2016 Postmortem
Related: About this forumI am starting to hate Bernie Sanders..
I go on fb and I am getting messages from a beloved cousin.. who is over the moon about Bernie.. and I never say anything.. I do not want to talk politics with my family.. just don't ..but she is so bent on my accepting Bernie.. I cannot wait for this season to get over with.. Luckily last election I was not on fb or I think I would have lost my mind.. what do I do? I do not want to hurt her feelings.. she is the sweetest person on earth..
JimDandy
(7,318 posts)PM me her link so we can get together to work on must-pass progressive issues. Perhaps if she finds other like-minded people like me who support and appreciate her views, she will stop looking to you and wasting your time.
Snotcicles
(9,089 posts)auntpurl
(4,311 posts)Say, "I'm very glad the Democratic party has two such beloved candidates." And leave it at that. If she pushes further, just say "I'm sure we'll both be voting for the Democratic nominee in November, no matter who that is. We don't want Trump, right?" Hopefully that will help her realise you're not going to agree with her re your candidate, but you're both still on the same side.
Ash_F
(5,861 posts)I had a Black coworker tell me he would vote for Trump "as long as he builds that wall"
Doesn't he realise if Trump had his way, your coworker would be on the other side of that wall? Along with all the other black and brown people?
Ash_F
(5,861 posts)He is in the states studying to do social work.
That one might be more of language barrier thing.
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DemocratSinceBirth
(99,710 posts)upaloopa
(11,417 posts)If I were you I would not comment on the Bernie posts on FB.
But at some time in the near future we all should post pro Hillary stuff on FB to defeat Trump.
JimDandy
(7,318 posts)It's hard when family members' political views don't mesh. Nearly all of my family are Democrats and we share the same passions and concerns, so it's been great to canvass, phonebank and work together with them to support Bernie Sanders.
libdem4life
(13,877 posts)I have a sister and a friend who used to cc me on every anti-Obama, RWNJ and religious article ever published. I just ignored her, always changed the subject when we talked, and she got the message. Not saying that's how it is for everybody, but I know the feeling. It was worth the trouble for the relationship.
MFM008
(19,818 posts)or my sister who hates everybody. If she is a nice as you say she will agree to not discuss politics.
Peacetrain
(22,877 posts)And she is so passionate that I am afraid of saying anything because it might cause some kind of friction between us.. I would never want that.. to tell you the truth I am kind of hoping she is on DU and will read this.. and maybe that will just let it go..
JimDandy
(7,318 posts)on Progressive issues. We have a 50 state strategy and can use your help. I am so appreciative that you support Bernie like I do.
Duckhunter935
(16,974 posts)I do not trust her and I do Bernie. He has my vote
aikoaiko
(34,172 posts)Or reevaluate what it means to be a friend.
NCTraveler
(30,481 posts)Very angry, HA Goodman fan, and down with Trump. I've posted some of his rants here.
Hiding from your timeline does not unfriendly them and you can still go to their page. I believe you can also choose all but that one person to see your posts. Again, that doesn't unfriend them. Maybe that will help so the two of you can focus on family, fun, and similar interests.
Good luck.
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Think for yourself much?
jillan
(39,451 posts)It's not hard.
Skwmom
(12,685 posts)Response to Skwmom (Reply #19)
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Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)Bye, Felicia.
MariaThinks
(2,495 posts)Snotcicles
(9,089 posts)MariaThinks
(2,495 posts)Bernie Sanders disgusts me.
frylock
(34,825 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)ThePhilosopher04
(1,732 posts)Lizzie Poppet
(10,164 posts)Your cousin is acting like a tool to you based on her support for Bernie Sanders...and that makes you hate Bernie?
Or should I assume you weren't speaking literally, and you're just annoyed with your cousin and wish the whole horrible election was over?
longship
(40,416 posts)Blah, blah, blah-de-blah blah blah! De-blah, de-blah, de-blah DE-BLAH!!!
Blah blah, de-blah, de blah.
Lather; rinse; repeat.
GD.P: the toxic waste dump of DU. Deserves only ridicule.
frylock
(34,825 posts)cali
(114,904 posts)Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)but others do not, she's inflaming people for no good reason and it's not professionally wise for her to do so in public social media but she's on that train and I just sort of watch it. She's obviously for Hillary but first and foremost she's anti Bernie and anti Bernie supporter.
I think it's foolish. If, however, she was simply crazy for Hillary and trying to get me to be excited about her I'd be thrilled. I might not be persuaded but I'd be happy she's engaged in Democratic politics.
Tarc
(10,476 posts)I have FB friends as well who have gone off the deep end. Just ignore em.
stellanoir
(14,881 posts)consider that hatred may just belie your screen name.
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QC
(26,371 posts)because the guy across the street keeps letting his dog crap in my yard.
DisgustipatedinCA
(12,530 posts)Interesting.
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)Besides ask help from Dear Abby, I'd just be blunt and say, "please don't talk politics with me". I'll bet you that'll work.
demmiblue
(36,865 posts)Attorney in Texas
(3,373 posts)If not, why not?