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William769

(55,147 posts)
Sun Aug 11, 2013, 11:05 AM Aug 2013

As a gay parent I must flee Russia or lose my children

The first time I heard about legislation banning "homosexual propaganda", I thought it was funny. Quaint. I thought the last time anyone had used those words in earnest I had been a kid and my girlfriend hadn't been born yet. Whatever they meant when they enacted laws against "homosexual propaganda" in the small towns of Ryazan or Kostroma, it could not have anything to do with reality, me or the present day. This was a bit less than two years ago.

What woke me up was a friend who messaged me on Facebook: "I am worried about how this might impact you and other LGBT people with families." This was enough to get my imagination working. Whatever they meant by "homosexual propaganda", I probably did it. I had two kids and a third on the way (my girlfriend was pregnant), which would mean I probably did it in front of minors. And this, in turn, meant the laws could in fact apply to me. First, I would be hauled in for administrative offences and fined and then, inevitably, social services would get involved.

That was enough to get me to read the legislation, which by now had been passed in about 10 towns and was about to become law in St Petersburg, the second-largest city in the country. Here is what I read: homosexual propaganda was defined as "the purposeful and uncontrolled distribution of information that can harm the spiritual or physical health of a minor, including forming the erroneous impression of the social equality of traditional and non-traditional marital relations".

Russia has a lot of poorly written laws and regulations that contradict its own constitution, but this one was different. Like other contemporary laws, it was so vaguely worded that it encouraged corruption and extortion (fines for "homosexual propaganda" are backbreaking) and made selective enforcement inevitable. But it also did something that had never been done in Russian law before: it enshrined second-class citizenship for LGBT people. Think about it: it made it an offence to claim social equality.

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2013/aug/11/anti-gay-laws-russia

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As a gay parent I must flee Russia or lose my children (Original Post) William769 Aug 2013 OP
powerful reading, thank you Voice for Peace Aug 2013 #1
And thats not all. William769 Aug 2013 #2
It's absurd and (ultimately) will be a lost cause. Voice for Peace Aug 2013 #3
 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
1. powerful reading, thank you
Sun Aug 11, 2013, 11:29 AM
Aug 2013

It's incomprehensible to me that such laws
are being passed in this day and age.

 

Voice for Peace

(13,141 posts)
3. It's absurd and (ultimately) will be a lost cause.
Sun Aug 11, 2013, 12:11 PM
Aug 2013
"A child should have a mother and a father, a child in a family has an idea of what the world is about," said Duma deputy speaker Sergei Zheleznyak.

Uhhmm.. the world is about heterosexual marriage?

Has Putin lost his mind?
Really this is flabbergasting to me, I must have been
completely deluded about progress in Russia.

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