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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWe lost our girl cat today
15 years old. Great cat. She and her older brother were the first pets I'd had in a really long time.
She used to crawl on my lap - she was Daddy's cat - so quietly I didn't even know she was there.
We were literally on the beach when we got the call from our cat sitter. In 30 minutes we were packed checked out an on the road. That was one tough 6 hour drive. Tomorrow we go the vet to take care of the arrangements.
Tough tough day.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,807 posts)Warpy
(111,319 posts)She was a big Maine coon cat, so I don't know how she pulled it off, but I'd be sitting at the computer and I'd look down and there she'd be, snoozing in my lap, and I'd know she'd been there for a while but I hadn't felt her jump up.
Stealth lap fungus. Those are the best.
I'm sorry you lost your old girl. I lost HRH a couple of years ago at the age of 21. I miss her every day.
underpants
(182,865 posts)A champion mouser too. 6 confirmed at our old apartment- suddenly there was a mouse problem - she took care of it.
Warpy
(111,319 posts)but she'd always tell me where they were so I'd know where to set out the electronic traps.
Best_man23
(4,907 posts)Throck
(2,520 posts)May we love others as they have loved us.
Docreed2003
(16,869 posts)Our pets are gifts for such a relatively short time and yet they capture our hearts completely.
roody
(10,849 posts)Bayard
(22,123 posts)Thanks
jpak
(41,758 posts)15 good years is a blessing.
TexasTowelie
(112,350 posts)I know how tough it has been for me when I've lost my furry friends.
Permanut
(5,621 posts)It is so hard to lose a little companion, but you gave her the best life possible, and you get brownie points and gold stars for that.
Saw a sign today on the pet store near our house:
"In ancient times, cats were worshiped as gods. They remember.
Midnight Writer
(21,782 posts)We take them in, we do our best for them, and then we cherish their memory.
Angry Dragon
(36,693 posts)sinkingfeeling
(51,469 posts)femmedem
(8,204 posts)I lost two cats this past year, one a senior and the other a relative youngster with recurring urinary blockage. it's hard indeed.
Skittles
(153,174 posts)it is....the price of love
Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you.....
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.
--by Ilsa Paschal Richardson
underpants
(182,865 posts)No trauma. Nothing painful the vet said. It was just her time.
Skittles
(153,174 posts)I know how hard it is
area51
(11,918 posts)I lost my beautiful cat at age 15 also.
FuzzyRabbit
(1,969 posts)Maraya1969
(22,490 posts)TomSlick
(11,107 posts)We've had enough pets through the years that there is quite a pet cemetery in the back yard. Every time I have to bury a pet, I ask the same question: Is the love of a pet worth the pain of losing one. The answer is always an easy "yes, of course."
underpants
(182,865 posts)sandensea
(21,650 posts)lunamagica
(9,967 posts)MontanaMama
(23,334 posts)on the loss of your precious kitty. Very hard day, to be sure.
JoeOtterbein
(7,702 posts)I lost my kitten (disclaimer: he was full grown) Mr. Tubs who ran out of the house and never came back on 9/11/15. I still look for him everyday. He was micro chipped and I did what everyone suggested. Sardines & litter box outside, posters, reporting to all animal Control, local SPCA, Pet Rescue facilities, and online pet finding services. I would love to find the little guy one day.
Leith
(7,813 posts)ailsagirl
(22,898 posts)I know how it is
KT2000
(20,586 posts)It is so hard to lose such a best friend. Peace to you and yours.
gopiscrap
(23,763 posts)that6 can be so hard. I had a beloved cat a few years ago pass away, He was the best pet I have ever had. You are in my thoughts!
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)spooky3
(34,466 posts)Freedomofspeech
(4,227 posts)We recently lost our 19 year old cat. They are family.
Leghorn21
(13,526 posts)to cuddle for so many years - but so awfully sorry she had to go...many DUers know this pain, and it just - yeah, it's really tough.
