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Related: About this forumRest in Peace, Scrappy: 2000-2012
Alex and I had to send our beautiful dog Scrappy to his next life Thursday.
Scrappy had been suffering from cancer, and for the last few days had been getting progressively worse - not eating much, little control of bowels, and very tired.
I took Scrappy for his last walk, and we spent time with him before taking him to see the Vet.
Scrappy has been in my life for four years, since I started dating Alex. He quickly won his way into my heart, and would spend hours at my side having me scratch his ears.
Alex is particularly devestated. He has had Scrappy for 12 years, since he was a puppy. There were many times in Alex's life when Scrappy was all he had.
Link is to short video I took of our boy getting a treat. At the end, he had problems walking on the wood floors, so I had put down non-stick runners throughout the house so he could get around.
Been tough first thing in the morning. As soon as Scrappy heard me in the kitchen, he was there, wanting breakfast.
montanacowboy
(6,103 posts)Yesterday my sister lost her dog of 12 years and best friends lost their golden
It has been a sad weekend here too
aquamarina
(1,865 posts)sharp_stick
(14,400 posts)I hate that trip to the vet, it brings tears to my eyes whenever somebody tells their story of having to do it.
Every time I've done it I've sworn off of pets for good.
That usually lasts a few months and then away I go again when someone shows me a sad little victim of neglect.
catbyte
(34,458 posts)I lost 2 feline members of my family to old age (1 was 19, the other 20) within 3 weeks of each other in May. They snuggle their way into your heart and soul, and will remain there forever. My heart breaks for you and your family.
Diane
Anishinaabe in MI & mom to Taz, Nigel, and new baby brother Sammy, members of Dogs Against Romney, Cat Division
"Dogs Arent Luggage--HISS!
cindyperry2010
(846 posts)for the loss of a family member and loved one. my deepest condolences
WillParkinson
(16,862 posts)William769
(55,148 posts)This isn't much, but may it bring you solace.
Rainbow Bridge
There is a bridge connecting heaven and earth
It is called Rainbow Bridge because of its many colours
Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge there is a land of meadows,
hills, valleys with lush green grass
When a beloved pet dies, the pet goes to this special place
There is always food and water and warm spring weather
The old and frail are young again
Those who are maimed are made whole again
They play all day with each other
There is only one thing missing
They are not with their special person who loved them on Earth
So each day they run and play until the day comes
when one suddenly stops playing and looks up !
The nose twitches !
The ears are up !
The eyes are staring !
And this one suddenly runs from the group !
You have been seen, and when you and your special friend meet,
you take him or her into your arms and embrace
your face is kissed again and again,
and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting pet
Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separated
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catbyte
(34,458 posts)I guess it's just the thought of seeing all my beloved kitties again that gets to me...
We need a pet smilie!
Diane
Anishinaabe in MI & mom to Taz, Nigel, and new baby brother Sammy, members of Dogs Against Romney, Cat Division
"Dogs Arent Luggage--HISS!
virgdem
(2,127 posts)Scrappy had a very good life and was very much loved. He is now at peace at the Rainbow Bridge.
RIP Scrappy
Daemonaquila
(1,712 posts)I'm so sorry for all 3 of you.
barbtries
(28,811 posts)i can't even watch the video (at work) and i'm crying. hugs to you both.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)HillWilliam
(3,310 posts)To us LGBT people, our furkids are our kids. Losing one is devastating. HillbillyBob and I grieve with you.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)But he had a good life and he probably knew it was time.
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)Seeing the hardwood floors covered up brings back some tough memories for me.
rurallib
(62,451 posts)We have wonderful memories of the cats and dogs that have called our house their home
Our sincere sympathies.
Here is hoping you can open your home to another companion.
mitchtv
(17,718 posts)i know it's tough
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)And in the future.
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)dbackjon
(6,578 posts)Thanks everyone for your kind words of sympathy and hope.
House still feels really empty
MNBrewer
(8,462 posts)it's hard to lose a member of the family, human and non-human. (hugs)
dickthegrouch
(3,184 posts)I'm still hurting from Nikko's passing 11 days ago, even though his "brother/lover" Charlie is still with us.
Charlie's having to adjust to being on his own during the day. Nikko shared everything, Charlie was always jealous when Nikko got attention. Now Charlie has no-one to be jealous of and isn't sure how to react.