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JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 12:59 AM Jan 2016

My mom is worried Bernie winning, will get a Republican elected.

She says a lot of middle class white people will vote against him because they do not want to help POC.

She said Bernie is pie in the sky.

There's no converting her.

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My mom is worried Bernie winning, will get a Republican elected. (Original Post) JRLeft Jan 2016 OP
Your mom is wise. RandySF Jan 2016 #1
My father is backing Bernie. JRLeft Jan 2016 #3
I'm certain they are wonderful people RandySF Jan 2016 #27
so correct me here if i'm getting this wrong... tk2kewl Jan 2016 #32
Wow. Fawke Em Jan 2016 #39
Whadda ya know, they DID dust off the ol' 08 playbook. Lancero Jan 2016 #46
Your father is wiser. JonLeibowitz Jan 2016 #37
S, as a Democrat angrychair Jan 2016 #36
my thoughts as well (see above)... tk2kewl Jan 2016 #38
There are racist democrats so I understand why she believes it, but I disagree. JRLeft Jan 2016 #40
Hoo boy. marmar Jan 2016 #47
So, you agree that wanting to help PoC makes canidates unelectable? Lancero Jan 2016 #48
Do you Hillbots even listen to what you're saying? Still In Wisconsin Jan 2016 #75
With all due respect she has it backwards. onecaliberal Jan 2016 #2
Your mom listens to and believes too many liars. pipoman Jan 2016 #4
My mom is a baby boomer black woman who suffered through a lot of bullshit, JRLeft Jan 2016 #8
Yeah, baby boomers have a lot of people whispering in their ears pipoman Jan 2016 #11
I'm a baby boomer white woman, SheilaT Jan 2016 #15
She will vote for him if is the nominee. JRLeft Jan 2016 #16
This message was self-deleted by its author dsc Jan 2016 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author SheilaT Jan 2016 #24
sorry you are right dsc Jan 2016 #26
My mom is 3 years younger. JRLeft Jan 2016 #25
America would still have slaves if everyone was like your mom. valerief Jan 2016 #5
Wow - Bernie may not be an asshole but . . . Empowerer Jan 2016 #12
+1 one_voice Jan 2016 #34
Many of them don't seem to have any intention of actually convincing others to vote for their guy Empowerer Jan 2016 #50
Not afraid, skeptical. JRLeft Jan 2016 #13
wow just wow dsc Jan 2016 #21
That's very rude. redwitch Jan 2016 #60
Done. I removed the offensive "fraidy cat" line. nt valerief Jan 2016 #67
The fraidy cat line wasn't the issue. nt redwitch Jan 2016 #68
Oh, the Let's Be Afraid of Standing Up for What We Believe part is the issue? valerief Jan 2016 #69
Show her the polls. That is wise. She'll feel much better! ViseGrip Jan 2016 #6
She doesn't trust the polls, she expects the racists too vote against their best interests. JRLeft Jan 2016 #10
If that were true there is no way Obama could have been elected.... pipoman Jan 2016 #19
That's why we have elections with each person (theoretically, at least) having the opportunity PatrickforO Jan 2016 #7
My sister is pro Hillary too. My brother, father, and I are Bernie all the way. JRLeft Jan 2016 #9
my two best friends say the same thing NRaleighLiberal Jan 2016 #14
Your mom is stuck in old times. retrowire Jan 2016 #17
She doesn't believe all white people, but she believes enough will JRLeft Jan 2016 #22
