Another coming out story : Frank Ocean , R&B singer, talks about his first love

[Vanje]

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/07/04/frank-ocean-rb-singer-comes-out_n_1649079.html?ir=Black+Voices&ref=topbar

[closeupready]

1. Here's the thing, in my opinion

how do you spend every summer night making love to someone, the same someone, two years in a row, and not realize you are in love. ???

I don't know, it's hard for me to get young people sometimes.

There are days when I think, gosh, young people today are so together. And then I read stories like this and I think, .

Nonetheless, I send out good vibes and thoughts to him.

[William769]

2. Recommended.

[beyurslf]

3. maybe he doesn't equate sex and love.

I have certainly had sex with people I didn't love and some of them for long, on-going periods of time. I've also been in love without having sex. Maybe he spent those summers having fun and fell in love along the way.

[closeupready]

4. Very possible. Likely, probably. I've had buddies like that.

Separately, isn't it funny how sometimes when we comment on stories, we reveal more about OURSELVES than shedding light about the individuals in the stories?

[beyurslf]

5. Very true.

I have never been the relationship type.