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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 06:42 PM Jan 2019

Why making clergy mandatory reporters won't solve the Catholic abuse crisis

From the article:

Covering confession under mandatory reporting rules would have little effect even if priests did report. Few would confess such a sin if they thought their confidences were not secure. Many pedophiles, anyway, are so delusional that they do not think what they are doing is wrong, and therefore do not confess.
Finally, it’s not often that a priest can identify who is confessing to him. A penitent could find a priest who does not know him and confess in a confessional box where there is an opaque screen between him and the priest, which would ensure anonymity.


To read more:

https://religionnews.com/2019/01/14/why-making-clergy-mandatory-reporters-wont-solve-the-catholic-abuse-crisis/

No matter the institution, predators will continue to prey, and even more unfortunate, institutions will continue to cover up the crimes committed by members of the institutions.
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Why making clergy mandatory reporters won't solve the Catholic abuse crisis (Original Post) guillaumeb Jan 2019 OP
Best to just keep sweeping it under the rug. Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #1
Your solution? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #2
First the problem is an institution that Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #3
Agreed 100%. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #4
Sure. So what? Voltaire2 Jan 2019 #5
Not my point. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #6
You have no idea... Major Nikon Jan 2019 #9
A repeat. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #11
Nobody is saying otherwise Major Nikon Jan 2019 #15
It is a fact that institutions cover up for their members. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #20
Diversion Major Nikon Jan 2019 #45
Reality. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #47
I'm not saying your diversion isn't real Major Nikon Jan 2019 #61
Ignore reality at your peril. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #64
Yeah whatabout all those other child rapists? Major Nikon Jan 2019 #65
did you read the whole piece? niyad Jan 2019 #145
Yes Major Nikon Jan 2019 #146
Kinda fucked up to suggest religion has no role to play Major Nikon Jan 2019 #7
You missed the point. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #8
Your point is to deflect responsibility from those responsible Major Nikon Jan 2019 #10
Have fun with your straw. eom guillaumeb Jan 2019 #12
You don't get to have it both ways Major Nikon Jan 2019 #13
Every institution bears a responsibility for the behavior of its members. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #14
Sure Gil, kinda funny how you keep reminding us how it happens everywhere Major Nikon Jan 2019 #16
But you think actually holding them responsible is a bad idea Major Nikon Jan 2019 #17
Your responses tell me something. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #21
You mean like the "choir"? Major Nikon Jan 2019 #44
Not "people in this group". guillaumeb Jan 2019 #46
Didn't say "all" either Major Nikon Jan 2019 #58
#Whataboutism n/t trotsky Jan 2019 #68
So should I, as a teacher, be a mandatory reporter? Cuthbert Allgood Jan 2019 #85
Are you not? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #96
We might never stop it. But mandatory reporter laws HELP. trotsky Jan 2019 #118
... trotsky Jan 2019 #75
WOW! suprised you went that far. Eko Jan 2019 #18
Why would my repeating a point that I have previously made surprise you? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #22
Whats the law? Eko Jan 2019 #24
And my first point? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #25
I dont recall seeing you make this point before. Eko Jan 2019 #26
But I have made it more than once. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #27
It might suprise you Eko Jan 2019 #28
It varies by state. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #30
Suprised? Eko Jan 2019 #32
I think it is horrible. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #35
I get that you think it might not solve anything Eko Jan 2019 #36
Why is it not a national level issue? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #38
That wasnt my question. Eko Jan 2019 #40
Will you not answer my question? Eko Jan 2019 #48
I did. We need one national standard. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #49
No you didnt at all. Eko Jan 2019 #51
No, there should be no exemption for clergy. eom guillaumeb Jan 2019 #53
Federal system limits what we can do nationally marylandblue Jan 2019 #52
True, but as I posted, guillaumeb Jan 2019 #54
I think that more states will add clergy to the list. marylandblue Jan 2019 #56
I hope you are correct. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #59
"many types of individuals are legally required to report it" trotsky Jan 2019 #69
You are incorrect. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #89
No, YOU'RE incorrect. And defending religious privilege over the ability to catch predators. trotsky Jan 2019 #95
Change the law. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #100
Weak, weak sauce from a weak, weak position. trotsky Jan 2019 #101
Change the law. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #102
I'd LOVE to change the law, but religious privilege won't let us. trotsky Jan 2019 #105
Utter nonsense. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #107
Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil? trotsky Jan 2019 #108
I will not answer misframing. It is pointless. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #109
Pointless?? It's the TOPIC OF YOUR OP, gil. trotsky Jan 2019 #110
Well done. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #111