Lord I hope not. nt retrowire Jan 2016 #42
+1 JRLeft Jan 2016 #43
This post makes me sad. KentuckyWoman Jan 2016 #18
She has her pension, she will be OK, she has SS coming too. JRLeft Jan 2016 #23
well... tk2kewl Jan 2016 #28
Then she will be voting against her own interests Rosa Luxemburg Jan 2016 #29
She doesn't believe we can change the system. She knows it's corrupt, but JRLeft Jan 2016 #31
that's not much use Rosa Luxemburg Jan 2016 #33
Obviously voting is a waste of time. Autumn Jan 2016 #53
The polls show that Jenny_92808 Jan 2016 #30
Cool story Bruh. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2016 #35
Wow you are calling a Sanders supporter a liar? rbrnmw Jan 2016 #66
Bernie is the only one who can win against the Republicans. n/t Skwmom Jan 2016 #41
I like Sanders and support many of his positions but I do not think that he is viable Gothmog Jan 2016 #44
No candidate can win without the 63% who stayed home in 2014 eridani Jan 2016 #45
This is a brilliant tactic by Hillary supporters and Fox News WhaTHellsgoingonhere Jan 2016 #49
Your mom is right. Bernie's ceiling in a general election is about 43%. nt stevenleser Jan 2016 #51
Independents don't even like Hillary. JRLeft Jan 2016 #52
That's not the issue. The issue is, once campaigning is done, is she more likeable to them than stevenleser Jan 2016 #55
She's losing GE. She doesn't inspire anyone. She won't increase voter turnout. JRLeft Jan 2016 #56
I have the same worry, actually. MineralMan Jan 2016 #54
Seriously? You're worried that Sanders will help people of color and piss of whitey? Still In Wisconsin Jan 2016 #76
I believe you have badly MineralMan Jan 2016 #81
Hillary Clinton is never going to be the President. DisgustipatedinCA Jan 2016 #57
There is no way you can honestly make that claim. BillZBubb Jan 2016 #58
The GOP candidates are all garbage, but that really doesn't matter. DisgustipatedinCA Jan 2016 #59
You are very, very wrong. BillZBubb Jan 2016 #61
One of us is wrong, and it may well be me. Still, that's what I actually believe. We'll see. nt DisgustipatedinCA Jan 2016 #62
I think she would crush trump but Cruz would be a tossup. He's evil, but very smart. Still In Wisconsin Jan 2016 #77
Hillary will never be president bowens43 Jan 2016 #63
Get some new material. That one is old and boring. And WRONG riversedge Jan 2016 #72
I wouldn't say never, but the general election is going to be PAINFUL Fast Walker 52 Jan 2016 #74
Hillary beats trump... but probably loses to anybody else. She MIGHT have a shot against Cruz. Still In Wisconsin Jan 2016 #78
Do you want to put some money on that prediction? Gothmog Jan 2016 #79
As Aaron Rogers said...... riversedge Jan 2016 #64
I will just say the hardest thing to do is separate most folks from in their money. DemocratSinceBirth Jan 2016 #65
Well, my parents feel the same way too (they are 82) ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jan 2016 #70
My mom, LWolf Jan 2016 #71
both my parents are die-hard Bernie supporters since day 1 Fast Walker 52 Jan 2016 #73
Just show her the polls that increasingly show Bernie easily beating them. Voice for Peace Jan 2016 #80
 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
32. so correct me here if i'm getting this wrong...
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:22 AM
Jan 2016

