Music Appreciation
Related: About this forumPopular bands or artists most people love...but you can't stand
Ok folks...we all have some funky, music nerd, eclectic tastes. But let's be honest, this is a safe space, you know there's some artists and bands that are popular that you just can't stand.
I thought it would be fun to have a confessional, of sorts, and air out our dislikes.
I'll go first:
I'm embarrassed to say I cannot stand Rush. It's like fingernails on a chalkboard to me and I really don't know why. Maybe it's Geddy Lee's voice. Maybe it's because I was first introduced to them by a guy who thought he had better musical tastes than anyone else and that annoyed me. I don't know...
Ok, who's next.
GemDigger
(4,305 posts)And boy, do I get shit for it!
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)Seriously. I have had spells where I didn't like either of those but I got over it some thirty years ago!
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Unexpected out the gate. Care to elaborate why? (I promise to be nice, lol).
GemDigger
(4,305 posts)"I wanna hold your hand" again and again. Ran to the bathroom and threw up. I do realize it was the flu and not the music but for some reason I never really warmed up to the Beatles. There are a few songs I may like but off the top of my head I can't think of them.
Shrugs on why I dislike the Stones but if I grab my microphone (broom handle) I can do a mean Mick Jagger impression.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)I can appreciate such a negative visceral reaction!
Corvo Bianco
(1,148 posts)unblock
(52,243 posts)I've known plenty of people who don't care for them, find them boring, or just aren't into them.
But the only people I've known who "can't stand" them are people who only like classical music or show tunes, etc.
Corvo Bianco
(1,148 posts)I see these eager faces around me and I say yeah it sounds good. But I have to leave the room.
MontanaMama
(23,322 posts)and Supertramp. Oh and most country music.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Glad I've got someone in my corner, lol
Snotcicles
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|Crutchez_CuiBono
(7,725 posts)LisaM
(27,813 posts)Until recently, I'd have considered that most people didn't like any of them, but it's come to my attention recently that a disturbing number of my friends actually like ELO.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)I like Jeff Lynn
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)ELO has a lot of weak tunes but they also have a few real gems
Crutchez_CuiBono
(7,725 posts)I raise a glass!! love that stuff. 1st real band to incorporate orchestra and make it hip. imho.
spooky3
(34,456 posts)tymorial
(3,433 posts)For daring to mention Rush in such a way
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)but I'll only tell a few.
Neil Diamond! WTF. Didn't like him in the early days, still don't.
Madonna
And I'll give you a second on Rush, never liked their sound.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)I think because his vocals sound constipated to me...that and my parents had a VHS recording of a concert he did on HBO in the 80's that they watched more times than I care to count.
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)constipated is a good way to put it. I'm a vocalist and it actually makes my throat hurt to listen to him... and all my teenage friends loved him!
And I could never stand Melanie Safka or Stevie Nicks come to think of it... they sound like goats.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)It's totally forced and "comstipated", but it makes my wife laugh. Funny though, I have found myself doing so many silly vocal spoofs that people I interact with at work find it hard to believe I can actually sing.
MontanaMama
(23,322 posts)Its for real too. He stops people in their tracks when he sings Neil Diamond on karaoke.
unblock
(52,243 posts)credit to neil diamond for writing the song, though i don't care for his version.
mrs. unblock loves him but to me he sounds like a bad vegas act.
2naSalit
(86,646 posts)What a cringe-worthy lot! A Gerry Goffin outlet, as were the Bangles who later rehashed a bunch of Gerry Goffin stuff including "Walk Like An Egyptian" which contains an identical lead line from a past Monkees song. Guess he ran out of ideas. And the Monkees made me feel embarrassed when I saw or heard them for some reason.
unblock
(52,243 posts)can't think of another monkees song i particularly care for, just that one.
backstreet boys, partridge family, etc.
some producer's idea of marketable music product rather than a genuinely popular act.
