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glinda

(14,807 posts)
Wed Apr 18, 2012, 11:41 PM Apr 2012

Just wanted to post

Tonight at 8:30, my mother, Emelia, passed. Had driven down to hospice today to see her with her cat in tow. He laid in her arm while she lay unconscious as family sat nearby. After we all left, she passed. It was a difficult struggle for her for the last five days while her mind/spirit and body fought with each other but in the end, her body was tired and won. She had suffered a massive stroke on Friday the 13th in January that left her paralyzed on her right side and silenced her ability to speak.
NE Minneapolis is all the poorer for her passing. She worked with Sen. Pogemiller, City Council member Walt Dziedzic and many many others on projects. She gave her heart to NE. She was NE. In fact, I had started to affectionately call her the Queen of NE. No one knew the secrets of some of the history there as much as she did. She shared it with new artists that had moved to the area, with committees she served on and projects that she worked on including the ethnic signage on the Broadway/Central Bridge.
She was the Secretary of the NE Neighborhood Association for many years. She worked on the Quarry Project. She connected me with City Planners and others in order that I could find out that they were demolishing five artists buildings in Downtown, so that I could tell them in advance and then work with local Government to pave the way for the artists to move NE Minneapolis. She taught me well and gave me many tools politically that enabled me to contribute to my City. My birth home.
Minneapolis has lost someone tonight that gave their everything. I have lost not only my mother but someone who planted the seed of passion for purpose. For what is right......
Just wanted to post......

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Just wanted to post (Original Post) glinda Apr 2012 OP
Sorry for your loss Politicalboi Apr 2012 #1
I'm sorry.......she will, I'm sure, be missed by many. PDJane Apr 2012 #2
My condolences. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2012 #3
My deepest sympathy. emilyg Apr 2012 #4
So sorry for your loss. n/t kickysnana Apr 2012 #5
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Nt nadine_mn Apr 2012 #6
She leaves behind what all of us should hope to: a grand legacy. trotsky Apr 2012 #7
So sorry Randomthought Apr 2012 #8
I'm so sorry to hear that. MineralMan Apr 2012 #9
I'm so sorry Glinda dflprincess Apr 2012 #10
Yes. She was. glinda Apr 2012 #11
You need to do what's best for you. dflprincess Apr 2012 #14
Oh, glinda, I am so sorry for your loss. Morning Dew Apr 2012 #12
So sorry to hear of your loss Glinda geardaddy Apr 2012 #13
I am feeling for you to, glinda dodger501 Apr 2012 #15
I have some advice if you want it glinda Apr 2012 #16

PDJane

(10,103 posts)
2. I'm sorry.......she will, I'm sure, be missed by many.
Wed Apr 18, 2012, 11:46 PM
Apr 2012

You have my good thoughts. May you have peace.......

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,721 posts)
3. My condolences.
Wed Apr 18, 2012, 11:48 PM
Apr 2012

She must have been a fascinating person - clearly someone who cared a lot about her community. I'm sorry for your loss; it's so tough to lose a parent.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
7. She leaves behind what all of us should hope to: a grand legacy.
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 09:46 AM
Apr 2012

Northeast Mpls has been reborn these last few years - amazing restaurants, clubs, arts, etc. Your mom was clearly instrumental to improving the lives of thousands of people and has no doubt inspired many. You should be very, very proud.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
11. Yes. She was.
Thu Apr 19, 2012, 11:51 PM
Apr 2012

Too bad the rest of the family sucks.

Am thinking i may not go to the funeral. Hard decision but family's dysfunction is so heightened right now I am sure she would just hate it like I do.

dflprincess

(28,079 posts)
14. You need to do what's best for you.
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 11:25 PM
Apr 2012

you were with your mom when it counted and funerals are really for the living. You have to find the best way for you to work through this and it doesn't sound like the funeral will help.

Morning Dew

(6,539 posts)
12. Oh, glinda, I am so sorry for your loss.
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 04:52 AM
Apr 2012


We are the poorer for her passing and the richer for her having been here. I wish I had known her.

As a NordEaster, I just love those pieces of community you mention, especially the bridge signage - it's 3 blocks or so from my house, I see it all the time.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
16. I have some advice if you want it
Mon Apr 23, 2012, 11:22 PM
Apr 2012

Grab and "make" those special moments. Seriously. That is the only thing that is getting me through the grief. Even nearer the end, do not discount a miracle of a hand touch or their eyes opening and looking at you. IF they are able, spend the best quality time with them. Make them laugh if you can. Hug them close.....

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