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NJCher

(35,678 posts)
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 11:31 AM Apr 2023

I Am Not 80 Yet, but Among These 80-Year-Olds Is Where I Like to Be

Last edited Tue Nov 7, 2023, 12:13 AM - Edit history (1)

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By Bonnie Tsui

Ms. Tsui is the author of “Why We Swim.”

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At my community pool, the locker room is a tableau on aging.

Throughout the day, you’ll find bodies and bottoms of every type on display, ranging from squishy baby to saggy lady. But this is not the kind of place where short-lived resolutions to lose 15 pounds get made or broken. Here, the arc of fitness is long, and it bends toward seniors.

The hour when I frequent the pool for my lap swim has long coincided with the 8 a.m. aqua aerobics class, taught by Kathe, a calm, convivial woman with honey-colored hair and a beatific smile. Many of her devotees are in their 80s. Some are there for physical therapy after an injury; others are contending with the incessant aches and pains of age. In that crowded warren of benches and communal showers, where every flick of a towel or reach of an arm brings you into someone else’s personal space, ordinary civilities carry larger import.

I am not 80. But among these 80-year-olds is where I like to be.

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I Am Not 80 Yet, but Among These 80-Year-Olds Is Where I Like to Be (Original Post) NJCher Apr 2023 OP
Goals! RSherman Apr 2023 #1
cant read. paywall. note . have a friend in her 80s and she linedances 3 x week . AllaN01Bear Nov 2023 #2
3 x a week! NJCher Nov 2023 #3

RSherman

(576 posts)
1. Goals!
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 11:36 AM
Apr 2023

Good for these women!

My mother will be 80 in May. Two years ago she was in Norway cross country skiing 15K/day. In November she travels to Iceland. She rides a full dresser Harley. She and her friends belong to about 5 hiking groups. They downhill and cross country ski, snowshoe, kayak, etc. A bunch of the women attend a camping weekend once a year and there is a theme. A few years ago they went snowshoeing wearing prom dresses!

AllaN01Bear

(18,242 posts)
2. cant read. paywall. note . have a friend in her 80s and she linedances 3 x week .
Mon Nov 6, 2023, 12:51 PM
Nov 2023

very active in community and the church she goes to.

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