Croney
(4,661 posts)Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)(My opinion...Mariah at New Years a few years ago was a joke, Adele is only good when she's heartbroken..her newer stuff is meh)
Merlot
(9,696 posts)don't care for her music in the least but decided I didn't actually hate it.
I actually like Mariahs voice, just wish she'd pick some better songs because they are all pretty awful.
unblock
(52,243 posts)proof that even undeniably massive technique is not enough to make good music.
For me, technical flourishes havevto fit with the music, mean something, be part of the story or fit the musical journey of the song. It doesn't work for me if it's just showing off.
Merlot
(9,696 posts)Neil Young.
Beach Boys. Ug, how was this barbershop quartet ever considered to be rock and roll?
Lynyrd Skynyrd - didn't they sign a love song to gun, or was that someone else?
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)"The Beach Boys" were on the verge of being huge, if it weren't for those mop top dudes from Liverpool.
Merlot
(9,696 posts)All the things the beach boys lacked? Poor Mike Love.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Maybe that's why Love is so disgruntled and is a right wing asshole
NBachers
(17,119 posts)lunasun
(21,646 posts)The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)The only song about guns the original band did was about pistols and advocated "why don't we dump 'em to the bottom of the sea?"
The next generation Skynyrd are group of low talent hack RWNJs.
They may gave a gun love song but the original band did not
Merlot
(9,696 posts)The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)But Southern Rock isn't everybody's cup of tea.
And then it collapsed into this complete bullshit "Country Rock " and BRO Country.
Gaah
Merlot
(9,696 posts)Allman Brothers and SRV are two of my favorite bands...
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)right here...
TygrBright
(20,760 posts)2naSalit
(86,646 posts)Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Which, as a huge Dylan fan, has been a breakthrough for us after many many years, lol
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alwaysinasnit
(5,066 posts)the nails on the chalkboard sensation is precisely what I feel when I hear Shakira.
Duppers
(28,125 posts)Glamrock
(11,802 posts)Rush, Styx, Supertramp (although, what a great fucking band name.Amiright?)
And now for my personal flame fodder.......
U2, REM, and.........fucking Springsteen. If he's the boss,I quit!
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)But I'm regretting that safe space comment...lol
Love Springsteen, but I could see how some folks don't care for him. At least he's a legit writer and rocker and, by most accounts, a genuinely good dude.
Glamrock
(11,802 posts)Hate his music. I'm sorry. Something about his music has bothered me since I was knee high to a grasshopper. Don't know what it is. Not calling him a hack,and his lyrics are great,but man......
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)We've had that discussion before I think!
Glamrock
(11,802 posts)What moves ya moves ya, what doesn't doesn't.
ProfessorGAC
(65,060 posts)I've never got the Springsteen thing either.
I had a guy tell me i just HAD to see him live and it would change my mind. Problem is, since i don't like the songs, and i don't like the arrangements, it would be a long, boring show from which i couldn't wait to leave.
Glamrock
(11,802 posts)I didn't get beat up as bad as I expected. Glad to know I'm not alone!
unblock
(52,243 posts)Brilliant songwriter, but can't stand his whiny voice.
I like Tom petty, whose singing style is heavily derivative of Dylan (never realized that until I saw them together in concert. Then it suddenly was so obvious.)
luvs2sing
(2,220 posts)violetpastille
(1,483 posts)I was also never a fan of No Doubt or anything Gwen Stefani. It's not about the vocal either. It's just way too arhythmic for me.
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)The most contrived fakest arena schlock rock ever foisted on America
When I hear a Journey song I get angry - Angry that really talented bands are broke and these dipshits are stacking Pallets of cash in their basement
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)And they're still rolling in the cash...incredible!
Ohiogal
(32,005 posts)JDC
(10,128 posts)Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)But my wife loves humans I actually had to suck it up and take her to a concert a couple years ago. It was...ok. His voice is not what it once was
(Edit...humans should be "him so"
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)The Jon Bon Jovi part of Bon Jovi was the weakest link
ProfessorGAC
(65,060 posts)High clear harmony singer, and he's an adventurous guitar player.
