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1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 01:36 PM Jan 2015

Mrs. 1SBM just got some bad news ...

Two years ago, she took an Employee Relations position with a local employee. It's HR department was a mess and no one in the company trusted HR. After two years of hard work, the department had policies and procedures in place and the employee atmosphere had markedly improved. She was recognized with increasing responsibility and a promotion to Director of Employee Relations.

The departing VP of HR decided that the department could build on this success by re-organizing ... the department (actually, from my professional perspective, the whole organization) was/is top heavy, with too manager "Directorships" that functioned more as "Managers." Additionally, and again, from my professional perspective, the company was a study in the "Peterson Principle" and unplanned growth ... over a number of years, upper management increased HR programming and just handed them off to Directors, without much consideration of competencies (or organizational output). As a result, low performing managers with little expertise were given more responsibility and elevated to Directorships. To address this, they called in a consulting team.

Well ... the report is back (though it has not been formally released) ... and the consultants did recommend down-grades and position elimination. Of the 5 directorships (Employee Relations, Policy Development, Professional Development, HR Systems, Director of EEO, and a Director tasked to "special projects" (read: you screwed up, but don't want to fire you), they recommended that one be down-graded (Director of Employee Relations) and one be eliminated (Director of Special Projects).

Despite everyone telling her how "valued" she is, and how much the "appreciate" her hard work, Mrs. 1SBM position is to be down-graded to a Program Manager position and will, likely, be reporting to the Director of Professional Development, who previously reported to her. At any rate, whomever she will report to knows nothing about Employee Relations.

Now, guess the demographics of the two Directors that were negatively affected by the re-organization ... that's right, the only two PoC in the HR department.

She is so hurt ... and I have no words.

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Mrs. 1SBM just got some bad news ... (Original Post) 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 OP
I wish I could offer more than deepest sympathies. this has to suck big time. niyad Jan 2015 #1
So sorry TexasMommaWithAHat Jan 2015 #7
Thanks ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #12
I'm sorry to hear about this. NYC_SKP Jan 2015 #2
Thanks ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #14
That's great advice! NYC_SKP Jan 2015 #16
That's a bummer. My sympathy is with her. Cleita Jan 2015 #3
Actually ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #22
That's an idea! 1SBW could become a consultant charging big bucks to restore what she had created Dont call me Shirley Jan 2015 #40
You laugh ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #46
I hope she succeeds! Dont call me Shirley Jan 2015 #49
I have no words either Dale Neiburg Jan 2015 #4
My greatest sympathy for both of you. nm rhett o rick Jan 2015 #5
I am disappointed and hurt for her and would suggest, since more than once they let her know how monmouth4 Jan 2015 #6
this sounds kinda sketchy irisblue Jan 2015 #8
Condolences Demeter Jan 2015 #9
have they adopted the consultant's KT2000 Jan 2015 #10
That's one of the things I try and remind her ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #35
Excellent suggestion, 1SBM. Anansi1171 Jan 2015 #45
I suggest she gather her great evaluations and promotion history . . . brush Jan 2015 #11
Well ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #26
Although the recommendation is to demote your wife's position, is there any chance they'll swap Fla Dem Jan 2015 #42
One other thing, 1SBM brush Jan 2015 #51
So sorry she is getting the rug pulled out from under her, this is blatant, picking out 2 POC. freshwest Jan 2015 #13
I am ever mindful chervilant Jan 2015 #15
That is just not right. sheshe2 Jan 2015 #17
The poor thing. During my last year (of 15 years) at a large, well-known Nay Jan 2015 #18
I know ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #28
I feel for her JustAnotherGen Jan 2015 #19
That has been my advice ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #30
That sucks. She doesn't deserve it. calimary Jan 2015 #20
I'm so sorry wryter2000 Jan 2015 #21
So these consultants came in ... staggerleem Jan 2015 #23
LOL ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #31
hope I don't hurt your feelings rurallib Jan 2015 #36
No, not at all ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #41
. gollygee Jan 2015 #24
Lawsuit? Omaha Steve Jan 2015 #25
Fortunately ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #32
"It's just another sad reminder that no amount of loyalty and hard work goes unpunished." Ford_Prefect Jan 2015 #38
I hope employment laws in your area allow for contesting this. riqster Jan 2015 #27
No words here either, just elleng Jan 2015 #29
I'm so sorry. I wish I had a pillow for her to punch Warpy Jan 2015 #33
makes you want to holler. BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2015 #34
What's that odor??? OldRedneck Jan 2015 #37
I'm not sure staying another three years SheilaT Jan 2015 #39
I am sorry Gothmog Jan 2015 #43
Thanks ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #47
Given my former experience at a mega corporation... blackspade Jan 2015 #44
That stinks. redwitch Jan 2015 #48
Tell Mrs. 1SBM I am sorry this has happened. rbrnmw Jan 2015 #50
I went through something similar BeyondGeography Jan 2015 #52
I am so sorry to hear this. It's a real kick in the gut when something like this happens. Hekate Jan 2015 #53
Message auto-removed Name removed Jan 2015 #54
I can only imagine what . 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2015 #55

