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What household duty do you hate the most? (Original Post) CTyankee Jul 2017 OP
toilets mercuryblues Jul 2017 #1
Toilets! Borchkins Jul 2017 #5
you are in my thoughts...... samnsara Jul 2017 #11
What household duty was I happiest to give up Hortensis Jul 2017 #16
personally, i do my business sitting down at home. unblock Jul 2017 #41
Ditto here xajj4791 Aug 2017 #87
I do dislike that immoderately for the same reasons as you. Hortensis Jul 2017 #2
Cleaning the bathroom. Much rather clean kitchen. Doreen Jul 2017 #3
Giving the kitty litter boxes a thorough cleaning Sanity Claws Jul 2017 #4
+1 TexasTowelie Jul 2017 #34
Laundry hopeforchange2008 Jul 2017 #6
I'm with you on laundry but forgotmylogin Jul 2017 #36
I like it when everything is clean hopeforchange2008 Jul 2017 #39
Every time I unload Mme. Defarge Jul 2017 #7
Laundry is kind of the same thing. You can clearly see the fruits of your labor. Grammy23 Jul 2017 #8
Ihave gotten to the age when I can no longer run up and down 2 flights of stairs CTyankee Jul 2017 #23
I still do most of the cooking. My husband has turned into a great Cinderfella. He does vacuuming, Grammy23 Jul 2017 #43
Hangovers Major Nikon Jul 2017 #9
definately unloading dishwasher...i would rather clean the toilet samnsara Jul 2017 #10
I very much enjoy my dishwasher forgotmylogin Jul 2017 #37
Vacuuming/weeping up cat hair and cooking TeapotInATempest Jul 2017 #12
Ok, I'm gonna leave that typo there, lol TeapotInATempest Jul 2017 #13
Get a robot vacuum. I also hate vacuuming so I got me one. angstlessk Jul 2017 #17
I'd love one TeapotInATempest Jul 2017 #21
My daughters two dogs are definitely freaked by the Roomba. CTyankee Jul 2017 #25
I just love, love, LOVE ALL household chores. Binkie The Clown Jul 2017 #14
That's EXACTLY the right attitude to have TeapotInATempest Jul 2017 #15
Oh, same here! I genuinely tried to take the kind of satisfaction Hortensis Jul 2017 #18
Lol TeapotInATempest Jul 2017 #22
Think it's wisdom we're supposed to be collecting, Hortensis Jul 2017 #81
I once put the entire contents of my kitchen in cardboard boxes and moved them to the garage. Binkie The Clown Jul 2017 #74
I've heard of people like that. You probably believe Hortensis Jul 2017 #79
There are some things I still keep, but in the garage, not the kitchen. Binkie The Clown Jul 2017 #82
Lol. My guess is those moments of appreciation for Hortensis Jul 2017 #83
I'm pretty much in the same situation and live in a large studio apartment, but I hate cleaning the smirkymonkey Jul 2017 #73
Being retired, and on a small fixed income, I have more time than money. Binkie The Clown Jul 2017 #75
I work a lot, and being single I don't have much laundry except for sheets and undergarments smirkymonkey Jul 2017 #76
De-cluttering. LWolf Jul 2017 #19
I wake up screaming. mahatmakanejeeves Jul 2017 #33
That and mopping floors. Duppers Jul 2017 #68
Hate Polly Hennessey Jul 2017 #20
I'll do your laundry if you clean out my oven. Laffy Kat Jul 2017 #71
Floors . . . sweeping, mopping, vacuuming, etc. fleur-de-lisa Jul 2017 #24
I'm with You Leith Jul 2017 #48
The continuous and unending sex jberryhill Jul 2017 #26
Sigh ... In_The_Wind Jul 2017 #46
kinda hard on the back (if you know what I mean) CTyankee Jul 2017 #70
all of it. WhiteTara Jul 2017 #27
Dusting! 50 Shades Of Blue Jul 2017 #28
Dealing with junk mail. klook Jul 2017 #29
All. Of. Them! 3catwoman3 Jul 2017 #30
Grocery shopping. I am 68 and my two grandsons live with us. I can't even begin to count OregonBlue Jul 2017 #31
Cleaning grout. I can't seem to do it. LisaM Jul 2017 #32
"Bathfitters"!!! CTyankee Jul 2017 #35
Well, I'm in an apartment. LisaM Jul 2017 #42
well, maybe you could talk to your landlord and sell him on how much it will pay CTyankee Jul 2017 #50
It's not that I don't appreciate the suggestions, but.... LisaM Jul 2017 #52
Yeah, I get it. Bleach spray works wonders...if you do it after every shower and CTyankee Jul 2017 #60
Bleach pen! TexasBushwhacker Jul 2017 #55
Bleach pen is a good idea! LisaM Jul 2017 #56
spray some Tilex Mold & Mildew and leave it overnight Skittles Jul 2017 #62
OK! LisaM Jul 2017 #63
I swear by it Skittles Jul 2017 #64
X-14 is good, too, but I recommend good ventilation. Gidney N Cloyd Jul 2017 #80
All of it MFM008 Jul 2017 #38
I am the dishwasher. Phoenix61 Jul 2017 #40
The repetition. sarge43 Jul 2017 #44
Folding Tree-Hugger Jul 2017 #45
I'm a roller, not a folder. femmedem Jul 2017 #53
cleaning the bathroom Skittles Jul 2017 #47
Cleaning the shutters PennyK Jul 2017 #49
Having household duties. eom guillaumeb Jul 2017 #51
Cleaning the cat gak. femmedem Jul 2017 #54
Playing hostess. Solly Mack Jul 2017 #57
Cleaning the bathroom Phentex Jul 2017 #58
Cleaning windows Awsi Dooger Jul 2017 #59
Yep, windows. Duppers Jul 2017 #69
I Have A Few That I Truly Loathe..... becca da bakkah Jul 2017 #61
Beds. Especially fitted sheets and mattress covers. I hate changing sheets. hunter Jul 2017 #65
All of them. femmocrat Jul 2017 #66
Vacuuming. Iggo Jul 2017 #67
Getting the printer to work. hay rick Jul 2017 #72
Vacuuming and dusting AJT Jul 2017 #77
I kinda like doing housework. Been doing it all my (adult) life. Shrike47 Jul 2017 #78
CLEANING THE CAT BOX.... yuiyoshida Aug 2017 #84
Easy fix for that Awsi Dooger Aug 2017 #85
my baby is getting older, he won't be around too much yuiyoshida Aug 2017 #86
Dusting, vacuuming, toilets. July Aug 2017 #88
I have a cleaning person clean the bathroom toilet. CTyankee Aug 2017 #89

