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underpants

(182,865 posts)
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:15 PM Aug 2017

We lost our girl cat today

15 years old. Great cat. She and her older brother were the first pets I'd had in a really long time.

She used to crawl on my lap - she was Daddy's cat - so quietly I didn't even know she was there.

We were literally on the beach when we got the call from our cat sitter. In 30 minutes we were packed checked out an on the road. That was one tough 6 hour drive. Tomorrow we go the vet to take care of the arrangements.

Tough tough day.

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We lost our girl cat today (Original Post) underpants Aug 2017 OP
I'm sorry! It's so sad to lose an animal friend; they're really family. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2017 #1
HRH was that kind of a lap cat Warpy Aug 2017 #2
She was a Maine coon also underpants Aug 2017 #3
I never saw any here, she encouraged them to live elsewhere until she got old Warpy Aug 2017 #5
Cross easy sweet kitty Best_man23 Aug 2017 #6
The creatures we share our lives with are on this earth too short a time. Throck Aug 2017 #4
So sorry for your loss... Docreed2003 Aug 2017 #7
This song comforts me. roody Aug 2017 #8
Never heard this one before Bayard Aug 2017 #58
So sorry! jpak Aug 2017 #9
I'm sorry for your loss. TexasTowelie Aug 2017 #10
You gave her a great life.. Permanut Aug 2017 #11
Take comfort in the happiness of her life. The happiness that you gifted her. Midnight Writer Aug 2017 #47
so sorry Angry Dragon Aug 2017 #12
So very sorry. sinkingfeeling Aug 2017 #13
I'm so sorry for your loss. femmedem Aug 2017 #14
it's so hard Skittles Aug 2017 #15
---we just went and saw her. She looked like she just laid down and went to sleep underpants Aug 2017 #63
I'm so very sorry, underpants Skittles Aug 2017 #67
I'm so sorry. area51 Aug 2017 #16
So sorry you lost your loving companion. FuzzyRabbit Aug 2017 #17
I'm so sorry. I hope you can find peace at this hard time Maraya1969 Aug 2017 #18
So sorry. TomSlick Aug 2017 #19
Thanks. I will tell my daughter that. underpants Aug 2017 #37
Hugs and warm thoughts to you and yours. sandensea Aug 2017 #20
I'm so sorry lunamagica Aug 2017 #21
Please accept my condolences MontanaMama Aug 2017 #22
Sorry underpants JoeOtterbein Aug 2017 #23
Very Sorry to Hear about Your Loss Leith Aug 2017 #24
So sorry to hear this ailsagirl Aug 2017 #25
Oh - I am so sorry KT2000 Aug 2017 #26
I am so sorry gopiscrap Aug 2017 #27
So sorry......:( Heartstrings Aug 2017 #28
I'm so sorry. It is so hard to lose a pet. spooky3 Aug 2017 #29
Love and peace to you... Freedomofspeech Aug 2017 #30
Sending heartfelt condolences to you and your family, underpants. I am so glad she had you Leghorn21 Aug 2017 #31
My deepest sympathy DonaldsRump Aug 2017 #32
Your time with her warms my heart, so sorry for you Cicada Aug 2017 #33
I'm sorry, underpants Solly Mack Aug 2017 #34
Oh, damn. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. herding cats Aug 2017 #35
sorry MFM008 Aug 2017 #36
Aww! Sorry for your loss. Losing a pet hits harder than many of us are prepared for. pnwmom Aug 2017 #38
I'm so sorry underpants, and to all who love her. montana_hazeleyes Aug 2017 #39
So sorry to hear that... TreasonousBastard Aug 2017 #40
No matter how long they are with us, it is never long enough. Stonepounder Aug 2017 #41
So very sorry that your girl cat has gone over secondwind Aug 2017 #42
So sorry for your loss. :-( tenderfoot Aug 2017 #43
Sorry for your loss.. Pets are family. JHan Aug 2017 #44
I'm so sorry for your loss--sounds like she was well-loved and had a great life. flibbitygiblets Aug 2017 #45
My heart breaks for you. raven mad Aug 2017 #46
Tears on my face larry budwell Aug 2017 #48
Safe passage to your cat girl. Call Me Wesley Aug 2017 #49
Sorry to hear that. Nt raccoon Aug 2017 #50
I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet fur child.... samnsara Aug 2017 #51
Sorry for your loss Maeve Aug 2017 #52
Very sorry to hear this joeybee12 Aug 2017 #53
So sorry to hear about your loss SonofDonald Aug 2017 #54
I lost my girl, Mojo, in the spring irisblue Aug 2017 #55
Sending warm hugs. MuseRider Aug 2017 #56
Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Aug 2017 #57
Sniff, have a lump in my throat. So sorry she's gone. Fla Dem Aug 2017 #59
I'm sorry for your loss, underpants. demmiblue Aug 2017 #60
I am sorry for your loss crazycatlady Aug 2017 #61
My sympathy for your loss. They are family. Number9Dream Aug 2017 #62
I am sorry for your loss, peacebuzzard Aug 2017 #64
Lady Bast take Your little one gently home, and send comfort and peace to those who love her. niyad Aug 2017 #65
I'm so sorry. CousinIT Aug 2017 #66
sending you love and condolences orleans Aug 2017 #68
Hugs and vibes of strength to you. Laffy Kat Aug 2017 #69
Sorry about your kitty. denbot Aug 2017 #70
I'm so sorry. herding cats Aug 2017 #71

