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cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 11:24 AM Dec 2014

Why Is Rape at the Origin of Most Religion?


Stories like the Virgin Birth lack freely given female consent. Why don’t they bother us more?


Powerful gods and demi-gods impregnating human women—it’s a common theme in the history of religion, and it’s more than a little rapey.

-Zeus comes to Danae in the form of a golden shower, cutting “the knot of intact virginity” and leaving her pregnant with the Greek hero, Perseus.

-Jupiter forcibly overcomes Europa by transforming himself into a white bull and abducting her. He imprisons her on the Isle of Crete, over time fathering three children.

-Pan copulates with a shepherdess to produce Hermes.

-The legendary founders of Rome, Romulus and Remus are conceived when the Roman god Mars impregnates Rea Silvia, a vestal virgin.

-Helen of Troy, the rare female offspring of a god-human mating, is produced when Zeus takes the form of a swan to get access to Leda.

-In some accounts Alexander the Great and the Emperor Augustus are sowed by gods in the form of serpents, by Phoebus and Jupiter respectively.

-Though the earliest Christians had a competing story, in the Gospel of Luke, the Virgin Mary gets pregnant when the spirit of the Lord comes upon her and the power of the Most High overshadows her.

-The earliest accounts of Zoroaster’s birth have him born of a human father and mother, much like Jesus,; but in later accounts his mother is pierced by a shaft of divine light.

-The Hindu god Shiva has sex with the human woman Madhura, who has come to worship him while his wife Parvathi is away. Parvathi turns Madhura into a frog, but after 12 years in a well she regains human form and gives birth to Indrajit.

-The Buddha’s mother Maya finds herself pregnant after being entered from the side by a god in a dream.


The impregnation process may be a “ravishing” or seduction or some kind of titillating but nonsexual procreative penetration. The story may come from an Eastern or Western religious tradition, pagan or Christian. But these encounters between beautiful young women and gods have one thing in common. None of them has freely given female consent as a part of the narrative. (Luke’s Mary assents after being not asked but told by a powerful supernatural being what is going to happen to her, “Behold the bond slave of the Lord: be it done to me . . .”)

Who needs consent, freely given? If he’s a god, she’s got to want it, right? That is how the stories play out.

Whether or not the delectable young thing puts up a protest, whether or not seduction requires deception, whether or not the woman already has a husband or love, whether or not she is physically forced, the basic assumption is that the union between a god and a woman is overwhelming in an orgasmic way, not a bloody, head-bashed-against-the-ground kind of way. And afterwards? Well, what woman wouldn’t want to be pregnant with the son or daughter of a god?

--snip--

The miraculous conception stories I listed may have roots in pre-history, in early religions centered on star worship and the agricultural cycle, but they emerged in modern form during the Iron Age. By this time in history, most women were chattel. Like children, livestock and slaves, they were literally possessions of men, and their primary economic and spiritual value lay in their ability to produce purebred offspring of known lineage. The men at the top owned concubines and harams, and virgin females were counted among the spoils of war. (See, for example, the Old Testament story of the virgin Midianites in which Yahweh commands the Israelites to kill the used women but keep the virgin girls for themselves.)

--snip--

This is the context for the miraculous conception stories, and in this context, the consent of a woman is irrelevant. Within a society that treats female sexuality as a male possession, the only consent that can be violated is the consent of a woman’s owner, the man with the rights to her reproductive capacity—typically her father, fiancé, or husband. Many Christians are surprised when told that nowhere in the Bible, either Old Testament or New, does any writer say that a woman’s consent is necessary or even desirable before sex.