There is no mis-framing. I am asking you a simple question. trotsky Jan 2019 #112
Misframing. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #113
At least I reject religious privilege when it comes to mandatory reporting laws. trotsky Jan 2019 #114
Post an example. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #115
Oh don't you try that fucking weasely trick. trotsky Jan 2019 #116
It is a "trick" to ask that you substantiate your claims? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #121
Nope. trotsky Jan 2019 #123
Tricks and such can be tricky things. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #125
Answer the question, and dismiss my claim. trotsky Jan 2019 #126
Stop the tactics, and engage in actual dialogue. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #127
There is no tactic. I asked you a question. trotsky Jan 2019 #128
"Have you stopped beating your..." is also a question in form. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #131
Here again is my question for everyone to read, and come to their own conclusion: trotsky Jan 2019 #134
More diversion from your, so far, unsupported accusation. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #136
I win! trotsky Jan 2019 #137
Yes, you won. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #141
I sure did! trotsky Jan 2019 #143
Answer the question, and dismiss my claim. trotsky Jan 2019 #138
Answer the question, and dismiss my claim. trotsky Jan 2019 #139
Answer the question, and dismiss my claim. trotsky Jan 2019 #140
Answer the question, and dismiss my claim. trotsky Jan 2019 #142
Hey and this is a bonus item JUST FOR YOU. trotsky Jan 2019 #144
Sounds like he is suggesting lack of absolution is no deterrent Major Nikon Jan 2019 #19
What would be a deterrent? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #23
Prohibit priests from being alone with children Major Nikon Jan 2019 #37
And do that for every institution? guillaumeb Jan 2019 #39
Yeah, whatabout everywhere else? Major Nikon Jan 2019 #42
The larger question is how do we stop predation in every setting? eom guillaumeb Jan 2019 #43
One size fits all is not going to work marylandblue Jan 2019 #55
Confession is one part of the message of Jesus. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #57
It's issue unique to Catholics since only they confess to priests marylandblue Jan 2019 #60
But either way, to confess with no intention of changing is meaningless. eom guillaumeb Jan 2019 #62
Who gives a shit about that, gil? trotsky Jan 2019 #71
Put down the straw. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #90
Again, NO STRAW. trotsky Jan 2019 #97
You should go back and read the OP Major Nikon Jan 2019 #63
His favorite defense about RCC abuse is whataboutism. trotsky Jan 2019 #70
Looks a bit like... Major Nikon Jan 2019 #76
Families present a whole different problem from institutions marylandblue Jan 2019 #66
The behavior is the same. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #88
They absolutely need to be mandatory reporters tulipsandroses Jan 2019 #29
Please read my #30 guillaumeb Jan 2019 #31
I went back and read it. I'm a psych nurse- therefore a mandated reporter tulipsandroses Jan 2019 #83
Agreed. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #94
Except you believe that information received in confessional should be exempted from reporting laws. trotsky Jan 2019 #130
"institutions will continue to cover up the crimes committed by members of the institutions." The Genealogist Jan 2019 #33
No, the point is not to excuse predation, guillaumeb Jan 2019 #34
Not making excuses is a good start Major Nikon Jan 2019 #41
And not engaging in logical fallacies is another. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #91
Yeah, whatabout those logical fallacies? Major Nikon Jan 2019 #92
Start a thread in GD if that's what you really want to discuss. trotsky Jan 2019 #72
confession isn't the only place where predators out themselves rurallib Jan 2019 #50
But it is the only place where an adult is forever exempted from having to report it... trotsky Jan 2019 #73
Fucking wow, g. trotsky Jan 2019 #67
Here's the thing, Guy: MineralMan Jan 2019 #74
That's exactly right. trotsky Jan 2019 #77
That's the whole idea of manadory reporting. MineralMan Jan 2019 #78
"Why would anyone not support such a thing?" trotsky Jan 2019 #79
Apparently so. That attitude appears to be backfiring MineralMan Jan 2019 #80
I suspect it is a battle they will eventually lose, but only in some countries. trotsky Jan 2019 #81
Yes. All that is left is for formerly faithful parishioners to move to MineralMan Jan 2019 #82
The OP he posted was written by a RCC priest Major Nikon Jan 2019 #84
Plus we should definitely talk about the universal problem of child abuse in the Religion group... trotsky Jan 2019 #87
A few observations zipplewrath Jan 2019 #86
I agree. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #98
Another article from the exact same RCC sponsored child rape apologist Major Nikon Jan 2019 #120
An excellent job of demonstrating your tactics. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #122
Yeah, my tactic is to call out child rape apologia when I see it Major Nikon Jan 2019 #124
Uh... MineralMan Jan 2019 #132
Ha zipplewrath Jan 2019 #133
Indeed there is. MineralMan Jan 2019 #135
Making murder illegal won't rid the world of murder... Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #93
More straw man arguing. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #99
Cool story bruh. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #103
Very convincing. guillaumeb Jan 2019 #104
If you want the last word so badly, you can have it. Act_of_Reparation Jan 2019 #106
Unquestionably worse than the time he sided with a MAGA loon over the Boston Atheists Major Nikon Jan 2019 #119
Oh yeah, a Trump loon getting booted from an atheist club shows atheistic intolerance. trotsky Jan 2019 #129
... Major Nikon Jan 2019 #117

