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rug

(82,333 posts)
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 09:35 AM Apr 2013

Camp Quest Oklahoma fundraiser nixed by Christian business owner.

April 8, 2013
By JT Eberhard

Camp Quest Oklahoma was running a fundraiser with the help of a restaurant called Oklahoma Joe’s BBQ. The organizers of CQ OK met with the restaurant a full month ahead of time. In that meeting, the representatives of the restaurant signed off on this flyer.



And it’s not like Camp Quest makes their mission a secret. So the restaurant had to know what they were getting into. So over one hour into their fundraiser, this happened:



- snip -

UPDATE:

Joe Davidson has now changed his story up a little bit as people are calling in. He is saying the CQ OK people showed up to hand out literature at the restaurant, without permission, and the people who showed up with the flier were given the 10% back and said they should donate it as they see fit.

The first part is untrue, according to the organizers. They say they had permission, and that the brochures were sitting on a table by their fundraiser. They also said the 10% was only given back after massive complaints.

http://www.patheos.com/blogs/wwjtd/2013/04/camp-quest-oklahoma-kicked-out-of-their-own-fundraiser-by-christian-business-owner/

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Camp Quest Oklahoma fundraiser nixed by Christian business owner. (Original Post) rug Apr 2013 OP
Science edhopper Apr 2013 #1
What caused the change of heart? Jim__ Apr 2013 #2
They found out science meant EVILution? longship Apr 2013 #3
In the update it's stated CQ was handing out literature in the restaurant without permission. rug Apr 2013 #4
I hope something more specific comes out. Jim__ Apr 2013 #6
pretty obvious that the restaurant mgmt didn't know.. Phillip McCleod Apr 2013 #5
That theory really doesn't hold water Rob H. Apr 2013 #8
I, too, find it difficult to believe Act_of_Reparation Apr 2013 #9
exactly he's that dumb. Phillip McCleod Apr 2013 #10
Or he started getting complaints from customers Goblinmonger Apr 2013 #14
How Christian of that restaurant... backscatter712 Apr 2013 #7
If a restaurant owner were to throw out a group that prayed when they sat down to eat because prayer cleanhippie Apr 2013 #11
What silence? You're reading about it right here. rug Apr 2013 #12
Were this to have happened as I described above, it would be headline news right now. cleanhippie Apr 2013 #13
you mean all the posts LOOKING for some reason why the guy did what he did? Goblinmonger Apr 2013 #15
What posts? rug Apr 2013 #16
Of course Goblinmonger Apr 2013 #17
yeh apparently they had.. Phillip McCleod Apr 2013 #18
"We did not hand out pamphlets (we didn’t even have any–they were brochures and few stickers ..." Jim__ Apr 2013 #19
Yeah, it's not that hard if you aren't looking to apologize for the Christian asshole. Goblinmonger Apr 2013 #20
You're the only one using the phrase "atheists assholes" - I didn't call any names. Jim__ Apr 2013 #21
Since you're addressing me, I'll be happy to correct you. rug Apr 2013 #23
Do you have a post to point to? rug Apr 2013 #22

Jim__

(14,075 posts)
2. What caused the change of heart?
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 10:14 AM
Apr 2013

Why did the restaurant back out after one hour of fund-raising? Were customers complaining? Did something happen at the restaurant? I didn't see anything in the article that gives a reason. The sign in the window indicates that the restaurant owner came to some new conclusion about the nature of Camp Quest; but the article doesn't tell us what caused this to happen.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
4. In the update it's stated CQ was handing out literature in the restaurant without permission.
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 11:13 AM
Apr 2013

CQ denies it.

Jim__

(14,075 posts)
6. I hope something more specific comes out.
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 01:42 PM
Apr 2013

I wonder if Joe Davidson was ok with the flyer, but found the brochures offensive.

 

Phillip McCleod

(1,837 posts)
5. pretty obvious that the restaurant mgmt didn't know..
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 11:19 AM
Apr 2013

..what camp quest is until they got there. once they were there and reality set in, they had to put a stop to it because it didn't comport with their 'christian organization'. at least that's what the sign on the door implies.

Rob H.

(5,351 posts)
8. That theory really doesn't hold water
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 02:00 PM
Apr 2013

unless the restaurant representatives didn't know what the words "free-thought" and "humanist" meant on the flyer they saw and approved a full month in advance of the event. ("Free-thought" I could almost understand as it's not as common as "agnostic" or "atheist," but I find it really hard to believe that they don't know what a humanist is.)