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Why Is Rape at the Origin of Most Religion? (Original Post) cleanhippie Dec 2014 OP
The author's repeating an ignorant statement about the Annunciation. rug Dec 2014 #1
Because we can only read it edhopper Dec 2014 #6
Yeah I don't get that either. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #9
Why not? Do you see it as somehow "legitimate"? cleanhippie Dec 2014 #10
I am a Rape Survivor Sir! hrmjustin Dec 2014 #14
I'm sorry that happened to you. Still doesn't explain how you can justify this. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #18
IBecause i don't believe the version your op states above. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #19
"I believe the official version" cleanhippie Dec 2014 #21
i am upset i think it is better I not speak to you now. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #22
You should be upset, with yourself. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #26
With myself? are you telling me I approve of rape? hrmjustin Dec 2014 #27
I can't say if you do, I would certainly hope you dont. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #29
No penis penetration? EvilAL Dec 2014 #79
The angel said unto her, THOU SHALT. Mariana Dec 2014 #48
Are you in the habit of rolling around the floor laughing after triggering a rape victim? rug Dec 2014 #28
If you read the passage there was no "forcible impregnation". rug Dec 2014 #16
Do you? Cartoonist Dec 2014 #38
Clearly better than you. rug Dec 2014 #44
We were only taught the official version. Cartoonist Dec 2014 #46
I do it all the time. No wonder people get upset. rug Dec 2014 #57
No, he doesn't. okasha Dec 2014 #50
Interesting to know. rug Dec 2014 #58
So, in the language of the Bible, she did consent. Jim__ Dec 2014 #68
You're welcome. okasha Dec 2014 #70
Yeah, I do. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #62
No, you don't. rug Dec 2014 #65
I don't know what to tell you. I've just got this book to go by. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #73
This post is like responding to Harris' latest antics by talking about Bertrand Russell. rug Dec 2014 #74
Except, i called out the problem; ambiguous consent. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #75
You misstated the passage at hand. rug Dec 2014 #76
Not in the slightest. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #77
I take it you're suggesting she acquiesced. rug Dec 2014 #97
I agree, not like Lewinsky at all. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #100
You're really missing what's going on here. rug Dec 2014 #106
Well, or else is an implicit threat. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #108
I think the Atlantic essay hits the nail on the head in its last sentence: rug Dec 2014 #109
I don't know what language that second-hand account was written in originally, I suspect Greek but AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #110
My points not worthy of a response? AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #85
No. rug Dec 2014 #88
Pray tell the source then? AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #89
I can't put my finger on it but I'm sure I've heard "god is a bloody-minded psychopath" rug Dec 2014 #90
That is mine, I've stated it several times. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #93
Ok, I'll give you full credit for that part then. rug Dec 2014 #94
So, could you address post 77, now that we've come to an agreement on that? AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #96
Done. rug Dec 2014 #98
David's "indiscretions" included the murder of Uriah to protect Bathsheba. okasha Dec 2014 #111
Do you approve of a god that would do such a thing? AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #113
Did you miss my last sentence? okasha Dec 2014 #114
That sentence disapproved of what appeared to be an abstract concept. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #117
Well, if you're going on the premise that the scriptures are the actual word of God, okasha Dec 2014 #119
Well, the various accounts of Mary's exchange are AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #123
Early tradition claims that Luke drew his account from statements by Mary herself. okasha Dec 2014 #125
There was also no sex. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2014 #67
Good point. rug Dec 2014 #69
Technically, she had no choice. EvilAL Dec 2014 #80
Pay attention. rug Dec 2014 #81
I see it both ways here EvilAL Dec 2014 #82
This is not the language of rape. rug Dec 2014 #83
I'm sure she felt special about it EvilAL Dec 2014 #84
Pretend God is a CEO, and Mary an intern. Re-run the scenario in your head. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #86
That's a perfect analogy. rug Dec 2014 #87
I'm glad you agree on the analogy. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #91
I couldn't agree more. rug Dec 2014 #92
Hmm. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #95
Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no! rug Dec 2014 #99
This whole business just went from creepy to outright disgusting Lordquinton Dec 2014 #129
Could you understand edhopper Dec 2014 #13
I think it is a stretch. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #15
Was Mary asked if she wanted to conceive Jesus? edhopper Dec 2014 #17
In my bible it says you will concieve. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #23
"The angel said ... thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son," cleanhippie Dec 2014 #30
And there's also Luke 1:46-55, the Magnificat, The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2014 #53
Enthusiastc, if you ask me. okasha Dec 2014 #55
I interpret that as telling, not asking. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #101
I am sorry but I am not discussing this again. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #102
Did you ask yourself *why* it upset you? AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #103
I am not discussing this. hrmjustin Dec 2014 #104
Ok. I would ask one thing though. AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #105
Reading Luke, I have to conclude that she was told, not asked. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #24
It's more like a rape fantasy Major Nikon Dec 2014 #41
Very good question... haikugal Dec 2014 #2
I think that's part of it. Unfortunately, apologists don't want to discuss this issue cleanhippie Dec 2014 #3
Yes, I noticed that... haikugal Dec 2014 #4
Stating facts is not waving anything away. rug Dec 2014 #8
When was Mary asked if she wanted to conceive? edhopper Dec 2014 #20
This is the full passage: rug Dec 2014 #25
“Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” cleanhippie Dec 2014 #31
Give it up. Thinking out loud while looking over your shoulder is hardly discussion. rug Dec 2014 #32
Your inability to articulate anything beyond a personal attack is just sad. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #33
Ah, now what is that you just said? Could it be a personal attack? rug Dec 2014 #34
Let me know when you are ready to discuss the topic at hand. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #36
I haven't heard any from you. rug Dec 2014 #45
I'd call that a willful misreading. okasha Dec 2014 #52
Rape wasn't a crime at the time Major Nikon Dec 2014 #47
I can't see post number 1. Warren Stupidity Dec 2014 #56
Since you can't see it, It looks like you're relying on your imagination, rug Dec 2014 #60
It's this edhopper Dec 2014 #66
seems to me edhopper Dec 2014 #5
Especially in the Abrahamic religions, women are directed to be subservient to their men. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #7
That is true edhopper Dec 2014 #12
I had not considered this before. Feral Child Dec 2014 #11
I think we can all agree on one thing. Cartoonist Dec 2014 #35
And BOOM goes the dynamite! cleanhippie Dec 2014 #37
Weellllll, I have to take issue with the word "history." nt truebluegreen Dec 2014 #39
But he gave "consent" so it's all good Major Nikon Dec 2014 #49
Some articles are too far-fetched even for The Onion. goldent Dec 2014 #40
Not all of those are rape Prophet 451 Dec 2014 #42
The article's author is wrong about tbe Buddha's mother, too. okasha Dec 2014 #64
it certainly is a theme in all the patriarchal religions. niyad Dec 2014 #43
Hallelujah, we have a winner AtheistCrusader Dec 2014 #63
Simplest answer: It isn't. okasha Dec 2014 #51
Summary of thread: "We don't want it to be called rape, so it isn't rape, so stop calling it that!" Arugula Latte Dec 2014 #54
Summary of thread: Circulating internet bullshit meets existing scholarship. rug Dec 2014 #71
Pretty much. cleanhippie Dec 2014 #78
Yup, you got it. n/t trotsky Dec 2014 #107
Because God was created by man to control woman. -nt CrispyQ Dec 2014 #59
It is about control of women. Jappleseed Dec 2014 #61
Cleanhippie's War on Christmas continues! kwassa Dec 2014 #72
And then there's the zombie crap at Easter. okasha Dec 2014 #112
And why not? Jesus Christ is a Zombie God. Warren Stupidity Dec 2014 #116
Not quite, Warren. okasha Dec 2014 #118
Well I'll give you the "feeding on brains" part. There is no evidence that Jesus did that Warren Stupidity Dec 2014 #120
Looks like you haven't the slightest idea what transfiguration is. rug Dec 2014 #127
Read Harry Potter Alittleliberal Dec 2014 #126
There is a forum where never is heard a disparaging word Warren Stupidity Dec 2014 #115
That's not the point of my comment. But, you know this. kwassa Dec 2014 #128
Yes your point was not to discuss the message but to attack the messenger. Warren Stupidity Dec 2014 #130
The message is debunked every Christmas and Easter when the messenger posts it again. kwassa Dec 2014 #131
Pretty sure rape predates religion unrepentant progress Dec 2014 #121
I don't think the claim is that religion causes rape. Warren Stupidity Dec 2014 #122
Agreed. okasha Dec 2014 #124
 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
9. Yeah I don't get that either.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:14 PM
Dec 2014