but JRLeft's mom is worried that white folks will vote against bernie because he favors poc, and you agree that that's a good reason not to support him?

angrychair

(8,736 posts)
36. S, as a Democrat
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:30 AM
Jan 2016

You think this person's mom is "wise" by saying :
"She says a lot of middle class white people will vote against him because they do not want to help POC."
You think white Democrats don't want to help POC?

Lancero

(3,015 posts)
48. So, you agree that wanting to help PoC makes canidates unelectable?
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 07:46 AM
Jan 2016

Huh... Strange, I thought your group was proud to talk about how much better Hillarys plans to help PoC are.

Guess she's unelectable now since she plans to help PoC huh? Or will she be revising those plans now that wanting to help PoC is a bad thing when it comes to electability?

 

Still In Wisconsin

(4,450 posts)
75. Do you Hillbots even listen to what you're saying?
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 07:54 PM
Jan 2016

This person just said mom is backing Hillary because Bernie will help people of color and piss off whitey. And you say she is "wise."

It really is just about getting Hillary elected at any cost with you isn't it?

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
8. My mom is a baby boomer black woman who suffered through a lot of bullshit,
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:03 AM
Jan 2016

but she's wrong on Bernie.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
15. I'm a baby boomer white woman,
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:09 AM
Jan 2016

and I've certainly not been through any of the bullshit she has, and I certainly can't pretend I know what it's like to be her, but tell her you know of at least one white lady at least her age (I'm 67) who is firmly in the Bernie camp.

Hope over time you can help her come around to supporting Bernie.

Response to SheilaT (Reply #15)

Response to dsc (Reply #20)

valerief

(53,235 posts)
5. America would still have slaves if everyone was like your mom.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:02 AM
Jan 2016

Last edited Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:26 PM - Edit history (2)


on edit:
If she wants to join the HRC "No We Can't" campaign, that's her choice. While we still have a choice.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
34. +1
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:27 AM
Jan 2016

they just don't care who they offend. who's undecided and by extension whose vote they may lose. They think they're invincible. Not a second thought to who might be lurking and reading those comments.

the 'king king ain't got shit on me' attitude is gonna bite them in backside.

Empowerer

(3,900 posts)
50. Many of them don't seem to have any intention of actually convincing others to vote for their guy
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 10:36 AM
Jan 2016

They are so caught up in being in the "cool kids" clique and looking down their noses at anyone who is not with them. They see the Sanders campaign as an exclusive club in which only certain people are good enough to join - everyone else, in their view, is a jerk and they don't want them in the room.

valerief

(53,235 posts)
69. Oh, the Let's Be Afraid of Standing Up for What We Believe part is the issue?
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:41 PM
Jan 2016

If people don't stand up to oppression, unions will vanish, education will go poof, and slavery (and not just for POC) will return.

Sometimes you have to take the risk.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10141317590

Sorry, but you'll have to alert me or put me on Ignore.

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
10. She doesn't trust the polls, she expects the racists too vote against their best interests.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:06 AM
Jan 2016

She's talking about democrats.

 

pipoman

(16,038 posts)
19. If that were true there is no way Obama could have been elected....
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:12 AM
Jan 2016

It took an assload of white people including many right of cwnter to elect him. I can understand her incredulity, but it is a different world than even 10 years ago....those who would not vote for a candidate because of race are relatively few and dying off quickly now....

PatrickforO

(14,593 posts)
7. That's why we have elections with each person (theoretically, at least) having the opportunity
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:03 AM
Jan 2016

to vote. In addition, we have a local and state party apparatus whereby a person can leverage their opinion by getting involved.

We're not going to change her vote, but Bernie is getting mine. And my son's. And my two daughters'. My wife has also decided to support Sanders. In addition, many of the people with whom I work support Sanders.

NRaleighLiberal

(60,024 posts)
14. my two best friends say the same thing
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:07 AM
Jan 2016

then again, they are also loaded ($$$), hate change, and want no part of anything that will mean an extra cent to them. They also see Bernie as meaning a further erosion of the supreme court.

They shake their heads when they see me drive up with my bernie sticker on my truck!

retrowire

(10,345 posts)
17. Your mom is stuck in old times.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:11 AM
Jan 2016

It's okay though. We all have family like that.

But the truth is, the majority of white people don't want to oppress POC these days. The younger generations have been integrated for a while. People see eye to eye a lot more frequently.

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
22. She doesn't believe all white people, but she believes enough will
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:14 AM
Jan 2016

vote to prevent POC from benefiting from SBS policies.

KentuckyWoman

(6,697 posts)
18. This post makes me sad.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:12 AM
Jan 2016

It tells me your Mom believes there is no way for minorities to get fair representation in American government.

