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Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:11 AM Jan 31

My God Dentures! $37,000!!!!!

Supposedly my United Medicare will cover some of this but I have to put up the whole amount initially.

I could pay a lot less but I am almost positive I could not deal with dentures that you can take out because I have had bridgeens and ended up not using them because I just couldn't stand it.

After I had a root canal, (totally useless now since it has to come out too - $2,000) 4 days later a 3 cap bridge on the top came loose and when I went to the dentist he told me I had another cavity under it (It is only about 4 years old) and a cavity next to it and my bones blah blah blah and I need dentures. I've always had problems with my teeth and I think, among other things it has to do with all the medication I have taken for bipolar that has caused dry mouth.

Anyway a couple days after that a cap on the other side of my front teeth fell off and then my front teeth caps are just crumbling. I'm wearing a mask most places now because of how horrible it all looks. I'm sill wondering if that root canal where they used some "Wave" technology didn't loosen the caps.

It is all kind of terrifying and plus I have bad TMJ from an accident years ago that acts up every time I go to the dentist. I am really kind of freaked out about everything right now. The dentist said that, because I am opting to go under anesthesia when they pull I won't tense up and it should be much easier on my jaw

I feel bad now for people who have missing teeth in the front who cannot afford to have them fixed. I am very lucky that I can have this done - even though it feels like a horror show.

(I also have to call the bank to tell them I am going to put a BIG purchase on my credit card as I can see it not going through)

So......life goes on.

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My God Dentures! $37,000!!!!! (Original Post) Maraya1969 Jan 31 OP
I'm so sorry XanaDUer2 Jan 31 #1
What is TMJ restorative dental work? I've gone to PT for TMJ a few times Maraya1969 Jan 31 #3
Bad orthodonture XanaDUer2 Jan 31 #6
Wow I am sorry that happened. I looked up "Jaw Pipping" and maybe you mean "Jaw Maraya1969 Jan 31 #10
I paid 6700 for a day guard and a night guard XanaDUer2 Jan 31 #12
Do they work? If it was me I would try it first. Does your insurance cover any of the Maraya1969 Jan 31 #17
They do XanaDUer2 Jan 31 #33
Ohhh I also just saw somewhere where they treat TMJ with Botox. I have no idea Maraya1969 Jan 31 #8
My sister is an idiot XanaDUer2 Jan 31 #9
I think some people don't even believe TMJ is a real thing. A couple PT Maraya1969 Jan 31 #14
I know XanaDUer2 Jan 31 #16
DON'T SIGN! DON'T SIGN! DON'T SIGN! Maraya1969 Jan 31 #19
Oy ve! Maybe look at options in Mexico and India. Beakybird Jan 31 #2
I have been watching that show "Botched" and so many of the people initially Maraya1969 Jan 31 #5
Wow, I had no idea the costs have gone up so much! liberalla Jan 31 #4
I, too, have a dental story.. Joinfortmill Jan 31 #7
My dentist asking $7500 for an implant and recommends I need two!! IA8IT Jan 31 #11
I paid $5,000 for one implant and it fell out and I wanted my money back and the dentist Maraya1969 Jan 31 #15
Cadaver bone transplant into tooth socket for weeks before implant screw installed gives me chills IA8IT Jan 31 #18
They use cadaver skin etc a lot in plastic surgery. (Again with the watching of "Botched" Maraya1969 Jan 31 #20
I had to get that for my tooth implant (years ago) Sky Jewels Jan 31 #28
Yay Happy Results IA8IT Jan 31 #35
You should check out a dental vacation. LakeArenal Jan 31 #13
I recommend Los Algodones, Mexico, across the border from Yuma, AZ. RipVanWinkle Jan 31 #25
Dentures or implants Fullduplexxx Jan 31 #21
They are dentures with 4 implants spaced around so the dentures stay put. Maraya1969 Jan 31 #30
. Fullduplexxx Jan 31 #22
If it were me... 2naSalit Jan 31 #23
Can you tell me what university clinic? I remember going to one in college Maraya1969 Jan 31 #31
I was going to... 2naSalit Jan 31 #32
I lost a crown k55f5r Jan 31 #24
Is there a university dental school in your area? greatauntoftriplets Jan 31 #26
My late husband had THE WORST TEETH ever! CountAllVotes Jan 31 #27
That all sucks. ._. Jan 31 #29
I'm in the same boat. I need major work. 58Sunliner Jan 31 #34
I noticed when checking our dental coverage that Met Life lists some dentists in Mexico Desert grandma Jan 31 #36

XanaDUer2

(10,667 posts)
1. I'm so sorry
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:14 AM
Jan 31

The price is a shock, isn't it? I'm looking at 25k to 32k for TMJ restorative dental work I'm still trying to decide to move forward on.
I worry every day.

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
3. What is TMJ restorative dental work? I've gone to PT for TMJ a few times
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:23 AM
Jan 31

and wear a night guard when it get really bad. It can be horrible and cause headaches behind my ears.