I don't interpet it as a rape.

Edit i don't buy this version of this story so that is why i don't think it is rape.

If it happened like this then the op would have a point.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
10. Why not? Do you see it as somehow "legitimate"?
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:17 PM
Dec 2014

Why don't you see the forcible impregnation of a woman without her consent as rape?

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
14. I am a Rape Survivor Sir!
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:20 PM
Dec 2014

My point was that i don't interpet his overshadowing her as rape. In the story she said yes to the angel!

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
18. I'm sorry that happened to you. Still doesn't explain how you can justify this.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:23 PM
Dec 2014
i don't interpet his overshadowing her as rape. In the story she said yes to the angel!



"overshadowing" her? The guy who works for the guy that raped her said that the said she wanted it? THAT'S your justification?

What the fuck, man?
 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
19. IBecause i don't believe the version your op states above.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:25 PM
Dec 2014

I believe the official version. If a ghost did it against her eill then you would have a point.

But i don't buy that version.

Are we clear now?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
26. You should be upset, with yourself.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:37 PM
Dec 2014
1:30 And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary: for thou hast found favour with God. (1:30-31) "The angel said ... thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS."
1:31 And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS.
1:32 He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest: and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David:
1:33 And he shall reign over the house of Jacob for ever; and of his kingdom there shall be no end. (1:34) "Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?" Just a few verses earlier (1:17-20), Zacharias is struck dumb for doubting his wife's angel-assisted pregnancy. Why wasn't Mary punished for her disbelief?
Was Joseph the father of Jesus?

(1:35) "The angel ... said ... The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also that holy thing which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God." Gabriel tells Mary that the Holy Ghost will come on her and she'll be covered by the power of God, so "the holy thing" that she delivers will be the Son of God.


Not once is she asked. Not once does she give consent.


Unless one says "well, she never said no..." I fail to see how this can be anything but rape.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
29. I can't say if you do, I would certainly hope you dont.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:42 PM
Dec 2014

But you are somehow trying to rationalize and justify what appears to be rape when it comes to this story.

"I believe the official version" you said.

Reading the account, no where does she give consent, yet you try to see that she was "overshadowed" (I still don't know what that means) and not raped.

How can you justify a woman being impregnated without her consent as anything but rape?

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
48. The angel said unto her, THOU SHALT.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:55 PM
Dec 2014

You're absolutely right. She was not asked. The angel TOLD her what was going to happen - according to the official story.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
28. Are you in the habit of rolling around the floor laughing after triggering a rape victim?
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:42 PM
Dec 2014


And editing out your rofl smiley only confirms it.
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
16. If you read the passage there was no "forcible impregnation".
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:21 PM
Dec 2014

Do you have even a glimmer of what "fiat voluntas tua" means?

Cartoonist

(7,321 posts)
38. Do you?
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 01:11 PM
Dec 2014

Does it mean the same thing when a king or a god or an angel says, "This is what I will." I see no choice but to submit. That is not consent. It is like having a gun pointed at one's head. Where is the choice in that? Maybe Mary had heard the story of Lot's wife and decided it was better to go along to get along. Had they given Mary a choice, and she replied, "fiat voluntas tua" then that would be consent. But they didn't do that.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
44. Clearly better than you.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:03 PM
Dec 2014

I see more projection in that statement than fact. You should have paid more attention during Catechism.

