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If being a woman is "playing a card"... (Original Post) LisaM Apr 2016 OP
"being" is not playing a card AgerolanAmerican Apr 2016 #1
BA da Boom! 2pooped2pop Apr 2016 #5
You made the general point, I thought of a bunch of specifics pdsimdars Apr 2016 #58
Well admit there is enough sexism left out there treestar Apr 2016 #60
Oh, please. No one even implied that. Every woman does not play victim cards. merrily Apr 2016 #2
"The only card she has is the woman's card; she's got nothing else going," he said LanternWaste Apr 2016 #8
Oh, hey - did no one, from Hillary on down through her campaign and her supporters - not fucking djean111 Apr 2016 #13
OMG...it has never happened in her 25 year in office or while promoting Health care as FLOTUS Sheepshank Apr 2016 #18
Yea but proablem is Gwhittey Apr 2016 #24
no...she didn't use her gender as the sole reason for anything Sheepshank Apr 2016 #25
Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2016 #27
Trump said it out right. savalez Apr 2016 #17
Thank you... haikugal Apr 2016 #23
It's referring to a Trump quote Armstead Apr 2016 #38
Or to Hillary's reply to Trump's comment. merrily Apr 2016 #53
Well to be honest...I defended the phony "sexism" charges about Bernie.... Armstead Apr 2016 #54
No doubt. But that is a different issue from whether playing a card merrily Apr 2016 #56
Me too. we can do it Apr 2016 #3
For my entire life, I've had few opportunities to vote for a female for high office Fresh_Start Apr 2016 #4
yes, I"ll bet your vote has nothing to do with it. 2pooped2pop Apr 2016 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author Fresh_Start Apr 2016 #9
Not hate. Issue analysis. [n/t] Maedhros Apr 2016 #11
I've got room for one more 2pooped2pop Apr 2016 #57
This message was self-deleted by its author Fresh_Start Apr 2016 #61
Bringing up the fact that Hillary is a woman, as a reason to vote for her, is djean111 Apr 2016 #6
It was a major (and awesome) cheer line in her speech last night Dem2 Apr 2016 #10
I LOVED IT. LisaM Apr 2016 #15
It's in response to what Trump said. savalez Apr 2016 #19
The media is already pretending Trump didnt say it. Gomez163 Apr 2016 #12
You know why? Gwhittey Apr 2016 #21
Oh right. I am stupid, too! LisaM Apr 2016 #14
It's as much (no more, no less) a card: Sheepshank Apr 2016 #16
Exactly. LisaM Apr 2016 #20
I think that's identity politics. David__77 Apr 2016 #26
I don't think she has either...but sure is the meme being pressed here Sheepshank Apr 2016 #28
I haven't exactly figured out whether "Identity Politics" is an insult or a compliment. LisaM Apr 2016 #29
That's a matter of viewpoint. David__77 Apr 2016 #33
And that is your perogative. I, on the other hand, LisaM Apr 2016 #36
I'm glad that you're excited! David__77 Apr 2016 #39
I have a 7-year old niece. LisaM Apr 2016 #40
That, I can appreciate also. David__77 Apr 2016 #42
Thank you. LisaM Apr 2016 #43
Making it about being a woman is playing a card. haikugal Apr 2016 #22
Anyone who accuses somebody else of "playing a card" ContinentalOp Apr 2016 #30
Well, it was Donald Trump who said it. LisaM Apr 2016 #32
It's a card worth playing at least once. Orsino Apr 2016 #31
I know. It seems like we're not completely using the talents of half of our population. CTyankee Apr 2016 #46
truth is: we have misused and abused women's talents for half price for Lo, these many years. Hiraeth Apr 2016 #51
K&R mcar Apr 2016 #34
Darn right Demsrule86 Apr 2016 #35
well let us hope she didn't play that Ace in the hole too soon. Hiraeth Apr 2016 #37
Wow. ismnotwasm Apr 2016 #48
yeah, wow. SHOW ME SOMETHING ELSE WOMAN. I have been a woman in the workplace for Hiraeth Apr 2016 #50
You seem nice. Starry Messenger Apr 2016 #49
OK, seems no one is getting this. It's her response to Trump being a jackwagon... all american girl Apr 2016 #41
It was a great response. LisaM Apr 2016 #44
Great response to Trump! SharonClark Apr 2016 #45
Yep. It helps that our candidate is also the best one running! But I will Lucinda Apr 2016 #47
Its a response... MrWendel Apr 2016 #52
Deal me out of this hand for the primaries... ScreamingMeemie Apr 2016 #55
Shouldn't someone alert on this thread?. What does this have to do with priimaries? pdsimdars Apr 2016 #59
Because it was a response to Trump...about hillary and women... all american girl Apr 2016 #62
I'd rather have policies that benefit women, thankyouverymuch n/t eridani Apr 2016 #63
 

AgerolanAmerican

(1,000 posts)
1. "being" is not playing a card
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 11:53 AM
Apr 2016

responding to valid, serious criticism by claiming the critics are sexist is playing a card.

