Thank you! WomanWhoRoars Nov 2016 #2
Welcome to DU! ailsagirl Nov 2016 #3
Well we are all in same boat ... Sinking MyNameIsKhan Nov 2016 #4
I do not understand how Trump won UCmeNdc Nov 2016 #5
Insanity metroins Nov 2016 #7
Like Bush, he didn't - it's the Electoral College not being fit for purpose IMO LeftishBrit Nov 2016 #9
Welcome to the zoo, WWR! longship Nov 2016 #6
Welcome to DU. Hekate Nov 2016 #8
Welcome! As you already know, DU is a great place for ideas, analysis and political education. ancianita Nov 2016 #10
Welcome to DU! Glad you found us! n/t pnwmom Nov 2016 #11
Roarrrrrrr! shadowmayor Nov 2016 #12
Welcome, WWR. We will get through this together. Words have meaning here and democracy The Wielding Truth Nov 2016 #13
☺️ WomanWhoRoars Nov 2016 #14
Welcome silverchair Nov 2016 #15
I too lurked during Obama proud patriot Nov 2016 #16
Welcome! nyrnyr1994 Nov 2016 #17
I wake EVERY morning hoping it's a bad dream. Martin Eden Nov 2016 #18
Every morning Worried senior Nov 2016 #19
Welcome! jimlup Nov 2016 #20
You are most surely not alone. 3catwoman3 Nov 2016 #21
welcome to DU bdamomma Nov 2016 #22
I think we all feel the same radical noodle Nov 2016 #23
welcome blueseas Nov 2016 #24
Welcome!! LeftInTX Nov 2016 #25
WELCOME WomanWhoRoars... onecent Nov 2016 #26
Welcome to DU. I wish I could help you with understanding ... 11 Bravo Nov 2016 #27
Welcome to posting at DU. guillaumeb Nov 2016 #28
We live in a misogynistic country. athena Nov 2016 #29

UCmeNdc

(9,600 posts)
5. I do not understand how Trump won
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 03:42 PM
Nov 2016

I agree! I am stunned.

I am just like you, it seems to me like there could not possibly be that many people that are willing to vote for Trump.

Oh well it is what it is,

Well welcome to DU

metroins

(2,550 posts)
7. Insanity
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 03:58 PM
Nov 2016

Heard a guy say he resonated more with America.

More people voted Hillary.

I understand the electoral college, but our country is insane if he got that many votes.

LeftishBrit

(41,205 posts)
9. Like Bush, he didn't - it's the Electoral College not being fit for purpose IMO
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 04:50 PM
Nov 2016

Not that my own country has a very fit-for-purpose political system either!

longship

(40,416 posts)
6. Welcome to the zoo, WWR!
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 03:58 PM
Nov 2016




We'll try to help, but we're all in the same boat as you. Hopefully we will all come out okay if we stay together. That's my sincere hope for the future.

That Barack Obama intends to remain engaged will help quite a bit. We'll undoubtedly be seeing Michelle as well.

One thing for sure, Drumpf has stirred up a hornets' nest. Let's make his presidency a living Hell.


ancianita

(36,060 posts)
10. Welcome! As you already know, DU is a great place for ideas, analysis and political education.
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 04:55 PM
Nov 2016

Here's some info from me about how something so awful could happen. After drinking that one-too-many cups of coffee at dinner, I wrote it at around 3 a.m. this morning when a few things just hit me.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12512617434

Glad you're here.



The Wielding Truth

(11,415 posts)
13. Welcome, WWR. We will get through this together. Words have meaning here and democracy
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 05:08 PM
Nov 2016

and civil rights are our cause. Thanks for being part of our community.

Sanity can get back on its feet here.

proud patriot

(100,706 posts)
16. I too lurked during Obama
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 05:52 PM
Nov 2016

was taking a break from 12 hour days moderating this discussion board for nearly 8 years .. I'm Back
to work hard and protect this nation from the nazis.

Welcome to the non lurker, fighting mode.

nyrnyr1994

(623 posts)
17. Welcome!
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 06:08 PM
Nov 2016

I've also come back recently. Wasn't much of a poster, read more than anything else. Felt like it was time to be underground again. We will get thru this.

Martin Eden

(12,870 posts)
18. I wake EVERY morning hoping it's a bad dream.
Sun Nov 20, 2016, 06:17 PM
Nov 2016

Same here. It occupies my waking thoughts. Not a good way to start the day.

3catwoman3

(24,005 posts)
21. You are most surely not alone.
Mon Nov 21, 2016, 11:35 AM
Nov 2016

Multiple times a day, I ask myself variations of, "Did this really happen?" and, "Donald Fucking Trump? Seriously?" and "What the hell is the MATTER with people?"

blueseas

(11,575 posts)
24. welcome
Mon Nov 21, 2016, 12:41 PM
Nov 2016

You will be amongst friends here. Sociopath and Narcissist is indeed the new occupant -in waiting- for the white house.

LeftInTX

(25,364 posts)
25. Welcome!!
Mon Nov 21, 2016, 01:02 PM
Nov 2016

I'm very worried because he has the House, the Senate, the SC.

It will be a fight to keep him in check.

I'm also worried about the House and Senate passing legislation that Trump with rubber stamp. It is going to be a fight.

11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
27. Welcome to DU. I wish I could help you with understanding ...
Mon Nov 21, 2016, 01:25 PM
Nov 2016

how in the Hell this happened, but I'm still at a loss to explain it myself. In any case, you'll find good people here, and sometimes it helps me just to be among them.
I hope the same holds true for you.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
28. Welcome to posting at DU.
Mon Nov 21, 2016, 01:42 PM
Nov 2016

My take is twofold:
One, 41% of registered voters did not vote. So lack of enthusiasm for voting is a problem.
Two, Clinton has been victimized by the media for 30 years. Her so-called "negatives" were the result of this negative media coverage. And the corollary to number two is that Trump was the recipient of massive, mainly uncritical, media coverage.

athena

(4,187 posts)
29. We live in a misogynistic country.
Mon Nov 21, 2016, 05:19 PM
Nov 2016

A country so misogynistic that it does not even recognize its misogyny.

That's how something so awful could happen. Americans -- men and women -- hate strong, competent and intelligent women so much that they chose to destroy the country than accept being lead by a woman.

I, too, wake up feeling miserable every morning. I had never realized that I was a second-class citizen. I thought those days were in the past. Now, I see it all very clearly, and all my previous experiences with sexism in the workplace make a lot of sense. I am devastated.

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