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WillParkinson

(16,862 posts)
Mon Aug 6, 2012, 04:31 AM Aug 2012

Gay Kiss Gets Man Barred From Partner’s Bedside

When on July 17 Paul Zilber went to visit his fiance at Saint Barnabas Behavioral Health Center, in Toms River, New Jersey, his focus was of course on his boyfriend’s well-being. What Paul says he experienced however, was unlawful anti-gay discrimination at the hands of the center’s nursing staff.

Paul’s partner was receiving treatment at Saint Barnabas for mental health issues related to what had appeared to be a suicide attempt. Paul, 20, who was visiting at the same time as his partner’s grandparents, said that everything was fine on the day in question until a conversation with one of the nursing staff turned sour.

“Everything went okay, until a nurse who knew I was [name redacted]‘s boyfriend referred to me as his ‘friend.’ He corrected her and said that I was his partner. She replied with, ‘Oh your partner in crime?’ I said, ‘No, I’m his boyfriend, thank you.’ She then sighed and said ‘Oh… .’ She rolled her eyes, and gave me a thumbs up and walked away.”

Feeling this was inappropriate behavior from the nurse in question, Paul reported the nurse to the relevant staff, whereby he was told that it was “just a joke.” However, when Paul and his partner’s grandparents were preparing to leave for the evening, Paul alleges things turned from bad to worse.

Read more: http://www.care2.com/causes/gay-kiss-gets-man-barred-from-partners-bedside.html#ixzz22kk3O1Gs

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Gay Kiss Gets Man Barred From Partner’s Bedside (Original Post) WillParkinson Aug 2012 OP
Nurse fired in 3.....2..... MNBrewer Aug 2012 #1
This is against federal law no? Fearless Aug 2012 #2
This is where I would end up getting in trouble with the law. William769 Aug 2012 #3

William769

(55,147 posts)
3. This is where I would end up getting in trouble with the law.
Wed Aug 8, 2012, 02:25 AM
Aug 2012

Even though I would not be the one breaking the law, this just sucks.

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