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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsHow would you describe your lifestyle? For me every day is like a quiet, lazy, Sunday afternoon.
riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)Rural but full of bustle, cooperation, "community" of my clients and staff, multiple layers of personnel working together, homespun, completely outdoors and connected intimately with nature and the weather ....
Of course, as a female, I'm the boss so there's THAT difference but overall the mood and pace of that agrarian lifestyle is similar.
A qualifier: I've always bristled at the subservient women in Amish households (and we do drive horses as well so I come in contact FREQUENTLY with the Shipshewana IN and Arcola IL communities often, even staying as guests with them) so I wanted to point out that many modern farming households are actually directed by women.
murielm99
(30,741 posts)low key these days. I try to do something necessary and useful every day as well. But I avoid most of the people who hurt me in the past. Even if I see some of them around town, I start to feel badly all over again. It may be a long time before I can end my enforced solitude. Maybe, for the sake of my health, I will never end it.
MiddleFingerMom
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murielm99
(30,741 posts)dawg
(10,624 posts)And that you will soon be able to end your solitude. I have to see the person who hurt me the most every single day - and interact with her like it was no big thing. It is certainly not easy.
applegrove
(118,659 posts)with the good eggs that are out there.
progressoid
(49,990 posts)applegrove
(118,659 posts)grasswire
(50,130 posts)I have a lot of projects. A long list of projects. Some honor the past, some are urgent, some have to do with family legacy for the future.
One of them is reworking a worn-out battered crib quilt for a family member who is now 36 years old. The thing was precious to him, and he wants it incorporated into a new throw. It even survived a family canoe crash and wild trip down miles of mountain river. It's a challenge.
Another is the transcription of my uncle's letters from Corregidor WW2.
I write, I edit, I study, I read, I listen to jazz and drink coffee. I look out the picture windows a lot -- a million dollar view that I adore.
I am really grateful to be able to decide what to do each day, within the constraints of weather and expense. And grateful to be safe and warm, with clean tap water hot and cold, electricity, and so many more blessings than most of the world's citizens will ever have.
dimbear
(6,271 posts)there is a grandfather's clock I took apart to repair in August. I'll get around to it soon. I promise. I can always eat here by the computer.
sarge43
(28,941 posts)EmeraldCityGrl
(4,310 posts)It's like a roller coaster and we just pulled into bottom heading up up up up up......
PassingFair
(22,434 posts)I used the roller coaster analogy, too.
You must hate your job as much as I hate mine.
rucky
(35,211 posts)all the way
PassingFair
(22,434 posts)No waiting.
Weekends: Bliss
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)dawg
(10,624 posts)While everyone else around me is busy poking new ones.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)BOR-ING.
To me, it's like being on vacation 24/7.
Lots of woods and animals. Very quiet.
Sundays we go into town for breakfast and to socialize with the locals.
The rest of the time I'm on my computer or playing with the dogs or doing some kind of crafty thing...knitting/crocheting for friends or family or for charity. Just got back into doing the family genealogy after a hiatus of 5 years or so.
When it gets warmer I'll go sit out by the pond with my wireless touchpad and a cup of coffee...or maybe under the maple tree by the barn.
Really low stress, which is good because I have various anxiety disorders and can manage to create my own inner stress at the drop of a hat.
geardaddy
(24,931 posts)Not really.
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)I guess my lifestyle is in flux right now. On March 1 I returned to work after 4 1/2 months on medical leave. The Hepatitis C virus is now undetectable, and in August well know for sure if Im cured. I feel better than I did before the treatment, of course, but more significantly I feel better than I ever remember feeling. Largely gone is the constant state of fatigue Ive felt for as long as I can remember. Sunday I did chores all day and couldve done more but the day ended. That has never happened.
So I think I can safely say I will soon have more physical activity worked into my daily routine. That possibility is whats dominating my thoughts these days.
I guess I didnt really answer the question, but there it is.
JitterbugPerfume
(18,183 posts)I am retired, living alone . I eat when I am hungry, sleep when I an tired, sometimes stay up all night reading, and take long walks or watch TV all day. It drives my kids nuts , but then payback it a B##ch --they drove me nuts for years!
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)I have been retired since 2010 and it seems that one day just merges into another. Sometimes, I have to check the date on my calendar. In fact, I thought today was Wednesday.
Arkansas Granny
(31,517 posts)as being like a box of granola. It was full of fruits, nuts and flakes.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Mine is more of a merry-go-round than a roller coaster.