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
16. What household duty was I happiest to give up
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:13 PM
Jul 2017

to my husband when he retired and I didn't? Actually, no, it was doing the dishes. Only one of him, pretty reliable aim, and he spends a lot of time outside.

My thoughts are with you also.

unblock

(52,288 posts)
41. personally, i do my business sitting down at home.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:38 PM
Jul 2017

i don't understand why people would pee on their own bathroom floor.

in a public restroom, where the seat might be gross and there's a person who get paid to clean the entire bathroom regularly, i'll sometimes stand up. but never at home or in a friend's house.

 

xajj4791

(84 posts)
87. Ditto here
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 08:12 AM
Aug 2017

I had to clean enough bathrooms in the military, much rather sit at home and not have reflected urine spray all over the toilet and worse to clean up.

My worst is the dishes because I am disabled and after 5 minutes my back feels like someone hit it with a mack truck!

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
2. I do dislike that immoderately for the same reasons as you.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 12:22 PM
Jul 2017

But for routine chores, I think it's folding laundry and putting clothes away. Same reasons, in two tedious stages.

Boy, I really do have a hard life.

TexasTowelie

(112,354 posts)
34. +1
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:08 PM
Jul 2017

The sacrifices we make to keep our feline loved ones in comfort. I currently have an adult Siamese along with two kittens. The Siamese gets an attitude when the litter box is dirty and he will start peeing everywhere to express his dissatisfaction with his subordinate human. He even filed a grievance in LOLCatese with his paw print at the bottom of the letter.

forgotmylogin

(7,530 posts)
36. I'm with you on laundry but
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:09 PM
Jul 2017

mostly because I'm in an apartment without hookups and have to go to the laundromat. If I could throw stuff in whenever and not have to haul it to the car it would be a dream.

 

hopeforchange2008

(610 posts)
39. I like it when everything is clean
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:22 PM
Jul 2017

But the hauling of it all up and down stairs, and then the cramming of it into drawers and closets is never ending!

