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TexasTowelie

(112,300 posts)
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 06:14 PM Jan 2013

Study: Husbands who do more housework have less sex

Here are some hot new findings in the world of domestic bliss.

Sociologists say married men who spend more time doing traditionally female chores, such as cooking, cleaning and shopping, report having less sex than husbands who don’t do as much. Conversely, men who did more manly chores, such as yard work, paying bills and auto repairs, reported having more sex.

The study, using data on heterosexual couples in the United States from National Survey of Families and Households, appears in the February issue of American Sociological Review.

As a graph from the paper below, the difference is pretty stark between men who do a lot of “female” chores (core housework) and those who don’t.



More at http://blog.chron.com/sciguy/2013/01/study-husbands-who-do-more-housework-have-less-sex/

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Study: Husbands who do more housework have less sex (Original Post) TexasTowelie Jan 2013 OP
Paying bills is "manly"? klook Jan 2013 #1
I'm manly quite often!!! Skittles Jan 2013 #3
That's counter-intuitive, isn't it. HomeboyHombre Jan 2013 #2
Or they're as tired as their wives are and aren't as interested Warpy Jan 2013 #5
Hah! Good points. nt HomeboyHombre Jan 2013 #6
... Neoma Jan 2013 #4
And probably men who beat their wives have more sex. Why as a society do we care so fucking much Lionessa Jan 2013 #7
! TexasTowelie Jan 2013 #9
selfreported Viva_La_Revolution Jan 2013 #8
good point caraher Jan 2013 #10
Just what I was thinking. kickysnana Jan 2013 #11
Using time and energy on housework leaves less time and energy available for sex? eridani Jan 2013 #12

klook

(12,160 posts)
1. Paying bills is "manly"?
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 06:16 PM
Jan 2013

I'll remember that next time I'm sitting at the computer typing aerobically or picking up a heavy pen to write a check.

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
3. I'm manly quite often!!!
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 06:18 PM
Jan 2013

I did not realize that taking care of my financial obligations is a MASCULINE TRAIT

 

HomeboyHombre

(46 posts)
2. That's counter-intuitive, isn't it.
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 06:17 PM
Jan 2013

Or perhaps men who are more egalitarian want (demand?) less sex or marry women who want less sex?

Hard to know what's behind this . . .

Warpy

(111,294 posts)
5. Or they're as tired as their wives are and aren't as interested
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 06:21 PM
Jan 2013

I don't know who all those manly men who don't do housework are having all that sex with. It's not likely the overtired, overworked, resentful woman they're married to.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
7. And probably men who beat their wives have more sex. Why as a society do we care so fucking much
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 06:27 PM
Jan 2013

about men's sexual happiness. Get over yourselves guys or get more skilled hands and toys, that's what we women have had to do for centuries.

caraher

(6,278 posts)
10. good point
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 07:07 PM
Jan 2013

I'm sure the same guys who wouldn't admitting to cooking, cleaning or washing the dishes are also the most likely to lie about how much sex they have.

eridani

(51,907 posts)
12. Using time and energy on housework leaves less time and energy available for sex?
Wed Jan 30, 2013, 08:26 PM
Jan 2013

I'm shocked, SHOCKED!! to hear it, I tell you!. Nothing women haven't known for years, of chourse.

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