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rug

(82,333 posts)
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 04:54 PM Dec 2012

Famed atheist professor says 'being raised Catholic is worse than child abuse’

Richard Dawkins says ‘mental torment’ inflicted by Catholic teachings terrible

By DARA KELLY, IrishCentral.com Staff Writer
Published Sunday, December 23, 2012, 8:11 AM
Updated Sunday, December 23, 2012, 8:11 AM

A former Oxford professor, Richard Dawkins, has said that raising a child Catholic is worse than child abuse and that the "mental torment" inflicted by Catholic teachings is worse than any sexual abuse from priests, reports the Daily Mail.

Dawkins is an atheist biologist whose 1976 book "The Selfish Gene" revolutionized the theory of evolution.

His remarks were to be broadcast this weekend by Qatar-based TV network Al Jazzeera.

When asked by interviewer Mehdi Hasan about previous comments he made, Dawkins said: "Horrible as sexual abuse no doubt was, the damage was arguably less than the long-term psychological damage inflicted by bringing the child up Catholic in the first place."

http://www.irishcentral.com/news/Famed-atheist-professor-says-being-raised-Catholic-is-worse-than-child-abuse-184604441.html

That sound you hear is credibility fleeing from the vicinity of Richard Dawkins.

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Famed atheist professor says 'being raised Catholic is worse than child abuse’ (Original Post) rug Dec 2012 OP
This is actually a defensible position intaglio Dec 2012 #1
Are you saying raising children as Catholics is child abuse? rug Dec 2012 #2
I do not know children raised that way intaglio Dec 2012 #3
Then you are speaking from ignorance. rug Dec 2012 #4
OK, I'll wait n/t intaglio Dec 2012 #5
Sorry, I misunderstood, you want me to post for you intaglio Dec 2012 #6
It's your indefensible argument not mine. rug Dec 2012 #7
It's your cowardice, not mine intaglio Dec 2012 #8
Lol. rug Dec 2012 #9
Dawkins is a bigot Fortinbras Armstrong Dec 2012 #10
The worst part of this form of bigotry is that it clothes itself in the language of rationalism. rug Dec 2012 #11
Make the decision if it's abuse or not: olegramps Dec 2012 #12
All five of my kids had Reconcilation before Communion. rug Dec 2012 #13
Dawkins is just another arrogant, abrasive academic. Brigid Dec 2012 #14
And I never met a person who was abused who would agree with him. rug Dec 2012 #15
Merry Christmas, rug! Brigid Dec 2012 #16
Dawkins sounds like a southbound end of a northbound horse. 47of74 Dec 2012 #17
How unfortunate. Tired of atheistic bigotry.. Just wish they'd leave us alone sometimes. LeftTurnOnly Dec 2012 #18
Merry Christmas to you, too, Lefty! rug Dec 2012 #19
*Waving white flag* JNelson6563 Dec 2012 #20
Welcome to the Catholic Group, Julie. rug Dec 2012 #21
Odd, isn't it, okasha Dec 2012 #22
I would have loved to have met Mother Paul! Brigid Jan 2013 #24
I'll take it Dawkins was never abused as a child.... musical_soul Jan 2013 #23
I went to Catholic school also shiningseas1971 Jan 2013 #25
A belated welcome to DU. rug Jan 2013 #26

intaglio

(8,170 posts)
1. This is actually a defensible position
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 06:41 PM
Dec 2012

The restrictions, the dogma that all humans including children are evil, the oppressive refusal to inform about sexuality, the submission to authority ...

intaglio

(8,170 posts)
3. I do not know children raised that way
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 07:11 PM
Dec 2012

The only Catholic couples I know are childless. I have met ex-Catholics who considered their upbringing abusive but they may be biased. Equally there are reports in groups such as "Ex Christian.Net" that recount the mental tortures they experienced from such upbringing.