Here's an attendee's contribution to the comments on the page linked in the OP:

Melissa says:
April 9, 2013 at 12:40 am

Thanks for posting this. I was there and can verify some things. We were asked to leave. We did not hand out pamphlets (we didn’t even have any–they were brochures and few stickers, for the people who came to the event to take home) or talk to any customers that weren’t already with our group. (He’s really dialing this story up on the local news. Now he’s got us “handing out pamphlets and promoting atheism”. Not true.) He also did not act until two other workers took one of our brochures into the back of the restaurant. Before then, he and the manager actually came out and made small talk with us.

The most important point, I think, is that this happened an hour after the event started and we had paid. We had paid with the agreement that 10% would go to the cause. Originally, he backed off on that. He said, “I can’t support this cause” (never mind that it’s still our money, not his–money he wouldn’t have at all if we hadn’t come in to eat for this event). When I spoke with him, he still did not budge on donating, and finally agreed to give me the 10% of my ticket back. I don’t know when he decided to donate everyone else’s after all (if he’s not lying about that too…) but it was by no means an immediate decision. At first, he was going to kick us out and take our donations for himself.

Think about that for a while.


Edited for clarity

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
9. I, too, find it difficult to believe
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 02:19 PM
Apr 2013

We're talking about the Bible Belt, where pastors routinely preach against the evils of "secular humanism". I think it more likely the owner perchance did not actually read the flyer before approving it.

That said, in either case, the confusion is entirely on him.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
14. Or he started getting complaints from customers
Wed Apr 10, 2013, 12:32 PM
Apr 2013

and thought it better to shit on the atheist group than piss off the Christians.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
11. If a restaurant owner were to throw out a group that prayed when they sat down to eat because prayer
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 04:53 PM
Apr 2013

"doesn't align with the atheist philosophy of our organization", this country would be in full-fucking crisis mode, all networks all the time.

The silence about this outright discrimination and bigotry is appalling, yet so expected.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
13. Were this to have happened as I described above, it would be headline news right now.
Tue Apr 9, 2013, 05:02 PM
Apr 2013

People from coast to coast losing their collective minds at the persecution, the bigotry, the hate.

Yet when exactly that happens to others...meh.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
15. you mean all the posts LOOKING for some reason why the guy did what he did?
Wed Apr 10, 2013, 12:33 PM
Apr 2013

Yeah, I read all those. I don't see many of the usual vocal theists in this group coming in here to say how much of a shitty move this was by the restaurant.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
17. Of course
Wed Apr 10, 2013, 05:47 PM
Apr 2013

there is nothing upthread that supposes that the brochures (which the atheist group says weren't being handed out without permission) were offensive. You get that, right? Couldn't be that the owner is an asshole. Must be that the atheists were being offensive.

Jim__

(14,075 posts)
19. "We did not hand out pamphlets (we didn’t even have any–they were brochures and few stickers ..."
Wed Apr 10, 2013, 06:54 PM
Apr 2013

Imagine looking for clarification from people with that kind of clarity on their side.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
20. Yeah, it's not that hard if you aren't looking to apologize for the Christian asshole.
Wed Apr 10, 2013, 07:14 PM
Apr 2013
He is saying the CQ OK people showed up to hand out literature at the restaurant, without permission


So the owner is claiming
1. they were handing out literature; and
2. they didn't have permission to do so.

Then comes the line you think is unclear:
The first part is untrue, according to the organizers. They say they had permission, and that the brochures were sitting on a table by their fundraiser.


So, the part you don't understand is answering both claims by Christian asshole business owner. Specifically:
1. they were NOT handing out literature; and
2. they DID have permission.

But, hey, continue to look as hard as you want to find a way to make the atheists assholes in this scenario.

Do you get it now, rug? (Yes, I know I'm not responding to rug, but he was the one claiming that nobody in this thread was looking for ways to excuse the asshole Christian owner).

Jim__

(14,075 posts)
21. You're the only one using the phrase "atheists assholes" - I didn't call any names.
Wed Apr 10, 2013, 07:29 PM
Apr 2013

I just wanted to know the details of what happened. If someone asking for details is offensive to you, you must be afraid of the details.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
23. Since you're addressing me, I'll be happy to correct you.
Wed Apr 10, 2013, 07:47 PM
Apr 2013

It was you complaining about the responses.

I asked you what posts.

You didn't provide any.

You are clearly reading something into this that is not evident. Far be it from me to read your mind but your words are certainly reflecting a heightened sensitivity.

For the record, if this guy cancelled the event after an hour because he belatedly realized it was an atheist group and not a kids' camp, then he's an idiot, a coward or a bigot. Perhaps all three.

On the other hand, if the group was handing out literature in the restaurant without telling the owner, then they're presumptuous idiots.

As it is, neither you nor I know what the facts are.

Feel free to produce some. I can supply my own projections and suppositions.

Also for the record, I would welcome a flyer on freethought about as much as I would welcome a copy of Watchtower while I'm gnawing on a spare rib.

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