TexasMommaWithAHat

(3,212 posts)
7. So sorry
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 01:56 PM
Jan 2015

Your wife might have a claim. She should look into it.

During layoffs, my husband's employer always posts a list of positions eliminated, their race or ethnicity, and age. (No names.) They are scrupulous about avoiding lawsuits. It's a shame more companies aren't like that.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
12. Thanks ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:44 PM
Jan 2015

Funny thing ... Both my wife and I cut our teeth in EEO ... and her bosses know it. In fact, they tasked her (not the surviving Director of EEO) to do some of their high profile investigations. Believe me ... we have gone over it and, though, we both smell month old fish, the outside consultant/re-organization is a/the perfect cover ... it's just a "coincidence" that the only two negatively affect are PoC.

Our only hope is that someone on the Board of Director (this is a public sector employer) will notice the demographics.

As an HR professional, I have advised that a re-org not go through BECAUSE of the optics.

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
2. I'm sorry to hear about this.
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 01:42 PM
Jan 2015

I'm familiar with this sort of organizational dynamic, with titles and responsibilities and benefits and downgrades.

I think even to those unfamiliar with these, your description is frightening, and one wonders if the work ever really gets done efficaciously, and if people's work is really honored.

I have no words of advice except that those admins and that work environment don't define us, they don't.

Best wished to you both.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
14. Thanks ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:46 PM
Jan 2015

In talking with BabyGirl 1SBM, I told her, the lesson here is "Love you job, not your employer ... because you employer is in the business only to use you."

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
16. That's great advice!
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:49 PM
Jan 2015

In a position I was pushed out of in a similar environment, a group of us reminded one another of why we were there and who we were really serving.

In the end, I didn't fit the kiss-ass top-heavy world of public school administration.

Take care, be good to one another and it will be fine-- and it sounds like you both do exactly that!


Cleita

(75,480 posts)
3. That's a bummer. My sympathy is with her.
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 01:45 PM
Jan 2015

Too bad there isn't a union or outside professional organization that can file a complaint of some sort with the company to investigate what's really behind this because it doesn't seem kosher to me as you describe it. I once worked with a company that had a strong worker's Union that often promoted workers to management positions, which moved the employee out of the Union and the direct whims of the company. Could that be the case with the top heavy management titles there?

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
22. Actually ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:09 PM
Jan 2015
Could that be the case with the top heavy management titles there?


When she first told me about the Consultants, I told her (jokingly) that they should be glad I wasn't on the consulting team because the company IS top heavy and, based on job function, their Directors are really Managers, their Managers are really Supervisors, and their Supervisors are really Leads.

But my experience has it that re-orgs are best, prospective, if you wish to preserve employee trust ... Meaning, employees should not be harmed in terms of pay and/or title (unless the SOLE reason for the re-org is for cost cutting purposes ... and even then, they should plan on any cost savings being eaten up for about 5 years because of the disruption to the workforce/loss of trust). Instead, changes should be made when FILLING vacancies ... you hire the new person into the lower classification.