I don't say she's wrong.... but I hope we can make enough headway in this regard so that she feels some hope in her lifetime.

 

tk2kewl

(18,133 posts)
28. well...
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:19 AM
Jan 2016

i agree that bernie is likely to be a better candidate for minorities. i also believe hillary already has and will do her best to be both the candidate with the Rosa Parks logo and the candidate that tells blm "i will only speak to white people." triangulation to the clintons is like breathing to you and me.

you might point out to her that what seems to be happening is that much of america is sick of politics as usual. that is why both trump and sanders are getting so much traction.

and that thinking-people who are sick of the same-ol-same-ol are coming out for bernie, while the knuckle draggers are going for trump.

they are both also energizing people who often sit out elections. if hillary becomes the democratic nominee, i expect many of these apathetic types to sit it out again, or worse go for trump if he's the republican nominee.

youth are overwhelming going for bernie and if he's not our nominee many of them are likely to bail as well

finally, if hillary is the nominee, the wacky right will come out in droves even if it's to vote for jeb simply because they have a mouth frothing hatred of hillary.

i'm confident bernie gives us the best chance to win in the ge.

 

JRLeft

(7,010 posts)
31. She doesn't believe we can change the system. She knows it's corrupt, but
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:21 AM
Jan 2016

she believes what we have is it. We cannot progress much further.

 

Jenny_92808

(1,342 posts)
30. The polls show that
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:19 AM
Jan 2016

Bernie does much better against the republicans than Hillary.

So I agree with the post that your mom has it backwards.

Gothmog

(145,635 posts)
44. I like Sanders and support many of his positions but I do not think that he is viable
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:47 AM
Jan 2016

I agree with your mother. Sanders is not viable in the general election

eridani

(51,907 posts)
45. No candidate can win without the 63% who stayed home in 2014
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 06:58 AM
Jan 2016

Sanders is mobilizing them, and Clinton has nothing for them.

 

WhaTHellsgoingonhere

(5,252 posts)
49. This is a brilliant tactic by Hillary supporters and Fox News
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 08:16 AM
Jan 2016

...politics is ugly stuff. You resort to anything, including Fox style fear bating tactics. It turns out Rs are the way they are because they are motivated by fear. Dems, on whole, shouldn't be but those who are found their way to DU.

Fear is irrational, wisdom is quite the opposite. I really don't care what you do, I just care that you're prone to be manipulated by fear and that Hillary supporters are reinforcing it and implying it's rational (wise). Though both choices are good, they have different histories and priorities. What are your values and priorities? Why do you think Bernie can't beat a Republican? Is it too early to make a decision? Things have changed significantly in just the last month. That's making Hillary's supporters very nervous. As a result, they are fear mongering.

I'm in Illinois. There's absolutely no reason for me to panic had I been on the fence. If you have time, take your time. Things are changing rapidly.

Good luck!

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
55. That's not the issue. The issue is, once campaigning is done, is she more likeable to them than
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 10:48 AM
Jan 2016

Trump or Cruz. We don't know the answer to that yet, but both of those guys have proposed and said very extremist things likely to turn off wide swaths of the electorate and they have said them repeatedly.

What we also know is that consistently polling shows that 50% of the country has said they will not vote for a Socialist candidate. We also know that proposing a middle class tax increase has badly hurt several Democratic Presidential nominee's candidacies.

Both of those issues are ripe for the GOP strategists and those who create their ads to exploit, particularly in combination.

Hillary will have a tough time if nominated. No question about that. Sanders will not be in the ballpark.

 

Still In Wisconsin

(4,450 posts)
76. Seriously? You're worried that Sanders will help people of color and piss of whitey?
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 07:59 PM
Jan 2016

Incredible. You Hillbots will accuse Sanders supporters of being racist, and then appeal to racism when it suits you. It's all about Hillary for you people. Disgusting.

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
57. Hillary Clinton is never going to be the President.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 10:49 AM
Jan 2016

But she's still the most likely winner in the primaries, and that's a damn shame.