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
2. Your solution?
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:02 PM
Jan 2019

Obviously not, but noting how difficult it is to change human behavior, and the behavior of a dangerous few, is not sweeping anything under the rug. It is identifying barriers.

Voltaire2

(13,072 posts)
3. First the problem is an institution that
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:14 PM
Jan 2019

has for decades, probably for centuries, deliberately protected its pedophile clergy. That has to stop. And every bit of institutional knowledge of who has done what needs to be turned over to the relevant local authorities.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
6. Not my point.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:22 PM
Jan 2019

My point is, how do we change behavior to make this predation unacceptable?

And I confess that I have no idea.

The ever-present conflict between expressed ideals and actual behavior.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
9. You have no idea...
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:28 PM
Jan 2019

But you post an opinion that says mandatory reporting requirements won’t work, and you try to give the RCC a pass by saying it happens everywhere anyway.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
15. Nobody is saying otherwise
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:49 PM
Jan 2019

Nobody is saying you have to be a priest to rape children. It just makes it a lot easier when you have a built in support network. Meanwhile you think that support network can’t do anything about it because it’s just “human behavior”. That’s pretty fucked up.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
20. It is a fact that institutions cover up for their members.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:14 PM
Jan 2019

And in families, the source of much predation, the family often covers it up.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
7. Kinda fucked up to suggest religion has no role to play
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:25 PM
Jan 2019

They enabled the priests and actively engaged in the cover up and now you are posting an opinion that forcing them to do what they have refused to do themselves just won’t work so why bother.

Child rape apologia has no place here. Not anywhere else for that matter.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
8. You missed the point.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:28 PM
Jan 2019

But you prefer to argue this straw man instead.

I suggested, here and in other posts, that this behavior is seen in every institution.


So the actual point is, how do we change human behavior?

Do you have an idea about this, or would you prefer to build with straw?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
13. You don't get to have it both ways
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:43 PM
Jan 2019

Either religion bears some of the responsibility for this epidemic of child rape or it doesn’t.

So far you’ve made it quite clear that it doesn’t. If you want to walk that shit back, be my guest. Somehow I think you won’t.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
14. Every institution bears a responsibility for the behavior of its members.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:46 PM
Jan 2019

Something that I have said numerous times.

Keep building with the straw. It is quite inexpensive.

From my original post:

No matter the institution, predators will continue to prey, and even more unfortunate, institutions will continue to cover up the crimes committed by members of the institutions.


Perhaps you missed it?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
16. Sure Gil, kinda funny how you keep reminding us how it happens everywhere
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 07:55 PM
Jan 2019

Then when the same solution is implemented for the RCC, you think it’s a bad idea.

