I know a "chick magnet" guy. Bit of a dinosaur. NOTHING like the Nuclear Cheeto.
I'll call him 'Karl' (not his real name.) Dude was a ship's engineer in the merchant marine for decades. Genius mechanic, can fix anything. Recovering alcoholic, quite the hell-raiser in ports all over the world in his youth.
Women love him.
Women fall into bed with him.
Women chase him.
I had momentary "hmmmmm.... what would it be like....?" fantasies about a whirl in the sack with him myself.
He's been married a coupla times, neither stuck. Still friends with the exes.
Not good at the long-haul relationship thing, Karl.
But not a whole lotta women out there with bad feelings about him, either.
There's a lot of words and phrases out there describing guys like Karl- some admiring, some crude, some envious.
By the way, he's not conventionally good looking. Short, sturdy. Fireplug build. Graying, thinning blond hair. Scars from old fights. Bad hip, walks with a bit of a limp.
He's a bit sexist. Definitely old-fashioned.
But still successful in getting a nice, friendly woman to join him in bed just about any old time he wants.
Amazing guy, Karl.
So, what's his secret?
I think its this: He just LOVES women.
We went with Karl to a casino one time, on an outing sponsored by a company we all worked with. Karl sat at our table, watching people on the dance floor. "Golly, she's a beauty!" he'd say. And "Yea, that's a dancer-prancer!"
And then he'd get up and make a round, inviting women to dance. A lot of women, complete strangers, accepted his invitation, danced, and you could see they were having a great time.
Here's the deal: Those women he was admiring? Some of them most people would consider 'beautiful' in the conventional sense. Most weren't. Some might have been dismissed as homely. But Karl wasn't looking at their faces or their bodies. He saw something in the way they moved, or smiled, or responded to other people, that said "beautiful" to him.
And he wasn't the least bit shy about letting them know it, in a non-threatening, appreciative, joyful way.
And he could tell when he was getting a real response, and when he wasn't. He'd never push hard on a shy woman, but he'd take the time to let her know she'd be welcome if she wanted to come out of her shell. If not, he'd give her a smile and move on.
He just loved women, liked being with them, whether sex was in the immediate focus, or not. Women seemed to sense that and respond.
It didn't hurt that he could fix a leaky faucet, of course. Or that he was generous with his time and kindness for other things- giving rides, coffee conversation, telling jokes, clean and dirty and all sorts.
Kinda lost touch with Karl these last few years since we moved to the Southwest. He doesn't come this way much.
But I'd put a large bet on who he's voting AGAINST.
certainly,
Bright
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I've known guys like that and they are so cool, so much fun to be around.
They just love women, feel really comfortable around them and treasure them.
They make the world a more friendly, more loving place.