Warpy

(111,319 posts)
2. HRH was that kind of a lap cat
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:19 PM
Aug 2017

She was a big Maine coon cat, so I don't know how she pulled it off, but I'd be sitting at the computer and I'd look down and there she'd be, snoozing in my lap, and I'd know she'd been there for a while but I hadn't felt her jump up.

Stealth lap fungus. Those are the best.

I'm sorry you lost your old girl. I lost HRH a couple of years ago at the age of 21. I miss her every day.

underpants

(182,865 posts)
3. She was a Maine coon also
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:21 PM
Aug 2017

A champion mouser too. 6 confirmed at our old apartment- suddenly there was a mouse problem - she took care of it.

Warpy

(111,319 posts)
5. I never saw any here, she encouraged them to live elsewhere until she got old
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:24 PM
Aug 2017

but she'd always tell me where they were so I'd know where to set out the electronic traps.

Throck

(2,520 posts)
4. The creatures we share our lives with are on this earth too short a time.
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:22 PM
Aug 2017

May we love others as they have loved us.

Docreed2003

(16,869 posts)
7. So sorry for your loss...
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:25 PM
Aug 2017

Our pets are gifts for such a relatively short time and yet they capture our hearts completely.

Permanut

(5,621 posts)
11. You gave her a great life..
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:38 PM
Aug 2017

It is so hard to lose a little companion, but you gave her the best life possible, and you get brownie points and gold stars for that.

Saw a sign today on the pet store near our house:

"In ancient times, cats were worshiped as gods. They remember.

Midnight Writer

(21,782 posts)
47. Take comfort in the happiness of her life. The happiness that you gifted her.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 01:10 AM
Aug 2017

We take them in, we do our best for them, and then we cherish their memory.

femmedem

(8,204 posts)
14. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:57 PM
Aug 2017

I lost two cats this past year, one a senior and the other a relative youngster with recurring urinary blockage. it's hard indeed.

Skittles

(153,174 posts)
15. it's so hard
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 10:57 PM
Aug 2017

it is....the price of love

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson

underpants

(182,865 posts)
63. ---we just went and saw her. She looked like she just laid down and went to sleep
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:43 PM
Aug 2017

No trauma. Nothing painful the vet said. It was just her time.

TomSlick

(11,107 posts)
19. So sorry.
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 11:13 PM
Aug 2017

We've had enough pets through the years that there is quite a pet cemetery in the back yard. Every time I have to bury a pet, I ask the same question: Is the love of a pet worth the pain of losing one. The answer is always an easy "yes, of course."

JoeOtterbein

(7,702 posts)
23. Sorry underpants
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 11:37 PM
Aug 2017

I lost my kitten (disclaimer: he was full grown) Mr. Tubs who ran out of the house and never came back on 9/11/15. I still look for him everyday. He was micro chipped and I did what everyone suggested. Sardines & litter box outside, posters, reporting to all animal Control, local SPCA, Pet Rescue facilities, and online pet finding services. I would love to find the little guy one day.

gopiscrap

(23,763 posts)
27. I am so sorry
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 11:48 PM
Aug 2017

that6 can be so hard. I had a beloved cat a few years ago pass away, He was the best pet I have ever had. You are in my thoughts!