Is that what it is like for you and how did you get it?

(I learned some other helps if you are interested)

XanaDUer2

(10,667 posts)
6. Bad orthodonture
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:25 AM
Jan 31

And jaw clenching. I need my back teeth to meet. Long story with details. I have jaw piping and ear ringing. No pain I can notice. Very angry about the whole thing

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
10. Wow I am sorry that happened. I looked up "Jaw Pipping" and maybe you mean "Jaw
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:33 AM
Jan 31

popping?" I have that also. Sometimes it cracks just from me talking. Wearing these new mouth guards helps a lot. I don't know who designed them but they are great - not tight.

XanaDUer2

(10,667 posts)
12. I paid 6700 for a day guard and a night guard
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:35 AM
Jan 31

To put my jaw back into position. I'm debating just using them and not getting the work. I don't know what to do. Its causing me a lotof depression

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
17. Do they work? If it was me I would try it first. Does your insurance cover any of the
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 12:17 PM
Jan 31

surgery? I am finding that the new guards are helping me a lot. I didn't realize how much I clench my teeth. Plus there are some videos on Youtube that teach you exercises to do to help.

XanaDUer2

(10,667 posts)
33. They do
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 02:42 PM
Jan 31

I'm weaning off them. My mistake was telling her the cost, based on her past bossy behavior. That I should find cheaper alternatives like a pillow. She wanted me to co sign a 20k private loan for her 25 yr old daughter. No. She'll tell me my Drs will use my mental illness to scare me into unneeded diagnostic tests to "bleed me dry". She's way too interested in how i spend my money.

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
8. Ohhh I also just saw somewhere where they treat TMJ with Botox. I have no idea
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:27 AM
Jan 31

of how much that would cost.

XanaDUer2

(10,667 posts)
9. My sister is an idiot
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:32 AM
Jan 31

Who keeps telling me I need a cheaper solution. She thinks a new pillow will work. My jaw joint is literally popping out of position. She kept harassing me about the cost of MY dental healthcare. No one understands except my BF. And dentist. My sister spent 50k on her fucked-up teeth, but I'm not her.

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
14. I think some people don't even believe TMJ is a real thing. A couple PT
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:44 AM
Jan 31

who treated me stuck their fingers, (with gloves) way back there to massage the muscles. It hurts like a bitch but it actually helped. I also have cups that I bought from Amazon and I've put them around my jaw. I end up with bruises from them but it feels so good I keep doing it.

Those mouth guards help the most just because they stop me from grinding or just tightening, which I realize I do much of the time.

I wish you the best with your treatment. I'm going to look it up in case mine gets worse or some responding to the things I have been doing for it. I know treatment is different for different needs and I am not suggesting you do what I have done. I just want to share it in case it could help someone who sees it.

XanaDUer2

(10,667 posts)
16. I know
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:53 AM
Jan 31


She just makes me so angry because she's a bossy loser constantly gaslighting me about MY dental problems. Like its her money . BTW, she wanted me to co sign a 20k loan for her. Any 20k is going into my mouth. She's abusive.

I'm telling her my jaw is popping out, and she's screaming that I should have bought a pillow and I'm basically an idiot for even thinking of getting the work done. I regret telling her anything, and I have another relative questioning it.

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
19. DON'T SIGN! DON'T SIGN! DON'T SIGN!
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 12:39 PM
Jan 31

Plus I don't understand how a pillow is going to help you during the day to not clench your jaw.

You are smart and you know or will know what is best for you. Family can be a big pain in the ass.

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
5. I have been watching that show "Botched" and so many of the people initially
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:25 AM
Jan 31

had work done, mostly in Mexico and they are a mess. (Then again some of the stories they tell about work done right here are horror stories) But truthfully I have thought about going somewhere else except I put it off and now it is kind of an emergency.

liberalla

(9,247 posts)
4. Wow, I had no idea the costs have gone up so much!
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:24 AM
Jan 31

Wishing you as smooth and comfortable an experience as possible!

Joinfortmill

(14,420 posts)
7. I, too, have a dental story..
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:27 AM
Jan 31

But, I will spare you, except to say. The most important decision you make going forward is choosing the dentist to do the work.

Just from what what you've described, I would research for, in as many ways possible, another highly recommended dentist, and get a second opinion. Best of luck. Let us know how it all works out.

IA8IT

(5,554 posts)
11. My dentist asking $7500 for an implant and recommends I need two!!
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:35 AM
Jan 31

I'm in for thousands sent on crowns so far that are failing and to be replaced at 3-4 times the $$$$$

Mercedes teeth in a Kia mouth?

I could have a wonderful long Food/History vacation in Italy instead.

Maraya1969

(22,480 posts)
15. I paid $5,000 for one implant and it fell out and I wanted my money back and the dentist
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:47 AM
Jan 31

refused. So I took him to small claims court and I won! There were a couple other issues, like when I started checking all the charges against the codes I found out that they were consistently charging me more than they were supposed to.