BillZBubb

(10,650 posts)
58. There is no way you can honestly make that claim.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 11:11 AM
Jan 2016

We don't know which loon the repubs are going to nominate. Hillary would handily beat most of their potential nominees.

If the repubs nominate someone who can pass as a moderate, then Hillary would be in trouble. But do they even have such a potential candidate?

 

DisgustipatedinCA

(12,530 posts)
59. The GOP candidates are all garbage, but that really doesn't matter.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 11:13 AM
Jan 2016

Clinton would lose to either Trump or Cruz. Republicans have professionally hated her for years. She's no great prize for liberals--she spent last week lying about our candidate. She's not going to win.

BillZBubb

(10,650 posts)
61. You are very, very wrong.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 11:23 AM
Jan 2016

She would crush both Trump and Cruz in a general election.

Republicans will end up hating the Democratic nominee whoever that may be. So, Bernie has no advantage there. As for the left, I can't speak for others, but I will totally support Hillary if she is the nominee. I'd love to see Bernie get it, but if he doesn't that won't dissuade me from working to defeat the republican loon.

 

Still In Wisconsin

(4,450 posts)
77. I think she would crush trump but Cruz would be a tossup. He's evil, but very smart.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 08:00 PM
Jan 2016

I think she loses big to Rubio.

 

Fast Walker 52

(7,723 posts)
74. I wouldn't say never, but the general election is going to be PAINFUL
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 07:45 PM
Jan 2016

The main problem with Hillary is her high negatives and general lack of straight talk.

Gothmog

(145,635 posts)
79. Do you want to put some money on that prediction?
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 08:04 PM
Jan 2016

You would get very good odds on the Irish brokerage market if you purchase an option agreement on that view

riversedge

(70,336 posts)
64. As Aaron Rogers said......
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 11:32 AM
Jan 2016




0:05 / 0:16
R-E-L-A-X
coolcoolcool

And tell her it is a not to worry--Hillary has it!



DemocratSinceBirth

(99,716 posts)
65. I will just say the hardest thing to do is separate most folks from in their money.
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 11:35 AM
Jan 2016

I worked in a small business, maybe ten or so employees, so the owner was the boss... He was kind of a big guy, intense, and scary looking. To describe him further would lead me to traffic in ethnic stereotypes which I am always loathe to do... If one of us screwed up, his hands would literally shake and he would say "it's my f-----g money."

I don't think he would been that upset if a family member was ill...

There is a paradox. Polling suggests that there is a desire for a potpourri of social programs. The same polling suggests these same people want others to pay for it.

I can be disinterested. I haven't had to file tax returns since 2009 since I haven't met the income threshhold.

ProudToBeBlueInRhody

(16,399 posts)
70. Well, my parents feel the same way too (they are 82)
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 01:43 PM
Jan 2016

And they campaigned for McGovern, and my father supported Kucinich, Harkin, Bill Bradley against Gore, etc....

My mother, however, supported Hillary in '08 (although she likes Obama) and does now. I do think she really wants a woman president.

But they both say America will not vote for a socialist Democrat, even though they support most of his positions.

Once again, I'm undecided. But I can't figure this election out. I just don't get how there are people who want Trump and Bernie as their 1A and 1B, and there are a lot of them.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
71. My mom,
Mon Jan 18, 2016, 02:13 PM
Jan 2016

a hardcore lover of all things Clinton until she learned about Bernie Sanders, has dropped HRC like a rock and is enthusiastically supporting Sanders.

Since she doesn't follow politicians and campaigns outside of what she hears on the MSM, she frequently asks me, "Do you think he can really win?"

And I tell her, every time, "Of course he can. He IS winning over one voter at a time, slowly but surely. It won't be easy. It will be a fight, and the outcome certainly isn't guaranteed, but he's got a good chance. Keep helping."

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