Mme. Defarge

(8,037 posts)
7. Every time I unload
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 12:33 PM
Jul 2017

my dishwasher I tell myself that it's 10 minutes of my life I'll never get back. But then, there's that glow of accomplishment.

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
8. Laundry is kind of the same thing. You can clearly see the fruits of your labor.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 12:43 PM
Jul 2017

And with the modern convenience of today, we really should be ashamed to complain. However, I will admit to feeling a certain dread to doing the mundane chores day after day. The flip side of that is having clean clothes and linens readily available. I DO have a certain fondness for clean jammies and fresh sheets! So the trade off of a few minutes labor for THAT is worth it to me.

Now toilets.....ugh.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
23. Ihave gotten to the age when I can no longer run up and down 2 flights of stairs
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:38 PM
Jul 2017

to the basement with baskets of laundry. Plus I am the caregiver for my disabled husband...it's a full time job. As a result I don't cook any longer. I buy frozen entrees. I have a house cleaner every Saturday. She also does the grocery shopping as well as the laundry and cleaning. I have definitely lowered my standards in household management.

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
43. I still do most of the cooking. My husband has turned into a great Cinderfella. He does vacuuming,
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:51 PM
Jul 2017

cleans the tubs and outside of the toilets. He sweeps and mops. I do sinks, inside of the toilets, dusting and the main meal of the day. I do the laundry, too. We work together on some things like changing the sheets. I have lower back issues so it's not just laziness on my part....it is called having some common sense. He has seen me when my back is acting up and knows how miserable that is. I have definitely lowered my standards on what passes for acceptable in the housekeeping department. I remember when I could clean my house from top to bottom before company came and not think a thing about it. Not so much these days and I am ok with that. As long as things are reasonably clean and tidy, I can tolerate a bit of a "lived in look." 😂😂😂

TeapotInATempest

(804 posts)
12. Vacuuming/weeping up cat hair and cooking
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 12:59 PM
Jul 2017

I hardly bother to cook anymore, but in a multi cat household I can't get away with not vacuuming! And as soon as I finish, there's always another little cat hair tumbleweed that comes out of nowhere.

TeapotInATempest

(804 posts)
13. Ok, I'm gonna leave that typo there, lol
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:00 PM
Jul 2017

It was supposed to say "sweeping", of course, but sometimes I feel like weeping instead!

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
17. Get a robot vacuum. I also hate vacuuming so I got me one.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:26 PM
Jul 2017

I got a Roomba, but there are others...I would run it daily in different rooms. Sometimes more than once a day...a GREAT invention!

Google link to robot vacuums: https://www.google.com/search?site=&source=hp&q=robot+vacuum+cleaner&oq=eobot+vacuum&gs_l=psy-ab.1.1.0i10k1l4.4380.9221.0.12859.14.13.0.0.0.0.162.1678.0j12.12.0....0...1.1.64.psy-ab..2.12.1673.6..0j35i39k1j0i131k1j0i20k1.ecXlZC188Bk

The funny thing is, I love to wash floors, used to do it on hand and knee, till I got too old.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
14. I just love, love, LOVE ALL household chores.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:04 PM
Jul 2017

Since I'm single, and something of a minimalist, there's not really much for me to dust and clean. I can clean the whole house, top to bottom in 45 minutes before breakfast every Friday morning. Dishes, hand washed, take me 30 minutes every evening while I watch Jeopardy and yell out the answers (mostly wrong). It leaves me feeling like I've accomplished something worthwhile, so I can sit down to an evening of reading, video games and/or T.V. without any feelings of guilt.

What I love, love, love about it is that I can look around and never see anything that's nagging at me to be done. The secret to happiness is "Do it now!", so that chores are always behind me, never ahead of me.

TeapotInATempest

(804 posts)
15. That's EXACTLY the right attitude to have
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:08 PM
Jul 2017

It's good to live in the moment. I try to cultivate it, but alas, to no avail so far...

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
18. Oh, same here! I genuinely tried to take the kind of satisfaction
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:26 PM
Jul 2017

in housework that others I knew did. I had some moments of smiling at piles of clean, folded clothes and linens, but just didn't stick.

I ultimately took far more satisfaction in tossing out the matching spice jars I admired in my friends' kitchens but couldn't be bothered to keep filled. Anyway, I like my varied tins and bottles from all over.