All I am saying is Dawkins' position is defensible. On the other hand you choosing to rant about how Dawkins has lost credibility whilst you are within the confines a "safe haven" merely shows arrant cowardice.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
4. Then you are speaking from ignorance.
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 07:22 PM
Dec 2012

In addition to your lack of knowledge about Catholic children, you repeat blithely three false statements:

1) "the dogma that all humans including children are evil";

2) "the oppressive refusal to inform about sexuality";

3) "the submission to authority".

Do yourself a favor and check the pap peddled at exchristian.net at a reputble unbiased site.

Now, about "arrant cowardice". There is no one yet bocked from this Group, unlike your other safe haven group which is the model for what you describe.

Rather than soil that record in here, repost it in Religion and you'll learn what arrant cowardice is and is not.

You won't continue it in here.

Oh, BTW, likening child abuse to a Catholic upbringing is indefensible. It shows as little understanding of child abuse as it does of Catholicism.

intaglio

(8,170 posts)
6. Sorry, I misunderstood, you want me to post for you
Sun Dec 23, 2012, 07:38 PM
Dec 2012

Sorry, it's your OP get the courage to post for yourself.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
10. Dawkins is a bigot
Mon Dec 24, 2012, 08:44 AM
Dec 2012

The major thing I dislike about DU is the tolerence for atheistic bigotry. I have complained about this bigotry when it occurs -- admittedly, often in intemperate terms, but this is because I am strongly opposed to bigotry in all forms. If I were to say nasty things about blacks or Muslims or Jews or atheists, I would be slapped down (I have been slapped down for saying nasty things about atheists -- specifically, when an atheist was whining about "Oh, we atheists aren't accepted in this country", I replied in intemperate terms that he was whining). But say nasty things about Catholics? Why, that's perfectly acceptable on DU.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
11. The worst part of this form of bigotry is that it clothes itself in the language of rationalism.
Mon Dec 24, 2012, 10:05 AM
Dec 2012

Putting on silk underwear doesn't change the smell of an ass.

olegramps

(8,200 posts)
12. Make the decision if it's abuse or not:
Mon Dec 24, 2012, 04:36 PM
Dec 2012

When I went to catholic school at first communion I was given at little prayer book along with scapulars and a rosary. I still have the prayer book which contained an "Examination of Conscience that you were suppose to use prior to confession. Let me digress for moment. Following Vatican II many psychologists who were joined by numerous theologians successfully petition for dropping the requirement that First Communion must be preceded by confession This was latter reinstalled be John Paul II. It was contended by mental experts to possibly be harmful to children. Returning to my little prayer book it's first five in the list all dealt with sexuality. "Did you look at dirty pictures, say nasty things, do nasty things by yourself or others.". I simply ask was this appropriate for six and seven year olds? How about the harmful affects of teaching children that masturbation could land them in he'll for eternity. I am strongly inclined to agree with mental health care experts that this has definitely caused sever problems of guilt in children and adolescents. The fact is that because of expert concern the church toned down it's war on adolescent masturbation saying that immaturity could lessen it's seriousness. Okay, were children harmed? Seems to me that the church has admitted to this fact. As serious as child abuse by pedophiles, that seems a bit overblown.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
13. All five of my kids had Reconcilation before Communion.
Mon Dec 24, 2012, 07:56 PM
Dec 2012

I saw none of that.

It's hard to make a decision by swapping anecdotes. I'll rely on the expert quoted in the article:

Peter Saunders, the chief executive of the National Association for People Abused in Childhood, said: "At NAPAC we know that recovery from sexual abuse can take a lifetime. People never get over it. It is entirely unhelpful to make such comparisons."


But to your last sentence, comparing this to child abuse is indeed, to understate it, a bit overblown.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
14. Dawkins is just another arrogant, abrasive academic.
Mon Dec 24, 2012, 09:42 PM
Dec 2012

There are far too many of his ilk in the world these days. I have known plenty of people who were brought up Catholic who don't view their upbringing as abusive, whether or not they still practice the faith.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
15. And I never met a person who was abused who would agree with him.
Mon Dec 24, 2012, 09:49 PM
Dec 2012

Merry Christmas, Brigid!

