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spinbaby

(15,090 posts)
Tue Sep 15, 2020, 06:48 AM Sep 2020

That last trip to the vet

I took our senior cat to her doctor yesterday for what is euphemistically known as “putting down.” She was over 20 and was clearly in the process of dying of old age. But still, there is always that moment after the sedative goes in, but before the lethal dose, when I want to change my mind and try just one more thing to keep the cat going.

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That last trip to the vet (Original Post) spinbaby Sep 2020 OP
I'm very sorry. sinkingfeeling Sep 2020 #1
I'm sorry. It is a hard thing to help a beloved family member to the Rainbow Bridge. irisblue Sep 2020 #2
I'm so sorry spinbaby. May all the memories of her good livetohike Sep 2020 #3
Been there. NanceGreggs Sep 2020 #4
(((hugs))) samnsara Sep 2020 #5
So sorry spinbaby zeusdogmom Sep 2020 #6
I'm so very sorry Blue_playwright Sep 2020 #7
It's hard no matter the age of the cat. brer cat Sep 2020 #8
I'm very sorry for your loss, spinbaby. MontanaMama Sep 2020 #9
Lady Bast, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace and niyad Sep 2020 #10
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beloved cat. phylny Sep 2020 #11
Hugs to the spinbaby family Tikki Sep 2020 #12
Love. Light. Peace. CountMyVote4Reality Sep 2020 #13
I once had a dog who was old and sick Fortinbras Armstrong Sep 2020 #14
Condolences The Mouth Sep 2020 #15
Having our pets humanely "put down" is a sad but necessary duty of a loving owner. Midnight Writer Sep 2020 #16
Just another reason why 2020 is the worst year ever Blue Owl Sep 2020 #17
I am sorry deepthought42 Sep 2020 #18

livetohike

(22,165 posts)
3. I'm so sorry spinbaby. May all the memories of her good
Tue Sep 15, 2020, 07:25 AM
Sep 2020

years help to comfort you and ease the sadness of her final days .

NanceGreggs

(27,820 posts)
4. Been there.
Tue Sep 15, 2020, 07:30 AM
Sep 2020

Took my beloved Siamese, Alicka, to the vet - wound up having to leave him there for a week for tests and treatment.

I returned a week later, thinking I would be bringing him home. That's when the vet told me his treatment hadn't worked. He explained that Alicka was in kidney failure, and if I took him home, he had less than a five percent chance of living more than another two weeks.

The vet asked if I wanted to have him euthanized, and I said yes. He then asked me if I wanted to see Alicka one last time - and I said no. I knew if I saw him, I would take him home - having convinced myself on the spot that this diagnosis was all wrong, or that some miracle cure would be found in the next twenty-four hours.

I am so sorry for how you must be feeling right now. But you did the right thing by your pet, and that's what really matters. You can't hold her in your arms anymore - but you can hold her in your heart forever.

The above happened over forty years ago - but Alicka is still in my heart, even as we speak.


zeusdogmom

(998 posts)
6. So sorry spinbaby
Tue Sep 15, 2020, 09:09 AM
Sep 2020

The furry critters who live with us are family and it hurts when they have to leave. Hate those last vet visits.

niyad

(113,596 posts)
10. Lady Bast, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace and
Tue Sep 15, 2020, 09:26 AM
Sep 2020

comfort to her loved ones.

(((((Spin baby))))) so very sorry for your loss.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
14. I once had a dog who was old and sick
Tue Sep 15, 2020, 11:27 AM
Sep 2020

I didn't take her to the vet to be put down, and I did her no favors by letting her die naturally.

Midnight Writer

(21,816 posts)
16. Having our pets humanely "put down" is a sad but necessary duty of a loving owner.
Tue Sep 15, 2020, 03:58 PM
Sep 2020

Sorry for your loss. I know it is tough. But you know it was the right thing to do.

deepthought42

(2,779 posts)
18. I am sorry
Wed Sep 16, 2020, 11:45 AM
Sep 2020

My family is at this moment taking our 12 year old Shar-Pei, Torpedo for his last visit. It will be outside on the grass which he loves...i wish we could keep trying too.

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