Very telling that.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
21. Your responses tell me something.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:18 PM
Jan 2019

That you prefer to ascribe motivation to others so you can attack a position that was never taken.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
44. You mean like the "choir"?
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:20 PM
Jan 2019

Calling people in this group “intolerant”?

“11th commandment”?

What should that tell us, Gil?

What pattern of behavior can we derive from that, Gil. Or is judgement the sole purview of the self-righteous?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
58. Didn't say "all" either
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:43 PM
Jan 2019

I’m quite aware it’s only certain types of posters, just like you admit. That’s the whole point of your hate.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
85. So should I, as a teacher, be a mandatory reporter?
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 11:27 AM
Jan 2019

I mean, if it's not going to change anything, what's the point?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
96. Are you not?
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:19 PM
Jan 2019

I was in my career.

I do not know how to stop predation, or if it can be stopped. I feel that the author's point is that there is no easy solution to this, NOT to excuse it.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
118. We might never stop it. But mandatory reporter laws HELP.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 01:10 PM
Jan 2019

EVERYONE who has information about a possible instance of abuse should be required to report it.

Do you agree? Do you agree that there should be NO EXCEPTIONS, not even when a clergy member receives that information in a confessional session?

I bet you won't answer, because you know your answer is deplorable.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
18. WOW! suprised you went that far.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:07 PM
Jan 2019

On a side note wouldn't someone have a legal responsibility to report it or is the clergy exempt from that law?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
22. Why would my repeating a point that I have previously made surprise you?
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:20 PM
Jan 2019

The law in the US is clear, as is the evasion of that law that some in the RCC engaged in.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
26. I dont recall seeing you make this point before.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:25 PM
Jan 2019

So whats the law?? Thinking about it I did block you for a while.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
27. But I have made it more than once.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:28 PM
Jan 2019

There is no state where predation is legal, and many types of individuals are legally required to report it.

It varies on a state by state basis.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
28. It might suprise you
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:30 PM
Jan 2019

But Im not on here all day every day and I certainly don't follow all of your posts. "many types of individuals are legally required to report it. " is the clergy exempt from this?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
30. It varies by state.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:35 PM
Jan 2019

I was surprised to read this when I researched it before, but who is covered by mandatory reporting laws varies.

My wife and I are volunteer leaders in a youth organization. We had to undergo a background check.


But to your question about clergy:

Although every state has a statute aimed at preventing and punishing child abuse,
most states' statutes regarding child abuse do not classify clergy as mandated reporters. In the Midwest, only Illinois currently includes clergy as those professionals specifically mandated to report known or suspected instances of child abuse or neglect. With a recent amendment to the Abused and Neglected Child Reporting Act, Illinois joins approximately 21 states in making clergy mandated reporters. The statute does not specify whether the information must have come through a confession, counseling session or through a third party.




https://www.isba.org/committees/minorities/newsletter/2004/03/illinoisclergyasmandatedreporters

Surprised? I was.

Eko

(7,318 posts)
36. I get that you think it might not solve anything
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:55 PM
Jan 2019

but how can you think laws for 2 different types of people is ok or right?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
38. Why is it not a national level issue?
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:57 PM
Jan 2019

Why is sexual violence not governed by national law?

And I admit that I have no idea how we stop predators from preying.

Do you?

Eko

(7,318 posts)
51. No you didnt at all.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:37 PM
Jan 2019

The national standard could also exempt clergy. Do you think that would be ok?

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
52. Federal system limits what we can do nationally
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:37 PM
Jan 2019

But all 50 states have a mandatory reporting law. They just vary in certain particulars. The expectations for clergy are sure to change with recent revelations.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
54. True, but as I posted,
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:39 PM
Jan 2019

Illinois is the exception in the Midwest in mandating clergy as required reporters.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
69. "many types of individuals are legally required to report it"
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:02 AM
Jan 2019

But never priests, because they enjoy religious privilege.

Religious privilege helps protect abusers, and endangers children.

And you are A-OK with that, evidently.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
89. You are incorrect.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:03 PM
Jan 2019

I posted about Illinois law that specifically mandates reporting by clergy. So your first point is factually incorrect. Requirements vary by state.

