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joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 05:30 AM Jun 2012

My Sweet Cat Melanie: August 14, 1995 - June 8, 2012

I took Melanie in yesterday afternoon and she’s no longer with us. She went downhill very quickly in the past few days. She had stopped eating, but then started again only to stop a day later. She stopped drinking yesterday and was having trouble walking. It seemed like she was starting to shut herself down and wanted to leave. It was a difficult decision, but the right one because she’s not suffering and that’s the important thing.

I will miss Melanie very much. She was my favorite cat. When I got her and Scarlet almost 17 years ago she took to me right away, and followed me everywhere. She always cuddled in bed, and if for some reason I was late in getting to bed, she would very loudly let me know it was time to snuggle. I lied down with her for a few hours today to say good-bye. A beautiful, affectionate and very demanding cat. Her sisters and brother miss her, too. Sweet dreams my little girl.

Below, in the pictures with her sister Scarlet, she is the one on the left in both.






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My Sweet Cat Melanie: August 14, 1995 - June 8, 2012 (Original Post) joeybee12 Jun 2012 OP
I am so very sorry... Rhiannon12866 Jun 2012 #1
i'm sorry joeybee barbtries Jun 2012 #2
Sorry to hear that Confusious Jun 2012 #3
May Peace Be with you at this sorrowful time. xchrom Jun 2012 #4
You did the right thing, Melanie is resting now... peace secondwind Jun 2012 #5
Aw spinbaby Jun 2012 #6
My heart is with you in your sorrow. anniebelle Jun 2012 #7
I'm so sorry a la izquierda Jun 2012 #8
Never an easy decision - but yours was the right one. 66 dmhlt Jun 2012 #9
I'm sorry. nt OnyxCollie Jun 2012 #10
Rest peacefully, Melanie magical thyme Jun 2012 #11
I'm sorry to hear that. :hug:; nt raccoon Jun 2012 #12
That sucks Gore1FL Jun 2012 #13
So sorry to hear it. All sympathies. Hope Scarlet is holding up OK. n/t Bossy Monkey Jun 2012 #14
Please accept my family's condolences. MarianJack Jun 2012 #15
So sweet looking... WillParkinson Jun 2012 #16
I'm so sorry for your loss. Her spirit will always be with you and LiberalLoner Jun 2012 #17
I'm sorry for your loss. William769 Jun 2012 #18
You did the right thing. closeupready Jun 2012 #19
(hugs) kestrel91316 Jun 2012 #20
Condolences MNBrewer Jun 2012 #21
I'm glad you were able to be with her today jimlup Jun 2012 #22
Safe passage to Melanie. Call Me Wesley Jun 2012 #23
. HillWilliam Jun 2012 #24
Oh no. Gregorian Jun 2012 #25
sorry you lost your daughter mitchtv Jun 2012 #26
rest easy, melanie fizzgig Jun 2012 #27
I'm so sorry. Jamastiene Jun 2012 #28
Its one of the hardest decisions you can make....but she told you it was time and she was ready.... Rowdyboy Jun 2012 #29
Very sorry to hear this, Joey dbackjon Jun 2012 #30
Awww. I'm so sorry. ProfessionalLeftist Jun 2012 #31
Such beauties Catherina Jun 2012 #32
I'm sorry, joeybee. intheflow Jun 2012 #33
I'm very sorry. It's never an easy decision. She's beautiful. GodlessBiker Jun 2012 #34
You had one another for a long time Vanje Jun 2012 #35
That is a fair age dipsydoodle Jun 2012 #36
Aww Joey, I am so sorry Marrah_G Jun 2012 #37
I am sorry, joey. cate94 Jun 2012 #38
. Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2012 #39

Rhiannon12866

(206,072 posts)
1. I am so very sorry...
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 05:39 AM
Jun 2012

What beautiful cats! It sounds like you gave her a lot of love and a wonderful life. Melanie was so very fortunate to have found you...

