2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumWhy does the media give Melania the kid glove treatment compared to Michelle?
Commentators instantly excused Melania on the grounds that she wasnt a political person only a spouse. She couldnt possibly be blamed for the plagiarism.
And maybe theyre right. Maybe she was ill-served by someone in the campaign.
But imagine the reaction if Michelle had plagiarized Nancy Reagan. Or if shed had a history of posing nude on a bearskin rug. Or if she was the third wife, a trophy wife.
What is so different about the two women, that makes the media treat Melania with so much more deference?
Like Melania, Michelle was a reluctant campaigner.
Like Melania, Michelle preferred to concentrate on her own successful career.
But unlike Melania, Michelle never did anything wrong, yet she faced far more criticism.
Both women are tall, striking, and of similar age. But only the sight of the white supermodel reduces much of the media into googly-eyed submission.
The Don knew this, of course, when he swapped his second wife for his third. That was part of the attraction. He knows white women like Melania turn many men into mush-brains, and that hed benefit from some of her reflected glory.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michelle_Obama
Although she has campaigned on her husband's behalf since early in his political career by handshaking and fund-raising, she did not relish the activity at first. When she campaigned during her husband's 2000 run for United States House of Representatives, her boss at the University of Chicago asked if there was any single thing about campaigning that she enjoyed; after some thought, she replied that visiting so many living rooms had given her some new decorating ideas.[87] She reportedly turned down requests by the campaign for her to attend fundraisers.[88] Obama was against her husband's run for the congressional seat and after his defeat would have preferred her husband tending to the financial needs of the family in what she deemed a more practical way.
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In May 2007, three months after her husband declared his presidential candidacy, Obama reduced her professional responsibilities by 80 percent to support his presidential campaign.[20] Early in the campaign, she had limited involvement in which she traveled to political events only two days a week and rarely traveled overnight;[94] by early February 2008 her participation had increased significantly, attending thirty-three events in eight days.[65] She made several campaign appearances with Oprah Winfrey.[95][96] She wrote her own stump speeches for her husband's presidential campaign and generally spoke without notes.[28]
katsy
(4,246 posts)That's it.
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Okay white & fills perceived "traditional" role as defined by regressive gop type males. IOW feed me & fuck me
Think about if Hillary did it in the 90s. The backlash.
Stop trying to see race in everything.
And to be honest I don't think they are treating her with kid gloves.
pnwmom
(108,980 posts)Melanie gets the Jackie O treatment because she looks white and glamorous.
Michelle, by contrast with Melania,, got better treatment when she stopped wearing designer clothes.
From the wikipedia link:
katsy
(4,246 posts)I really do. But if you remember the depictions of Michelle at that time... racist & demeaning in view of her accomplishments as a woman, and as a black woman.
I remember HRC before & after becoming 1st lady. The knives were out for her also.
It is in the nature of white, conservative gop males to ruthlessly attack and lie and besmirch anyone who threatens their grip on power. Unfortunately for our First Lady, being black is just an additional target on her back. Being highly accomplished & a democrat are the others.
eastwestdem
(1,220 posts)It's disgusting.
And she's married to someone who they don't think is even an American.
karynnj
(59,504 posts)My guess - she is Republican, so they do not attack. The Democrats did not attack Ann Romney, Cindy McCain or the Bush wives. Here, I think it is aggravated because there is so much to really attack.
Consider how xenophobic the Republicans were with Teresa, who for 25 years had been a Republican Senator's wife and who was both accomplished and without a hint of scandal. Can you imagine if Melania were the wife of a Democrat?
MiniMe
(21,717 posts)GeorgeGist
(25,321 posts)CrowCityDem
(2,348 posts)pnwmom
(108,980 posts)and she was a very reluctant campaigner herself.
How do you know that Trump didn't make up the whole story about Melania being shy and retiring?
CrowCityDem
(2,348 posts)pnwmom
(108,980 posts)from the campaign to build up the suspense for the big "reveal." He's a showman, after all.
And he obviously didn't need her in the primaries. He did just fine without her.
DawgHouse
(4,019 posts)Hillary and Michelle are outspoken women with their own minds. JMHO
Demsrule86
(68,586 posts)She is white, attractive (if you like Barbie's with no character) and has big fake boobs.