And later still I finally had a stroke of real good sense and got rid of everything in the kitchen that couldn't just get thrown in the dishwasher, including decorative items, only exception one oil painting that didn't get replaced by something ceramic. And I eye it now and then. Besides that, the only survivors are special sets of holiday/party tableware that rarely get brought up from the basement. I still brag about this brilliance, but not about how many decades it took to hit.

TeapotInATempest

(804 posts)
22. Lol
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:38 PM
Jul 2017

"I still brag about this brilliance, but not about how many decades it took to hit." I know that feeling about so many things!

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
74. I once put the entire contents of my kitchen in cardboard boxes and moved them to the garage.
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 12:27 PM
Jul 2017

Then, day by day, as I really needed something, I'd go out to the garage and fish it out of the box and move it back into the kitchen. After a few months, everything that hadn't been moved back into the kitchen (which was most of it) was given to Goodwill. My kitchen is very Spartan now, but also very functional, and I always have everything I need right at hand, and nothing I don't need cluttering up my space.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
79. I've heard of people like that. You probably believe
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 01:27 PM
Jul 2017

no one needs more than 3 cooking spoons, or would it be 2? Hard to imagine.

Now me, I seldom bake, but I recently learned that I need some cake pan strips for when I do get inspired to make a cake because they'll cause it to bake more evenly, seemingly significant for some recipes. Who knew? No prob, though. They'll join our Santa Claus cookie jar and the giant pot I use for steaming tamales every five years or so in my basement pantry.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
82. There are some things I still keep, but in the garage, not the kitchen.
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 01:47 PM
Jul 2017

The giant-sized steamer, a couple sauce pans, and the really big crockpot, plus enough place settings for when company comes, or especially around the holidays when the whole extended family (usually around 14 to 16 strong) descends on me from out of town. But those are special occasion things. I keep telling myself I should just get plastic sporks and paper plates for company, but I can't quite bring myself to do it.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
83. Lol. My guess is those moments of appreciation for
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 04:50 PM
Jul 2017

paper and plastic might come after the party? We have newly married friends making their latest huge, adventurous adjustments in their 60s and 70s. He loves cloth napkins, for both their daily dining (he's very romantic) and for their frequent entertaining. She has a very different point of view. Of course we know which one remembers washing and ironing them in her past life.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
73. I'm pretty much in the same situation and live in a large studio apartment, but I hate cleaning the
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 08:03 AM
Jul 2017

floors. Every once in a while I will get someone to come in and give the apartment a good thorough cleaning, but not on a regular basis. I don't like doing laundry either, but I send it out for wash and fold.

Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
75. Being retired, and on a small fixed income, I have more time than money.
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 12:32 PM
Jul 2017

It's faster and easier for me to throw a load into the washer at home than to cart it out to someone else. Needless to say, my wardrobe of T-shirts and jeans includes absolutely nothing that requires ironing. I don't own an iron.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
76. I work a lot, and being single I don't have much laundry except for sheets and undergarments
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 12:41 PM
Jul 2017

so for me it's worth it to free up my weekends. It's only about $13 per load, but it's worth it to me. I like not having to spend my weekends doing laundry. Also, I don't have a washer/dryer in my unit, if I did I would do it myself. Most of what I wear during the week is work clothes which need to be dry cleaned anyway, so that doesn't contribute to the wash load.

mahatmakanejeeves

(57,573 posts)
33. I wake up screaming.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:04 PM
Jul 2017

Every week - day, even - I make sure to get something out. Does it look any different? No.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
68. That and mopping floors.
Sat Jul 29, 2017, 12:47 AM
Jul 2017

Somehow I tolerate some sweeping but do not like to drag the mop out. Yuck. Then, there's the gummy junk that ya have to get on your knees to properly clean - and then there's the bathroom floors.




Laffy Kat

(16,386 posts)
71. I'll do your laundry if you clean out my oven.
Sat Jul 29, 2017, 08:04 PM
Jul 2017

I've got a self-cleaning oven and I still can't stand it.

fleur-de-lisa

(14,628 posts)
24. Floors . . . sweeping, mopping, vacuuming, etc.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:41 PM
Jul 2017

I'm tall and no floor cleaning tools are made for tall people. After about 5 minutes of leaning forward to sweep, mop, or vacuum my lower back is screaming.

Leith

(7,813 posts)
48. I'm with You
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 04:05 PM
Jul 2017

I'm short and it's still a chore.

