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Tonight at 8:30, my mother, Emelia, passed. Had driven down to hospice today to see her with her cat in tow. He laid in her arm while she lay unconscious as family sat nearby. After we all left, she passed. It was a difficult struggle for her for the last five days while her mind/spirit and body fought with each other but in the end, her body was tired and won. She had suffered a massive stroke on Friday the 13th in January that left her paralyzed on her right side and silenced her ability to speak.
NE Minneapolis is all the poorer for her passing. She worked with Sen. Pogemiller, City Council member Walt Dziedzic and many many others on projects. She gave her heart to NE. She was NE. In fact, I had started to affectionately call her the Queen of NE. No one knew the secrets of some of the history there as much as she did. She shared it with new artists that had moved to the area, with committees she served on and projects that she worked on including the ethnic signage on the Broadway/Central Bridge.
She was the Secretary of the NE Neighborhood Association for many years. She worked on the Quarry Project. She connected me with City Planners and others in order that I could find out that they were demolishing five artists buildings in Downtown, so that I could tell them in advance and then work with local Government to pave the way for the artists to move NE Minneapolis. She taught me well and gave me many tools politically that enabled me to contribute to my City. My birth home.
Minneapolis has lost someone tonight that gave their everything. I have lost not only my mother but someone who planted the seed of passion for purpose. For what is right......
Just wanted to post......
Politicalboi
(15,189 posts)PDJane
(10,103 posts)You have my good thoughts. May you have peace.......
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,721 posts)She must have been a fascinating person - clearly someone who cared a lot about her community. I'm sorry for your loss; it's so tough to lose a parent.
emilyg
(22,742 posts)kickysnana
(3,908 posts)nadine_mn
(3,702 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)Northeast Mpls has been reborn these last few years - amazing restaurants, clubs, arts, etc. Your mom was clearly instrumental to improving the lives of thousands of people and has no doubt inspired many. You should be very, very proud.
Randomthought
(835 posts)Nothing hurts as much as losing your mom.
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)My thoughts are with you.
dflprincess
(28,079 posts)Your mom sounds like she was wonderful.
glinda
(14,807 posts)Too bad the rest of the family sucks.
Am thinking i may not go to the funeral. Hard decision but family's dysfunction is so heightened right now I am sure she would just hate it like I do.
dflprincess
(28,079 posts)you were with your mom when it counted and funerals are really for the living. You have to find the best way for you to work through this and it doesn't sound like the funeral will help.
Morning Dew
(6,539 posts)We are the poorer for her passing and the richer for her having been here. I wish I had known her.
As a NordEaster, I just love those pieces of community you mention, especially the bridge signage - it's 3 blocks or so from my house, I see it all the time.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)My thoughts are with you.
dodger501
(1,069 posts)My own mother's time is short.
glinda
(14,807 posts)Grab and "make" those special moments. Seriously. That is the only thing that is getting me through the grief. Even nearer the end, do not discount a miracle of a hand touch or their eyes opening and looking at you. IF they are able, spend the best quality time with them. Make them laugh if you can. Hug them close.....