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DonRedwood

(4,359 posts)
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 12:06 AM Oct 2016

A moment please.... Before you put on your party hats...

Each woman stepping forward is not something to celebrate.

Each woman stepping forward should make our heads drop a little farther. Each woman Should cause your heart to break a little and fear the next woman's story will be more than just assault. Accept the victory these woman give with the hopes that they step away from this day with less burden to carry but know they will be pilloried by the right wing press.

So let's make sure we respect their difficult times, do nothing to add to them, and defend them if need be.

Save the party hats for the big celebration in November. Today lets just send some love and respect to some brave women who are going to keep Donald Trump from the presidency and help give America its first Madam President.





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A moment please.... Before you put on your party hats... (Original Post) DonRedwood Oct 2016 OP
Many of us can relate to their stories and emotions. sinkingfeeling Oct 2016 #1
Exactly.. HipChick Oct 2016 #2
Sadly. DonRedwood Oct 2016 #7
Some, if not most women Sophiegirl Oct 2016 #26
That's what chills me. Pacifist Patriot Oct 2016 #29
I fully expect it will Sophiegirl Oct 2016 #31
You might surprise yourself. Pacifist Patriot Oct 2016 #32
from your fingers Sophiegirl Oct 2016 #33
Kellyanne was squawking today about no one believing Bill C's accusers adigal Oct 2016 #4
Oh yeah...it's not a victory, but a shame. rusty quoin Oct 2016 #5
A big, fat K&R! CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2016 #6
Hello Peggy DonRedwood Oct 2016 #8
I am, thank you, and I wish the same for you. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2016 #12
;) DonRedwood Oct 2016 #24
You are right 50 Shades Of Blue Oct 2016 #9
+1 nt ProudProgressiveNow Oct 2016 #10
There is something to celebrate TXCritter Oct 2016 #11
Yup. I am a guy and cannot appreciate what those women Akamai Oct 2016 #15
This is what happens when a major political party runs a troll. Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2016 #13
It's horrific BainsBane Oct 2016 #14
It's terrible that it happened but it's wonderful that they are coming forward. n/t Binkie The Clown Oct 2016 #16
I was going to post the exact same words. Lifelong Protester Oct 2016 #25
Agreed (nt) Puzzler Oct 2016 #17
We can applaud the bravery of the women stepping forward. Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2016 #18
So well stated, sir. Thank you. n/t susanna Oct 2016 #19
K&R yuiyoshida Oct 2016 #20
There's no reason for party hats at all. Hulk Oct 2016 #21
What shoulf be appreciated is that avebury Oct 2016 #23
+10 sarae Oct 2016 #27
There's a big difference between celebrating this turdbucket is being exposed nini Oct 2016 #28
Nicely said! Buttons3345 Oct 2016 #30
lou hobbs released one of their phone and address! DonRedwood Oct 2016 #36
K & R ......for visibility..nt Wounded Bear Oct 2016 #35
K&R fleabiscuit Oct 2016 #37
Dec 1969 #

Sophiegirl

(2,338 posts)
26. Some, if not most women
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 11:26 AM
Oct 2016

Have multiple stories that could be told. I can't even count the number of times I've been subjected to being groped and worse. And I would be willing to bet that I will likely add to those numbers over the course of the rest of my life.

Sophiegirl

(2,338 posts)
31. I fully expect it will
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 03:26 PM
Oct 2016

What disturbs me most is that it always comes as a shock and I fear that I will freeze and not be able to respond.

But all of this has given me strength knowing that I am alone and can (and should) defend myself.

Pacifist Patriot

(24,653 posts)
32. You might surprise yourself.
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 03:28 PM
Oct 2016

The most recent time it happened to me I had a fork in my hand and it ended up in groper's wrist. Didn't even remember reacting. Before that I was Miss Freeze.

 

adigal

(7,581 posts)
4. Kellyanne was squawking today about no one believing Bill C's accusers
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 12:17 AM
Oct 2016

And then they throw these women under the bus first second they get.

 

TXCritter

(344 posts)
11. There is something to celebrate
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 12:50 AM
Oct 2016

When it originally happened, what did these women do? Nothing. Who would listen? Who would believe? What justice could be won?

Now, they can come out and though they will be pilloried some small amount of justice can be won.

And the next woman will know she has options other than silence. And another man will have to face a truth he's been denying.

We celebrate these women's courage.

 

Akamai

(1,779 posts)
15. Yup. I am a guy and cannot appreciate what those women
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 01:38 AM
Oct 2016

went through, but I do think that now, they feel vindicated and more empowered than they felt before.

 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
21. There's no reason for party hats at all.
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 02:49 AM
Oct 2016

These stories are getting uglier by the hour. I'm fearful something may actually break the camel's back, and this heinous monster will be replaced by "a human clone"...a Pence or some other stuffed suit.
These stories are getting uglier and uglier. Let's just hope he doesn't get replaced before the election, because there is enough fictionalized, groundless hatred out there for Hillary that would seriously make it hard for her to win against a "fresh faced human". You know what I mean?

avebury

(10,952 posts)
23. What shoulf be appreciated is that
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 04:53 AM
Oct 2016

an unknown number of women no longer feel alone and helpless to speak out and fight for their personal dignity. Trump is learning that he cannot get away with it the way he treats women (and young girls). These women/girls are finding out that others will have their back as soon hey stand up to this bully.

nini

(16,672 posts)
28. There's a big difference between celebrating this turdbucket is being exposed
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 11:51 AM
Oct 2016

and 'happy' about why.

It is possible to admire the guts of the women who are coming forward after those disgusting experiences. So I will 'celebrate' - to use your term - their ability to rise above what that creep did to them. Doesn't mean I have to not respect them or acknowledge what happened to them.

Frankly, I find this whole post a bit odd. Why you would think people aren't sympathetic to their experience in the first place? If some is they don't belong on DU at all.

Buttons3345

(39 posts)
30. Nicely said!
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 03:22 PM
Oct 2016

It is sad that this happened. Now they will get justice!
So they will need a lot of support.
Celebrating will be something they may do. I hope.

DonRedwood

(4,359 posts)
36. lou hobbs released one of their phone and address!
Thu Oct 13, 2016, 10:33 PM
Oct 2016

so the trump followers could teach her a lesson and frighten other women so they won't come forward.

disgusting behavior.

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