LisaM
(27,813 posts)I just want to throw my tonic and gin in his face sometimes. I don't like his voice, but his lyrics are generally excruciating.
violetpastille
(1,483 posts)Piano Man Billy Joel or 80's Billy Joel?
LisaM
(27,813 posts)It would be Piano Man but "We Didn't Start the Fire" sets my teeth on edge.
unblock
(52,243 posts)i really like his piano work, he puts some real talent into his rock songs.
too many rock piano players, like elton john, are actually quite talented but the piano playing in their songs are nothing impressive.
billy joel has some songs like that as well, of course, but he also has some songs that really show off his talent (root beer rag, e.g.)
his songs are generally a bit to schmaltzy for me, and the more rocking songs sound like he wants to be a tough, rough, bruce springsteen rocker but it just doesn't fit.
then again, there are a few gems in there, especially if you like composition. billy joel learned classical music and it shows in his songwriting.
root beer rag
and so it goes
goodnight saigon
if i only had the words (to tell you)
tell her about it -- great song, though it got way overplayed
the longest time
shameless
the downeaster "alexa"
this night (the melody in the chorus is from beethoven's pathetique)
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)I too have mixed feelings about Billy Joel, but you left off his (IMHO) best song
"Summer Highland Falls"from the Turnstiles record. I can't say anything about the vocals- Billy is Billy after all but this piano work and arrangement is great.
unblock
(52,243 posts)the left hand plays a plodding, depressive bass line while the right hand plays the bright, manic, busy sequence.
... it's either sadness or euphoria....
NBachers
(17,119 posts)And let me edit to throw in Joni Mitchell.
Are the Bee Gees screeching in hell yet?
What about that guy who sang the Pina Colada song? He still deserves exile.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Because Rupert Holmes was one goofy looking mofo and there's no way he was scoring points with ladies singing a song about piña coladas whose premise is literally based on having an affair.
Ponietz
(2,976 posts)LW1977
(1,235 posts)Oh wait.. Youre talking about actual music, not that horrible noise I have to stomach through on a rock station.
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Adsos Letter
(19,459 posts)Stargleamer
(1,989 posts)Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Not a huge fan either, mainly because my kids play them all the damn time
RainCaster
(10,882 posts)They sounds like bagpipes to me.
pnwest
(3,266 posts)a big fan either , kinda neutral, until I happened to see him in concert. He was so warm, fun and engaged with the audience that I became huge fan! Started really paying attention to the songs and musicianship, and liked him from then on - since mid 80s.
RainCaster
(10,882 posts)Ohiogal
(32,005 posts)I just can't stand them.
unblock
(52,243 posts)even when singing upbeat songs. where the beatles just ooze happy excitement, the beach boys made you think they were all depressed.
that said, the vocal arrangements are musical genius.
ProfessorGAC
(65,060 posts)Back in around 1974 at the stadium in our city, there was a big jam.
Head East (big heat in the midwest), BTO, and Beach Boys. The first two bands blew them off the stage.
Every time i hear someone talk about how great Pet Sounds was, all i can think is "Huh?"
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)But there is one "Artist" that stands out as the least talented jingoistic simpleton in a VERY crowded field
That meat faced truck salesman from Oklahoma -Toby effin' Keith
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)Just...no
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)The color drains from my face, mouth agape
The horror, the horror
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)But I guess I could see how some don't
Beaverhausen
(24,470 posts)And I fully support female musicians being one myself.
But playing behind the beat as she does makes me cringe.
And then theres that guys voice...
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)Jack literally made her to play that way to make the White Stripes sound the way he wanted
I think it's brilliant but - They make smooth and crunchy because people can't even agree about peanut butter
lunasun
(21,646 posts)cemaphonic
(4,138 posts)I've since gained an appreciation for Jack White, but mostly for his post-White Stripes music.