LeftTurnOnly

(36 posts)
18. How unfortunate. Tired of atheistic bigotry.. Just wish they'd leave us alone sometimes.
Wed Dec 26, 2012, 05:54 PM
Dec 2012

Thanks for all of your Catholic posts, rug! Merry Christmas!

JNelson6563

(28,151 posts)
20. *Waving white flag*
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 03:19 PM
Dec 2012

(Disclaimer: I am an atheist, was Catholic much of my life and the church was only ever a source of comfort to me & didn't prompt the change in my belief system.)

Interesting thread on a broad brush statement from Dawkins. I grew up Catholic, including some Catholic school - until 9th grade. I guess we had rather liberal nuns teaching us. No talk of misery in hell, just the absence of God. Catholic school, church and teachings were rather comforting to me, a safe haven from my stormy life at home. My personal experience is so opposite of what Dawkins is asserting here that it saddens me to see him make this statement.

Additionally it is my observation that, while many atheists can be obnoxious on matters of faith, many non-Catholic Christians attack Catholicism just as viciously, perhaps more so.

In the end I'd say there is much back and forth between the various camps but I would say Catholics get the worst of it since it is a common ground between the two groups.

Just adding my .0125 worth while stopping in for a visit.

Julie

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
21. Welcome to the Catholic Group, Julie.
Fri Dec 28, 2012, 09:52 PM
Dec 2012

I had a similar background to yours. While there was plenty of nonsense gong on (which is very easy to ridicule) overall there was a positive, deeply caring message.

Don't be a stranger.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
22. Odd, isn't it,
Sat Dec 29, 2012, 04:30 PM
Dec 2012

how many of us never experienced the alleged trauma of a Catholic education. My Baptist mother and Episcopalian father sent me to an Ursuline school because of its high educational standards. No talk of burning in hell there, either--just, as you say, being left out of the presence of God and regretting what might have been. And they were fiercely protective of the girls. When I was in sixth grade, several members of a gang came strolling onto the campus, only to be run off, single-handedly, by Mother Paul, who stood maybe 4'10" and must have weighed all of 90 pounds in her winter habit, dripping wet. I have nothing but fond memories of those ladies.

Brigid

(17,621 posts)
24. I would have loved to have met Mother Paul!
Sun Jan 6, 2013, 10:26 PM
Jan 2013

I have only been a Catholic for a few years, and thus had very few encounters with nuns. But I know that the old-time nuns were not to be trifled with. Rachel Maddow says so.

musical_soul

(775 posts)
23. I'll take it Dawkins was never abused as a child....
Sat Jan 5, 2013, 12:15 PM
Jan 2013

because that's just an ignorant thing to say. It's offensive to those who underwent abuse.

This isn't to say that people in the Catholic church can't be abusive. My sister went through some mental abuse being a Catholic daycare once.

For the most part, it's really not that bad for most Catholics. I've been around those kids in Catholic church. They're healthy, happy, full of life. They don't seem like people who have been through mental anguish.

 

shiningseas1971

(34 posts)
25. I went to Catholic school also
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 03:42 PM
Jan 2013

and I do not remember ever being told to be ashamed of any feelings we had. I know that we went to confessional and were only told to confess something if it was really bad. This was ohhh about 36 years ago also and our nun didn't wear habits LOL. Our religious studies were only like 30 min a day. I know that once reaching high school, which I didn't attend, there wasn't really any religious studies. I really am sick and tired of people who badger me about believing in God. Oh and how about the, I don't wanna have to look at religious Christmas decorations! What a bunch of whiners! There is a city north of me that is having a court battle about a large cross that is near the city of Frankenmuth, MI. The cross has been there for generations and the atheists are offended by it. Well I don't go around saying that they are wrong and Have to believe in God, so why don't they leave that stuff alone. Sheesh! Comparing Catholic teaching to child abuse! Both of my grandmothers were strict Catholics and didn't even bat an eyelash when I had my daughter out of wedlock.....

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
26. A belated welcome to DU.
Wed Jan 9, 2013, 09:39 PM
Jan 2013

I was in school too when they transitioned during Vatican II. Interesting times.

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