As to your ending, that is your framing and unsupported by anything that I have actually posted. But setting up a straw man and arguing with it is your right.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
95. No, YOU'RE incorrect. And defending religious privilege over the ability to catch predators.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:18 PM
Jan 2019

The mandatory reporter law in Illinois specifically excludes confessional-revealed situations, in accordance with Catholic religious dogma.

THAT is what makes the abuse problem WORSE, gil. And you are defending it. No straw needed. You have to own this disgusting shit with your constant, steadfast support of religious privilege.

https://www.isba.org/committees/minorities/newsletter/2004/03/illinoisclergyasmandatedreporters

Although Illinois specifically identifies clergy as mandated reporters, it also allows them to claim that the communication is privileged under the Illinois Code of Civil Procedure. Claiming the privilege effectively protects them from having to disclose to any administrative body or agency a confession or admission of child abuse obtained through a confession or counseling session.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
100. Change the law.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:27 PM
Jan 2019

But, as the article notes, and as I argue, the mere existence of a law does not stop criminal behavior.

And again, more straw as you construct your preferred opponent.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
101. Weak, weak sauce from a weak, weak position.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:28 PM
Jan 2019

State, here and now, that you don't believe information received in confessional should be excluded from mandatory reporting laws.

If you can state that, I will retract what I have said.

Ball's in your court now.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
102. Change the law.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:31 PM
Jan 2019

And the, much harder, change human behavior.

The solution is there for you.

Ball's in your court now.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
105. I'd LOVE to change the law, but religious privilege won't let us.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:35 PM
Jan 2019

The religious privilege that YOU defend.

YOU are helping make it so we can't change the law.

YOU won't help me change the law.

This is a ridiculous attempt at reframing and you very well know it, because you've been caught admitting you support exceptions for clergy being mandated reporters.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
107. Utter nonsense.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:41 PM
Jan 2019

Civil rights were extended by people who advocated for change.

The organization SNAP is trying to change the laws.

I have marched for abortion rights, and in front of clinics to defend patients.

Have you?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
108. Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:44 PM
Jan 2019

THAT'S the question.

You don't get to dodge that.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
110. Pointless?? It's the TOPIC OF YOUR OP, gil.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:48 PM
Jan 2019

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
111. Well done.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:50 PM
Jan 2019

Demonstrating excellent copy and paste skills.

But I will not answer any "question" based on mis-framing. That tactic would earn you a failed grade in any debate class.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
112. There is no mis-framing. I am asking you a simple question.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:53 PM
Jan 2019

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
114. At least I reject religious privilege when it comes to mandatory reporting laws.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:57 PM
Jan 2019

You don't. You embrace it and wish to perpetuate it.

Which one of us has truly failed, gil?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
116. Oh don't you try that fucking weasely trick.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 01:00 PM
Jan 2019

If you don't support religious exceptions for mandatory reporting laws, then just state so. I asked you to. Specifically. But you have refused to answer.

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

Why do you feel clergy can exclude some information from mandatory reporting laws, gil?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
123. Nope.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 02:09 PM
Jan 2019

I asked you a very straightforward question.

Your refusal to answer is itself an answer, and that's the substantiation.

You can dispute my evidence by simply answering the question.

But you won't, because you know how deplorable your stance is on this issue.

You believe clergy should be able to exempt information from mandatory reporting laws.

If I'm wrong, say so. And as I have previously stated, I'll retract my claim.

Ball's still in your court, gil. Try another weasely trick if you want - you aren't fooling anyone.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
125. Tricks and such can be tricky things.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 02:48 PM
Jan 2019

Especially when a person makes a direct claim, and says asking for proof is a trick.

Good one, but it would fail in a debate class.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
128. There is no tactic. I asked you a question.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:09 PM
Jan 2019

Answer the question, and engage in dialog.

I'm trying. Why won't you reciprocate?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
131. "Have you stopped beating your..." is also a question in form.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:16 PM
Jan 2019

It is also called a failure in actual debate.

You made a claim that you will not provide evidence for.

A claim that this article constitutes an example of rape apologia.

It is that simple.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
134. Here again is my question for everyone to read, and come to their own conclusion:
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:19 PM
Jan 2019

Do you support exempting information received in confessional from mandatory reporting laws?