I think, in this my wife's case, she would have been far more accepting (and I far less suspicious) had they down-graded ALL of the Directorships.
 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
46. You laugh ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:32 PM
Jan 2015

we do operate a consulting firm that we pretty much shuttered when she accepted the position. It is highly likely that she/we can replace her income by re-opening the business and securing EEO/Grievance/Training work with her employer. They are always contracting out their investigations ... because the (surviving) EEO Director doesn't know what she is doing and, we could get the training work because all of the Professional Development Director's ideas came from my wife, as his supervisor.

monmouth4

(9,708 posts)
6. I am disappointed and hurt for her and would suggest, since more than once they let her know how
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 01:54 PM
Jan 2015

valuable she is/was, she gets out her resume and includes her last promotion to show her value and what was accomplished. This is BS....

irisblue

(32,980 posts)
8. this sounds kinda sketchy
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:16 PM
Jan 2015

maybe she should talk with your states' civil rights commission about these events.

 

Demeter

(85,373 posts)
9. Condolences
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:26 PM
Jan 2015

If there's a god, the company will next go out of business entirely. that's what usually happens when the boss screws over the employees like that.

KT2000

(20,581 posts)
10. have they adopted the consultant's
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:38 PM
Jan 2015

recommendations?
She may not want to go through all of it but it sure looks like there is an EEO case here.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
35. That's one of the things I try and remind her ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:00 PM
Jan 2015

the top administrator does not have to adopt the recommendations.

I have recommended that she have a sit down with him and remind him that it was HE that directly appointed (promoted) her and the likely blow-back from the employee groups that (have told him that they) trust her, not the department ... and the optics of the only two PoC being the only two harmed.

brush

(53,784 posts)
11. I suggest she gather her great evaluations and promotion history . . .
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:40 PM
Jan 2015

and go straight to an attorney.

Since she is the one who improved the department, she should not be the one demoted.

Those who have reached their level of incompetence via "The Peter Principle", should not be allowed to continue to benefit because of their skin color, especially at the expense of two POCs.

It could be a tough go but it's important to keep in mind that the next step after demotion is usually poorer and poorer evaluations and fewer and fewer responsibilities in order to justify a dismissal.

With the demotion they fired a warning shot over the bow.

Let her attorney fired one back to let them know she will not roll over and allow herself to be used to straighten out the department then discarded.

And they wouldn't dare do anything once an attorney is involved as that would make her case immediately.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
26. Well ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:18 PM
Jan 2015

Believe me ... we have gone over it and, though, we both smell month old fish, the outside consultant/re-organization is a/the perfect cover ... it's just a "coincidence" that the only two negatively affect are PoC. Both my wife and I cut our teeth in EEO ... and her bosses know it. In fact, they tasked her (not the surviving Director of EEO) to do some of their high profile investigations.

Our only hope is that someone on the Board of Governors (this is a public sector employer) will notice the demographics.

As an HR professional, I have advised that a re-org not go through BECAUSE of optics, just like this.

Fla Dem

(23,688 posts)
42. Although the recommendation is to demote your wife's position, is there any chance they'll swap
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:25 PM
Jan 2015

Out the existing EEO person for her? It would seem to make good business sense. She was the one who transformed the department, she has a solid EEO background and it would certainly send the right message to have a PoC in that position.

brush

(53,784 posts)
51. One other thing, 1SBM
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 08:40 PM
Jan 2015

I'm sure you and your wife know this but she should also keep a dated journal that documents untoward events, converstions and assignments.

You can bet they've begun documenting things.

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
13. So sorry she is getting the rug pulled out from under her, this is blatant, picking out 2 POC.
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:44 PM
Jan 2015

I don't know what to tell her, but looking for you to give her the strength to face going to work in an environment that has just discounted her.

I'd say her work, but it looks like they went with the 'odd man out,' school of who to go after.

