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DemocratSinceBirth

(99,711 posts)
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 12:26 PM Dec 2015

"Why I Stopped Talking Like Ben Carson"




I used to tell my life story as a feel-good fairy tale. Now, I realize, I was doing it all wrong.
By Issac J. Bailey
December 13, 2015



If Ben Carson’s political career is built on anything, it’s his inspirational story. For two decades he’s been selling books and drawing crowds with his “you control your own destiny” message, convincing millions that hard work and determination can lead a black child out of poverty and on to professional notoriety and success.
For years, that was me, too.

Whenever I spoke in public I would talk about how I was born into destitution in rural South Carolina to a woman who married at 13 and to a man who beat her like clockwork every weekend for most of my young life. I would talk about how my oldest brother went to prison for murder when I was nine years old (and a few other brothers eventually followed him there) and how the ill-equipped high school my 10 siblings and I attended wasn’t desegregated for more than four decades after Brown v. Board of Education.
Despite the overwhelming odds stacked against me, I would tell my audience, through my hard work and perseverance, I graduated from one of the top liberal arts schools in the country, Davidson College, and went on to become a successful columnist and published author and was eventually invited to spend a year studying at Harvard. I’ve rubbed shoulders with governors and multi-millionaires, interviewed Barack Obama.
And then I stopped telling that story.

http://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2015/12/ben-carson-life-story-213433


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"Why I Stopped Talking Like Ben Carson" (Original Post) DemocratSinceBirth Dec 2015 OP
Very good, Thank you LiberalArkie Dec 2015 #1
Excellent article alfie Dec 2015 #2
K&R brer cat Dec 2015 #3
Well, the story is inspiring Chitown Kev Dec 2015 #4
His accomplishments are remarkable, brer cat Dec 2015 #6
My stepdad is like that Chitown Kev Dec 2015 #7
This is fabulous. Thanks so much for posting this Number23 Dec 2015 #5
Yes, take the shame out of being ashamed because Kind of Blue Dec 2015 #8

brer cat

(24,598 posts)
3. K&R
Mon Dec 14, 2015, 07:20 PM
Dec 2015

An important account that should be spread far and wide. Carson's "inspiring" life story is mostly a self-serving myth that does far more harm than good.

Thanks for posting!

brer cat

(24,598 posts)
6. His accomplishments are remarkable,
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 10:20 AM
Dec 2015

and I would find his story inspiring if I read it first written by someone else. The excerpts I have read of his account are too self-aggrandizing and moralizing, and I find that I cannot separate the story from the man who has been revealed during this campaign. Perhaps that is my bad, but the candidate of today is all that I can see.

I have personally known several people, including my father, who lived the up-from-abject-poverty life, and they were all democrats as adults. Big surprise, huh?

Chitown Kev

(2,197 posts)
7. My stepdad is like that
Tue Dec 15, 2015, 10:48 AM
Dec 2015

thing is, usually black people that achieve some sort of success are trying to give a hand up to siblings and other relatives that couldn't make it up and out and they are not about to be all out in the street putting them down like that.

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