Yes or no.

I can answer the question. I answer No. I do NOT support exemptions for information received in confessional.

If this were a "have you stopped beating" question, I wouldn't want to answer it either.

But I did.

Now engage in this "actual dialog" you always CLAIM you want, and answer the question.

I'll bet you a million dollars you won't.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
136. More diversion from your, so far, unsupported accusation.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:21 PM
Jan 2019

Shall I also bet a million figurative dollars that your claim will never be answered?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
137. I win!
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:22 PM
Jan 2019

I'll accept your payment in the form of gold bars or gemstones.

Why won't you answer my question? Answer it and I promise I'll answer ANYTHING you ask in return.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
143. I sure did!
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:30 PM
Jan 2019

I won proof that you want information received in a confessional booth exempted from mandatory reporting laws.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
140. Answer the question, and dismiss my claim.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:27 PM
Jan 2019

It would be SO EASY for you to shut me completely up. Makes one really wonder why you won't do it.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
144. Hey and this is a bonus item JUST FOR YOU.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:31 PM
Jan 2019

I rescind any claim that this article is an example of rape apologia.

I never made such a claim, but I rescind it anyway.

NOW will you answer my question?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
19. Sounds like he is suggesting lack of absolution is no deterrent
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:12 PM
Jan 2019

Probably not such good news for the RCC.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
23. What would be a deterrent?
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:21 PM
Jan 2019

Predators engage in their behavior even thought it is illegal. Other than being caught, and incarcerated, how does anyone stop these predators?

And stop them before the prey?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
37. Prohibit priests from being alone with children
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:55 PM
Jan 2019

Zero tolerance for child rapists on the payroll

Loss of retirement

No paid legal defense for those accused

Zero tolerance for those who fail to report

Turning over all relevant records to law enforcement

Report known child rapists to law enforcement

Establish transparency rules that lets the public know how many have been accused and what was done about it

The RCC could have been doing lots of things, but they haven’t. And now that the authorities have no choice but to start taking action directly, your only answer is it won’t work.

Very telling that.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
39. And do that for every institution?
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:59 PM
Jan 2019

Yes, this might be a partial solution for one institution, but what about families?

The larger question is how do we stop predation in every setting?

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
55. One size fits all is not going to work
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:41 PM
Jan 2019

The Catholic Church is unique in many ways, so it may require special handling. Certainly your OP is suggesting that, since only Catholics have confession.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
57. Confession is one part of the message of Jesus.
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:43 PM
Jan 2019

He also told the sinner to go and sin no more. But predators see confession as wiping the slate clear, only to blacken it again.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
60. It's issue unique to Catholics since only they confess to priests
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:44 PM
Jan 2019

everyone else confesses directly to God.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
71. Who gives a shit about that, gil?
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:10 AM
Jan 2019

You need to explain why, when an adult learns about the sexual abuse of a child, they SHOULDN'T have to report it to the authorities simply because they are part of the RCC's hierarchy.

Explain.

Now.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
97. Again, NO STRAW.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:19 PM
Jan 2019
https://www.isba.org/committees/minorities/newsletter/2004/03/illinoisclergyasmandatedreporters

Although Illinois specifically identifies clergy as mandated reporters, it also allows them to claim that the communication is privileged under the Illinois Code of Civil Procedure. Claiming the privilege effectively protects them from having to disclose to any administrative body or agency a confession or admission of child abuse obtained through a confession or counseling session.


Defend that shit, gil. You have its stink all over you.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
63. You should go back and read the OP
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 09:47 PM
Jan 2019

Because you obviously didn’t understand it.

It ain’t talking about everywhere, Gil.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
70. His favorite defense about RCC abuse is whataboutism.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:09 AM
Jan 2019

Of course, that's been a common defense of it, because it also serves the purpose of ignoring the specific features about the Catholic Church that make the problem WORSE.

Instead of talking about those features and how to deal with it, g demands answers on how to stop the sexual abuse of children EVERYWHERE RIGHT NOW. When you can't propose something on the spot, then you need to stop talking about the abuse done by the church.