Vacuuming was worse when I had cats, but it's still a pain in the tush.

klook

(12,164 posts)
29. Dealing with junk mail.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:55 PM
Jul 2017

Fortunately we have a shredder that will handle 12 pages at once, so I can put unopened envelopes through it.

It's a Sisyphean task to keep up with the unending flow of junk mail, thanks to our charitable contributions and subscriptions to progressive journals. We must be in every database of bleeding heart liberals there is!

3catwoman3

(24,026 posts)
30. All. Of. Them!
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:56 PM
Jul 2017

I spent pretty much every Saturday of my grade school to high school years helping my mom, who was a cleaning fanatic, clean the house from one end to the other. We even washed walls once a year. I detest all cleaning chores. I used to have a sign hanging on my closet doorknob that said, "You May Touch The Dust, But Please Don't Write In It."

I would rather iron clothes.

OregonBlue

(7,754 posts)
31. Grocery shopping. I am 68 and my two grandsons live with us. I can't even begin to count
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:59 PM
Jul 2017

how many trips I've made to the grocery store and now I have to drive 35 miles to get there. It is by far the household chore I hate the very most. Can't wait til the boys are driving. When my husband goes I make a list but I tell him "whatever you get I will find a way to cook it" and it will be the same for them. No "you got the wrong thing".

They all like to cook but sadly, I still do the majority of feeding the family.

LisaM

(27,821 posts)
32. Cleaning grout. I can't seem to do it.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 01:59 PM
Jul 2017

I scrub and scrub at the tiles in my shower, and they are still discolored between the tiles. I'm at my wit's end.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
35. "Bathfitters"!!!
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:09 PM
Jul 2017

I have an old house and it got to the point that scrubbing the tile grout was impossible. So I got bathfitters to come out and cover the old grout with a sheet of durable plastic in the bathtub. Nary a bit of tiles and it stays clean. It cost about $2,000 (this was a while back) and they did in one day. It was the best investment I ever made.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
50. well, maybe you could talk to your landlord and sell him on how much it will pay
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 05:12 PM
Jul 2017

off in the future. He'll get a big ROI. He'll have an enhanced apartment. I know if I were a renter I would choose that apt., all things being equal otherwise...

LisaM

(27,821 posts)
52. It's not that I don't appreciate the suggestions, but....
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 05:25 PM
Jul 2017

I'm in a complex and the apartments are handled by a management company. I guess I'll just need to learn how to scrub grout.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
60. Yeah, I get it. Bleach spray works wonders...if you do it after every shower and
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 07:15 PM
Jul 2017

don't let the grout go too far before a good spraying..

Skittles

(153,174 posts)
64. I swear by it
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 08:53 PM
Jul 2017

someone gave me that tip at work

be careful if your bathroom is small - spray that stuff and get out, don't let children or pets go in while it's doing its magic

MFM008

(19,818 posts)
38. All of it
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:16 PM
Jul 2017

I have never used a dishwasher in my 58 years.
Nope.
I was the family dishwasher.
Now I still wash them as I use them in the sink.

Phoenix61

(17,011 posts)
40. I am the dishwasher.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 02:25 PM
Jul 2017

After fifteen years of waitressing I detest touching dirty dishes. Lots of sandwiches just to avoid the whole issue.

Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
45. Folding
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 03:22 PM
Jul 2017

I haaaaaaaate folding and putting away laundry. When I am a millionaire, I will still do 99.9% of my own housework, but I will hire someone else to fold my laundry.

femmedem

(8,204 posts)
53. I'm a roller, not a folder.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 05:38 PM
Jul 2017

Just roll up the t-shirts and stack them vertically; it's easy and it doesn't leave any lines.

PennyK

(2,302 posts)
49. Cleaning the shutters
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 04:52 PM
Jul 2017

This house has something called "plantation shutters" (don't you love the South) on most of the windows..they are wide slats of some sort of plastic that slant to let in the sunlight. They look very nice, but man! do they collect dust. I get around to cleaning them, basically, before we have house guests.
I have a pretty new front-load washer, and after I finish the weekly laundry I have to reach in and dry the gasket with a cloth. It has a bunch of nooks and crannies -- I feel like I'm performing a sexual act.

femmedem

(8,204 posts)
54. Cleaning the cat gak.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 05:40 PM
Jul 2017

Sometimes I catch it in time to move the cat to a wooden floor or shove some newspaper under him, but sometimes I come home to a gak-stained rug.

