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Armstead

(47,803 posts)
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 07:17 PM Apr 2016

Picking a winning candidate does not make you a "winner" or a "cool kid"

Just a reminder for those inclined to hubris and a sense of arrogance and superiority because of the fortunes of a candidate one has decided to support.

That is all.

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Picking a winning candidate does not make you a "winner" or a "cool kid" (Original Post) Armstead Apr 2016 OP
But it does feel good rock Apr 2016 #1
Feeling good is fine Armstead Apr 2016 #6
Actually, picking a winning candidate DOES make you a winner. By definition. Squinch Apr 2016 #2
It means you selected a candidate that may be a winner Armstead Apr 2016 #7
If one buys a winning lottery ticket, one has won. Therefore one is called a winner. Squinch Apr 2016 #20
I don't think complaining when people behave arrogently.... Armstead Apr 2016 #21
You are complaining because people who win are called winners. Squinch Apr 2016 #22
Naw...I'm just getting sick of all the "sore winner" crap going on Armstead Apr 2016 #24
Aaaaaaand your circular argument has gone back to the starting point. Go 'head. You keep Squinch Apr 2016 #28
I'm venting but if you want to call it "schooling" feel free. Armstead Apr 2016 #30
As opposed to the sore loser thing you've got going? mythology Apr 2016 #38
I'll admit it...I've been guilty of it at times too Armstead Apr 2016 #39
I rarely pick winners Kalidurga Apr 2016 #3
I backed Dean in 04 and Hillary in 08 Tarc Apr 2016 #4
That's fine Armstead Apr 2016 #8
Ironic in that treestar Apr 2016 #5
Not ironic at all. People do gravitate to winners. Doesn't make them winners themselves Armstead Apr 2016 #9
Of course not treestar Apr 2016 #13
Nothing wrong with "we won" jubulation Armstead Apr 2016 #18
When you don't give a damn about people, issues, the direction the country is taking, senz Apr 2016 #10
In one's mind it does. Politics share common brain centers with religion and sports teams. TheBlackAdder Apr 2016 #11
We are in the Kardashian age, this is what it amounts to...wanting to be part of the rich bunch. insta8er Apr 2016 #12
And you don't win by losing KingFlorez Apr 2016 #14
Yes you do...If you're committed to something larger losing is merely a setback Armstead Apr 2016 #16
OK. wildeyed Apr 2016 #15
Long as you keep it in perspective Armstead Apr 2016 #17
Yeah. wildeyed Apr 2016 #19
actually it works both ways - picking a candidate supported by your demographic does not make you DrDan Apr 2016 #23
I acknowledge it works both ways Armstead Apr 2016 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Apr 2016 #26
Even if the candidate is wrong? Vinca Apr 2016 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author rjsquirrel Apr 2016 #29
So all the people who voted for GWB were "right"? Armstead Apr 2016 #31
I think you explained the problem about politics absolutely perfectly. It's about winning. Vinca Apr 2016 #32
That is one of the worst posts I have ever seen on this board. nt merrily Apr 2016 #37
Having the candidate of choice win, does make you the winner. Lol. seabeyond Apr 2016 #33
Please see Reply 31. Win the battle, lose the war. merrily Apr 2016 #36
A war you create if You are talking that the Democrat you do not like won. What war? Not my war. seabeyond Apr 2016 #52
Um, no. I haven't created a war. I'm no neocon. merrily Apr 2016 #54
I do not know what war you are talking about. Won the battle, lost the war. What war? seabeyond Apr 2016 #55
It makes you able to swallow whatever shitty candidate the DNC rams down B Calm Apr 2016 #34
At absolute worst, the voters are the ones forcing Clinton on you mythology Apr 2016 #41
Exactly, but it still makes the voter gullible to swallow whatever B Calm Apr 2016 #45
Sadly, a lot of voters feel otherwise. That's why media has been saying since 2012 that Hillary was merrily Apr 2016 #35
Since Americans tend to treat politics as they do sports, picking winners... Orsino Apr 2016 #40
It's like assuming that you are a great baseball player if you live in Kansas City Armstead Apr 2016 #43
What feels "cool" is the picking the winner of the general election! DCBob Apr 2016 #42
Feeling cool and happy is fine Armstead Apr 2016 #46
I agree with that. DCBob Apr 2016 #48
You're correct ... it does not *make* you a winner. NurseJackie Apr 2016 #44
Have your fun. I'm fine with that. Armstead Apr 2016 #47
I guess that also means Demsrule86 Apr 2016 #50
Of course it does Demsrule86 Apr 2016 #49
It only makes you responsible for whatever evil policies your winning candidate enacts. Live and Learn Apr 2016 #51
Kerry had about 2 dozen posting supporters here at DU while Dean had about 200 posting blm Apr 2016 #53
 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
7. It means you selected a candidate that may be a winner
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 08:10 PM
Apr 2016

