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I loath loading and unloading the dishwasher. It's dreary work IMO...and monotonous...
mercuryblues
(14,537 posts)I am living with 3 men and the toilets and bathrooms are gross.
Borchkins
(724 posts)and for the very same three reasons!
samnsara
(17,634 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)to my husband when he retired and I didn't? Actually, no, it was doing the dishes. Only one of him, pretty reliable aim, and he spends a lot of time outside.
My thoughts are with you also.
unblock
(52,288 posts)i don't understand why people would pee on their own bathroom floor.
in a public restroom, where the seat might be gross and there's a person who get paid to clean the entire bathroom regularly, i'll sometimes stand up. but never at home or in a friend's house.
I had to clean enough bathrooms in the military, much rather sit at home and not have reflected urine spray all over the toilet and worse to clean up.
My worst is the dishes because I am disabled and after 5 minutes my back feels like someone hit it with a mack truck!
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)But for routine chores, I think it's folding laundry and putting clothes away. Same reasons, in two tedious stages.
Boy, I really do have a hard life.
Doreen
(11,686 posts)vacuuming is in second place. Much rather mop.
Sanity Claws
(21,851 posts)TexasTowelie
(112,354 posts)The sacrifices we make to keep our feline loved ones in comfort. I currently have an adult Siamese along with two kittens. The Siamese gets an attitude when the litter box is dirty and he will start peeing everywhere to express his dissatisfaction with his subordinate human. He even filed a grievance in LOLCatese with his paw print at the bottom of the letter.
hopeforchange2008
(610 posts)forgotmylogin
(7,530 posts)mostly because I'm in an apartment without hookups and have to go to the laundromat. If I could throw stuff in whenever and not have to haul it to the car it would be a dream.
hopeforchange2008
(610 posts)But the hauling of it all up and down stairs, and then the cramming of it into drawers and closets is never ending!
Mme. Defarge
(8,037 posts)my dishwasher I tell myself that it's 10 minutes of my life I'll never get back. But then, there's that glow of accomplishment.
Grammy23
(5,810 posts)And with the modern convenience of today, we really should be ashamed to complain. However, I will admit to feeling a certain dread to doing the mundane chores day after day. The flip side of that is having clean clothes and linens readily available. I DO have a certain fondness for clean jammies and fresh sheets! So the trade off of a few minutes labor for THAT is worth it to me.
Now toilets.....ugh.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)to the basement with baskets of laundry. Plus I am the caregiver for my disabled husband...it's a full time job. As a result I don't cook any longer. I buy frozen entrees. I have a house cleaner every Saturday. She also does the grocery shopping as well as the laundry and cleaning. I have definitely lowered my standards in household management.
Grammy23
(5,810 posts)cleans the tubs and outside of the toilets. He sweeps and mops. I do sinks, inside of the toilets, dusting and the main meal of the day. I do the laundry, too. We work together on some things like changing the sheets. I have lower back issues so it's not just laziness on my part....it is called having some common sense. He has seen me when my back is acting up and knows how miserable that is. I have definitely lowered my standards on what passes for acceptable in the housekeeping department. I remember when I could clean my house from top to bottom before company came and not think a thing about it. Not so much these days and I am ok with that. As long as things are reasonably clean and tidy, I can tolerate a bit of a "lived in look." 😂😂😂
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)samnsara
(17,634 posts)forgotmylogin
(7,530 posts)better than manually washing dishes!
TeapotInATempest
(804 posts)I hardly bother to cook anymore, but in a multi cat household I can't get away with not vacuuming! And as soon as I finish, there's always another little cat hair tumbleweed that comes out of nowhere.
TeapotInATempest
(804 posts)It was supposed to say "sweeping", of course, but sometimes I feel like weeping instead!
angstlessk
(11,862 posts)I got a Roomba, but there are others...I would run it daily in different rooms. Sometimes more than once a day...a GREAT invention!
Google link to robot vacuums: https://www.google.com/search?site=&source=hp&q=robot+vacuum+cleaner&oq=eobot+vacuum&gs_l=psy-ab.1.1.0i10k1l4.4380.9221.0.12859.14.13.0.0.0.0.162.1678.0j12.12.0....0...1.1.64.psy-ab..2.12.1673.6..0j35i39k1j0i131k1j0i20k1.ecXlZC188Bk
The funny thing is, I love to wash floors, used to do it on hand and knee, till I got too old.