Cartoonist

(7,321 posts)
46. We were only taught the official version.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:14 PM
Dec 2014

I learned to question the "official version" as I got older. It's called critical thinking. You aughta try it. It can be liberating.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
50. No, he doesn't.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 04:57 PM
Dec 2014

There's a long-running joke among linguists to the effect that Greek has no word for "yes," and Irish has no word for "no," and what that tells us about their cultures.

Koine Greek has instead three commonly used ways to denote agreement or consent:

The first is "By Zeus!". Does anyone need an explanation why Luke would not attribute this phrase to a devout Jew?

The second method repeats the question in declarative form. "Mary, do you want to be the mother of the Messiah?" "I want to be the mother of the Messiah."

The third, in modern English, translates as You said it." or "What you said." This is the form Luke uses in the Annunciation narrative. Jerome and
the King James translators render it more
elegantly, but it is unmistakeable consent.

Justin is correct. The response to him is disgusting.


Jim__

(14,083 posts)
68. So, in the language of the Bible, she did consent.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 08:37 PM
Dec 2014

Translation is difficult. Reading translated text can lead to misunderstanding. Thanks for your clarification.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
70. You're welcome.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 08:54 PM
Dec 2014

She did. Translation can be tricky, more so when changes occur over time and distance. A fundamentalist once assured me that Jesus and his disciples ate American-style corn on the cob, not realizing that "corn" in the KJV is Brit for "grain."

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
62. Yeah, I do.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 07:06 PM
Dec 2014

It means you're ok with her being god's property, for him to dispose of as he pleases, without consideration for her consent.

Nice of you to bring it up.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
65. No, you don't.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 08:24 PM
Dec 2014

Now if you want to imagine all sorts of bullshit because it suits your predispositions, that's up to you.

But don't once say I'm "ok" with whatever you dredge up from your mind.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
73. I don't know what to tell you. I've just got this book to go by.
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 12:59 AM
Dec 2014

Looks pretty bad to me. Ambiguous consent like David ordering Bathsheba to be brought before her. Did she actually consent? Or was this 'yeah, ok, just don't chop off my head'?

(Bathsheba being allegedly one of Jesus's ancestors...)

I also find it fascinating that you are bothering to defend a psychopath that murdered David's son by way of an affair with, or rape of Bathsheba, as punishment for the liason.

Sucks to be a bastard I guess.

But hey, 'god is just' right?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
74. This post is like responding to Harris' latest antics by talking about Bertrand Russell.
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 01:07 AM
Dec 2014

It's only a matter of time before the subject moves to the Kardashians.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
75. Except, i called out the problem; ambiguous consent.
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 01:13 AM
Dec 2014

David, being in a similar position of overwhelming power. He sent his guards/servants to fetch her. God sent his angel to inform mary. There was no 'ask'. She was TOLD.

God killing David's illegitimate son as punishment for conceiving it, is most certainly a tangent. Just pointing out the biblical character of god is a bloody-minded psychopath.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
76. You misstated the passage at hand.
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 01:20 AM
Dec 2014

Whether you like it or not, read okasha's post on the Koine Greek.

You're really getting swept up with sewage here.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
77. Not in the slightest.
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 01:51 AM
Dec 2014

I said she was told. She was. You even posted the entire passage for everyone to see. She might as well have said nothing at all. The angel doesn't ask her anything. He answers a clarifying question, that is all.

Change the roles. Mary is an intern with no current external job prospects. 'God' is the CEO. CEO informs her he is going to fuck her.

Abuse of power? Most companies have the good sense to forbid this sort of imbalance in power for employee relations, because it is impossible to discern if even 'consent' is truly consent, or duress. Make the hypothetical CEO an actual, real, supernatural omnipotent god, and the balance of power and question of consent/duress is even worse.

Her response is, to me, telling. 'your handmaid'. Perhaps my corporate background changes the tone for me, but that looks really bad. There should have been an angel from Human Resources flipping the fuck out right about then.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
97. I take it you're suggesting she acquiesced.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 02:34 PM
Dec 2014

We're dealing with linguistics and translations here.

I took it you're looking for words suggesting something like a modern law Common Law contract, offer acceptance and consideration.

The event described is nothing like that. It's nothing like corporate HR standards or Monica Lewinsky's blue dress either.

All that follows, including The Magnificat, show otherwise.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
100. I agree, not like Lewinsky at all.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 02:57 PM
Dec 2014

Much, much worse. Monica may have had multiple levels of safety/comfort in physical security/justice available to her if she said 'no'. What could someone do, to refuse a god that is not *asking*?

That's the major standout in the passage you cited (via the translation you selected). She is not asked. She is told. She asks a clarifying question and it is answered. She expresses some enthusiasm (colored with the 'handmaid' comment, which I take a 'servant', not consenting partner view of.)

Expressing some willingness after the declaration is interesting, but as far as I'm concerned, power was already exercised over her when she was *informed* that this would happen and why and by whom.

I don't see any reference anywhere to god or anyone on his behalf asking her if she consented.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
106. You're really missing what's going on here.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 03:53 PM
Dec 2014

Saying what will happen is not saying, "or else". Since this story concerns the super-natural, you're butting up against the notion of omniscience versus predestination.