Crutchez_CuiBono
(7,725 posts)rusty quoin
(6,133 posts)The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)rusty quoin
(6,133 posts)tymorial
(3,433 posts)2naSalit
(86,646 posts)Pardon my language...
Frank fucking Sinatra! For every reason there is.
Armymedic88
(251 posts)Hands down! Can't take it
luvs2sing
(2,220 posts)Joni Mitchell. Her voice sounds like a nervous breakdown to me.
Garth Brooks, Shania Twain, and just about every other so-called country singer over the last twenty years or so. I love pre-Garth country.
The Police. Just..no..
I was a huge Neil Diamond fan until 1978 when I bought his new album and it was..ugh.. Now I think most of his stuff is annoying and overly dramatic.
RazBerryBeret
(3,075 posts)I blame my older sister who listened to the Rumors album constantly.
also not a fan of Rush. haha.
Cousin Dupree
(1,866 posts)If you ever wanted me to confess to ANYTHING, lock me in a room and pipe in the "singing" of Neil Young. I'd be singing like a bird in 2 minutes.
MichMan
(11,932 posts)mainstreetonce
(4,178 posts)Sorry
The Genealogist
(4,723 posts)Neil Young and Bob Dylan...just don't like their voices. I like many of the songs they wrote, though.
ProfessorGAC
(65,060 posts)Don't care for him, and i question the knowledge and taste of anybody who says he's a good guitar player. His playing is dreck.
Grasswire2
(13,571 posts)dameatball
(7,398 posts)Guppy
(444 posts)I hate the fucking eagles
Duppers
(28,125 posts)exboyfil
(17,863 posts)I am still in shock about the hate for two of my favorites: Rush and Neil Young. I guess everybody has different tastes.
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)For or against...
But Aerosmith fell into a hole after "Done With Mirrors" and ZZ Top after "De Guelo" but as an old guy in his late 50s, I remember the golden age Aerosmith and ZZ Top. The mid to late 70s for both of those bands were amazing.
I also love most Rush and Neil
tparrett62
(268 posts)For me:
Rolling Stones
Grateful Dead
Bob Fucking Seger
argyl
(3,064 posts)Won't say I absolutely hate Dylan but his mumbling lyrics are more clever constructs than brilliant revelation or prophecy. The reverence he's held in baffles me.
And Eddie Van Halen's guitar playing may be proficient but is soulless and boring. Mark Knopfler and Dire Straits hit around the same time as Van Halen. Him I can listen to for hours.
unblock
(52,243 posts)knopfler conveys emotion and depth and sensitivity. he makes the guitar sing and shout and wail and cry.
van halen mostly just shows off how fast he is. and no denying it, he sure is fast. but it's not a race, it's supposed to be music....
give me "telegraph road" over anything van halen any day.
hibbing
(10,098 posts)If I hear Hotel California even in an elevator, it is like nails on a chalkboard. I've heard that song enough for 20 lifetimes. That goes for most of their other songs.
Peace
underpants
(182,826 posts)The summer before Glenn Frey died. It was a bucket list thing for my wife and we got seats right behind the sound board. I gained a new appreciation of their songs.
Can't stand Benatar. Madonna too - she was a perfect example of the ability to market just about anything.
pansypoo53219
(20,978 posts)most oldies, elton john, ......lemme think. oh yeah, beach boys. oh yeah chicago.
Jake Stern
(3,145 posts)Besides the fact that I just can't stand Eddie Vedder's voice, he apparently hasn't got the memo that it's okay to sing about nice things once in a while.
Writing a Pearl Jam/Eddie Vedder song is easy - it's basically singing about how much your life, especially your childhood, sucks major ass:
"My daddy beat me and my momma wiped my ass with sandpaper,
So I hate you, you skank for having brown hair like my mom
And my sister who ran off with a Republican from Spokanaaaaaaaaaaaane".