But still, I'd rather be the gak-cleaner than the gakker. So I shouldn't complain.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
59. Cleaning windows
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 06:07 PM
Jul 2017

Window washers should be paid a million dollars per year, as far as I'm concerned.

I never get it right. It's not strenuous but invariably I look from angle after angle and there are smudges and imperfections and "holidays" as my dad used to call them.

Drives me absolutely nuts.

Duppers

(28,125 posts)
69. Yep, windows.
Sat Jul 29, 2017, 12:53 AM
Jul 2017

Talk about a job I procrastinate.
And...
Mopping
Cleaning around toilets
the garage, oh woe, the garage.



becca da bakkah

(426 posts)
61. I Have A Few That I Truly Loathe.....
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 08:07 PM
Jul 2017

....and I know you're all hanging on the edge of your seats to learn just what those are! I actually love doing laundry; the hum of the washer, and the rhythm of the dryer is somehow soothing to me. Thanks to my back and shoulder issues I had to stop vacuuming and mopping years ago. My son does all that now. I don't really mind doing the dishes, I've never had a dishwasher, so it's always been my job, since I was seven, and my sister dumped it off on me.

But the two household chores I really hate are, dusting, and making my bed. Especially changing the sheets. It really hurts my back, all that bending down, tugging and lifting. So I only do it about 3 times a week. As for dusting, living in the California Desert, it's a job I can never get ahead of. Thank God no one here has asthma or allergies!

hunter

(38,323 posts)
65. Beds. Especially fitted sheets and mattress covers. I hate changing sheets.
Fri Jul 28, 2017, 09:03 PM
Jul 2017

In my childhood home any kid past eight years old was pretty much on their own so far as laundry and bedding went. I'd often sleep on the front porch just because I liked it out there. Have blanket, will travel, and I still have that blanket my parent's bought in Portugal a long, long time ago, and the big jacket my sister bought me when I was taking a vacation from this reality and living in my car in a church parking lot and she was afraid I'd be cold.

I left home with the ability to sleep anywhere, on someone's sofa, in my clothes, on the floor, in my car, on the beach, or in rough science field camps. I don't require fancy bedding, I'd never demand it. No biting bugs, nothing more to ask of a place to sleep.

One of the worst jobs I can imagine would be changing the bedding in a motel, and I've had jobs that many would consider worse than that.

I hate dishwashers too, but they are not negotiable in my wife's world, just as refrigerators and laundry machines are not negotiable.

I've lived just fine without refrigerators, dishwashers, and laundry machines, as a kid and as a young adult.

Iggo

(47,563 posts)
67. Vacuuming.
Sat Jul 29, 2017, 12:31 AM
Jul 2017

I hate vacuuming around stuff, so I've gotta move everything out of the room first.

Then of course I have to put it all back.

Sucks.

hay rick

(7,636 posts)
72. Getting the printer to work.
Sat Jul 29, 2017, 10:03 PM
Jul 2017

Every month or two it goes offline...almost always for a new reason, rendering my previous experience useless. The only constant is my cursing.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
77. Vacuuming and dusting
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 12:46 PM
Jul 2017

1800 sq. ft. every week. Eventually I would love to downsize. We are struggling to find a good place to retire and grow old in.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
78. I kinda like doing housework. Been doing it all my (adult) life.
Sun Jul 30, 2017, 01:12 PM
Jul 2017

But hand washing dishes is hard on my skin.

July

(4,750 posts)
88. Dusting, vacuuming, toilets.
Tue Aug 1, 2017, 08:19 PM
Aug 2017

Dust, ugh, it's everywhere.

Vacuuming, I'm just too small to handle those damned machines easily.

Toilets. Where shall I begin. Decreed: men shall have their own toilet rooms, tiled floor to and including ceilings. Three-foot wide toilet. Hose attached to wall. Or, I have my own bathroom, and they can clean their own.

I do like to do laundry. I believe I can clean anything! It is hard to screw up.

Grocery shopping used to be a penalty in the 'burbs, though I miss them: load cart, empty cart to belt, load bags to car, unload purchases in garage, bring everything inside, put it all away. Now: buy cleaning supplies, toiletries, and canned goods through Peapod, do food shopping on an every-few-days basis in small amounts, unload from front door to kitchen, the joy of city living.

CTyankee

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89. I have a cleaning person clean the bathroom toilet.
Wed Aug 2, 2017, 11:21 AM
Aug 2017

My husband is disabled so his aim is a little "uncertain."

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