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Democratic Senator Proposes Law to End the Parental Rights of Rapists in Maryland
Republicans continue to show us just how inept and barbaric they are. No matter how many courses on how to talk to women they take, leave it to a Republican to pontificate on the beauty of rape. One could argue that they are slowly evolving in the sense that at least they are ready to acknowledge the biological fact that women can get pregnant as a result of rape.
Currently, Maryland and 30 other states afford rapists full parental rights under the law.
Sponsored by Senator James Raskin, The Rape Survivor Family Protection Act, will bring an end to the nightmare that too many women (5% of rape victims of child bearing age) and their child are forced to endure in the name of protecting a rapists parental rights. The proposed bill has 29 co-sponsors.
As The Cecil Daily points out, a previous bill like this one passed through the Senate in the 2013 and 2014 sessions. However, the House of Delegates versions died in the House Judiciary Committee without being voted on. Lets hope for the rape survivors and their children in Maryland, this time the bill becomes law.
The bill requires a court hearing with 20 days of the mothers request to terminate the parental rights of her alleged rapist.
There is a concession to those who fail to recognize that rape is NOT just another method of conception in that the law applies the clear and convincing evidence standard. That means rape victims will have to apply the same standards that are used in other cases that seek to terminate parental rights.
In other words, for the purpose of terminating a rapists parental rights, there is no distinction between rapists and parents who conceived a child together with the consent of the other parent.
Of course, that still doesnt go far enough for the rape is just another method of conception crowd.
The government relations director for the public defenders office claimed: Both the standard of proof and the standard of evidence thats being proposed by this bill is less than what is required in our criminal justice system.
Well yeah, perhaps because the criminal justice standard isnt applied in other parental termination cases, including the majority that involve crimes like child abuse and child neglect. To suggest that there must be a criminal justice standard in this instance, in fact, calls for a higher standard of proof to terminate the parental rights of a rapist than a parent who is alleged to have committed a different crime.
The suggestion that women seeking to terminate the parental rights of her rapist should have to meet a higher standard than other cases of parental termination involving alleged criminal acts is another consequence of rape culture.
Rape is the only crime in which the victim is put on trial, which in part, explains why relatively few rapes are reported. Moreover, rape is the only crime in which the victim is all too often made to feel guilty or ashamed for being victimized, while the criminal is defended. In fact, rape is the only crime in which the victim faces outright hostility from third parties under the illusion that SHE ruined HIS life. Its the only crime where there is a presumption by some (most notably in the Republican Party) that the victim lied or somehow deserved it. Its the one crime that the Party of law and order not only persists in claiming that it isnt really a crime but goes on to reward the crime by recognizing the rapist as a parent with all the rights (but none of the responsibilities) that entails.
When a rape results in pregnancy, rape is also the only crime in which it is possible for the criminal to blackmail their victim into not reporting the crime. Think Progress wrote about Shauna Prewitts experience in this regard back in 2013.
Prewitt was speaking from personal experience. She made headlines last year when she wrote an open letter to Todd Akin who became infamous during the 2012 election cycle for claiming that women cannot be impregnated from a legitimate rape about becoming pregnant after being raped. As she pursued charges against her rapist months later, he suddenly filed for custody rights over her daughter, sending her into a long and expensive court battle.
Prewitt when on to study law and write a paper on the subject for the Georgetown Law Journal in which she describes the life sentence that rape survivors and their child endures when, under the law, rape is treated as just another method of conception.
The reality is that rape is a crime. Almost 5% of rape victims who are of child bearing years get pregnant as a result of rape. These survivors of rape and their children deserve better than having forced legal ties to a violent criminal. They shouldnt have to meet higher standards than victims of other crimes be it within the criminal justice system or when seeking to terminate parental rights when the crime in question is rape.
http://www.politicususa.com/2015/02/08/democratic-senator-proposes-law-parental-rights-rapists-maryland.html
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niyad
(113,587 posts)niyad
(113,587 posts)we are constantly told that there is NO war on women.
in a sane and civilized society, the idea of rapists having parental rights would never happen.
brett_jv
(1,245 posts)That just has yet to be rectified?
One way the might be successful in terms of getting these past sins corrected is to approach it from the angle that Righties can get behind: Giving to parental rights to rapists CAUSES more abortions. I mean, it's kinda obvious that it would, right? If a woman knows that she might have to allow her RAPIST to be a part of her, and her childs LIFE, isn't she going to be a lot more likely to choose to terminate, rather than carry the child? Shouldn't the BABY ... 'come first', as it were? Aren't they THE most important thing in the WORLD?
Just a thought.
Also, what kind of 'clear and convincing' evidence is going to exist years after the fact, unless the act was reported to authorities at the time? If a woman chooses to carry to term after being raped, she definitely SHOULD make it a point to report what's happened to authorities, shouldn't she? So ... having a law like this on the books (denying rights to rapists) should also have the positive outcome of getting more women to turn in these monsters and get charges filed.
However, as much as it pains me to say it, there is a potential for abuse of a law like this if it is written too laxly. A woman should not be able to claim, say, in a custody battle for a 6 year old, that 'oh, my husband (at the time) forced himself on me that night 7 years ago ... so take away his parental rights!'. Surely everyone can see that it cannot be 'this easy', right?
Working out the details on the 'standards of evidence' is pretty important for something like this.
lark
(23,158 posts)I was truly shocked when this fact came out last year. I had no idea that criminals were rewarded for committing a crime (except for Repug pols, of course) until I learned it here. This is just so basically and morally wrong, there are no words to describe the enormity of the misogyny. Do bank robbers get to keep the cash, do drug dealers get to keep the drugs or $, well a rapist shouldn't be allowed to have any part of parenting if a child comes out of the crime he committed. I can't even begin to imagine what this must be like for the mother, what an unimaginable nightmare.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)33 states give "parental" rights to rapists?????!!!!!!
I'm too overwhelmed to form sentences.
What you said. × infinity.
IrishEyes
(3,275 posts)I was surprised that Massachusetts, Vermont, Hawaii, New Hampshire and Rhode Island are among the states that have parental rights for rapists.
meow2u3
(24,774 posts)But AFAIK, the rapist has to be convicted to lose parental rights.