Classic gil.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
66. Families present a whole different problem from institutions
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 10:08 PM
Jan 2019

Really, there is just an entirely different set of tools that would be needed and that are mostly not related to religion.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
88. The behavior is the same.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:00 PM
Jan 2019

The victims suffer in the same way.

Are families the incubators for abusers?

tulipsandroses

(5,124 posts)
29. They absolutely need to be mandatory reporters
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:34 PM
Jan 2019

Anyone that has the awesome responsibility of children in their care needs to be a mandatory reporter.
Period! I didn't even read the article to come to that conclusion. No excuses.

tulipsandroses

(5,124 posts)
83. I went back and read it. I'm a psych nurse- therefore a mandated reporter
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:56 AM
Jan 2019

Therefore I'm already skewed in that direction. I've had to make the call myself to CPS or call one of our social workers to come to the unit to speak with a client that does not feel safe to return home.

I'm really not shocked after reading the article. Reason has never been the strong point of some religious folks.

I work on the detox unit. We had a guy last year- Confessed to molesting his grand daughter he left in hand cuffs- He came to detox then he went to jail. Its a no brainer for me. I would guess that the church knows of abusers outside of confessions as well. They need to be Mandated reporters and not look the other way like they have been doing all these years and move these monsters around.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
94. Agreed.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:17 PM
Jan 2019

In my over 30 years as a Union Representative, I told people that if they admitted criminal behavior to me, I was mandated to report it.


I dealt with one client in that entire time who had admitted in a plea deal to molesting a family member. The client was placed in a non-pay status pending removal.

I interviewed the client, and the client's spouse separately during the process. My impression of the client, who I did not know, was that he exhibited no emotion when describing the situation. Almost as if the situation was separate from him.

When interviewing his spouse, she explained that the family really needed the income and for that reason only, they were staying together. I gave her information on family counseling resources, and strongly suggested that she and the victim make use of them.

My job was to represent the client and enforce his contractual rights, which I did, but even thought he was returned to work, it made me very uncomfortable. What a horrible situation for a family to be in, where the victim and parent were financial and emotional hostages.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
130. Except you believe that information received in confessional should be exempted from reporting laws.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:14 PM
Jan 2019

That's pretty disgusting.

The Genealogist

(4,723 posts)
33. "institutions will continue to cover up the crimes committed by members of the institutions."
Wed Jan 16, 2019, 08:50 PM
Jan 2019

And so, what, we just throw our hands up in the air and say "oh well?"

The RCC has set itself up as a moral arbiter for the people of the world. Further, its catechism states "outside the Church there is no salvation.”

The RCC It is hardly just another institution.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
72. Start a thread in GD if that's what you really want to discuss.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:12 AM
Jan 2019

But it isn't.

You DON'T want people discussing the sex abuse scandals of the RCC and how its dogma enables the abusers and perpetuates the abuse.

You CAN'T STAND people talking about that, here in the Religion forum.

So instead you're trying to pretend there's nothing unique about the RCC's abuse scandal, that abuse is everywhere, and everyone needs to shut up about it unless they can solve the abuse problem universally.

That is despicable, gil. You should be ashamed of yourself.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
73. But it is the only place where an adult is forever exempted from having to report it...
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:15 AM
Jan 2019

because of religious privilege.

For the RCC and those who defend it, like guillaumeb, their dogma is more important than stopping the rape of children. Period.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
74. Here's the thing, Guy:
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:25 AM
Jan 2019

Exempting one group of people from the mandatory reporting law does have a definite impact. If almost everyone involved with people who interact with children is a mandated reporter, the exempt group makes no sense at all. My state exempts priests and other clergy members, too.

No, it won't "solve the Catholic abuse problem," but it could and would help to reduce the number of crimes against children that go unreported. I strongly favor making ALL people who work in areas where they come into contact with people who are around children be mandatory reporters, including clergy.


There should be no exemptions for one group on the basis of religion. Period. In fact, religion should never be a cause to exempt anyone from any legal responsibility.

Nothing will stop all instances of child sexual abuse. Mandatory reporters, however, do reduce the number of instances and help law enforcement find offenders.

Make the clergy mandatory reporters. Just do it!

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
77. That's exactly right.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:35 AM
Jan 2019

Making clergy mandatory reporters won't SOLVE the problem.