TeapotInATempest
(804 posts)if only to see how my cats reacted to it, lol.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)They definitely leave it alone...
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)Since I'm single, and something of a minimalist, there's not really much for me to dust and clean. I can clean the whole house, top to bottom in 45 minutes before breakfast every Friday morning. Dishes, hand washed, take me 30 minutes every evening while I watch Jeopardy and yell out the answers (mostly wrong). It leaves me feeling like I've accomplished something worthwhile, so I can sit down to an evening of reading, video games and/or T.V. without any feelings of guilt.
What I love, love, love about it is that I can look around and never see anything that's nagging at me to be done. The secret to happiness is "Do it now!", so that chores are always behind me, never ahead of me.
TeapotInATempest
(804 posts)It's good to live in the moment. I try to cultivate it, but alas, to no avail so far...
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)in housework that others I knew did. I had some moments of smiling at piles of clean, folded clothes and linens, but just didn't stick.
I ultimately took far more satisfaction in tossing out the matching spice jars I admired in my friends' kitchens but couldn't be bothered to keep filled. Anyway, I like my varied tins and bottles from all over.
And later still I finally had a stroke of real good sense and got rid of everything in the kitchen that couldn't just get thrown in the dishwasher, including decorative items, only exception one oil painting that didn't get replaced by something ceramic. And I eye it now and then. Besides that, the only survivors are special sets of holiday/party tableware that rarely get brought up from the basement. I still brag about this brilliance, but not about how many decades it took to hit.
TeapotInATempest
(804 posts)"I still brag about this brilliance, but not about how many decades it took to hit." I know that feeling about so many things!
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)not "wry-dom."
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)Then, day by day, as I really needed something, I'd go out to the garage and fish it out of the box and move it back into the kitchen. After a few months, everything that hadn't been moved back into the kitchen (which was most of it) was given to Goodwill. My kitchen is very Spartan now, but also very functional, and I always have everything I need right at hand, and nothing I don't need cluttering up my space.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)no one needs more than 3 cooking spoons, or would it be 2? Hard to imagine.
Now me, I seldom bake, but I recently learned that I need some cake pan strips for when I do get inspired to make a cake because they'll cause it to bake more evenly, seemingly significant for some recipes. Who knew? No prob, though. They'll join our Santa Claus cookie jar and the giant pot I use for steaming tamales every five years or so in my basement pantry.
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)The giant-sized steamer, a couple sauce pans, and the really big crockpot, plus enough place settings for when company comes, or especially around the holidays when the whole extended family (usually around 14 to 16 strong) descends on me from out of town. But those are special occasion things. I keep telling myself I should just get plastic sporks and paper plates for company, but I can't quite bring myself to do it.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)paper and plastic might come after the party? We have newly married friends making their latest huge, adventurous adjustments in their 60s and 70s. He loves cloth napkins, for both their daily dining (he's very romantic) and for their frequent entertaining. She has a very different point of view. Of course we know which one remembers washing and ironing them in her past life.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)floors. Every once in a while I will get someone to come in and give the apartment a good thorough cleaning, but not on a regular basis. I don't like doing laundry either, but I send it out for wash and fold.
Binkie The Clown
(7,911 posts)It's faster and easier for me to throw a load into the washer at home than to cart it out to someone else. Needless to say, my wardrobe of T-shirts and jeans includes absolutely nothing that requires ironing. I don't own an iron.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)so for me it's worth it to free up my weekends. It's only about $13 per load, but it's worth it to me. I like not having to spend my weekends doing laundry. Also, I don't have a washer/dryer in my unit, if I did I would do it myself. Most of what I wear during the week is work clothes which need to be dry cleaned anyway, so that doesn't contribute to the wash load.
LWolf
(46,179 posts)Which has to be done in order to do the rest.
mahatmakanejeeves
(57,573 posts)Every week - day, even - I make sure to get something out. Does it look any different? No.