Confusious

(8,317 posts)
3. Sorry to hear that
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 06:06 AM
Jun 2012

I lost my sweetie girl almost a year ago. 19 years old. the only other time I cried so hard was my dog, who was also 19.

Sucks.

anniebelle

(899 posts)
7. My heart is with you in your sorrow.
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 06:35 AM
Jun 2012

Having done this many times over the years with our beloved babies, I know it will take time for you to just remember the fun times, but you will. When we lost our latest one three years ago, we went immediately to the shelter and adopted 4 more babies to fill that terrible void and have never regretted it. His brother, who was left behind, was so grateful. He took charge of the new ones from day one -- it was a lovely bonding period for all. And, by the way, we adopted two older cats and two kittens and it made for a good mix. The two older ones, girls, had been in the shelter their entire lives but they adjusted to freedom and family life quickly.

66 dmhlt

(1,941 posts)
9. Never an easy decision - but yours was the right one.
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 06:44 AM
Jun 2012

I hope the fond memories you have of Melanie will be a balm for your sorrow, and brighten your days in the future when you recall the bond you shared with her.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
11. Rest peacefully, Melanie
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 07:03 AM
Jun 2012

You gave her a wonderful life, clearly, and eased her passing. You did good.

to you, to Melanie, to Scarlet and her other siblings...

MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
15. Please accept my family's condolences.
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 07:52 AM
Jun 2012

Love is always a good and great thing. You obviously made each other very happy.

My favorite dog ever was my Spencer. for 12 years he was my best friend. When I had to put him to sleep in 1993 due to cancer and hip displasia, it was the hardest thing I'd done in my life to that point. His final physical movement was to put his face next to mine as I was telling him that I'd always love him. Almost 20 years later I'm still tearing up as I write this. My wife knows that when I go, I want her to scatter his ashes with mine.

But ypu know what? A year later I got my Daisy and I loved her, and still miss her, too.

Today it seems that I, along with my wife and son, am now a cat person. We have our 2 furry boys, Spirit & Oreo. I know that when it's time for them to go to kitty heaven we'll all be devastated.

I tell you this to let you know that I understand exactly how much your little 4 legged friends can be such a huge part of your life and your family. I truly believe that they love us as much as we love them.

Here are some sincere & heartfelt & for you. I know that you'll pass them on to Scarlet because you know that she misses her friend, too.

All the best to you and yours, joeybee12!

PEACE!

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
17. I'm so sorry for your loss. Her spirit will always be with you and
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 08:23 AM
Jun 2012

you will see her again on the other side. The bonds of love never break.

jimlup

(7,968 posts)
22. I'm glad you were able to be with her today
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 11:54 AM
Jun 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss. I will snuggle my kitty today in honor of you and Melanie.

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
25. Oh no.
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 12:53 PM
Jun 2012

It's so hard to hear. I had two brothers. It was like you. I spent time with him that morning. Darn it. I get sad just thinking about the loss. An empty place. It's not fair.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
27. rest easy, melanie
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 05:00 PM
Jun 2012

helping them cross is one of the most painful but selfless things we do, our final act of love for them.

i'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful friend :hug;

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
29. Its one of the hardest decisions you can make....but she told you it was time and she was ready....
Sat Jun 9, 2012, 06:39 PM
Jun 2012

Peace to you both

Vanje

(9,766 posts)
35. You had one another for a long time
Sun Jun 10, 2012, 11:05 PM
Jun 2012

It sounds like Melanie had a very good life, giving and receiving love foe 17 years.
Well done.

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
36. That is a fair age
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 06:26 AM
Jun 2012

but I do understand your sense of loss all the same. I've got 4 at present having lost two of my Chinchilla Persians along the way - one through kidney failure and the his mother old age.

Are those Maine Coons ? One of mine is a Maine Coon / British Short Hair cross who weighs about 20lb.

Best wishes to you.

cate94

(2,813 posts)
38. I am sorry, joey.
Mon Jun 11, 2012, 09:58 AM
Jun 2012

She was a beautiful kitty. It is always hard to say good-bye, even when we know it is best.

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