No reflection on any other attributes of the picker

Just as buying a winning lottery ticket has no bearing on ones entrepreneurial abilities.

Squinch

(50,955 posts)
20. If one buys a winning lottery ticket, one has won. Therefore one is called a winner.
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 10:13 PM
Apr 2016

You guys pick the weirdest stuff to complain about.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
21. I don't think complaining when people behave arrogently....
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 11:37 PM
Apr 2016

Is weird...especially when they have nothing to be arrogent about.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
24. Naw...I'm just getting sick of all the "sore winner" crap going on
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 07:37 AM
Apr 2016

A voter is not a winner if they support a winning candidate.

They might be a winner because of their own achievements, personal relationships...or whatever measurement one chooses to determine individual success.

The might be a loser for the same reasons. Or somewhere in between (the most common category).

But none of that gives a person the right to behave smug and superior if they choose to support a particular political candidate. There seems to be a lot of that going around.

Squinch

(50,955 posts)
28. Aaaaaaand your circular argument has gone back to the starting point. Go 'head. You keep
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 07:43 AM
Apr 2016

schooling everyone in a website on correct deportment if that makes you happy.

No matter that the Sanders supporters have ben trashing and stalking and censoring people right and left for months. You're being bullied by "smugness" and you need to fight back!

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
38. As opposed to the sore loser thing you've got going?
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:47 AM
Apr 2016

You can't honestly complain about some people who support Clinton being smug and superior without at least mentioning that some Sanders supporters are equally smug and superior.

Kalidurga

(14,177 posts)
3. I rarely pick winners
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 07:37 PM
Apr 2016

I voted for Bill Clinton once in 1992. I voted for Lenora Fulani once. I voted for Jill Stein once. I voted for Al Gore. So, for me it's not about voting for who I think will win. That's not what voting is about. It's supposedly sending a message. My vote for Lenora was as close to a no confidence vote as we are allowed in our system.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
8. That's fine
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 08:12 PM
Apr 2016

Just remember it doesn't transform you as a person

Your choices lost previously. Doesn't mean you were a loser then. If your choice wins this time, you are still the same person.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
5. Ironic in that
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 07:39 PM
Apr 2016

At the beginning there were some DU posts depending on this concept. Bernie was to win big in the early states and that would create momentum, because everyone likes a winner.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
13. Of course not
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 08:44 PM
Apr 2016

Though if they were working on the campaign they might feel a We Won sort of jubilation.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
18. Nothing wrong with "we won" jubulation
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 09:18 PM
Apr 2016

But "our candidate won so we're better than you losers, and your candidate really sucks" is a different matter.

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
10. When you don't give a damn about people, issues, the direction the country is taking,
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 08:14 PM
Apr 2016

it's very easy to turn politics into a sport with no content, no content whatsoever.

Some call it emptiness.

Some call it "fun."

wildeyed

(11,243 posts)
19. Yeah.
Sun Apr 24, 2016, 09:33 PM
Apr 2016

I was already a cool kid before this election, so it is easy for me to stay grounded.