In a nutshell, saying something will happen is not the same as saying something must happen. It's clear from what happened before and after this passage that this required her consent and her choice. The messenger knew what that choice was, or should I say would be. (There is no time in eternity, which is after all what this passage is about.)

okasha made a couple of excellent linguistic points about the language used here. If you seriously want to discuss this, I would put some specific questions to her about why you're not finding the specific (English, with contemporary American meaning) words you're looking for.

But, as this is beginning to sound like a new employee orientation talk on sexual harassment, I would check with her before we go around any more circles.

In the meantime, you can read this:

http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2012/12/let-it-be-marys-radical-declaration-of-consent/266616/

There's loads of stuff out there.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
108. Well, or else is an implicit threat.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 04:15 PM
Dec 2014

"Saying what will happen is not saying, "or else"."

So I shouldn't have said that, but there is no alternative here. The Atlantic article misses the mark, though there are two fair points made: 1. No indication of physical rape. This is more akin to somehow magically making someone a surrogate, without any physical contact. So 'rape' may not apply, depending on the nature of the overshadowing spirit thing. 2. Mary may not yet be pregnant when the angel informs her what will be. Someone downthread made the claim that she was.

I think the original point stands, and the atlantic article is apologia that dances around the actual issue. No one asks Mary anything. She is told.

She ventures willingness to be a servant (handmaid)in this matter, but again, that is not necessarily informed consent.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
109. I think the Atlantic essay hits the nail on the head in its last sentence:
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 04:17 PM
Dec 2014
As it turns out, the Annunciation offers an invitation to Mary to give a very modern turn to a very pre-modern event: verbal consent.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
110. I don't know what language that second-hand account was written in originally, I suspect Greek but
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 04:21 PM
Dec 2014

the translation is in no way an invitation in any terms I understand. It is a declarative statement, or a prediction, not an ask/invitation.



AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
89. Pray tell the source then?
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 02:20 PM
Dec 2014

Because that was off the top of my head. In fact, I've never heard anyone make that argument before.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
90. I can't put my finger on it but I'm sure I've heard "god is a bloody-minded psychopath"
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 02:23 PM
Dec 2014

somewhere, sometime.

Could it have been in here?

Nah.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
93. That is mine, I've stated it several times.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 02:25 PM
Dec 2014

I've heard hitchens say something similar, but, I've never heard hitchens talk about the illegitimate son of David, and god killing that 7 day old child as punishment to David for his indiscretions.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
111. David's "indiscretions" included the murder of Uriah to protect Bathsheba.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 05:57 PM
Dec 2014

It's not about David's zipper (or Iron Age equivalent) problem. It's about a life for a life.

And no, I don't approve of punishing a child for a parent's transgression.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
114. Did you miss my last sentence?
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 06:59 PM
Dec 2014

Obviously not.

Neither do I approve of the intellectual laziness that leads some readers to assume that the tribal god of the Davidic line is identical to the vision that emerges among the Jewish prophets with the Isaiahs and is maintained through the teachings of Rabbi Jesus in the New Testament.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
117. That sentence disapproved of what appeared to be an abstract concept.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:11 PM
Dec 2014

I wanted to make sure we were talking about the actual, specific, character of god as captured in one branch of the Abrahamic tradition's source documents.

(I disagree that it is 'intellectual laziness' to assume they are the same characters, in fact, god insists in same said documents to BE one and only one.)

okasha

(11,573 posts)
119. Well, if you're going on the premise that the scriptures are the actual word of God,
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:13 PM
Dec 2014

that's so.

If you're not, it isn't.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
123. Well, the various accounts of Mary's exchange are
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:27 PM
Dec 2014

purported to be the literal second-hand account of witnesses or people who spoke to witnesses of an actual event.

Of course, I consider that a lot less reliable than anyone can possibly imagine, but that's what it's sold as.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
125. Early tradition claims that Luke drew his account from statements by Mary herself.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:43 PM
Dec 2014

Given that this is unlikely to be true, bear in mind that even recognized and academically respected first century CE historians saw nothing wrong with inventing dialogue for historical figures. The annunciation story comes from L, a source and/or document not shared with any of the other evangelists. Q, the "sayings gospel," can be largely reconstructed from Luke and Matthew, and information about its language inferred. There's no way to do that with L, or to determine who that was or whose viewpoint it presented.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,829 posts)
67. There was also no sex.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 08:35 PM
Dec 2014

That was kind of the whole point of the thing - If Jesus was supposed to be the perfect, sinless son of God, supposedly he would have been conceived without the "sin" of sex. So even if one believes Mary was made pregnant magically by God (with or without consent), there wasn't any sex. No penetration. The usual definition of rape is nonconsensual sex involving penetration. If it's a case of magical nonconsensual impregnation without penetration or sex of any kind, is it still rape?

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
81. Pay attention.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 08:29 AM
Dec 2014

That canard's been debunked throughout this thread.

If you need help, I'll point you to the posts.

EvilAL

(1,437 posts)
82. I see it both ways here
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 08:43 AM
Dec 2014

it seems to be interpretation. I'd assume that god would know she'd say yes anyway, he's god right, and who is she to deny god wanting to use her womb be born as a human. I still say she had no choice, or the choice was already made for her, by god.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
83. This is not the language of rape.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 09:03 AM
Dec 2014
Luke 1

The Canticle of Mary.