They settled with me so there was no trial.

Sky Jewels

(7,096 posts)
28. I had to get that for my tooth implant (years ago)
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 01:44 PM
Jan 31

Kinda freaks me out when I think of it, but, on the other hand, yay science.

LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
13. You should check out a dental vacation.
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 11:36 AM
Jan 31

I don’t know the specifics but many people come to Costa Rica for dental care. Apparently it’s cheaper and can include a great place to recover for a few days.

Just what I’ve heard anyway.

Good Luck.

RipVanWinkle

(228 posts)
25. I recommend Los Algodones, Mexico, across the border from Yuma, AZ.
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 01:23 PM
Jan 31

There are a lot of dental clinics in Los Algodones. I have not been there, but I know someone who goes there when he needs dental work done.

2naSalit

(86,618 posts)
23. If it were me...
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 01:08 PM
Jan 31

I would get a second opinion and possibly a different dentist after that many issues with work done.

Personally, I go to a university clinic where they have a sliding scale fee, state of the art technology and highly skilled personnel. In fact, the last round of intense work I had done, I traveled a six hour drive, one way, just to go there for the work. I have friends in the same town so I was able to handle the lodging and transportation costs. But I had the best of care and consultation, that was a few years back now but I am thankful because the work is the best quality.

I would seek other dental facilitates for, at the very least, for a second opinion and eval. Might save you thou$and$.

2naSalit

(86,618 posts)
32. I was going to...
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 02:34 PM
Jan 31

My alma mater in Idaho. ISU. I hope there's something similar in your area if you aren't near here.

Check at universities and colleges near you, they may have similar programs. The one in Idaho started while I was a tech at the distance learning center and I learned about it because I was the AV tech for their class once a week so I know there are other programs out there somewhere. Case Western was involved back then, I was linked up to four other locations around the country. In fact the dentist who did my root canal and other work was a Case Western grad.

A little looking around in that world might help you find better care.

k55f5r

(165 posts)
24. I lost a crown
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 01:12 PM
Jan 31

in 2010, and dentist quoted me $2800 to replace it.
I drove to San Diego, crossed the border, and had 6 teeth pulled and a bridge of 7 teeth(Had a missing one prior) installed, 14 yrs later, no regrets. $800. TTL.
My buddy went to Tijuana for removable dentures - Had 9 teeth pulled, fitted for dentures that were delivered that next day, and 3 star hotel for 3 days - $700 TTL.
You can fly to Mexico City, Hire the best dentist in the city, stay in a four-star hotel and have implants installed for less than $5000. Why would you lay out $37k?

greatauntoftriplets

(175,735 posts)
26. Is there a university dental school in your area?
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 01:34 PM
Jan 31

If there is, they usually have clinics where the students treat you for a lot less money. It's a learning experience for them, and done under supervision, of course. It can be a cost-effective alternative.

CountAllVotes

(20,870 posts)
27. My late husband had THE WORST TEETH ever!
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 01:39 PM
Jan 31

I spent thousands on dentures, etc. for him during the 44 years we were together.

The problem was multi-faceted.

1. He was from Ireland and when he was growing up there in the 1930s/1940s, the "dentist" was the local bartender! They'd take him there, give him a couple of shots and haul him in the back room and the bartender would pull the bad teeth out.

2. Because of this horrific "care" he never went to a dentist. He was . Who wouldn't be? So, lack of care and plain neglect led to where he ended up when he died at the age of 85 years.

3. He had seven teeth left and I don't know how he managed to eat. His dentures ended up in moldy cups and rarely if ever used.

4. He had genetically bad teeth. No one is his family has good teeth, they all suffer.

If I was you, I think I'd check out the idea of going to Mexico to a dentist. I'd find out all I could about it and see if you can find a referral to a dentist that has a great reputation.

You have my condolences, believe me!

Take care in the meantime and don't let the stress of this nightmare finish you off (easier said than done!).



._.

(365 posts)
29. That all sucks.
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 01:55 PM
Jan 31

And it's hard for me to understand all the cost involved. Where I live, and the programs available, I had my last three teeth pulled recently, and got a new set of dentures, for a total cost of $0.00. Red states suck. SUCK.

58Sunliner

(4,386 posts)
34. I'm in the same boat. I need major work.
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 03:11 PM
Jan 31

A friend went to Aspen dental and they quoted him 50k for upper and lower dentures. Our joke is our cats get better dental care than we do. And the price of the cat treatment just jumped 150%.

Desert grandma

(804 posts)
36. I noticed when checking our dental coverage that Met Life lists some dentists in Mexico
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 06:15 PM
Jan 31

One of our policies is through Met Life through my husband's veteran status. They offer a very good $3000 annual maximum policy. Interestingly, they also include a list that includes dentists all over Mexico that they are in network with. It's good to know that we have that option, and I know those dentists must be competent in order to contract with Met Life Dental insurance.

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