The kind of work she does is a matter of talent in dealing with people and heart. And look what they did to her.

I don't know what to do to help and don't even know if a suit for discrimination will help as it's a 'management' job and those relationships always appear to be iffy, if not in a government job.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
15. I am ever mindful
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:48 PM
Jan 2015

of how many women are being demoted or "let go" by corporate individuals with no morals or integrity. It is grotesquely ironic that those who offer the most (like your Mrs. 1SBM) are treated the worst.

sheshe2

(83,785 posts)
17. That is just not right.
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:59 PM
Jan 2015

I am so very sorry for for the hurt that it has caused Mrs. 1SBM.

Best thoughts to you both.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
18. The poor thing. During my last year (of 15 years) at a large, well-known
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 02:59 PM
Jan 2015

corporation, we saw all sorts of this kind of reorg done willy-nilly, with no explanation and seemingly with no clear reasons. I didn't see that minorities or women were hit harder than anyone else, though, but maybe that was because there were lots of both in our org. It almost seemed random. Some bad apples got to stay, some good people were riffed.

Your poor wife! At times, it seems like working hard and keeping your nose clean and being positive doesn't get a person anywhere. I am so sorry.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
28. I know ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:30 PM
Jan 2015
At times, it seems like working hard and keeping your nose clean and being positive doesn't get a person anywhere.


I know ... I have seen people on the verge of being fired because of poor performance, be promoted. It's sickening and one of the reasons for poor morale in the workplace.

JustAnotherGen

(31,828 posts)
19. I feel for her
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:00 PM
Jan 2015

BTDT - . . .

But first she has to survive.

She gives an ingratiating smile.
She keeps her head down.
She finds her project(s).
That's what she does.

Then she brushes up her resume because the key thing here is . ..

She knows precisely what they think of her.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
30. That has been my advice ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:35 PM
Jan 2015

Don't give them the power of being able to justify the action with the, "Yeah. She turned around the department; but she just had a bad attitude."

No ... Better to bide one's time, knowing that you are gone at your first opportunity. Better, work even worker ... so that you leave a bigger whole when you leave.

(But that takes a lot)

calimary

(81,304 posts)
20. That sucks. She doesn't deserve it.
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:03 PM
Jan 2015

Unfortunately, I'm not surprised. Not the first time I've seen this.

Many hugs - sending her all the good vibes I can drum up! And to you as well.

 

staggerleem

(469 posts)
23. So these consultants came in ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:11 PM
Jan 2015

... looked around, wrote a report recommending demotion of the non-white folk, accepted their fee, and went home happy. Seems to me this is bad faith on the part of the consultants.

The company I've worked at for the past 21 years is owned by a partnership of Engineers who had all worked together at another company. That firm was bought and sold 6 times over 5 years, each with its associated personnel shake-up. At various times, each of the 4 guys who now own this place have all "managed" some subset of the other 3They decided to form their own company, and I was hired when this business was about 6 years old. We have about 75 employees now, and NOBODY here works any harder than the 4 owners!

They hired a management consultant once, rather early in my tenure. He also produced a nice report, recommending big changes and several layoffs. They paid him, thanked him very much, and essentially threw his report into the circular file. If the owners of your wife's company are any kind of decent human beings, they'll probably do the same. If they're a publicly owned company, ruled by an anonymous board, who are really DON'T work for the company, then they'll probably implement the consultant's plan, and your wife will be seen as a victim of "progress" - which is, of course, utter bullshit.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
31. LOL ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:44 PM
Jan 2015

I have always said, "Consultants are people that you pay to look at your watch and tell you what time it is" ... and I'm a Consultant!

Most consultants don't know what they are doing ... anyone can cut positions and change reporting relationships; but, to few purchasers of the consulting services ask the most important question ... "what is the down-side to this move" ... and ask it several times over, then ask about what "intangible considerations" they considered ... most consultants fail to put a dollar value on the workplace disruption caused when employees see good employees survived by the mediocre.

rurallib

(62,420 posts)
36. hope I don't hurt your feelings
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:04 PM
Jan 2015

but in my working days I just hated consultants. Never could understand why outsiders had to be brought in.
As my friend used to tell me - they would come in, ask the people doing the work what they would change, write that up as a proposal and submit it.