Duppers
(28,125 posts)Somehow I tolerate some sweeping but do not like to drag the mop out. Yuck. Then, there's the gummy junk that ya have to get on your knees to properly clean - and then there's the bathroom floors.
Polly Hennessey
(6,801 posts)taking clothes out of dryer, folding, and putting away. It doesn't take long, I just hate it.😑
Laffy Kat
(16,386 posts)I've got a self-cleaning oven and I still can't stand it.
fleur-de-lisa
(14,628 posts)I'm tall and no floor cleaning tools are made for tall people. After about 5 minutes of leaning forward to sweep, mop, or vacuum my lower back is screaming.
Leith
(7,813 posts)I'm short and it's still a chore.
Vacuuming was worse when I had cats, but it's still a pain in the tush.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)CTyankee
(63,912 posts)WhiteTara
(29,721 posts)And there it all is ... staring at me.
50 Shades Of Blue
(10,033 posts)klook
(12,164 posts)Fortunately we have a shredder that will handle 12 pages at once, so I can put unopened envelopes through it.
It's a Sisyphean task to keep up with the unending flow of junk mail, thanks to our charitable contributions and subscriptions to progressive journals. We must be in every database of bleeding heart liberals there is!
3catwoman3
(24,026 posts)I spent pretty much every Saturday of my grade school to high school years helping my mom, who was a cleaning fanatic, clean the house from one end to the other. We even washed walls once a year. I detest all cleaning chores. I used to have a sign hanging on my closet doorknob that said, "You May Touch The Dust, But Please Don't Write In It."
I would rather iron clothes.
OregonBlue
(7,754 posts)how many trips I've made to the grocery store and now I have to drive 35 miles to get there. It is by far the household chore I hate the very most. Can't wait til the boys are driving. When my husband goes I make a list but I tell him "whatever you get I will find a way to cook it" and it will be the same for them. No "you got the wrong thing".
They all like to cook but sadly, I still do the majority of feeding the family.
LisaM
(27,821 posts)I scrub and scrub at the tiles in my shower, and they are still discolored between the tiles. I'm at my wit's end.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)I have an old house and it got to the point that scrubbing the tile grout was impossible. So I got bathfitters to come out and cover the old grout with a sheet of durable plastic in the bathtub. Nary a bit of tiles and it stays clean. It cost about $2,000 (this was a while back) and they did in one day. It was the best investment I ever made.
LisaM
(27,821 posts)So that won't work for me!
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)off in the future. He'll get a big ROI. He'll have an enhanced apartment. I know if I were a renter I would choose that apt., all things being equal otherwise...
LisaM
(27,821 posts)I'm in a complex and the apartments are handled by a management company. I guess I'll just need to learn how to scrub grout.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)don't let the grout go too far before a good spraying..
TexasBushwhacker
(20,209 posts)Then grout sealer.
LisaM
(27,821 posts)I'll try that.
Skittles
(153,174 posts)yes INDEED
I'll try anything.
Skittles
(153,174 posts)someone gave me that tip at work
be careful if your bathroom is small - spray that stuff and get out, don't let children or pets go in while it's doing its magic
Gidney N Cloyd
(19,846 posts)MFM008
(19,818 posts)I have never used a dishwasher in my 58 years.
Nope.
I was the family dishwasher.
Now I still wash them as I use them in the sink.
Phoenix61
(17,011 posts)After fifteen years of waitressing I detest touching dirty dishes. Lots of sandwiches just to avoid the whole issue.
sarge43
(28,942 posts)It never goes away; it never stops.
If I have to pick one -- the bathroom.
Tree-Hugger
(3,370 posts)I haaaaaaaate folding and putting away laundry. When I am a millionaire, I will still do 99.9% of my own housework, but I will hire someone else to fold my laundry.
femmedem
(8,204 posts)Just roll up the t-shirts and stack them vertically; it's easy and it doesn't leave any lines.
Skittles
(153,174 posts)it's so freaking WHITE
PennyK
(2,302 posts)This house has something called "plantation shutters" (don't you love the South) on most of the windows..they are wide slats of some sort of plastic that slant to let in the sunlight. They look very nice, but man! do they collect dust. I get around to cleaning them, basically, before we have house guests.