But if it can bring just ONE predator to justice that would have otherwise escaped it, it could save a child.

Isn't that worth it?

guillaumeb, and other defenders of the RCC's policies, don't think so.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
78. That's the whole idea of manadory reporting.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:39 AM
Jan 2019

It works to help find and prosecute sex offenders who prey on children. Why would anyone not support such a thing?

The article at the link in the OP is nothing more than an apologia for the RCC's insistence that its priests be exempted from laws everyone else has to follow.

Disgustingly illogical, in my opinion.

Anything that helps reduce the number of children who are harmed by sexual abusers is a good thing. Anything that allows such abuse to continue is a bad thing. Pretty simple, I think.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
79. "Why would anyone not support such a thing?"
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:49 AM
Jan 2019

Simple. They believe that religious privilege is more important that stopping even ONE child from being abused.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
81. I suspect it is a battle they will eventually lose, but only in some countries.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:53 AM
Jan 2019

That's been true for a number of things lately concerning the RCC.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
82. Yes. All that is left is for formerly faithful parishioners to move to
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 10:55 AM
Jan 2019

other churches, really. When enough people abandon the RCC for other denominations, it will reform or die. I suspect it will do the latter, but very slowly. I suggest an ELCA Lutheran church to such people. The actual liturgy won't seem that unfamiliar, but the attitudes are distinctly different.

ETA: One cautionary note for RCC leavers who choose an ELCA church as a replacement: You'll find women as pastors in many such churches. They're very good that that job, too. Give them a chance and you'll see why the RCC is stupid and misogynistic to bar women from pastoral roles. It will open your eyes.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
84. The OP he posted was written by a RCC priest
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 11:25 AM
Jan 2019

The reality is it would save many children and it just isn't that hard to figure out it's a much safer environment for children where child rapists know they will be turned into the cops if discovered vs the RCC sweeping it under the rug like they have for centuries.

But yeah, we can't save those children because whatabout all the others.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
87. Plus we should definitely talk about the universal problem of child abuse in the Religion group...
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 11:53 AM
Jan 2019

rather than talk about the specific issues with religions that make the problem unique or more troublesome.

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
86. A few observations
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 11:39 AM
Jan 2019

A Roman Catholic priest will feel governed by Cannon Law, not civil law and as such won't violate his oath despite changing of the laws.

If there is something to be changed in Cannon Law, it is at least that clergy that confess these things are not covered by the oath. That would address the vast majority of abuse within the Roman Catholic Church.

And, yes, priests generally know who the penitent is when it is another member of the clergy.

If there is something that should be mandatory, it should be that absolution should be contingent upon self reporting of the crime.

The church teaches that there are steps to forgiveness and one of those is admitting the sin. Another is committing to not sinning again. And the last step is something akin the the alcoholic anonymous "amends" thing. I've often thought that a simple solution to all of this is merely to insist that the penitent go and self report to the police in order to receive absolution.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
120. Another article from the exact same RCC sponsored child rape apologist
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 01:31 PM
Jan 2019

Who is arguing all the RCC needs to do to regain credibility is to be more transparent in showing how effective they are in dealing with child rape accusations.

So it looks like you are at least 2 for 2 in cheering on child rape apologists, Gil. Good job.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
124. Yeah, my tactic is to call out child rape apologia when I see it
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 02:19 PM
Jan 2019

While yours is to regurgitate and defend it.

And yes, Gil. We do need more at least so long as the child rape apologists continue to rush to the defense of child rapists and their enablers. Very telling you'd think otherwise.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
93. Making murder illegal won't rid the world of murder...
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:11 PM
Jan 2019

...so I guess why bother?

I can't believe I'm seeing this shit on DU.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
99. More straw man arguing.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:25 PM
Jan 2019

And that is not conducive to actual dialogue when some prefer to frame others in this way.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
106. If you want the last word so badly, you can have it.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 12:35 PM
Jan 2019

I mean, it's kinda hard to top the part where you sided with the Church over children.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
129. Oh yeah, a Trump loon getting booted from an atheist club shows atheistic intolerance.
Thu Jan 17, 2019, 03:12 PM
Jan 2019

Helping to keep abusers from getting caught, why that's just good church policy.

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