46 And Mary said: “My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord;
47 my spirit rejoices in God my savior.
48 For he has looked upon his handmaid’s lowliness; behold, from now on will all ages call me blessed.
49 The Mighty One has done great things for me, and holy is his name.
50 His mercy is from age to age to those who fear him.
51 He has shown might with his arm, dispersed the arrogant of mind and heart.
52 He has thrown down the rulers from their thrones but lifted up the lowly.
53 The hungry he has filled with good things; the rich he has sent away empty.
54 He has helped Israel his servant, remembering his mercy,
55 according to his promise to our fathers, to Abraham and to his descendants forever.”
56 Mary remained with her about three months and then returned to her home.


Velveteen Ocelot and okasha had it right downthread.

It never fails to amaze me how difficult it is for people to let go of their beliefs.


EvilAL

(1,437 posts)
84. I'm sure she felt special about it
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 11:02 AM
Dec 2014

and that it may have made her happy that her god chose her. Didn't hurt her ego either that she figured everyone would love her forever. Good enough, I'll agree and say it wasn't rape as we define it when only humans are involved. I'm gonna cut out of this thread, rape-talk is depressing.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
86. Pretend God is a CEO, and Mary an intern. Re-run the scenario in your head.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 11:11 AM
Dec 2014

Is that consent?

Or a king and a serving wench. You name it.
There is nothing about peers, each consenting to the other, to have a child in that passage.

Mary appears to have had as much choice in the matter, as our AKC Labrador had when we bred her.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
87. That's a perfect analogy.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 01:28 PM
Dec 2014

21st century corporate sexual harassment to first century Judea.

Does PeTA know about your abetting canine rape?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
91. I'm glad you agree on the analogy.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 02:23 PM
Dec 2014

Because, as I'm sure you understood, the idea was to convey a lack of consent, or presence of ambiguous consent. I think it maps rather well, only stronger, because a CEO has limits, a supposedly omnipotent god does not.

I imagine the balance of power is somewhat similar to the dog breeding program, treating a living thing as property to be disposed of at a whim. (We no longer participate in AKC breeding programs, and in fact, do rescue ops now. It was a moral question that had not been raised at the time.)

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
129. This whole business just went from creepy to outright disgusting
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 01:58 AM
Dec 2014

Declaring sex a sin, and then arguing the definition of rape? Is anyone actually thinking about what they are saying here? Or is the urge to defend imaginary beings just that great?

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
23. In my bible it says you will concieve.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:30 PM
Dec 2014

And she said let it be done unto me according to his will.

Interpet it how you will.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
30. "The angel said ... thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son,"
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:47 PM
Dec 2014

Thats not asking, thats telling.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,829 posts)
53. And there's also Luke 1:46-55, the Magnificat,
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 05:28 PM
Dec 2014

in which she sounds pretty positive about the whole thing...

okasha

(11,573 posts)
55. Enthusiastc, if you ask me.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 05:48 PM
Dec 2014

"...my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Savior.
For he that is mighty hath magnified me...
All generations shall call me blessed."

Something that's frequently passed over is a verse I'm.ediately following the annunciation narrative. We're told that "Mary arose in those days.." to go to Jerusalem to visit Elizabeth.". The Greek says, "and Mary got up...". It implies that she simply and immediately set off for Jerusalem, likely on foot.

Luke's Mary has a spine. She's not meek, and she's nobody's pushover.

I like that about her.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
101. I interpret that as telling, not asking.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 03:00 PM
Dec 2014

You will. Not 'would you?'.

If a meatbag CEO did this to another person, he'd be in deep shit. Why is it ok for an omnipotent god?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
103. Did you ask yourself *why* it upset you?
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 03:03 PM
Dec 2014

I'd be upset if I thought it had actually occurred. (I do not)

I am upset that people are apparently missing this connotation in the texts, in the story as presented by people who fervently believed it. I can't tell if it's a blind spot, or willful denial predicated on the next logical question if it is accepted as true.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
105. Ok. I would ask one thing though.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 03:08 PM
Dec 2014

When you get time/interest sometime down the road, I would ask you to reflect on the balance of power between the character of Mary, and the character of God, and the manner of that exchange, was she asked, or was she told.

Introspection is a lot more productive and reliable, than arguing with some faceless name on the internet, I have found.

Obviously I take a negative view of it, but tell you what, I will review the text in multiple translations later, after a cooling off period, as well as the later texts that Okasha and co. have referenced here, and see if maybe I missed something.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
24. Reading Luke, I have to conclude that she was told, not asked.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:35 PM
Dec 2014
1:30 And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary: for thou hast found favour with God. (1:30-31) "The angel said ... thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS."
1:31 And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS.
1:32 He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest: and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David:
1:33 And he shall reign over the house of Jacob for ever; and of his kingdom there shall be no end. (1:34) "Then said Mary unto the angel, How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?" Just a few verses earlier (1:17-20), Zacharias is struck dumb for doubting his wife's angel-assisted pregnancy. Why wasn't Mary punished for her disbelief?
Was Joseph the father of Jesus?

