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Related: About this forumDear Lt. Gov. Jennifer Carroll: Yes, you do look like a lesbian
I am invisible, understand, simply because people refuse to see me. Like the bodiless heads you see sometimes in circus sideshows, it is as though I have been surrounded by mirrors of hard, distorting glass. When they approach me they see only my surroundings, themselves or figments of their imagination, indeed, everything and anything except me. ― Ralph Ellison, Invisible Man
As a black lesbian who also heads Equality Florida, the state LGBT advocacy group, I initially wasnt going to write about the accusations that our lieutenant governor Jennifer Carroll was caught in her office having sex with a female subordinate.
The tabloid-ready scandal involving a married, mother of three who is an anti-gay conservative naturally piques the imagination of our voyeur culture. But weve collectively feasted on right-wing sexual hypocrisy for so long that my care factor was half the size of the Higgs Boson God Particle. In fact, as I scrolled past the story in my email queue, my first reaction was Oh thats right. Florida has a lieutenant governor.
There is no way for Carrolls story to have a good ending. Either her accuser is using homophobia as a political weapon, or the lieutenant governor is abusing her power with a subordinate, or she is living a huge, sad and complicated lie.
I was content to steer clear of commenting, but then the Lt. governor went on TV and spewed her rebuttal: Black women who look like me dont engage in relationships like that.
http://thegrio.com/2012/07/18/dear-lt-gov-jennifer-carroll-yes-you-do-look-like-a-lesbian/
KeepItReal
(7,769 posts)Thanks for posting