I have a pretty new front-load washer, and after I finish the weekly laundry I have to reach in and dry the gasket with a cloth. It has a bunch of nooks and crannies -- I feel like I'm performing a sexual act.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)femmedem
(8,204 posts)Sometimes I catch it in time to move the cat to a wooden floor or shove some newspaper under him, but sometimes I come home to a gak-stained rug.
But still, I'd rather be the gak-cleaner than the gakker. So I shouldn't complain.
Solly Mack
(90,779 posts)Phentex
(16,334 posts)I'll take on the kitchen any day but I hate cleaning my bathroom.
Awsi Dooger
(14,565 posts)Window washers should be paid a million dollars per year, as far as I'm concerned.
I never get it right. It's not strenuous but invariably I look from angle after angle and there are smudges and imperfections and "holidays" as my dad used to call them.
Drives me absolutely nuts.
Duppers
(28,125 posts)Talk about a job I procrastinate.
And...
Mopping
Cleaning around toilets
the garage, oh woe, the garage.
becca da bakkah
(426 posts)....and I know you're all hanging on the edge of your seats to learn just what those are! I actually love doing laundry; the hum of the washer, and the rhythm of the dryer is somehow soothing to me. Thanks to my back and shoulder issues I had to stop vacuuming and mopping years ago. My son does all that now. I don't really mind doing the dishes, I've never had a dishwasher, so it's always been my job, since I was seven, and my sister dumped it off on me.
But the two household chores I really hate are, dusting, and making my bed. Especially changing the sheets. It really hurts my back, all that bending down, tugging and lifting. So I only do it about 3 times a week. As for dusting, living in the California Desert, it's a job I can never get ahead of. Thank God no one here has asthma or allergies!
hunter
(38,323 posts)In my childhood home any kid past eight years old was pretty much on their own so far as laundry and bedding went. I'd often sleep on the front porch just because I liked it out there. Have blanket, will travel, and I still have that blanket my parent's bought in Portugal a long, long time ago, and the big jacket my sister bought me when I was taking a vacation from this reality and living in my car in a church parking lot and she was afraid I'd be cold.
I left home with the ability to sleep anywhere, on someone's sofa, in my clothes, on the floor, in my car, on the beach, or in rough science field camps. I don't require fancy bedding, I'd never demand it. No biting bugs, nothing more to ask of a place to sleep.
One of the worst jobs I can imagine would be changing the bedding in a motel, and I've had jobs that many would consider worse than that.
I hate dishwashers too, but they are not negotiable in my wife's world, just as refrigerators and laundry machines are not negotiable.
I've lived just fine without refrigerators, dishwashers, and laundry machines, as a kid and as a young adult.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)It all sucks, but how about cleaning out sink drains as the grossest!
Iggo
(47,563 posts)I hate vacuuming around stuff, so I've gotta move everything out of the room first.
Then of course I have to put it all back.
Sucks.
hay rick
(7,636 posts)Every month or two it goes offline...almost always for a new reason, rendering my previous experience useless. The only constant is my cursing.
AJT
(5,240 posts)1800 sq. ft. every week. Eventually I would love to downsize. We are struggling to find a good place to retire and grow old in.
Shrike47
(6,913 posts)But hand washing dishes is hard on my skin.
yuiyoshida
(41,835 posts)Awsi Dooger
(14,565 posts)Never mind
yuiyoshida
(41,835 posts)longer... another few years at most.
July
(4,750 posts)Dust, ugh, it's everywhere.
Vacuuming, I'm just too small to handle those damned machines easily.
Toilets. Where shall I begin. Decreed: men shall have their own toilet rooms, tiled floor to and including ceilings. Three-foot wide toilet. Hose attached to wall. Or, I have my own bathroom, and they can clean their own.
I do like to do laundry. I believe I can clean anything! It is hard to screw up.
Grocery shopping used to be a penalty in the 'burbs, though I miss them: load cart, empty cart to belt, load bags to car, unload purchases in garage, bring everything inside, put it all away. Now: buy cleaning supplies, toiletries, and canned goods through Peapod, do food shopping on an every-few-days basis in small amounts, unload from front door to kitchen, the joy of city living.
CTyankee
(63,912 posts)My husband is disabled so his aim is a little "uncertain."