But seriously. I have no desire to rub anything in anyone's face. Except for the one who called me "old-assed". And anyone who called me a Republican. I might face-rub them a little. But they fully deserve it

DrDan

(20,411 posts)
23. actually it works both ways - picking a candidate supported by your demographic does not make you
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 07:33 AM
Apr 2016

a "winner" or "cool kid".

Just a reminder for those inclined to hubris and a sense of arrogance and superiority because of the perceived popularity of a candidate one has decided to support.

That is all.

Response to Armstead (Original post)

Response to Vinca (Reply #27)

Vinca

(50,278 posts)
32. I think you explained the problem about politics absolutely perfectly. It's about winning.
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 07:50 AM
Apr 2016

That "winner" can be a war mongering, environment killing, money-loving opportunist, but "winning" is all that matters.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
52. A war you create if You are talking that the Democrat you do not like won. What war? Not my war.
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 09:51 AM
Apr 2016

I am a lover, not a fighter .

If you are talking about win the primary, lost the GE? Well that is just story telling.

So, I am unclear what you are talking about. That can be taken different ways.

My point is right on. A win makes one a winner. Am I right?

merrily

(45,251 posts)
54. Um, no. I haven't created a war. I'm no neocon.
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 09:54 AM
Apr 2016

And I have already responded to the tautology you are calling your point.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
41. At absolute worst, the voters are the ones forcing Clinton on you
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:50 AM
Apr 2016

You know the ones giving her such a substantial edge in pledged delegates? The DNC can't make people vote for Clinton.

 

B Calm

(28,762 posts)
45. Exactly, but it still makes the voter gullible to swallow whatever
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:54 AM
Apr 2016

shitty candidate the DNC wants. So sad. .

merrily

(45,251 posts)
35. Sadly, a lot of voters feel otherwise. That's why media has been saying since 2012 that Hillary was
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:38 AM
Apr 2016

(again) the inevitable nominee.

In 2007, I picked from the Democratic field the candidate I though likeliest to win the general and I chose correctly. Without necessarily intending so to do, I did the same in 2014. I sure hope he wins the primary.

Orsino

(37,428 posts)
40. Since Americans tend to treat politics as they do sports, picking winners...
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:49 AM
Apr 2016

...give us a warm, proxy feeling of victory.

If the actual winner honors our support by working for us, the victory becomes real.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
46. Feeling cool and happy is fine
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:54 AM
Apr 2016

Assuming that makes one a better person or "Charlie Sheenlike" than the person who picked another candidate is not fine. (IMHO of course.)

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
44. You're correct ... it does not *make* you a winner.
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:54 AM
Apr 2016

It just affirms that we ARE (and have been) winners. There's nothing arrogant about that.

Why be such a kill-joy? You guys have had your fun, now it's time for OUR fun to begin!

I'm not sure about the "cool" part, that's subjective. But the winning part isn't subjective at all. Either you win or you lose. There are no ties when it comes to the selection of the party's nominee.

 

Armstead

(47,803 posts)
47. Have your fun. I'm fine with that.
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 08:57 AM
Apr 2016

But the notion that political fandom gives one individual superiority and the right to be smug and personally dismissive of those who made a different choice is not.

Demsrule86

(68,586 posts)
49. Of course it does
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 09:06 AM
Apr 2016

No one wants to vote for the loser...sorry I voted for Bernie in Ohio...had I knows how he would behave and i wouldn't have done so.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
51. It only makes you responsible for whatever evil policies your winning candidate enacts.
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 09:09 AM
Apr 2016

I feel quite confident in taking that responsibility on with Bernie.

The Clinton supporters should be quite worried since we will constantly remind them that we told them so and America's downfall and their own resulting complaints are their own fault.

And supporting a warmonger will never, in any universe, be considered cool.

blm

(113,065 posts)
53. Kerry had about 2 dozen posting supporters here at DU while Dean had about 200 posting
Mon Apr 25, 2016, 09:54 AM
Apr 2016

here regularly. As difficult as it became here during the heat of the primary battles, I don't recall the Kerry supporters taunting the supporters of Dean.

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