 

pdsimdars

(6,007 posts)
58. You made the general point, I thought of a bunch of specifics
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 06:41 PM
Apr 2016

Like if some guys are being loud and you tell them to keep it down. . OK
But if some ladies are and you ask them to keep it down and if you call "sexist" I call BS

If you say a male politician looks funny, like talk about Trump's hair, seems to be OK.
But if you mention anything about Hillary's looks . . . sexist, you get dumped from the thread.

On and on and on with instance after instance. If you keep playing that card, and calling everything sexist, the word will lose all it's power. That's how it goes.

Just because it's about a woman doesn't mean it's sexist.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
60. Well admit there is enough sexism left out there
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 06:51 PM
Apr 2016

that being a woman means you will come in for criticism a lot sooner and for a lot less. That happened to Obama too.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
8. "The only card she has is the woman's card; she's got nothing else going," he said
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 11:59 AM
Apr 2016

"Oh, please. No one even implied that..."

"The only card she has is the woman's card; she's got nothing else going," he said. "And frankly, if Hillary Clinton were a man, I don't think she'd get 5 percent..."

Trump's most recent speech. blame your lack of knowledge of a fast moving election cycle... it may even work. Then check her response "deal me in..." And again, place blame on the fast-pace of modern life.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
13. Oh, hey - did no one, from Hillary on down through her campaign and her supporters - not fucking
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:17 PM
Apr 2016

realize that this sort of thing would happen? That's pathetic and ill-prepared. Or is hollering "VICTIM!!!!!!" the actual stupid plan?
If Hillary can't take the absolutely expected heat, she should not be campaigning.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
18. OMG...it has never happened in her 25 year in office or while promoting Health care as FLOTUS
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:26 PM
Apr 2016

Clearly you don't remember the Republican push back and insults on the health care plan she presented as FLOTUS, in big part because it was presented by a lowly woman. You absolutely don't think her speech in China about "Women's rights are Human Right's" didn't give her a clue?

Gawd your statement is ignorant of any facts.

 

Gwhittey

(1,377 posts)
24. Yea but proablem is
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:37 PM
Apr 2016

That HRC and surrogates have used sexism claim on people in our own party as a means to win primary. And it was used on the very most liberal people that are about as much as you can get behind women rights as we can. So now to rest of country the claim of sexism has become a cry wolf type of thing. So if Trump says that Hillary sleep her way into office as soon as Clinton or DNC say sexism it is going to be taken less likely. Too bad that they used that tactic on people who where never sexist. When we now have to fight someone who obviously only think women are throw away brides that he upgrades when they go past 40 years old. And all they do is bleed from eyes and other orifices. Winning the primary was more important than not calling out false claims of sexism.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
25. no...she didn't use her gender as the sole reason for anything
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:47 PM
Apr 2016

It happens to be an amazing Plus...but she has an agenda that is more important and apparently resonated with a very, very large portion of the population.

There are very many that will not vote for her solely on gender, I don't know of any that vote for her solely because of gender.

Response to LanternWaste (Reply #8)

savalez

(3,517 posts)
17. Trump said it out right.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:24 PM
Apr 2016
"The only card she has is the woman's card; she's got nothing else going," he said. "And frankly, if Hillary Clinton were a man, I don't think she'd get 5 percent..."


http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slatest/2016/04/26/donald_trump_says_no_one_would_vote_for_hillary_if_she_were_a_man.html

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
54. Well to be honest...I defended the phony "sexism" charges about Bernie....
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 06:23 PM
Apr 2016

But Trump is truly a sexist dog

Fresh_Start

(11,330 posts)
4. For my entire life, I've had few opportunities to vote for a female for high office
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 11:54 AM
Apr 2016

I've resisted Carly. I've resisted Palin....
Maybe its not the woman card at work...but rather a working brain.

 

2pooped2pop

(5,420 posts)
7. yes, I"ll bet your vote has nothing to do with it.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 11:57 AM
Apr 2016

You're just voting for the best republican for the job, I guess.

Response to 2pooped2pop (Reply #7)

Response to 2pooped2pop (Reply #57)

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
6. Bringing up the fact that Hillary is a woman, as a reason to vote for her, is
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 11:57 AM
Apr 2016

playing a card. Yelling that any criticism of Hillary, no matter what the actual facts are, is sexist - THAT is playing a card. Bringing up the EXCUSE that Hillary is a woman, when attempting to explain away some her deeds, is playing a card.

As a woman, that bullshit offends me.

Your simplistic statement is not what "playing a card" is all about. I don't know which is worse - that you understand that, or that you do not understand that.

Dem2

(8,168 posts)
10. It was a major (and awesome) cheer line in her speech last night
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:06 PM
Apr 2016

If you didn't disdain her so much, you'd know this.

It was a response to misogyny on Trump's part.