DonaldsRump
(7,715 posts)Cicada
(4,533 posts)Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)herding cats
(19,566 posts)I know that doesn't help ease the horrific pain. I mean, I really know with all my heart. I was you just the end of this last February, except I had to take my dear sweet Maine Coon Tink (aka: girl kitty) in to be euthanized.
I feel your pain, and you are in my heart and thoughts.
I'm so very, very sorry for your loss.
MFM008
(19,818 posts)pnwmom
(108,990 posts)Take care of yourself.
montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)I know too well the terrible feeling of losing little animal family. (birds in my case) There is such a feeling of loss and emptiness.
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)I took mine on the last ride to the vet yesterday. She was in pain, and there was no treatment. Heard from the crematory today.
There is a period of profound grief when one of the furry family members passes. They are, after all, family.
Stonepounder
(4,033 posts)The special ones, they take a piece of our hearts with them when they go. But, they leave a little piece of their hearts with us as well.
And, from the FWIW dept, I believe to the absolute core of my being, that if there is such a thing as an afterlife, then our furkids will be there as well. There is no way that beings who give and accept us to unconditionally and who give and accept unconditional love they way they do could not be.
secondwind
(16,903 posts)the Rainbow Bridge. She's in good company and you can rest easy.
It's always so damn hard to lose a pet, I hope you have many wonderful memories
tenderfoot
(8,438 posts)JHan
(10,173 posts)Losing one hurts deep.
She sounds like she had a happy, long kitty life- 15 years!
flibbitygiblets
(7,220 posts)raven mad
(4,940 posts)My sweet departed kitties Maggie, Cinnamon, Sugar, Sassafras, Mellow, Patches and Bouncer will give her a grand escort over the Rainbow Bridge.
larry budwell
(50 posts)We have 4 girls, they mean everything to me. Best wishes.
Call Me Wesley
(38,187 posts)Peace and comfort to you and yours, underpants.
raccoon
(31,118 posts)samnsara
(17,634 posts)Maeve
(42,287 posts)We are in the last days with our 16 year old Streak, the best cat we've ever shared our lives with. I don't know if he will pass on his own or if we'll have to call the vet for a final visit. It is never easy.
joeybee12
(56,177 posts)SonofDonald
(2,050 posts)I'm sitting here petting the Kittymonster AKA Poo, she's 15 and still thinks she's a kitten, she was rescued from a drug house and I took her home.
She's not a pet, she's family, she's the most un-catlike cat I've ever seen, she has nothing but love in her heart, she would rather be in your lap or right next to you than anywhere else in the house.
It will kill me when she leaves someday.
irisblue
(33,018 posts)She went to the rainbow bridge while on my lap.
I grieve for your girl and you.
MuseRider
(34,115 posts)I am so sorry to see this. My best to you and your family as you help each other get through this. It is so hard, we all know this and feel pain for you. 15 years is a long time to have a love and lose it. RIP Daddy's girl.
DarthDem
(5,256 posts)I'm so sorry for your loss. I bet she was a wonderful companion who had a great life and will always be remembered.
Fla Dem
(23,725 posts)demmiblue
(36,875 posts)Losing a furry family member is so very hard...
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)Losing a kitty is painful.
Number9Dream
(1,562 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,180 posts)......
niyad
(113,518 posts)CousinIT
(9,253 posts)If she lived a good loved life and won't die alone, that's the best you can give her. She'll always be alive in your 💓 I know it hurts like hell to lose her from this life though.
orleans
(34,071 posts)i'm sorry for your loss.
Laffy Kat
(16,386 posts)It hurts so bad but they are so worth it.
denbot
(9,901 posts)Peace.
herding cats
(19,566 posts)It hurts like hell, I know. Focus on the sweet memories you have of her and your special lap moments as much as possible in the days ahead. It helps, but it doesn't stop pain of losing your furry family member.
Again, I'm so very sorry and my heart is with you.