Leghorn21

(13,526 posts)
31. Sending heartfelt condolences to you and your family, underpants. I am so glad she had you
Wed Aug 23, 2017, 11:51 PM
Aug 2017

to cuddle for so many years - but so awfully sorry she had to go...many DUers know this pain, and it just - yeah, it's really tough.



herding cats

(19,566 posts)
35. Oh, damn. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:03 AM
Aug 2017

I know that doesn't help ease the horrific pain. I mean, I really know with all my heart. I was you just the end of this last February, except I had to take my dear sweet Maine Coon Tink (aka: girl kitty) in to be euthanized.

I feel your pain, and you are in my heart and thoughts.

I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.

pnwmom

(108,990 posts)
38. Aww! Sorry for your loss. Losing a pet hits harder than many of us are prepared for.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:26 AM
Aug 2017

Take care of yourself.

montana_hazeleyes

(3,424 posts)
39. I'm so sorry underpants, and to all who love her.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:39 AM
Aug 2017

I know too well the terrible feeling of losing little animal family. (birds in my case) There is such a feeling of loss and emptiness.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
40. So sorry to hear that...
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:39 AM
Aug 2017

I took mine on the last ride to the vet yesterday. She was in pain, and there was no treatment. Heard from the crematory today.

There is a period of profound grief when one of the furry family members passes. They are, after all, family.

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
41. No matter how long they are with us, it is never long enough.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:44 AM
Aug 2017

The special ones, they take a piece of our hearts with them when they go. But, they leave a little piece of their hearts with us as well.

And, from the FWIW dept, I believe to the absolute core of my being, that if there is such a thing as an afterlife, then our furkids will be there as well. There is no way that beings who give and accept us to unconditionally and who give and accept unconditional love they way they do could not be.

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
42. So very sorry that your girl cat has gone over
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:46 AM
Aug 2017

the Rainbow Bridge. She's in good company and you can rest easy.

It's always so damn hard to lose a pet, I hope you have many wonderful memories

JHan

(10,173 posts)
44. Sorry for your loss.. Pets are family.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 12:57 AM
Aug 2017

Losing one hurts deep.

She sounds like she had a happy, long kitty life- 15 years!

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
46. My heart breaks for you.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 01:04 AM
Aug 2017

My sweet departed kitties Maggie, Cinnamon, Sugar, Sassafras, Mellow, Patches and Bouncer will give her a grand escort over the Rainbow Bridge.





Maeve

(42,287 posts)
52. Sorry for your loss
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 07:24 AM
Aug 2017

We are in the last days with our 16 year old Streak, the best cat we've ever shared our lives with. I don't know if he will pass on his own or if we'll have to call the vet for a final visit. It is never easy.

SonofDonald

(2,050 posts)
54. So sorry to hear about your loss
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 08:32 AM
Aug 2017

I'm sitting here petting the Kittymonster AKA Poo, she's 15 and still thinks she's a kitten, she was rescued from a drug house and I took her home.

She's not a pet, she's family, she's the most un-catlike cat I've ever seen, she has nothing but love in her heart, she would rather be in your lap or right next to you than anywhere else in the house.

It will kill me when she leaves someday.

irisblue

(33,018 posts)
55. I lost my girl, Mojo, in the spring
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 08:55 AM
Aug 2017

She went to the rainbow bridge while on my lap.
I grieve for your girl and you.

MuseRider

(34,115 posts)
56. Sending warm hugs.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 09:10 AM
Aug 2017

I am so sorry to see this. My best to you and your family as you help each other get through this. It is so hard, we all know this and feel pain for you. 15 years is a long time to have a love and lose it. RIP Daddy's girl.

DarthDem

(5,256 posts)
57. Oh, I Am So Very Sorry
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 09:42 AM
Aug 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss. I bet she was a wonderful companion who had a great life and will always be remembered.

CousinIT

(9,253 posts)
66. I'm so sorry.
Thu Aug 24, 2017, 03:18 PM
Aug 2017

If she lived a good loved life and won't die alone, that's the best you can give her. She'll always be alive in your 💓 I know it hurts like hell to lose her from this life though.

herding cats

(19,566 posts)
71. I'm so sorry.
Fri Aug 25, 2017, 01:58 AM
Aug 2017

It hurts like hell, I know. Focus on the sweet memories you have of her and your special lap moments as much as possible in the days ahead. It helps, but it doesn't stop pain of losing your furry family member.

Again, I'm so very sorry and my heart is with you.

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