Please watch the video at the link: http://www.bloomberg.com/politics/videos/2016-04-27/hillary-clinton-responds-to-trump-s-woman-card-remark

 

Gwhittey

(1,377 posts)
21. You know why?
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:29 PM
Apr 2016

Because through out this primary any thing said about HRC was called sexist. She started this in first debate when Sanders criticized her on taking big money from Wall Street. She said Oh it is alright for men to do it but me as women makes it wrong. This type of cry wolf bullshit has been going on entire primary. And now it is going to bite us in DNC in ass because now it allows Trump to actual say stupid shit and people just ignore it because the sexism thing was used to deflect too much.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
14. Oh right. I am stupid, too!
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:20 PM
Apr 2016

Forgot that acknowledging that I was female meant that I lacked grey matter.

It was still a kickass quote.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
16. It's as much (no more, no less) a card:
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:22 PM
Apr 2016

Playing the successful business man, card
Playing the Socialist, card
Playing the Conservative, card
Playing the Evangelical, card
Playing the Peace keeper, card
Playing the carpet bombing, card
Playing the male, card
Playing the white, card

everyone has a card...everyone is playing on what makes them unique and appealing to their constituency.

Its the most stupid statement to claim that we, as the voting public, are not permitted to draw a positive perception based on the card.

David__77

(23,421 posts)
26. I think that's identity politics.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 12:51 PM
Apr 2016

Of course people are permitted to engage in those politics.

That said, I'm not sure that Clinton ever actually articulated that someone should vote for her simply for being female.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
28. I don't think she has either...but sure is the meme being pressed here
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:14 PM
Apr 2016

I can't deny that her female-ness is appealing to me, but I would never have voted solely on her gender. For example, Palin would have never received my vote. There is much, much more to a candidate than their gender, but in this case I am not willing to overlook gender either. It adds a check mark in the "Positive" column.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
29. I haven't exactly figured out whether "Identity Politics" is an insult or a compliment.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:17 PM
Apr 2016

But I will say that when over 50% of a population has never been represented at the highest level of office in the U.S., maybe we need a new ID card.

David__77

(23,421 posts)
33. That's a matter of viewpoint.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:23 PM
Apr 2016

Personally, I'm not particularly engaged with the issue of "identity politics." I get that someone who identifies with a group might support and appreciate a group member gaining social position or elected office.

In a city council race locally, I had the choice between a gay male Democrat and another (I presume straight) Democrat. I actually personally knew the gay candidate. While I'm gay, voted for the other candidate because my sense was that his ideals and basic impulses were more aligned with my own. That's not to say I don't identify as gay and as a member of a group.

I support all human beings being self-determined and free.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
36. And that is your perogative. I, on the other hand,
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:33 PM
Apr 2016

am insanely excited that we might get a woman President, and it's a woman I've liked for a long time.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
40. I have a 7-year old niece.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:47 PM
Apr 2016

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I hope that one of the first Presidents she knows of is a woman and that she won't really remember a country that went almost 250 of its first years of existence without one.

David__77

(23,421 posts)
42. That, I can appreciate also.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:51 PM
Apr 2016

I grew up associating "president" with man. A woman occupying that office will have a formative impact on new generations' associations. I totally get the impact of that.

ContinentalOp

(5,356 posts)
30. Anyone who accuses somebody else of "playing a card"
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:17 PM
Apr 2016

or uses the term "identity politics" as an insult is not a progressive in my book.

LisaM

(27,813 posts)
32. Well, it was Donald Trump who said it.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:20 PM
Apr 2016

I'm grokking that a lot of people may not have watched Hillary last night. I was just trying to be positive about a wonderful comeback line and great moment for Democratic women!

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
31. It's a card worth playing at least once.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:20 PM
Apr 2016

Maybe it'll help us elect more and better women in the future. That might be well worth the price.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
37. well let us hope she didn't play that Ace in the hole too soon.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:41 PM
Apr 2016

Is that the ONLY card she has? Is the woman playing with a full deck or not?

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
50. yeah, wow. SHOW ME SOMETHING ELSE WOMAN. I have been a woman in the workplace for
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 05:16 PM
Apr 2016

a lotta years. Hillary got nothing on me.

She wants MY support BECAUSE she is a woman?!

oh please.

I past that stage of negotiations light years ago.

I am supposed to be impressed because she's a woman?

Big fucking deal. I am a woman, too.

What else ya got, woman?

I am NOT impressed.

IMPRESS ME !!!!!

all american girl

(1,788 posts)
41. OK, seems no one is getting this. It's her response to Trump being a jackwagon...
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 01:49 PM
Apr 2016

The only reason she got votes is because she's a woman...That's her response..I like it!!!!!

Lucinda

(31,170 posts)
47. Yep. It helps that our candidate is also the best one running! But I will
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 04:06 PM
Apr 2016

happily play the woman card for the first female POTUS and a stronger representation in HER cabinet.

MrWendel

(1,881 posts)
52. Its a response...
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 05:24 PM
Apr 2016

to Trumps line about her. Unless some on here already knew that and are trying out defending Trump.

 

pdsimdars

(6,007 posts)
59. Shouldn't someone alert on this thread?. What does this have to do with priimaries?
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 06:42 PM
Apr 2016

It seems like just a way to fish people in.

But I don't alert on things. That's pretty undemocratic. I just ignore people empty BullS.

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