Sorry if I took a shot at you. Love your posts.

And of course sorry to hear about this potential change for your wife.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
41. No, not at all ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:22 PM
Jan 2015

the only time a consultant is needed is when there is GREAT distrust of management ... and management promptly dismisses any suggestion that the distrust is because of their actions/inactions.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
32. Fortunately ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:55 PM
Jan 2015

this is her second career job (well paying) but she planned to stay another 3 years to vest in their pension system.

No lawsuit. It's just another sad reminder that no amount of loyalty and hard work goes unpunished.

Ford_Prefect

(7,901 posts)
38. "It's just another sad reminder that no amount of loyalty and hard work goes unpunished."
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:14 PM
Jan 2015

Sad really.

The better you are at what you do for someone else the more likely they are to dispense with you at the first possible instance. Management are too often woefully insecure around those who are truly competent at the real work that makes a company run. Add to that minor personal differences like color, or culture, or education and they get even more nervous.

Loyalty only means they can depend on you to show up until they think they don't need you. Hard work and professionalism only mean you make them look better until they decide to trade up.

It is no longer about the quality of the work, the customer satisfaction, or the responsibility of those who too often go above and beyond just to make the week's quotas. It is about making those in charge look good on the monthly or quarterly report.

Greed is a terrible thing.

riqster

(13,986 posts)
27. I hope employment laws in your area allow for contesting this.
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:24 PM
Jan 2015

I have fought back against ageist and health-related discrimination in the past, and local/state laws are key to such fights.

All the best to her, and to you.

Warpy

(111,267 posts)
33. I'm so sorry. I wish I had a pillow for her to punch
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 03:55 PM
Jan 2015

because this is unfair, as recommendations by the hatchet men who fly through and tell companies to "trim the fat" and "become leaner, meaner" always manage to hurt everybody but one white male they liked talking sports with in some watering hole after work.

This is how it's always been done and I grew up watching this sort of thing, although it's gotten progressively more vicious as it keeps being done by the same people who probably fouled things up ten years ago to begin with. I don't know why CEOs keep falling for this crapola, but they do.

She's right to be hurt, it's unfair on so many levels, especially the double whammy of race and sex.

This will look great on her resume as she looks for her next job and it will look especially appealing when she starts her consulting firm specializing in employee relations, something that's going to become very important as wildcat strikes increase. They will, too.

ETA: I should mention I grew up as a corporate manager, country club brat with big ears and it turned me into a rabid left winger.

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
39. I'm not sure staying another three years
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:19 PM
Jan 2015

just to be vested in the pension system, since she's only been there two years, should be a consideration at all.

My advice, other than looking into a possible lawsuit, is that she start looking for another position.

Many companies do totally idiotic things such as you've described here, and it's a wonder any of them stay in business.

 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
47. Thanks ...
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 04:36 PM
Jan 2015

and this too shall pass.

I keep reminding her about the satisfaction she will receive when they realize the whole their consultants blew into the side of the ship ... just below the water line.

"Your department is blowing up. Oh. I'm sorry; but I no longer have the authority to fix that. But I will, certainly, pass it up the line to the Director."

BeyondGeography

(39,374 posts)
52. I went through something similar
Thu Jan 8, 2015, 09:08 PM
Jan 2015

and all I can say is Kübler-Ross was a brilliant woman. It took me six months to something resembling acceptance. Lots of sleeping problems the first two months. It hurt, even though I understood it didn't really rate in the realm of human suffering, it hurt me personally. Hugs and support for your wife.

Hekate

(90,712 posts)
53. I am so sorry to hear this. It's a real kick in the gut when something like this happens.
Fri Jan 9, 2015, 03:13 AM
Jan 2015

Others will have some good advice. All I can say to you both is stay strong during this awful time.

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