(1:35) "The angel ... said ... The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee: therefore also that holy thing which shall be born of thee shall be called the Son of God." Gabriel tells Mary that the Holy Ghost will come on her and she'll be covered by the power of God, so "the holy thing" that she delivers will be the Son of God.



I see no consent, no asking if this is what she wants.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
41. It's more like a rape fantasy
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 02:04 PM
Dec 2014

Even if you take the gospels at face value, they are not a testament of Mary, but rather the alleged testaments of two of the apostles written, at best, decades after the apostles would have been long dead by anonymous sources in the 3rd person. The stories also contradict Paul, who makes no mention of a divine forced birth and states Jesus was the product of a lawful union.

haikugal

(6,476 posts)
2. Very good question...
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 11:48 AM
Dec 2014

Seems to go to the heart of the matter from sex through pregnancy and a woman's rights to her own body, and how the religious are constantly attempting to push women back down into a helpless place. Keep the little woman under the thumb of a man from birth til death. It's gawds will etc. There is no BAD rape right?!

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
3. I think that's part of it. Unfortunately, apologists don't want to discuss this issue
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 11:58 AM
Dec 2014

and instead try to wave it away. See post #1 for an example.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
8. Stating facts is not waving anything away.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:12 PM
Dec 2014

Calling the Annunciation "rape" is ludicrous. Compare the actual story of the Annunciation to the author's dishonest description. A dishonest description you blithely reposted.

There is something quite skeevy about using rape to make some vague antireligion comment.

Now, if you had any real interest in discussion, you would have actually discussed the point instead of making passive-aggressive comments to third partiers.

edhopper

(33,606 posts)
20. When was Mary asked if she wanted to conceive?
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:26 PM
Dec 2014
26 And in the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God unto a city of Galilee, named Nazareth, 27 To a virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin's name was Mary. 28 And the angel came in unto her, and said, Hail, thou that art highly favoured, the Lord is with thee: blessed art thou among women. 29 And when she saw him, she was troubled at his saying, and cast in her mind what manner of salutation this should be. 30 And the angel said unto her, Fear not, Mary: for thou hast found favour with God. 31 And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS.


Seems it was done to her and then she was told about it. What do you call that?
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
25. This is the full passage:
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:35 PM
Dec 2014
Announcement of the Birth of Jesus.

26 In the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town of Galilee called Nazareth,
27 to a virgin betrothed to a man named Joseph, of the house of David, and the virgin’s name was Mary.
28 And coming to her, he said, “Hail, favored one! The Lord is with you.”
29 But she was greatly troubled at what was said and pondered what sort of greeting this might be.
30 Then the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God.
31 Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name him Jesus.
32 He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High,* and the Lord God will give him the throne of David his father,
33 and he will rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end.”p
34 But Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?”*
35 And the angel said to her in reply, “The holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God.
36 And behold, Elizabeth, your relative, has also conceived* a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren;
37 for nothing will be impossible for God.”
38 Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her.


The fiat, the consent, that this will occur is in verse 38.

Construing this passage as rape requires the services of a dozen chiropractors.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
31. “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.”
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:52 PM
Dec 2014

Considering that a handmaid is a female servant, servants weren't likely to say "no" to their masters. She had no choice, she was told this was going to happen.

I'm sure there are many chiropractors in your area, make an appointment.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
32. Give it up. Thinking out loud while looking over your shoulder is hardly discussion.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:54 PM
Dec 2014

Go back to your edits and your alerts.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
34. Ah, now what is that you just said? Could it be a personal attack?
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 01:00 PM
Dec 2014


It's fortunate irony is not tangible because there'd be no room left in here to post.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
36. Let me know when you are ready to discuss the topic at hand.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 01:01 PM
Dec 2014

For some reason, the phrase "A cold day in hell" comes to mind.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
52. I'd call that a willful misreading.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 05:27 PM
Dec 2014

The angel declares "thou shalt conceive (future tense) not "thou hast conceived."

Mary then asks for information, pointing out, reasonably, that she's not sexually active. "How shall this be....?"

The angel answers her question. "This is how that will happen...".

Mary consents:"You have said."

And what I call the OP's gloating over a rape fantasy is "nauseating."

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
47. Rape wasn't a crime at the time
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 03:23 PM
Dec 2014

So I suppose it really boils down to....

A) you want to consider the bible historical rather than mythological

and...

B) you want to consider the act with a contemporary conscience rather than a historical one

If both A and B are true, then it's hard to imagine this as anything but rape. Jewish females were routinely betrothed at 12-15, so the chances that Mary was an adult female are quite remote. So even if you were able to twist yourself into believing she was anything near the age of a person able to give what is today regarded as legal consent, her ability to withhold such consent would have been comparable to that of a slave. She even qualifies her "consent" as that of a subservient subject of a divine master.

But let's say one didn't want to agree to both A and B. That would require one to acquiesce the bible is mythology, and/or a piss-poor contemporary moral compass. Personally I go with both.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
56. I can't see post number 1.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 05:57 PM
Dec 2014

However several apologists have chimed in with:

"no it isn't"
and
" "

That's a pretty fair sampling of dialog on belief from the believers here.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
60. Since you can't see it, It looks like you're relying on your imagination,
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 06:30 PM
Dec 2014

not what is plain to see.

edhopper

(33,606 posts)
5. seems to me
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:07 PM
Dec 2014

that attitude is alive today in many of the major religions.

