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Charlotte Little

(658 posts)
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:36 PM Oct 2016

Stop it with Ivanka

Coming from a background of sexual abuse (rape and, no, not my father, but by another male relative - and at the age of 12), it is gross to me for anyone to drag Ivanka down with her dad. Judge her for many reasons, but please stop posting photos of her with her dad and suggesting lap dances, etc.

Ivanka may have suffered the unspeakable, which starts with an "I." Let's leave it at that and leave that out of discussions here.

Or ignore me if you want. But understand that it cheapens our narrative and discussion to rag on a woman who, as a child, was around a man who is on tape saying such remarks about a 10 year old as "I'm going to be dating her in ten years!"

Think.About.That.

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Stop it with Ivanka (Original Post) Charlotte Little Oct 2016 OP
K&R, making fun of abuse victims/survivors is not cool in any way uppityperson Oct 2016 #1
Agreed 100% NoGoodNamesLeft Oct 2016 #2
Agree Johnny2X2X Oct 2016 #3
The only problem I have with Ivanka.... Adrahil Oct 2016 #4
Fine... Charlotte Little Oct 2016 #8
She is on board with his whole campaign. Her husband was in on the stunt to embarrass Bill. anamandujano Oct 2016 #12
I agree. betsuni Oct 2016 #5
Thank You Charlotte Little Oct 2016 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author stopbush Oct 2016 #6
I agree I feel she is a victim as are the women coming out now upaloopa Oct 2016 #7
I've never once attacked Ivanka Skoods Oct 2016 #9
Who said Ivanka was abused by that clown? The_Casual_Observer Oct 2016 #10
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Johnny2X2X

(19,069 posts)
3. Agree
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:40 PM
Oct 2016

Ivanka has her own issues, but if her dad abused her it is not a topic we need to discuss or make light of. And there is no evidence he did.

 

Adrahil

(13,340 posts)
4. The only problem I have with Ivanka....
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:40 PM
Oct 2016

Is her willingness to lie about her father's respect for women. She HAS to know better.

Charlotte Little

(658 posts)
8. Fine...
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:44 PM
Oct 2016

Have that issue by all means. I'm talking about the thread stating that she is lap dancing on her father. It's just not appropriate and is, quite frankly, back-handedly sexist.

anamandujano

(7,004 posts)
12. She is on board with his whole campaign. Her husband was in on the stunt to embarrass Bill.
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:46 PM
Oct 2016

That said, I never participate in those threads and had no luck asking to leave Melania out of our discussions. My reasoning was that something we say might bring her harm. She is living with the beast. I pity her.

I think Ivanka could put distance between herself and her father if she wanted.

Response to Charlotte Little (Original post)

upaloopa

(11,417 posts)
7. I agree I feel she is a victim as are the women coming out now
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:43 PM
Oct 2016

and telling their story.


She is only in the narrative because Trump is. Leave her alone.

 

Skoods

(341 posts)
9. I've never once attacked Ivanka
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:44 PM
Oct 2016

In fact, Ivanka and Tiffany are the only Trumps I respect.

Can you imagine being the daughter of Donald Trump? Growing up with that clown being your dad? Ugh. I pity those two girls.

 

The_Casual_Observer

(27,742 posts)
10. Who said Ivanka was abused by that clown?
Wed Oct 12, 2016, 10:45 PM
Oct 2016

Even serial murderers seem to have led
Ordinary lives with wives and sometimes families.

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