Get Eddie to sing it with that cat-being-tossed-in-a-paint-shaker warble of his, slap on a title and you have Pearl Jam's latest single.
Ohiogal
(32,005 posts)sounds like a bleating sheep to me.
Love her, otherwise.
Barbra Streisand sounds like a caterwauling cat to me.
Celine Dion - ugh! - like fingernails on a chalkboard! Her tone just grates on my nerves.
Jake Stern
(3,145 posts)Honestly don't know why.
JHan
(10,173 posts)eagles albums ( I like joe walsh tho) , the cure, rage against the machine, snoop doggy dog, ( no.. adding izzle to everything is not cute, but I like how he cusses Trump tho) 90's navel-gazing grunge bands.
pnwest
(3,266 posts)their rabid, over-the-top fans, especially Beatles fans. Youd think they invented sunlight, FFS. Weve all engaged in long, heated discussions about the Beatles, its as polarizing - and insolvable - as arguments about religion and politics, so I wont rehash it here. Suffice to say, the surest way to get me to walk away from you is to tell me that todays rock music would not exist if not for the Beatles.
Jimmy Buffet is harmless and entertaining enough, but Buffetheads are so annoying theyve turned me off of him.
And Lenny Kravitz - completely overrated hack.
Alright, flame away....
unblock
(52,243 posts)i can certainly see thinking that the beatles are overrated or overplayed or given too much credit for the music that followed.
i like the beatles, but agree that it's ridiculous to think that subsequent rock wouldn't exist were it not for them. mostly they were just the most popular version of what a number of groups were doing at the time.
sgt. pepper's is often cited as the first album that really showed how studio technology could be used to help craft rock music, but it's not as if no one else would have figured that out were it not for the beatles. had it not been the beatles, it would have been someone else.
i do like how some songs actually stand up even 50 years later. much of the early beatles does seem dated, but songs like helter skelter or hey bulldog? if you heard them for the first time today, you'd never guess they were from the 60s.
thucythucy
(8,067 posts)I like his lead guitar playing, but his songs always sound snide to me. Seriously, I think his main feature is snark. Not to mention misogyny--"Dinah Moe Hum" "Camarillo Brillo"--there's even a song wherein a woman is raped, and the takeaway is that the woman victim is just too hung up about sex to enjoy it. "What's the ugliest part of your body..."
I saw him in concert once, and he actually insulted the audience. Some comment about how "You're probably all too unsophisticated to appreciate this..."
Pretentious, juvenile, snarky.
The Polack MSgt
(13,189 posts)Shut up and play yer guitar parts 1 and 2.
For all the reasons you state.
Brilliant musician but his snooty asshole art major jerk persona was grating
solara
(3,836 posts)I hardly ever listened to Rush.. not even sure what they sound like..
Cher always drove me crazy...bleating queen of the diphthongs
Neil Diamond
CCR
Kenny G
Diana Ross
Celine Dion
David Lee Roth
ABBA
Barry Manilow
KISS
Michael Bolton
Rod Stewart
Docreed2003
(16,862 posts)Musical taste is a funny thing. Speaks to the individuality of all of us!
TeapotInATempest
(804 posts)For me, I can NOT tolerate:
Bob Dylan, Bruce Springsteen, Van Halen, Boston, Mariah Carey, Maroon 5 and most Fleetwood Mac. I think the only Fleetwood Mac songs worth listening to are the ones written by Stevie Nicks but I can't stand her voice, so...
There are probably more on my list that I can't think of right now; I'm awfully picky.
dameatball
(7,398 posts)MichMan
(11,932 posts)The King of Prussia
(737 posts)The Rolling Stones. The Kinks. And above all Eric Clapton - talentless racist scum.
DBoon
(22,366 posts)Led Zeppelin 4 was the worst excuse for a blues album ever
Jane Austin
(9,199 posts)It's like noodling around on the piano, which also drives me crazy, as in that Prevagen ad. I have to fast forward past it.
Non musical "music" affects me viscerally.