Woman as subservient or property is alive and well.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
7. Especially in the Abrahamic religions, women are directed to be subservient to their men.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:11 PM
Dec 2014

It's a core part of the teachings and integral to the structure of the system.

edhopper

(33,606 posts)
12. That is true
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:18 PM
Dec 2014

though I don't know enough about other religions like Hindu and Shinto to say about others. Though parts of those societies are not female friendly either.

Feral Child

(2,086 posts)
11. I had not considered this before.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 12:18 PM
Dec 2014

Fascinating consistency, isn't it? That pattern indicates a need in the human psyche, since it appears so frequently.

I was aware of the many examples in polytheistic religions, of course, but hadn't considered the implications when considering the Christian mythology. I had always focused on the "dying and reviving god" aspect of the Christ mythology, but hadn't actually considered the "immaculate conception" as a non-consensual fertilization, though it most certainly is.

I'll bookmark that for a full read later. Thanks for posting.

Cartoonist

(7,321 posts)
35. I think we can all agree on one thing.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 01:01 PM
Dec 2014

Whether Mary was raped or gave consent, Joseph is the most famous cuckold in history.

Prophet 451

(9,796 posts)
42. Not all of those are rape
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 02:22 PM
Dec 2014

In the cases of Pan, Romulus & Remus, Alexander and Augustus, we're not told whether the mother consented or not. In the case of Zoroaster, it depends on which version of teh story you go with. I suspect that's due to the times and places they appeared in just not caring about female consent (or, at least, not in the way we do today). We can't simply assume lack of consent in these cases, any more than we can assume consent.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
64. The article's author is wrong about tbe Buddha's mother, too.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 07:33 PM
Dec 2014

Queen Maya has a prophetic dream in which she sees a white elephant holding a white lotus blossom circles her three times, then enter her womb as if it were an unborn child. There is no suggestion that the Buddha's father was anyone but the queen's mortal husband, or that his conception was the result of anything but normal sexual activity.

Nor were Romulus and Remus, or Alexander or Augustus the origin of any religion. Roman and Greek religion were both well-developed before the establishment of their minor cults.


 

rug

(82,333 posts)
71. Summary of thread: Circulating internet bullshit meets existing scholarship.
Sat Dec 20, 2014, 10:14 PM
Dec 2014

Failed mockery deployed to disguise the resulting mess.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
72. Cleanhippie's War on Christmas continues!
Sun Dec 21, 2014, 12:18 AM
Dec 2014

Nothing brings out the attacks and empty arguments from him like impending Christian holidays.

The pattern is clear.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
116. And why not? Jesus Christ is a Zombie God.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:07 PM
Dec 2014

You get up after you die and start walking around, you are a zombie. If you are also a god, you are a zombie god.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
118. Not quite, Warren.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:11 PM
Dec 2014

If you can't manage to discuss transhumanism in a thread you started yourself, you're not likely to do very well with Christian theology.

But here's a start: read Paul.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
120. Well I'll give you the "feeding on brains" part. There is no evidence that Jesus did that
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:14 PM
Dec 2014

while walking dead. Of course there is no evidence he did anything anyway so "eating brains" is pretty much in the same category as "was crucified".

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
127. Looks like you haven't the slightest idea what transfiguration is.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 09:34 PM
Dec 2014

So, what's your view of transhumanism?

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
115. There is a forum where never is heard a disparaging word
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:05 PM
Dec 2014

and mods are quite busy all day. This is not that forum.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
130. Yes your point was not to discuss the message but to attack the messenger.
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 09:39 AM
Dec 2014

I got your point. My point was there is a safe haven where only positive expressions of faithiest sentiments can be expressed, and that this is not that forum, so your personal attack was both rude and unwarranted.

Bless you.

Have a nice day.

Cheers.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
131. The message is debunked every Christmas and Easter when the messenger posts it again.
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 02:25 PM
Dec 2014

Why attack the same worthless message over and over again? This has already been done, repeatedly, and already done in this thread.

Since you did NOT get my point, let me make it very, very clear for you.

Cleanhippie, in my humble opinion, shows his extreme personal pettiness towards people of Christian belief by attacking their belief at important Christian holidays. He makes a point of doing this over and over. He could do this at other times, but makes a point of it at these Christian holidays.

Clear enough? Or do I need to break it down further for you?

121. Pretty sure rape predates religion
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:22 PM
Dec 2014

And humans.

But for what it's worth, in early societies rape is usually tied to slavery which is tied to the invention of ritualized debt. To the extent that religion enters into it, it's a retcon of existing power structures onto folklore.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
122. I don't think the claim is that religion causes rape.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:24 PM
Dec 2014

The question is why there appears to be a lot of rape or rape like events in religious mythology.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
124. Agreed.
Tue Dec 23, 2014, 07:32 PM
Dec 2014

In early patriarchal societies, it's also tied into the idea of women and children as tangible (and fungible) wealth.

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